| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dexpro: 10:10pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
I feel your pain. But please remember the day your mum brought you into this world. Think of the grief you'll put them through. My dear, please stay strong. What's your location please? TREAT AS URGENT! Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.
He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.
I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.
I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?
Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by SeriouslySense(m): 10:10pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
I am so sorry, for your unfortunate experience.
Please go to the hospital to test for any infection.
Don't be suicidal, you will have better days. You have to be careful with the man you love. And don't be alone with them anymore, ask yourself why you seem to attract negative men, could it be something about how you choose them or think about them, notice your actions and what you are thinking, also notice their motivations, but it can be tricky, they know how to deceive, so try men who have long term goals.
you must study the characteristics to know what is dangerous to you, this is why you need a lot of communication and time try, going to public places try different scenarios, with family and friends, things will be noticed with time.
And be careful some men are irritated by virtuous women, don't show how principled you are, they may take it as a challenge to rape you.
Don't show how principled you are very much, some will think you are a virgin, and take it as a challenge.
What you need is someone who compliments you for who you are, not seeing you as a challenge, especially the younger men, looking for just fun.
Don't trust anyone anymore until they earned it, don't give in to demands but be polite, be friendly and at the same time notice motivations, be firm in your goals always, i see you are firm, i pray you find who is right for you.
Sister Don't cry anymore please, there are good men. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Lunex(m): 10:10pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
But why are guys sounding like sex is by force or a must in a relationship?
Are you people possessed? 13 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nato008(m): 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Isokoson1:
Op, u Bleep up gan, I no say Nah ur type dey always look for fine boys and the one way dey put trouser for yansh, I believe say better guys come you shun dem base on say, you go dey select dey look for Mr cute
Now e don sup, you dey cry, well d guy Bleep up, him no be real niggar and you too Bleep up bcus u dey happy take alcohol
Sorry anything way you wan do, do am because I no know who I go belive make I hear from the guy first, I dey fear women,dey can fabricate lies
so alcohol is the problem.... did she say she was drunk or drugged  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by StylesX: 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
CalliDora1:
I've always said it. All men are potential rapist. Girls beware of them. Trust them at your own peril.
Sorry for your predicament. Avoid them and stay safe.
One was itching to come to my house this weekend but I refused because I don't trust them even in my own apartment and because of that he went and unliked the pics I uploaded in my profile. I don't care.
Ndi Uchu. Including your father, you foul mouthed stereotypical nitwit. 7 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Gobengroup(m): 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Queenslander:
Dear, so sorry for your sad experience, no woman or girl should ever have to go through that horrific experience, after a sexual assault,. It isn't uncommon to be confused or upset,. You may also be angry or scared.. you may not know how to react at all, all these experiences are valid,. Please it is also crucial to confide in someone you can fully trust,. Like a family member or a close friend.. rape is condemnable, there is no excuse for it,. It is an abominable and unjustifiable act,. I think it is it finally time that we rise as a nation to condemn and eradicate this despicable act. The severity of the offense of rape cannot be over emphasized,. That your so called boyfriend must face the full wrath of the law,. He has no conscience for doing what he did to you. Having conscience is what separates man from beasts,. Men who rape women are animals that should not be allowed to roam the streets,. There is simply no excuse for rape.. never has been,. Never will be.. teach that to your sons, and remind yourself everyday!! What of women who raped men ☹️ 3 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by LINTUNE(m): 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Sofistcatdmoron:
This kinda thing gets me angry,,
,, How much is sex self, with 1k i can lay two street girls
And also the way girls like op makes sex to look like something special
I hate that kinda altitude I swear..op is not even a virgin, yet she de sex starve her guy all in the name of, " no sex till marriage"....nawa for the way some gals de reason.... anyways thunder fire her bf for raping her, he for just leave the gal, and move on with him dick...as for me, I can't be in a no_sex relationship o..what's would be my gain then...I go get gf, still de soapy?...the worst na when the said gal no be virgin, walai, na swear I go swear for the gal.. 9 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.
He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.
I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.
I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?
Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked. Op please don’t get married yet until your brain mature . Please save a man the stress of handling your unstable mind. 8 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Shelumiel: 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Nato008:
is like comprehension is ur problem.... just read what u wrote, alcohol problem how spiritual leader so the do what... tell is her fault for thinking we have sane males abi... Bros face the facts here : she consumes alcohol and that was the means that chap used in getting her. Secondly, there is nothing wrong with her seeing her spiritual leader for counsel, since what has been done is something that requires guidance. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Queenslander:
Dear, so sorry for your sad experience, no woman or girl should ever have to go through that horrific experience, after a sexual assault,. It isn't uncommon to be confused or upset,. You may also be angry or scared.. you may not know how to react at all, all these experiences are valid,. Please it is also crucial to confide in someone you can fully trust,. Like a family member or a close friend.. rape is condemnable, there is no excuse for it,. It is an abominable and unjustifiable act,. I think it is it finally time that we rise as a nation to condemn and eradicate this despicable act. The severity of the offense of rape cannot be over emphasized,. That your so called boyfriend must face the full wrath of the law,. He has no conscience for doing what he did to you. Having conscience is what separates man from beasts,. Men who rape women are animals that should not be allowed to roam the streets,. There is simply no excuse for rape.. never has been,. Never will be.. teach that to your sons, and remind yourself everyday!! Why do ladies always find it difficult to report rape case all in the name of shame ? Really bad !! Immediate action could have solved this issue |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by fuckaholic25(f): 10:11pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
rapists should be castrated!!! I mean, u agreed with her until she is ready and u violated her... he doesnt deserve to be walking around!!! baby girl, just move on!!! if u kill yourself, he won again, so pick yourself and invest in yourself!! 1 Like |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by madukaanaya(m): 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.
He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.
I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.
I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?
Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked. sorry dear u will be ok but u sud not let him go scot-free i mean report him to the police. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Cutiekatty: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
Don't give up on love because of 2 insubordinate fools that choose to be less of a man. It seems you are depressed already please get help OK. Talk to someone, a real person not some 16 years old boys on nairaland hiding behind their phones to say rubbish about you |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by shegra58: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.
He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.
I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.
I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?
Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked. don't do anything stupid remember you promised your mother alot and I'm sure you really want to fulfill them. Let me tell you if you chose to end your life now your mother will never remain the same for the rest of her life. Pls live for your parents if not for another thing because they go through a lot so that you can become somebody 2 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
Well it's sad. sorry
talk to a psychologist. U need one
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| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by flokii: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Typical case of false pretence.. he was loving, kind, sweet yen yen yen.
What if he has STDs, or ends up getting this innocent OP pregnant? So annoying. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by fuckdemrepented: 10:12pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Nobody should judge that guy until you hear his own side of the story cause I don't trust these Vag*na people  Meanwhile 3 Likes 
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| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Nato008:
so alcohol is the problem.... did she say she was drunk or drugged Those are r@pists in disguise. Even if she said she drank juice, they will still find a way to make it her fault she was r@ped. 3 Likes |
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| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by AKWATGOLD1(m): 10:13pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
You don't want the news to spread and you put it on NAIRALAND. The did has been done, invite the guy and settle it amicably. Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
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| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by purples25(f): 10:13pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
I'm so sorry. I'm a friend. You can send a message to my mail and I will be there to talk to you any time. Please be strong. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Bubblyj(f): 10:13pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Mozino007:
You have already planned....Get d Bleep outta here Bitch! You are a pathetic human!  3 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by culf: 10:14pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
please report him, he doesn't worth having you. A man that can drug and rape a love one is not worthy. Make sure he is put to where he belong. That he knows what you've been through and still did this means he is heartless and manipulative. Hardluck dear, you've had it rough but I'm certain that you will laugh last, you will definitely find genuine love, someone that will love you genuine. no matter what, don't harden your heart to love... |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Emarvel(m): 10:14pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
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Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
What if you were both drunk and you gave him your consent unknowingly? Have you thought about the possibility of that ? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Dimex03(m): 10:14pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
The only two men I've loved and taken seriously have both betrayed me. I can't trust any man again. madam calm down you've not loved me Nah, love me first and see. Now to the matter, he didn't love you. Love yourself, take some time off anything relationship. You'd be fine and lastly let him face the law jare some times behind bar is good for a beast like him. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Anfield247(m): 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
tchidi066:
@op, I'm so sorry for whatever happened to you, but don't let it define your existence, i know how painful it is but you have to move on, i believe it's only a matter of time and the right person would come, free your mind, you have to activate your sixth sense, don't let emotions get to you, love with your head and not your heart, i promise you'll be fine, for now avoid any relationship and grow wiser, they say, experience is the best teacher... Take care tchidi066, I feel her pains! Why will the guy do such a thing? You have spoken well but She should have insisted that the guy drink wine first. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by Nato008(m): 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
munachiso58:
u just made a point here....the both were intoxicated..... hardly to term it rape cos the two where under d influence of something nawa how u people reason can be baffling.....finding ways to pin it on the girl |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by abidem4real: 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
When it comes to relationship, every man or woman has got stories to tell. Your case is just that you have been unlucky with the men you have been dating. It's not that all men are the same. You have to keep trying forgetting your past and moving on with your life. The man that cares and truly loves will someday come your way. Suicide is never an option. Remember, a person who cannot be disappointed in life is a person who does not relate with anybody on earth but himself or herself. I WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE 1 Like |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by naijaclass(m): 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Sorry for the experience, you don’t have to kill urself, dm me so I will show you what to do and you won’t think of killing yourself or feeling depressed |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by extol1(m): 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
dollytino4real:
u dey ur house b4 the drugs fly enter ur mouth please do us a favor by interpreting this parable |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by crazygod(m): 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
No 1 mistake you just made now is bringing this to an immature forum like nairaland. You will get some very immature comments that may finally push you to even commit suicide.
Just go for test, make sure he didn't pass any disease to you
2. Get a contraceptive for unwanted pregnancy before it turns out that you are pregnant band end up hating the baby
3. If you feel involving the police will make you happy, go ahead and do it. But it might be a waste of time knowing the kind of system we have in this country
4. Go spiritual. Pray for the bastard that he will reap ten fold what he sowed. Then forgive him and see God dealing with him. That part of you forgiving him is for you to heal.
Kpele. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by chachanga: 10:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Girl9999:
Life doesn't seem worth living anymore.
He hasn't even called me to know how I am doing.
I can't believe people are insulting me and blaming me for what happened. I created this thread to get advice and comfort but I'm getting insults. I'm a very emotional person and this isn't helping.
I'm crying all over again just reading some comments. I don't have an alcohol problem and yes I planned on having sex with him soon; when I felt ready, but definitely before marriage. How can you say this is my fault?
Today might be my last day on this earth. Human beings are indeed wicked. If you do that, then he has won. He has taken over your soul and your very destiny from you. Too many insensitive id1ots have said all sorts on this thread reflecting their dull animal selves and enough other wise counsels are to be found, let me just add this that you try to make it through the day. Take things one day at a time while looking ahead. This is a temporary glitch, a speed bump on the road, it shouldn't stop your journey. Even he is a signpost pointing to eat a real man, lover and friends shouldn't be. The current situation is also telling now to make deeper studies of yourself and make changes to regain your self-esteem and whatever it'll take for you not to feel threatened by any man, whether it's taking self-defence classes o, or developing keen sense of distrust, rules and unbending conditions that you'll never let your guard down on OR even becoming an alpha female. Just don't off yourself. Far from diminishing your pain or your experience, I'd like to remind you of ladies who got smuggled out of Nigeria by aunties promising jobs in Italy only to be forced into prostitution out there and they're bedded daily against their will. Some of them cracked, some of them got through it, told their stories and are helping others out now. I trust there should be pro-women issues NGO's there in Nigeria that're well equipped to handle your case confidentially enough for no media leaks. Report him, don't fade quietly and die alone. He'll do it to other ladies and you must take a stand against that. Your story doesn't end here. Don't just get mad with him, get even! 4 Likes 1 Share |
