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I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 7:50am On Feb 09, 2021
I would be glad if the moderators could help me push this to any possible length; I need a lady for a serious relationship intended for marriage.

Few things about myself

1. Age: will be 29 in few months' time
2. Height: 5.7
3. Look/stature: fairly slim (like Dbanj)
4. Tribe: Yoruba
5. Religion/faith: Islam
6. Genotype and blood group: AA/O+
7. Highest level of education so far: degree (B.Sc)
8. Profession: works in a Federal agency
9. Future possibility: may go in to academics
10. Current zone of residence: Southwest

Few things I want in my prospective partner

1. Age: 20-25
2. Height: average
3: Look/stature: thick (not slim or fat)
4: Tribe: Yoruba (from any state in Southwest)
5: Religion/faith: Islam
6: Genotype and blood group: AA or AS/any blood group.
7: Minimum level of education: degree
8: Profession: could be private, public, or entrepreneural
9: Current zone of residence: Southwest

Turn-ons
Honesty, sincerity, good command of English, flexibility, and willingness to be a better person.

Turn-offs
Dishonesty, nagging, malice, violent behavior, rigidity, and laziness.

Note: I am not looking for a perfect partner - as there wasn't, isn't, and won't be any perfect human being. Honesty and willingness to be a better person are what I look out for.

Thank you.

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by oluseyiforjesus(m): 7:51am On Feb 09, 2021
Pray n fast
Back it with a vow
Go to market n buy wedding gown
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Nobody: 8:03am On Feb 09, 2021
niqqa above me tho .. wedding gown kor
person never even see partner u dey talk of wedding gowngrin

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 3:47pm On Feb 09, 2021
SmellySperm:
niqqa above me tho .. wedding gown kor

person never even see partner u dey talk of wedding gowngrin


Yes, you are right. The wedding gown part is secondary, finding the right partner is primary.

Please MODs, help me push this - if possible, to front page. You can be a blessing to my Life and success story by doing it. Thanks.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by FreeSpirited: 3:52pm On Feb 09, 2021
This one don Belle food well well, he dey find problem when problem dey sleep.

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 4:01pm On Feb 09, 2021
FreeSpirited:
This one don Belle food well well, he dey find problem when problem dey sleep.


Hey FreeSpirited, I really appreciate your comment, but I would like you to put more light. I don't seem to understand what you meant.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by FreeSpirited: 4:08pm On Feb 09, 2021
Dogged09:



Hey FreeSpirited, I really appreciate your comment, but I would like you to put more light. I don't seem to understand what you meant.
You are still young...stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself for nearing 29...
.
Focus on saving, your career, investment or getting yourself a a strong financial base...instead of planning to start bankrolling a gal from your little salary
.
.
Even if you so value marriage that you now think it's the next milestone for you, I think putting it up this way is a bad idea. The women that will contact you will be wiser than you. .
.
It's better to meet gal offline..or watch a lady from afar for sometimes before trying to get close..this your style of love vacancy doesn't make you look like someone in control of himself or relationship matters

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 4:45pm On Feb 09, 2021
FreeSpirited:

You are still young...stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself for nearing 29...
.
Focus on saving, your career, investment or getting yourself a a strong financial base...instead of planning to start bankrolling a gal from your little salary
.
.
Even if you so value marriage that you now think it's the next milestone for you, I think putting it up this way is a bad idea. The women that will contact you will be wiser than you.
.
It's better to meet gal offline..or watch a lady from afar for sometimes before trying to close..this your style of love vacancy doesn't make you look like someone in control of himself or relationship matters



Once again, thank you for your comment. You seemed to look at it from an entirely different perspective. I would like to address some of the points you raised.

Firstly, it is wrong for you to jump to conclusion that I am putting myself under unnecessary pressure as I'm nearing 29. You don't know my ideals, neither do you know my financial strength. Everyone has plans for how they want to live their lives and what they intend doing in order to achieve their aims. You have no clue about my savings, investments, and financial base. To you, a 29-year old guy is still very young, and shouldn't be thinking of marriage. That is your perspective sir, and you shouldn't impose it on others.

Secondly, you know absolutely nothing about my salary and the level of my career. It would be very dumb of me to display such sensitive details here.

Lastly, I think I found you on a thread where you were professing love for a supposed lady - a moniker that you don't know if the original bearer is male or female. From this, I don't think you're in a position to make meaningful contribution to this thread - apologies if that sounds harsh. You seem to write well, but I think you should let your composition carry more meaningful contents.

Thank you.

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by helinues: 4:53pm On Feb 09, 2021
Pinshures...
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by FreeSpirited: 4:55pm On Feb 09, 2021
Dogged09:




Once again, thank you for your comment. You seemed to look at it from an entirely different perspective. I would like to address some of the points you raised.

Firstly, it is wrong for you to jump to conclusion that I am putting myself under unnecessary pressure as I'm nearing 29. You don't know my ideals, neither do you know my financial strength. Everyone has plans for how they want to live their lives and what they intend doing in order to achieve their aims. You have no clue about my savings, investments, and financial base. To you, a 29-year old guy is still very young, and shouldn't be thinking of marriage. That is your perspective sir, and you shouldn't impose it on others.

Secondly, you know absolutely nothing about my salary and the level of my career. It would be very dumb of me to display such sensitive details here.

Lastly, I think I found you on a thread where you were professing love for a supposed lady - a moniker that you don't know if the original bearer is male or female. From this, I don't think you're in a position to make meaningful contribution to this thread - apologies if that sounds harsh. You seem to write well, but I think you should let your composition carry more meaningful contents.

Thank you.
May God help you in your sojourn o. ire. It's obvious u don't want any serious advice... shouldn't have gone that route.

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Lucrativress(f): 4:55pm On Feb 09, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Why soo aggrieved baiyi kiss
You better don't kill yourself
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Lucrativress(f): 5:08pm On Feb 09, 2021
mosdii:


Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
If it will give your heart restitution no wahala
As long as it makes you happy,keep saying it
kiss

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Nobody: 5:59pm On Feb 09, 2021
What's the name of the federal agency you work with?
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by lovchalice(f): 6:03pm On Feb 09, 2021
Style style
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 6:49pm On Feb 09, 2021
Zzor:
What's the name of the federal agency you work with?


In as much as I would like to answer this, I think it should be private. You can reach me on this by following the proper channel.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by kalu61(m): 6:58pm On Feb 09, 2021
All the best with your search.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Adukey(f): 7:03pm On Feb 09, 2021
Dogged09:

I would be glad if the moderators could help me push this to any possible length; I need a lady for a serious relationship intended for marriage.

Few things about myself

1. Age: will be 29 in few months' time
2. Height: 5.7
3. Look/stature: fairly slim (like Dbanj)
4. Tribe: Yoruba
5. Religion/faith: Islam
6. Genotype and blood group: AA/O+
7. Highest level of education so far: degree (B.Sc)
8. Profession: works in a Federal agency
9. Future possibility: may go in to academics
10. Current zone of residence: Southwest

Few things I want in my prospective partner

1. Age: 20-25
2. Height: average
3: Look/stature: thick (not slim or fat)
4: Tribe: Yoruba (from any state in Southwest)
5: Religion/faith: Islam
6: Genotype and blood group: AA or AS/any blood group.
7: Minimum level of education: degree
8: Profession: could be private, public, or entrepreneural
9: Current zone of residence: Southwest

Turn-ons
Honesty, sincerity, good command of English, flexibility, and willingness to be a better person.

Turn-offs
Dishonesty, nagging, malice, violent behavior, rigidity, and laziness.

Note: I am not looking for a perfect partner - as there wasn't, isn't, and won't be any perfect human being. Honesty and willingness to be a better person are what I look out for.

Thank you.


May Allah make it easy for you.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 7:11pm On Feb 09, 2021
Adukey:

May Allah make it easy for you.
Ameen Ya Allah. Jazakilllahu Khaeran!
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Adukey(f): 7:13pm On Feb 09, 2021
Dogged09:


Ameen Ya Allah. Jazakilllahu Khaeran!

Waiyyakum smiley
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 8:40pm On Feb 09, 2021
kalu61:
All the best with your search.

Amen; thank you.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Offpoint1: 10:55pm On Feb 09, 2021
There are two types men who searched for wives on the internet and they are:
1. Shy guys
2. Bad guys
Which category do you fall in?
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 2:00am On Feb 10, 2021
Offpoint1:
There are two types men who searched for wives on the internet and they are:

1. Shy guys

2. Bad guys

Which category do you fall in?


Hey bro, I think it goes beyond these two you put up here. My dating history was okay; It was within moderation. I'm not a shy guy, and neither am I a bad one. I relate well with ladies if I want to, but you know, marriage is entirely different. Some people do say that your type of person determines the type of ladies you attract, but I disagree, and I do think it's more complex than that. If we judge this by who we are; Noah was not supposed to get the type of wife he got, and Pharaoh didn't deserve what he had as a wife too. You would agree with me if you can decode my message.

Thanks.

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Cousin9999: 2:14am On Feb 10, 2021
You need to tell the aunties that you're looking for a wife. They'll introduce you to nice girls.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Dogged09: 7:01am On Feb 10, 2021
Cousin9999:
You need to tell the aunties that you're looking for a wife. They'll introduce you to nice girls.

Ok bro.
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Offpoint1: 7:06am On Feb 10, 2021
Dogged09:



Hey bro, I think it goes beyond these two you put up here. My dating history was okay; It was within moderation. I'm not a shy guy, and neither am I a bad one. I relate well with ladies if I want to, but you know, marriage is entirely different. Some people do say that your type of person determines the type of ladies you attract, but I disagree, and I do think it's more complex than that. If we judge this by who we are; Noah was not supposed to get the type of wife he got, and Pharaoh didn't deserve what he had as a wife too. You would agree with me if you can decode my message.

Thanks.





If you're not number 2, then why create a new monikercheesy

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Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by Funkeshuga(m): 7:07am On Feb 10, 2021
Op, you can meet you wife anywhere, don't let anyone discourage you on your marital pursuit but please don't meet those with the slang I've my past, go for brand new one, not all this Toks and fairly used lady


I wish you well, where are our decent Muslim sisters, a sincere brother need a wife
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by SweetCunt97(f): 7:10am On Feb 10, 2021
FreeSpirited:

You are still young...stop putting unnecessary pressure on yourself for nearing 29...
.
Focus on saving, your career, investment or getting yourself a a strong financial base...instead of planning to start bankrolling a gal from your little salary
.
.
Even if you so value marriage that you now think it's the next milestone for you, I think putting it up this way is a bad idea. The women that will contact you will be wiser than you. .
.
It's better to meet gal offline..or watch a lady from afar for sometimes before trying to get close..this your style of love vacancy doesn't make you look like someone in control of himself or relationship matters
ode you think its all 29 year old male that do not have their shii together? Saving, investment, little salary like say u know the guy. We know its you sha so take ur advice
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by femmyapson(m): 7:36am On Feb 10, 2021
Dogged09:




Once again, thank you for your comment. You seemed to look at it from an entirely different perspective. I would like to address some of the points you raised.

Firstly, it is wrong for you to jump to conclusion that I am putting myself under unnecessary pressure as I'm nearing 29. You don't know my ideals, neither do you know my financial strength. Everyone has plans for how they want to live their lives and what they intend doing in order to achieve their aims. You have no clue about my savings, investments, and financial base. To you, a 29-year old guy is still very young, and shouldn't be thinking of marriage. That is your perspective sir, and you shouldn't impose it on others.

Secondly, you know absolutely nothing about my salary and the level of my career. It would be very dumb of me to display such sensitive details here.

Lastly, I think I found you on a thread where you were professing love for a supposed lady - a moniker that you don't know if the original bearer is male or female. From this, I don't think you're in a position to make meaningful contribution to this thread - apologies if that sounds harsh. You seem to write well, but I think you should let your composition carry more meaningful contents.

Thank you.
Some people are born savage.

Savage you are, No chill you have got grin grin grin
PN: Try work on the way you address people. So you wont make your wife break down with your hurtful words grin
Re: I Want A Serious Relationship That Would Lead To Marriage by FreeSpirited: 7:43am On Feb 10, 2021
SweetCunt97:
ode you think its all 29 year old male that do not have their shii together? Saving, investment, little salary like say u know the guy. We know its you sha so take ur advice
I don't expect you to write better than this cos you talk from ya cunt. ....

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