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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Plebian(f): 2:55pm On Feb 11, 2021

Dont try to feel any other way asides from how you're feeling now. Embrace this pain completely surrender to it and it will bring you peace.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Psoul(m): 2:58pm On Feb 11, 2021

Shaving before sexual intercourse makes you prone to infections. Once you meet an infected person, you may get an STD even with protection.
Those open pores need to close up before you can be sure and safe from STDs especially when dealing with a partner you are not sure of.
Today is Thursday, you are planning to shave or even wait till Saturday before shaving, so your boo/bae will know you are a neat person...
Okay, please bring down your leg from the toilet sink, don't do it. Save yourself please.
Shaving for valentine sex is over.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Mrlouis: 2:59pm On Feb 11, 2021

DEATH TO SI*PS grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by femi4: 3:09pm On Feb 11, 2021

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.

Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Woman wrappers

Work on your self esteem, women don't like mumu boyz o

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by MyMouth(m): 3:14pm On Feb 11, 2021

Shelumiel:
Brother what you are passing through is common in today's society. But you should not let that weigh you down ; rather you should see it as a stepping stone to move yourself.

[b][/b]A wise man once said "success is the best revenge ". So my dear brother, focus on graduating and become successful. Sooner or later someone who values you will come by, and the ones that left you(thinking you will be nothing) will be regretting.

Peace.

Which wise man huh

I hope it's not Terion Lannister huh

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by bouncin04(m): 3:15pm On Feb 11, 2021

smogjoe:
It's normal to get depressed. She has been the lifeline you've be holding on to before now, hence, your current situation is expected.

However, it is important to know that your life and mental sanity matters. You need to learn to love yourself and cut off all forms of communication between you and your ex. It's important so you can get back on your feet.

Remember how beautiful your life has been before life caught you hard with feelings of opposite sex. Don't get weighed down...Be steadfast in your healing process. Add more activities to your daily schedule. I bet it will work well for you.

Finally, remember to eat well, sleep well, hit the gym, develop your mental and physical skills and you will be fine....

Gbam !!!

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Fisfrank(m): 3:15pm On Feb 11, 2021

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.

Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Bro forget her another one that will love you more will come, just cool down for now and focus your energy on other things you will surely get a better, I have been there too, at the end I was happy I let her go.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Oracleforce: 3:20pm On Feb 11, 2021

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.

Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Op, toto plenty for Naija to Bleep...no use because of one toto kill yourself life is too short....

You have better days ahead of you...but the truth must be told, bro, go and learn the necessary strategy of how to handle a relationship before you jump to another one... Stop creating a bad mood for ladies....abeg with your insecurity attitude....get busy, make goals and strategize on how to meet up with the goals then your feeling of insecurity will fizzle out automatically

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by harmony75: 3:27pm On Feb 11, 2021

ILovebigyansh:
4 months? Are you okay, better stand up and go live your life before i sound you.

�� surely that's all he need good sound slap the brain go do the needful jobless youth ��

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by toprealman: 3:31pm On Feb 11, 2021

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.

Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

The easy thing is to tell you off but I will try and be reasonable here.
Bro don't loose sleep over stuff like this. Be nice to yourself and stop this 2/2 ish.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by kid7soccer(m): 3:42pm On Feb 11, 2021

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.

Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

get busy and make money then see them roll over u

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by nedekid: 3:43pm On Feb 11, 2021

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.

Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Ha, young man, all this u top woman matter? shocked

You that said you are just finishing school?
Wait, is is that you don't know most of this girls you date while in school (with how this country has degenerated) have suger daddys rocking them as snacks while you students are the lover boys? If you do why will you wanna stress yourself unto girl friend matter.
Anyway, on the bright side you have lots of years ahead of you and will meet lots of women (since that is your problem for now). By the time you meet a new one sef you will forget this one. Infact years from now you will look back and wonder how you could be so mumuish to wanna wound yourself unto this current chick.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by kense88: 3:52pm On Feb 11, 2021

shadeyinka:
Why go into a relationship when you are not really ready. It takes hard work to build a relationship.

Why do you want a girlfriend NOW is the question you need to ask yourself?

Finish school, work on your career then think of settling down with someone is the wisdom you need.

Why can't he have a girl friend. Am sure he is an adult. The problem is that, dating scene in Nigeria is totally messed up. The men have absolutely nothing to gain from it.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by einsteine(m): 3:52pm On Feb 11, 2021

Simp

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by kense88: 3:53pm On Feb 11, 2021

Eriokanmi:
Congratulations. You're free from unnecessary distractions. Build your wealth first and not relationship. It would fall in line in due course.

This valentine, just go to a nice eatry or shopping mall, relish it with the best delicacy you can think of . Love yourself. She would come back i promise after her eyes are clear to see the difference . The onus is on you to let her go and face life squarely. I hope you'd just do this.

When the new guy dumps her sorry ass.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by shadeyinka(m): 3:54pm On Feb 11, 2021

kense88:
Why can't he have a girl friend. Am sure he is an adult. The problem is that, dating scene in Nigeria is totally messed up. The men have absolutely nothing to gain from it.

Why does a young man want a girlfriend? Is it just because of expensive sex?

Trust me, it is not worth it. It is a big distraction to a man who is working on his career!

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by obontami: 4:04pm On Feb 11, 2021

These fools go just dey form fake stories just to make front page. Na God go punish you!

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Nobody: 4:07pm On Feb 11, 2021

BuddhaPalm:
Let's just say it's liberating...

Of attachments to "things".

It'll make you feel lighter.

I prefer listening to the audiobook now, btw.

Thanks

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by bizhop01: 4:09pm On Feb 11, 2021

I don't blame you

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Blackdisciple(m): 4:26pm On Feb 11, 2021

'4months, relationship of yesterday na em u dey lament for.

based on your thread u stated that everyone you have loved ended up leaving eventually'.

Take seat and relax with your Arizo reason the matter well you will see that no girl likes insecurity, a girl always wanna feel secure with her niggarr, and at the other hand while highing your arizo look at yourself deep inside you will see that there's something you always do while in a relationship and the girls don't like it that's why they do break up and go.
And at the other hand again maybe you have not met yours yet.

And you are in your final year, I will advice you to focus on your studies first and round up so that e no go come be say papa wasted money on your education at the end of the day . After school you go see say dope dope babies go wan roll with u. Be a real niggarr bro

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Dreyton36: 4:31pm On Feb 11, 2021

2pac amaru Shakur makavelli once sang a song titled

"DO FOR LOVE"

He explained how he did everything for love and how he wants to take her mystery and trade it with happiness cuz he needs her faith in him cuz he's been sucking for love

Unfortunately chorus said and I quote

"Do for love, you try everything but you don't get love "

Which means if love don't find you now , pls find that which brings love by force which is MONEY

Double up ma nigha E no go bad if white sexy babe they cry for ur sake because you too gallant and she no wan loose u , no be only man dey cry for woman matter
Men wey get bar for hand no they do as u dey do so , if she do anyhow na unto the next one before she even walk out of the door sef another babe wey pass her by far don pass her for road go hug u

Lights up my kpoli in peace

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Zendinho(m): 4:36pm On Feb 11, 2021

[quote author=Eillyeillz post=98963401]Realest Advice on here.

Thanks brotherly grin

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by BigDick70inch(m): 4:36pm On Feb 11, 2021

yankison:
Ode Go and fine me Any US state SSN and phone number make u get money for hand ..

Afa bro??

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by slevan: 5:26pm On Feb 11, 2021

Do not waste your energy on the destroyer of Kings. Stop feeling lonely, join a church group, I believe you are a Christian. Genuinely look for friends both at work and home. Finally, expect nothing and you will not be rejected, depressed or dejected.

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by taxiappguy: 5:32pm On Feb 11, 2021

Everrich96:
I'm insecure, lonely and depressed . I've had my hopes all raised . She was my best friend and only friend. I always thought for 2 and did for 2.
I did everything to make her stay, I was convinced she loved me to a fault. She would do anything for me.

But my insecurity was my biggest flaw. I didn't want to lose her Cuz I was scared and unknowingly pushing her away. In my previous thread, I stated that 'everyone I've loved ended up leaving eventually', and I almost never let anyone in, but In Her case, I did . I have always felt alone all my life till I met her.

All of a sudden she said she was busy with life , she was stressed and tired of my insecurity and she wanted to leave me in the relationship. This came after we had a slight misunderstanding and we didn't communicate for a week Cuz she wouldn't talk to me. It came as a shock. I'm broken and I'm still wondering where I went wrong. I need someone to talk to . I just wanna make money and work on myself. I'm about to round off school, in my final year... With all the pressure and depression I might misplace my priorities.

Someone help me. I need therapy. I want to move on but I dunno how to start.

Bro, I find nothing spectacular in your story, in short, its perfectly normal. Every girl you meet will eventually leave you, until you meet your wife. Even she may leave.

Unless you marry your first relationship, this is the struggle for all dating men. All my relationships, where are all of them today? If i were to follow this your logic i for kuku don mad. Fact is, you will dump some and some will dump you, dating goes on.

Instead bro focus your energy on your career, . The time for woman will come and I promise you, you will get the best and she will stay.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by kalu61(m): 5:44pm On Feb 11, 2021

gimakon:
Uncle

Let her go. She no deserve all this wahala. Come make we do business make we know as our life go use good. 2 months don comot for 2021, na 10 remain, you no go day look woman, u go come use am scatter your life, while one guy day scatter her toto and she allow am. Life now no need people way go day hustle backwards, You no need all those kain things at this point.

I dated a girl 6 years, thank you way she tell me na to go sleep with several guys, even worse, she even day tell me the kind sex style them day give am, and how many minutes e day take her to reach them house. The kain vein way from my head day come out that time no be here. I had to own up to be a man, I day work for better place, travel in and out of naija now, na she come day complain say I no get her time again, after she don become mama 2... You sef check am na.

So long story short, I paid her back with success. Even her guy way them 2 day do all their nonsense back then, as I left them na so them be, no advancement. The greatest thing you can pay back to these kind of people, na success. Nothing more, nothing less.

Come make we run business. If money enter, we go Cape verde or Rwanda together.
I day wait you!

Which kind business bi that, anything cash and opportunities

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by apple30(f): 5:48pm On Feb 11, 2021

ILovebigyansh:
4 months? Are you okay, better stand up and go live your life before i sound you.

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Coinbased: 6:13pm On Feb 11, 2021

You need money to keep these girls lately

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Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Everrich96(op): 6:26pm On Feb 11, 2021

taxiappguy:
Bro, I find nothing spectacular in your story, in short, its perfectly normal. Every girl you meet will eventually leave you, until you meet your wife. Even she may leave.

Unless you marry your first relationship, this is the struggle for all dating men. All my relationships, where are all of them today? If i were to follow this your logic i for kuku don mad. Fact is, you will dump some and some will dump you, dating goes on.

Instead bro focus your energy on your career, . The time for woman will come and I promise you, you will get the best and she will stay.

Thanks alot bro..

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Nobody: 6:54pm On Feb 11, 2021

surebona:
Bro you will be fine on the long run, lost my girl of 6yrs.. shit still killing me but I find solace in reading bibles and trying to make a good life for myself...

Were you faithful in all your years together?

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Atticusxsz(m): 7:01pm On Feb 11, 2021

MsAllison:
simps deserves to be killed

A male behind a female moniker perhaps or you just hate seeing rubbish? LOL grin

Re: My Girlfriend Of 4 Months Just Broke Up With Me by Akuruoulo(m): 7:07pm On Feb 11, 2021

ILovebigyansh:
4 months? Are you okay, better stand up and go live your life before i sound you.

OGA EEH, NO SOUND AM ABEG.

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