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I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 3:53pm On Feb 12, 2021
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Mikester:
[color=navy] For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control
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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by slan87(m): 3:57pm On Feb 12, 2021
Keep calm, meet him in person then the body language & eye contact will tell you more
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:00pm On Feb 12, 2021
slan87:
Keep calm, meet him in person then the body language & eye contact will tell you more
That is what I'm doing oo. Though it's hard.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Kriss216: 4:03pm On Feb 12, 2021
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by dayleke: 4:08pm On Feb 12, 2021
You don enter am..... tongue
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Nobody: 4:09pm On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Always maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't pretend
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will
Senior man, you are misunderstanding her, her last statement was. " Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much. "
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Cerebellum: 4:10pm On Feb 12, 2021
See This one


Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tearsgrin
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by ThiagoKid(m): 4:10pm On Feb 12, 2021
Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.
shocked kiss impossicant cheesy
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:10pm On Feb 12, 2021
Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!


And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.
He will say he loves me first. Heaven will not fall if he says it. It is not me that will say it first. I have a job.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:11pm On Feb 12, 2021
ThiagoKid:
shocked kiss impossicant cheesy
Funny enough, I could be a virgin grin
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:12pm On Feb 12, 2021
Cerebellum:
See This one


Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tearsgrin
Back to sender
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:14pm On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Always maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't pretend
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will
Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Kriss216: 4:14pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
He will say he loves me first. Heaven will not fall if he says it. It is not me that will say it first. I have a job.
You didn't say anything about the virgin part. Why skip that important parthuh
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by OlawaleBammie: 4:14pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.
Zzor

Fati2001

Saphire

Onyi22

Chi59

It can not be bukatyne

Prettyprincess

It can not be fatymore

I dont tink its Bola ibadan grin

Talotunku oooo

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Nobody: 4:15pm On Feb 12, 2021
Cerebellum:
See This one


Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tearsgrin
Cerebellum: the back part of the brain that controls balance and the use of muscles

See 1st bolded grin grin
2nd bolded, you lack it. grin grin

See one part of some body brain.
@Your name
@Your comment

grin grin grin
Frivolous !!
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Cerebellum: 4:15pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Back to sender
Premium tear loadinggrin
Anyway, Darling let's hook upcheesy
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Ohizfly(m): 4:15pm On Feb 12, 2021
Nollywood



Light my Kpoli
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Abudu2000(m): 4:16pm On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Always maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't pretend
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will
that last rule will b difficult for her o unless she's not from Nigeria.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Odoogu(m): 4:16pm On Feb 12, 2021
In cases like this it may be difficult to stop yourself from showing you really like him. the feeling is from within you cheesy( a good feeling though) but first thing I will suggest is that you try and make him feel same about you too, just to balance the reaction... be yourself, crack your jokes, dance to that random beat cheesy... whether he digs it or not cheesy

Am guessing you know "enough" about him already... cheesy
keep your opinions opened during conversations, if he has a opinion on something and it differs from yours, make sure you air your opinion also ( not argument oo cheesy), don't just keep mute and nod your head cheesy...
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:16pm On Feb 12, 2021
Kriss216:
You didn't say anything about the virgin part. Why skip that important parthuh
Well ... He will find out if it works out
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Kriss216: 4:17pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Well ... He will find out if it works out
Long story.


Don't bother, we know already.


Enjoy.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Mikester: 4:17pm On Feb 12, 2021
gaius01:
Senior man, you are misunderstanding her, her last statement was. " Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much. "
I'm aware sir but I don't subscribe to it. One shouldn't pretend in such a situation in order to attract the right person. By the way, her doing those things i mentioned will not make her look cheap rather will make her more attractive and potentially valued.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:18pm On Feb 12, 2021
Odoogu:
In cases like this it may be difficult to stop yourself from showing you really like him. the feeling is from within you cheesy( a good feeling though) but first thing I will suggest is that you try and make him feel same about you too, just to balance the reaction... be yourself, crack your jokes, dance to that random beat cheesy... whether he digs it or not cheesy

Am guessing you know "enough" about him already... cheesy
keep your opinions opened during conversations, if he has a opinion on something and it differs from yours, make sure you air your opinion also ( not argument oo cheesy), don't just keep mute and nod your head cheesy...
Thanks for the advice. It is noted
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:20pm On Feb 12, 2021
Abudu2000:
that last rule will b difficult for her o unless she's not from Nigeria.
It won't be difficult for me. I have a good job.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Robertgreene1(m):
intresting...But whether u like him or not..what else will it end in...if not in sex nd sex nd more sex... then one of u getting sick nd tired of d other person after so much sex..then breaking d other person's heart...In other words.."it will still end in tears" my dear..
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:23pm On Feb 12, 2021
Ohizfly:
Nollywood




Light my Kpoli
It's not nollywood. It's real life.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Ohizfly(m): 4:25pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
It's not nollywood. It's real life.
what's the title?
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Mikester: 4:25pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much.
The woman who makes a man feel like a "man" most is the woman he falls for. Keep calm and take my advice. I know what I'm saying
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by CANDYDADDY(m): 4:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
.



You are in your 20s

your whoring stage

wont be surprised if you later come here to lament how irritating nice he is
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:26pm On Feb 12, 2021
Ohizfly:
what's the title?
Na you sabi. It has no title because it is real life
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MeghaneMorgane(op): 4:28pm On Feb 12, 2021
CANDYDADDY:
You are in your 20s your whoring stage
I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.
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