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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by VillageHead: 6:33pm On Feb 12, 2021

One thing I like about your post is that you were sincere about the whole thing.

My advice is this:
Control your emotions, don't over react - you don't know him yet.

He might be an handsome guy on pictures wait till you see him physically.

Handsomeness doesn't really matter but his character.

If he has bad character, he would definitely want to cover it up this first time. But there's a way to unravel what ever he wants to cover: watch the way he talks to waiters when you visit any eatry, watch how he talks to bus conductors and people below his class.

Talk to him about God and see if he believes in Him.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Mryacks: 6:34pm On Feb 12, 2021

Meet him first and know his core values before u talk about falling

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by goodigoodi: 6:34pm On Feb 12, 2021

Mikester:
The woman who makes a man feel like a "man" most is the woman he falls for. Keep calm and take my advice. I know what I'm saying
Even if it is a coded lie just make him feel like a champion you' ve won him

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by mykelshowz(m): 6:34pm On Feb 12, 2021

There we go with the ego again, person leave his city to come and meet you, you're doing hard girl.. If u tell him u like him are you going to die huh

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by emmnprince(m): 6:34pm On Feb 12, 2021

Just be yourself!

Don't get carried away if he meets your requirements in person after the maiden meeting. Use your head. I repeat, use your head; don't let lust, or love, blind you to the extent you threw caution to the wind and he append his signature on it.

Just as some women who appear in an angelic form cannot be trusted, so is men.

I hope Mosdii didn't see this article or that “the future is female” advocate.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by zealousayo(m): 6:35pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.

Are you a Chemical Engineer or Food Engineer or Mechanical Engineer or Civil Engineer?

Back to your op, you can't hide your feelings no matter how you try. Just be yourself. Show that you're intelligent and have a good character when you meet. Also, study him very well so that you won't get played. Lastly, as much as I believe it's hard to hide feelings, never show desperation; else...
Don't have sex with him ooo if you don't want to 'jonze'. I come in peace ma.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by SweetCunt97(f): 6:36pm On Feb 12, 2021

zedegit:
I will advise you like I would advise my junior sister.

Don't meet him in a hotel even if he lodged in one nor in your own house. Choose a public place.

Don't stay alone with him. Just know that if he sees your pants and gets into it, it's over.

No matter how you feel for him, never lose guard.

Lies. Some fvck on their first date and live happily together while some dont and sha end up dumped. Relationships or matters of the heart no get manual jor

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Gordieshegz(m): 6:37pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
He wants something serious. By the way, I'm a decent lady. I will not allow him have sex with me at least until he has paid my brideprice and that's if it works.

Your points are very valid sis.
However, I will advise you are careful about vouching for his seriousness. One week may be too short to be so sure of someone you haven't met yet.

Ask him thought-provoking questions and pay a close attention to the answers he gives. If possible, delay this meeting with him till you have control on your feelings.

When you see a man in his thirties who has a good job and is still not "married", don't just jump at him, ask serious questions!!!

For all you care, he may be married with kids, or just a playboy, or anything.

May our sisters never be unfortunate oo.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Nobody: 6:37pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Back to sender

yinmu

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Freddd009: 6:37pm On Feb 12, 2021*

witworth:
You don't need advise on how not to show this guy that you like him too much.
You need advise on how you should bring out and up your best behavior.
But be careful. You need to see the guy first to love him

Exactly, I wonder when girls will learn to know a guy properly first before liking him totally. She is already falling in love with him based on everything he told her about himself. This is d biggest mistake ladies make. Never, ever believe everything a guy u just met told u about himself. Give the relationship some time to find out the real truth about him because we guys loves to give d best first impressions so as to get down there.
So, my advise is to pocket ur feelings n get to know him better first before u come back here to cry of heartbreak. Love with ur heart but use ur BRAIN.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by mmadu4: 6:38pm On Feb 12, 2021

your in lust not inlove my dear . i have seen girls like you . who rush to fall inlove because the guy is handsome . or have car etc . you will end up falling into the wrong hands. you are probably in your 20s . dont love someone because of their looks what if he is a cultist or a ritualist will you still love him? use your head .

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by richmanrichard: 6:39pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

if u are one of these nairaland feminists; you wud never find happines with any man. una go deceive innocent girls finish and still fall for gbola. but if not; i wish u all d gud things u wish in a man by my bond as a man.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by 400billionman: 6:40pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Call him baby OR honey.

He will know that you are not ashamed, but in control of your feelings and you know exactly what you want.

You hear ?

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by UjuJoan2: 6:40pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

I hope you know this is NOT the first time he is doing something like this? His actions are hasty and rash and does not indicate any seriousness.

Be careful that you are not a fling to him. He could be married for all you know and wants a one night stand to spice things up!

Yes, give him the benefit of doubt and meet with him, but tread with cautions and DO NOT sleep with him!!

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by CheedyJ(m): 6:41pm On Feb 12, 2021

You’re in love bkus he’s handsome or because he’s coming to see you in your city? Which exactly.. it looks still dey trip you then you go suffer plenty heartbreaks ooo,you better use ur head...if only you know the length some guys can go just to get laid especially a new catch.. anyways, life is all about taking risks but calculated risks sha

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by sylve11: 6:42pm On Feb 12, 2021

Kriss216:
Tell him you love him and you would cherish a relationship with him. Heaven will not fall!

And make sure you have a job and probably a virgin.

Nairaland ehn grin

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by johnisaola(m): 6:45pm On Feb 12, 2021

you didn't show us the guy pic and yours too ,what do you want me to do for you ,I can only help you when you meet me in the other room

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Ghostmode2two(m): 6:45pm On Feb 12, 2021

Give it a shot

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by MansoryMX(m): 6:46pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Just be yourself. No knacking! I repeat!! NO KNACKING!!

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by jaxxy(m): 6:48pm On Feb 12, 2021*

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

U can't be head over heels for someone u haven't met physically yet. Snap back to reality my dear. U are obviously infatuated. undecided

The best u can have is a crush or catching feelings through not exactly real "yet". Love isnt a real discussion yet here. Snap back dear. Ok?

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Tonytonex(m): 6:49pm On Feb 12, 2021

ur pics please.

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Solatium(m): 6:49pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Don't expect much at least for now so that when he begins to show you color you will be able to handle the emotional breakdown.

Just go out and have your full fun with him.
But don't expect much in return.
My opinion

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by davillian(m): 6:51pm On Feb 12, 2021

What's my own....
I met a girl today we talked a little I gave her my number and she haved called me twice and have texted me on what's app....
But guess what I didn't pick or reply......
That's the game.... angry

.....

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Nobody: 6:52pm On Feb 12, 2021

I’m sure you’re almost close to 30 hence your restlessness . You’re so desperate now, I’m pretty sure if you’re in your 25th, you won’t be this overjoyed. What do I know sef?!!

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Collegelove: 6:52pm On Feb 12, 2021

That's Nigerian women for you. In couple of weeks, you begin to hear stories. The guy in context might be a player.

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by donMIG(m): 6:53pm On Feb 12, 2021

Man wei go cheat go cheat
Man wei go marry go marry
50/50

Blv notin u hear and half what u c
The days r evil!

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by dalass(f): 6:54pm On Feb 12, 2021

Cerebellum:
See This one

Next topic be say "The guy i love is a Rapist, pls help"!

That's how we sweet guys Bleep girls like you and move on, then after that, we give you emotional trauma you can't bear

I hope it end in tears

You sound like a sweet idiot too grin

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by OlawaleBammie: 6:56pm On Feb 12, 2021

Boxer007:
Zzor: Known Nairaland male pretending to be female and using female pictures (be careful sir)

Lol, i should be careful of what exactly??

I hardly fall for offline girls talk more of online inhabitants grin

And btw, my gf is dope, clean, moderately booty and curvy, so wetin a dey find again grin

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Poorboy: 6:57pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

let me advice you as a sister.

1. Before you like or get serious with a guy make sure he has a salary job.

2 make sure the job he is doing can sustain a family

3 be of the know that the job is permanent

You talk about handsome, that doesn't put food on the table.

As he is coming don't spend a dime on him
or less you will mistake a Playboy as a lover.

Valentine is coming if he doesn't buy you a gift don't buy him anything, If he buys buy him a gift that is less expensive than his own.

Allow him to call often than you call.

Lastly control your emotions, always remember love is a game and love is conditional. Good luck

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Kubiatita(m): 6:57pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by damosky12(m): 6:58pm On Feb 12, 2021

MeghaneMorgane:
I'm not whoring. I was minding my business doing my job as an engineer. I'm a decent lady.

Hello. You sound like a very serious lady already. Any serious guy will find you attractive (really).

What you should do is: DON'T PRETEND. At the same time, don't make your observations/feelings too obvious.

Smile and laugh when appropriate. And keep a blank face when appropriate. Don't make it look like you don't like Him. Also, don't let him feel you are drooling over him.

I'd like to know the outcome of this later on.

Congrats in advance!

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