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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by seyz91(m): 6:58pm On Feb 12, 2021
should we tell her?
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Kriss216: 6:59pm On Feb 12, 2021
99thEnemy:


My darling Denique said - Chastity is the antidote of 'I was used and Dumped'

kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss
Our esteemed Denique with her valuable quote kiss kiss

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by seyz91(m): 6:59pm On Feb 12, 2021
should we tell her? grin
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by AwesomeStormy00(m): 7:00pm On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control




You should be a relationship counsellor you

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by richieray: 7:01pm On Feb 12, 2021
Life is fleeting, enjoy the moment that comes with it before they turn memories,flow with the rythym and while at it use your head..Show him all the love he deserves if he's serious.
This might just be the start of something lifelong,again,use your head, forever is too long to regret anything.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by dapadawee: 7:01pm On Feb 12, 2021
all have got to say is use condom o

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Nobody: 7:01pm On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control


. Your rule 7 no apply as long as na Nigerian girls o. Relationship na them office nah

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Maj196(m): 7:02pm On Feb 12, 2021
It will end in tears grin

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by angelfallz(m): 7:03pm On Feb 12, 2021
I don't see why you have to tell us about this.

In choosing a husband/wife fast and pray. It's no joke oh.
Anyway, all the best.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Boxer007(m): 7:04pm On Feb 12, 2021
99thEnemy:


na who be this? grin grin grin


bro...MeghaneMorgane said she is lookin for man, so i advise her that all she simply need to do is bleach her skin & were mini sket...thats all.
and if she dont have yansh, she can simply were pillow case pad.
..even me seff will chase her. PREACH!
smiley

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Collegelove: 7:05pm On Feb 12, 2021
Maj196:
It will end in tears grin
Probably. She's not really in love with this guy. She's silly and infatuated. grin
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by mitchelle16(f): 7:05pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


That is what I'm doing oo. Though it's hard.
Should I tell u, e be like say u don forget watin happen for abule, anyway men no say most girls no dey use ear hear marriage or something serious my dear take things slowly u guys are too fast abeg but let me just believe this date is just to Meet each other in person no wahala but their some genuine men out there but still most of them are not they just want to chop and Clean mouth, but first question u should ask your self is why u of all the girls he do meet and see everyday both online and off why u be careful dear that's all I have to tell you

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Lagoon0: 7:06pm On Feb 12, 2021
OlawaleBammie:


Zzor

Fati2001

Saphire

Onyi22

Chi59

It can not be bukatyne

Prettyprincess

It can not be fatymore

I dont tink its Bola ibadan grin

Talotunku oooo

The future is female no go wan cast herself grin
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by zuto4u(m): 7:06pm On Feb 12, 2021
Lol...... U are really so funny. This your back to sender really cracked my ribs
MeghaneMorgane:


Back to sender
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by allcomage: 7:06pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


Thank you. It is noted. I feel it's too fast too. But the guy seems like he has no time to waste.

If I were you,I would feel normal because all that glitters is not gold.This a total stranger you had not known.You must give the relationship a full year of constant understudying of each other. He might be a saint or deadly guy who will not give you the chance to discover him. Matured and understanding men don't fall easily for beauty. Be careful the days are mostly evil.

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by uchewilliam18: 7:07pm On Feb 12, 2021
Behave however you feel like, but ensure he doesn't get to eat your cookie � anytime soon!!!

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by penearth(m): 7:08pm On Feb 12, 2021
madam, don't cheat ur heart. Go after ur heart. If u cheat ur heart u will ;bcome like other women unmarried. if u less value him now that he wants u, u r gone for it. so follow ur heart

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Lawdis(m): 7:09pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


Thanks for the advice. I have already planned places we can go and have fun and see around my city. But I need to do things that will not allow the guy know that I like him too much.



Let her slap him nah so he will understand her
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by OlawaleBammie: 7:10pm On Feb 12, 2021
Boxer007:



ermm bro be careful ooo..u dont want to chase some one like Zzor who is male thinking he is female and then end up wit his dik in yor yansh. like banger.
Few guys pretending to be female until they start toasing u. Bro juss be careful sha!! undecided



Guy i said i am not chasing anybodyyyyyyy.....aahhhh kilodee
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by blingxx(m): 7:10pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
Hi,
Please I recently created this account to avoid people knowing me as I am an active member.

Now I met a handsome young man through a professional group chat. One time I posted a message on the group, he went to check my dp and sent me a message afterwards. He is in his 30s and I'm in my 20s He asked me if I was married, I said no. I asked the same question he said no, and then he started to show so much interest in me. He went straight to the point about wanting something serious and wanting to know me better. We chatted for some days exchanged pictures and then I proposed we meet in person. Like joke, in less than a week of chatting the guy is coming to my city to see me.

I'm now beginning to realise that maybe this guy is not joking. Because of how serious he is, I am beginning to like him. I didn't read any meaning to our conversations when it initially started but now, it is like I'm falling head over heels for him. I'm trying to restrain not to show him that I like him too much so that he will not come and take me for granted. I am not being difficult but I'm just being cautious. But the problem now is that it is getting harder and harder to restrain myself by the day. Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much.

PS: Please nobody should insult me. Just advice me. Thanks.

babe wait o grin ...the guy you are talking about right now will be like "lori iro" ..guy shey I lie ?cheesy
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by tonero230(m): 7:10pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


Funny enough, I could be a virgin grin

If I hear
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by AwesomeStormy00(m): 7:10pm On Feb 12, 2021
Be careful, very careful. For a start pay attention and listen to him. Ask him what he likes etc face to face see if it is going to correspond with what he told you vua chat. Ask him about family siblings parents friend etc.

Secondly when it comes to paying bills try offer to split the bills just as a gesture

You met on a professional site so dress smart or and smell nice. Make eye contact don't be too serious.

Lastly no sex please.

When u leave text or call him that you got home safe

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by AwesomeStormy00(m): 7:11pm On Feb 12, 2021
AwesomeStormy00:
Be careful, very careful. For a start pay attention and listen to him. Ask him what he likes etc face to face see if it is going to correspond with what he told you vua chat. Ask him about family siblings parents friend etc.

Secondly when it comes to paying bills try offer to split the bills just as a gesture

You met on a professional site so dress smart or and smell nice. Make eye contact don't be too serious.

Lastly no sex please.

When u leave text or call him that you got home safe

Good luck

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Collegelove: 7:11pm On Feb 12, 2021
tonero230:


If I hear
lol
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by OlawaleBammie: 7:11pm On Feb 12, 2021
Lagoon0:


The future is female no go wan cast herself grin


Lol grin

Anytime the lady coment e dey do me like say make i knack her nose 2by2 kpako grin

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Lordbinsmar: 7:13pm On Feb 12, 2021
IYANGBALI:
how many of them crossed your river?
The narrow way go don turn to third mainland bridge. grin grin
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Kaymaxine(m): 7:14pm On Feb 12, 2021
gaius01:



Senior man, you are misunderstanding her, her last statement was. " Please I need advise on how not to show this guy that I like him too much. "

Am sure you don't know the real meaning of "misunderstanding"!!!
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by merits(m): 7:17pm On Feb 12, 2021
Come to my house and let me advice you better

Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Ryan14(m): 7:18pm On Feb 12, 2021
Mikester:
For a start

- Be attractive
- Maintain eye contact with him
- Be yourself and don't smile too much
- Try to be fun and exciting. Don't act dull
- Be humble and feminine
- Show initiative in your conversation
- and the most important, don't demand for money. Let him give you from his own will

But be calm and keep the butterflies in your stomach under control



The gods have spoken!

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Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Lagoon0: 7:19pm On Feb 12, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:


You're right. Thank you. Somehow I'm more calm now. After reading these advices. I'm glad I came here to talk about how I was feeling. Thanks a lot.
Stay there dey talk story. All ladies are hardworking in their own lane.
Awon pussy people.

If you don't live alone or feed yourself then you're not ready for married except you're rready to be house wife or maybe he establish you.

You're not a virgin so don't lie to him and don't allow sex if you're serious.

Try understand him very well. Lack of understanding is the minor reason marriage fail.
Walai I Neva marry or date anyone o! grin
Na only Bleep experience I get. But I believe understanding is key.

Most relationship has the bad character from the ladies side. Now look at yourself and name all your bad character and start changing then.

Hard to get will only make pussy men fall in love. Men like me will still japa if after hard to get you com get bad attitude
Re: I Like This Guy So Much But I Need Help Not To Show It Too Much.please Advice Me by Boxer007(m): 7:19pm On Feb 12, 2021
OlawaleBammie:




Guy i said i am not chasing anybodyyyyyyy.....aahhhh kilodee

u lie sir. all mans come to nairaland to chase women, u included, me included, so please please please, bro quit lying sir.
all am sayin is be carefull or else u may carry the wrong person & end up wit priccck in yor mouth. PREACH!
smiley

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