CalliDora1:
See weaklings everywhere. Anyways, it's a poor mentality we all have that an older woman is not good enough to be wifed for the lame reasons some have given up there.

Now who says the age of a woman determines a successful and peaceful marriage? Mind you, we've had most cases of girls who stabbed and cheated on their man stemming from the younger generation girls. So? And sorry to say, the most promiscous ones are from the younger generation due the non-involvement of the parents in the upbringing of these girls. Unlike what we had back then where most mothers were full time house wives and were fully involved in nurturing the girl child to become respectful and responsible wife materials.

Again, all I see in all these is immaturity in most guys who don't understand what marriage is really all about otherwise you wont see a good wife material and still come here chasing shadows by asking if you can date her. No, don't date her, go and date those small rotten girls who are your age mates that will not allow you to say one before they say ten due to "feminist" bushit. Misplaced priorities.

Ndi Uchu.

gulfer:
If she's as good as you're saying, why's she on the market then

Myryryry:
Nigerian MEN are SO useless.






All they know is sex and how to dupe white women.
And the women.. Goddess of lies and glorified oloshos are what... Foolish comment






#fact

Myryryry:
Nigerian MEN are SO useless.






All they know is sex and how to dupe white women.







#fact

CalliDora1:
See weaklings everywhere. Anyways, it's a poor mentality we all have that an older woman is not good enough to be wifed for the lame reasons some have given up there.

Now who says the age of a woman determines a successful and peaceful marriage? Mind you, we've had most cases of girls who stabbed and cheated on their man stemming from the younger generation girls. So? And sorry to say, the most promiscous ones are from the younger generation due the non-involvement of the parents in the upbringing of these girls. Unlike what we had back then where most mothers were full time house wives and were fully involved in nurturing the girl child to become respectful and responsible wife materials.

Again, all I see in all these is immaturity in most guys who don't understand what marriage is really all about otherwise you wont see a good wife material and still come here chasing shadows by asking if you can date her. No, don't date her, go and date those small rotten girls who are your age mates that will not allow you to say one before they say ten due to "feminist" bushit. Misplaced priorities.

Ndi Uchu.

Abimbola007:
If you're a type that doesn't like going against his parents or family members, I will advise you to stylishly ask them how they feel about you having an older lady as a wife. If you love her, go for her.

BRATISLAVA:


What if she was in a relationship with one man for 10 years, and at the last moment he ditched her for someone else, someone younger?

What if she's old and men don't want to marry an old woman, not because she has any problem?

Everything is not about her being a bad woman. Put yourself in her shoes. Not every woman gets married young, and sometimes it has nothing to do with her.

Prolificdeman:
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.

felibrain:
You seem angry but everything you have said is true.

Basitelo1:

Nai dis tactic u want use trap dat small boy Michaf abi.
U don't see food eat now

Basitelo1:

Nai dis tactic u want use trap dat small boy Michaf abi.
U don't see food eat now

Dcaliphate:

take it easy, the bro has to find love for her in his heart b4 deciding to wife her, he can't marry her out of pity

Ugonna62:
honestly i love old ladies more than the so called smal girls,because their understanding and effection is second to non which is the most important in any relationship,i am currently searching for a responsible,willing and ready mature lady to make a home,the last mistake i will make is going into marriage with one small girl.who will come and insult and abuse you without regards.no

Prolificdeman:
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.

CalliDora1:


Lol.. I'm not angry.


I can't trap anybody cos I'm not desperate. I love myself well enough to force myself on any man.

Shut your gutter of a mouth up. Sissy.


I will be the last person to advise anyone to marry out of pity. If the op doesnt want her, it's a different thing but if it because of her age, then he's confused cos I don't see any problem with that. All the same, let him follow his heart.


I'm not old ooo lol... You people should stop tagging me old. Though I wish to grow old but I'm not old yet. At least the Rita Dominiques Mercy Johnson, Genevieve and Ini Edo are far older than me yet they're not old. So??

Awoleesu:


Your heading and contents of the above refers:

1. I have dated older ladies before, and my experience has been very good! Generally, they are more understanding, less demanding and very submissive! In all of my experience, the older ladies are better than the younger ones. Age mates are the best tho!

2. You give me the impression, from your writings that you haven't gone deep - No proposals, no intimacies... So, why the fear of "breaking a heart"?

3. Age is just numbers. What counts for me, is what or who makes you happy/happier and more fulfilled. That said, I'll advice you define what's your main dig in a relationship. Ball is yours to roll - what do you really want from a (conjugal) relationship? When you have your purpose and criteria laid out, then you begin to match these with potential " wife materials ". In essence, if age is a factor that matters so much to you, as in it is a priority, then you do what you think is right for you...
If age is a factor you think you can overlook, and she ticks other factors on the checklist, what stops you bro?

In Summary, an advice would not work out your purpose in life. You alone can do it! And why? Because na you and your woman go live una lives las-las... no advisors!

mdokaba1:
Now,

Yàll listen while I talk from my childhood best friend`s experience way back in kano.

Dude was 21 say in 2010 and after high school started working at Bakers`s Delight located along sokoto road in kano state.

After a while, he confided in me, how that he did get along well with his female manager who was at the time 29. Not so long he told me that they had started hanging-out after work hours and she insisted on footing the bills (she squeezed it into his palms to pay) and all and even bought gifts for him. I asked him if they were already dating, he insisted they were just friends, however, he feels she had an emotional attachment to him and he did feel same too.

At 21, you would expect some youthful "highness" from my friend of which she never failed in lovingly correcting and advising him where necessary, and even covers p for him when he f***s up. Infact, she became his life-coach.

Long story cut short. They eventually started dating officially even against the will of family and friends, excluding me, because i had seen her and i liked her for him. Reason being that i was seeing alot maturity he started exuding and i did admire them. All thanks to her.

They eventually got married in 2012, and trust me in 2021, he still tells me she has never disrespected, looked down or used the age-difference against him. Infact after 12years of marraige, she still calls him "my Lord". She bought a car which he drives and even opened a succesful business for them. whats more to ask for?

Those he may never have gotten from a younger or same-aged-lady. Not with the slayers of this age.

zexy2030:
"if u say age is just a number continue your body go tell you.

Awoleesu:

You're entitled to your opinion...
I just said what I know!

toobusy:
.....hello sir.....is this Nollywood movie....it sounds like one.

TheUndercover:
She wants to use the chameleon way to trap you. You think she's doing all those for free.? Think again. Look into her past and thread safely using your head.

Pegi23:
Yeah I have. Older men are childish, stupid, selfish,stingy, unserious, useless actually..
Especially those in their early 30's they still want the player life style not knowing they are closer to the grave..tweehhh

BRATISLAVA:


What if she was in a relationship with one man for 10 years, and at the last moment he ditched her for someone else, someone younger?

What if she's old and men don't want to marry an old woman, not because she has any problem?

Everything is not about her being a bad woman. Put yourself in her shoes. Not every woman gets married young, and sometimes it has nothing to do with her.

Kobicove:


The creator of the thread is referring to older women not older men!

Jessie31:
Does being good make one marry early? Are all the ladies who are married good? Ambitious women don't jump into marriage except they meet someone either shares the same idea with them or turned their head upside down with love. Or maybe she was to picky.

faithfull18:

Lol, your ignorance is outstanding, are you aware it's people who were 'bad' that settles quickly.

damesilver:
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Our comments reveal a little about the us. If you are open to having a friendly chat I'd like to meet you.

Jessie31:
Well, not in all cases but i don't bite.