The older the become the more slim their chances are.

The older they become the more pretentious they become.

The older the become the more humble.

The older they become the more possessive they become.

The older they become and you marry them, you go learn to manage their madness till you die , marriage no be dating o.

They can be very helpful and secretive before marriage but after .....OK poo

Lastly , if you find a good one , that has a good background , you have obtained favor from the lord and she will not give you problem for a day.

Silentgroper:
But dz particular scenario doesnt happen all d time.

Yh, now you don't know why she's not married, I don't know why either but only the creator can answer that.
Like I said before does that mean she is bad or she doesn't posses the quality of a wife, of course No. My dear friend pray for divine direction that's all I can say.

Prolificdeman:
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.

If your marriage timeline is not in sync with an older woman's plan, it's fair to let her know early. Avoid the situation that'd make her say you wasted her time.

If she get everything one can expect from a woman ranging from attitude, finance and intelligence, I wonder what is holding you back. have in mind at this point all comment here are mere opinion, the final decision is from you.
be wise and allow time to be your teacher in this case.

Follow your heart is all I can say cos age is just number good example Emmanuel macron's wife is over 10 years older than him yet they live happily what more can you ask for

I think 6months is not even enof to decide

Here is from who has an experience about older ladies.

If you see an older unmarried lady, date her and you will find out WHY SHE WASNT MARRIED.

Few are good and it wasn't their fault that they are single but MOST have hoed out their lives, chased men away with bad character, picky, waiting for rich men etc.

When time is running out, they turn to "angels" just to get a man to marry them and after that, you see the real them.

Na them



Retired

CalliDora1:
See weaklings everywhere. Anyways, it's a poor mentality we all have that an older woman is not good enough to be wifed for the lame reasons some have given up there.

Now who says the age of a woman determines a successful and peaceful marriage? Mind you, we've had most cases of girls who stabbed and cheated on their man stemming from the younger generation girls. So? And sorry to say, the most promiscous ones are from the younger generation due the non-involvement of the parents in the upbringing of these girls. Unlike what we had back then where most mothers were full time house wives and were fully involved in nurturing the girl child to become respectful and responsible wife materials.

Again, all I see in all these is immaturity in most guys who don't understand what marriage is really all about otherwise you wont see a good wife material and still come here chasing shadows by asking if you can date her. No, don't date her, go and date those small rotten girls who are your age mates that will not allow you to say one before they say ten due to "feminist" bushit. Misplaced priorities.

Ndi Uchu.

Spaxon:
tosyne2much....

It's been a while you created a thread. This topic reminds me of the good ol'days you'd create exciting threads.

Hello dear!

It's really been a long timr and I'm thinking of posting regularly

gulfer:
If she's as good as you're saying, why's she on the market then

Does being good make one marry early? Are all the ladies who are married good? Ambitious women don't jump into marriage except they meet someone either shares the same idea with them or turned their head upside down with love. Or maybe she was to picky.

kingemi:
I learn from the mistakes of others mbok...
To me oo,,
1. I cannot marry an older lady
2. I cannot marry a lady whose income is more than mine
3. I cannot encourage you to emulate me


4. Wetyn you wan hear again?

na inferiority complex be this one ooo

gulfer:
If she's as good as you're saying, why's she on the market then

Market? Wazapork niccu

You said you are not ready for marriage. then let her go in peace. Just tell the lady that you are not ready yet but there is another Nigga here on Nairaland that need her.

how can a pussy be tight

Randy100:
I always go for something tighter.

in most cases, older ladies are Tighter than small girls

acesboy:
Lol

Silentgroper:
One aunty up there has taken it personal.
is she trying to tell us that young girls cannot possess the good qualities d op's lady has, kikikiki.

d question here is if she has been like dz since her youthful age, y is she not married?

Our sister in d lord came to campaign for older women, kikikiki

Lol

Prolificdeman:
I'm currently very close a lady that's much older than. She's a good friend to me, and have been so helpful in my business. I haven't asked her out yet nor demanded sex from her. But she has told me so much about her and both her sexuality. From my observation she talks so much about marriage. But I'm not even ready in the next 3yrs. If you're in my situation, can you date her. I don't want to break anybody's heart, cos she's really a good lady and a wife material from the past 6 months now I have known her.

Let me learn from you all in the comment section. Both insults.

how old are you and how old is she.

honestly to me, the more mature a lady is, the more enjoyable and submissive. they behave more maturely than the younger ones. they are very ready to put in effort

CalliDora1:


Just because you use and overuse any girl you meet doesnt mean all mature girls are overused. And I'm not saying guys should not marry young girls their age. All I'm saying is, they can marry any woman regardless of her age. Love and understanding is what matters.

honestly i love old ladies more than the so called smal girls,because their understanding and effection is second to non which is the most important in any relationship,i am currently searching for a responsible,willing and ready mature lady to make a home,the last mistake i will make is going into marriage with one small girl.who will come and insult and abuse you without regards.no

Sarcastic101:

Not all men are like your dad

Haha

mdokaba1:
Now,

Yàll listen while I talk from my childhood best friend`s experience way back in kano.

Dude was 21 say in 2010 and after high school started working at Bakers`s Delight located along sokoto road in kano state.

After a while, he confided in me, how that he did get along well with his female manager who was at the time 29. Not so long he told me that they had started hanging-out after work hours and she insisted on footing the bills (she squeezed it into his palms to pay) and all and even bought gifts for him. I asked him if they were already dating, he insisted they were just friends, however, he feels she had an emotional attachment to him and he did feel same too.

At 21, you would expect some youthful "highness" from my friend of which she never failed in lovingly correcting and advising him where necessary, and even covers p for him when he f***s up. Infact, she became his life-coach.

Long story cut short. They eventually started dating officially even against the will of family and friends, excluding me, because i had seen her and i liked her for him. Reason being that i was seeing alot maturity he started exuding and i did admire them. All thanks to her.

They eventually got married in 2012, and trust me in 2021, he still tells me she has never disrespected, looked down or used the age-difference against him. Infact after 12years of marraige, she still calls him "my Lord". She bought a car which he drives and even opened a succesful business for them. whats more to ask for?

Those he may never have gotten from a younger or same-aged-lady. Not with the slayers of this age.

God in heaven another lucky man

justosee:
everyone have to be careful when choosing a wife.

Enough advice for the wise

Aboguede:
Na them


Retired

no mind them its ignorant speaking .w

Donspicey:
Bro if u hear my experience.......



You go fear love matters with someone older than you......

Abeg tell us your experience lets learn na

Phenomenal1192:
Nairaland is one fun place to be
The joy i get reading people's arguments and insults is second to none

Haha lol I sent my depressed friend to nairaland all of a sudden he is addicted no more depression, nairaland sweet o

hmhameed:
My brother I once had the experience. It always end up in premium tears. Most especially when the lady know she is older than you. She will always be in control of everything. Giving unnecessary orders because she thinks she is older than you with more experience. You can Bleep her and japa

Kai malam

So much ignorance in one thread.

[quote author=valentineuwakwe post=99236887]it's a worth while experience and the best of them all....
ask me how n i will reply anyone! [/quote
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How

Nonexistent:
Vagina people always appear to be nice when they get nearer to menopause. Ask those they dated when they were much younger or wait until you bring her into your house as wife and see her true character. I don't trust them at all.

Tell us your experience na

naijadrivablog:
Here is from who has an experience about older ladies.

If you see an older unmarried lady, date her and you will find out WHY SHE WASNT MARRIED.

Few are good and it wasn't their fault that they are single but MOST have hoed out their lives, chased men away with bad character, picky, waiting for rich men etc.

When time is running out, they turn to and "angel" just to get a man to marry them and after that, you see the real them.

Lol, your ignorance is outstanding, are you aware it's people who were 'bad' that settles quickly.

Savdal230:
Yes I have. But the older lady I'm currently dating now no get OT. Always telling me to shut up or she will slap me �.... mbok

Lol, okay I actually laughed when I read this... Like, for real?? Lol... I just dey imagine the facial expression wey you go get when she says that

seyz91:
Yes i have and and older lady opened my own eyes sef, she disvirgined me, The Cons of an older lady is always their desire for lifetime comitment(marriage)

that always cut things short as they will crave for giving birth why you as a younger one just looking for a jar to pour your milk in timely

Emola12:
to date a woman older dan u will be like say u dey fesh water inside bascket my advise is dat dont date her oooo

Why?