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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Sixfeetbelle: 7:25pm On Feb 22, 2021
nairalandankrah:

Fine..tit for tat? that your play?

Exactly, boo cheesy
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Feb 22, 2021
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?
You must be in the mind of every men.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by naijadrivablog: 7:29pm On Feb 22, 2021
Nigerian girls are.....

Call one naira lander to complete it

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by lonlytroy(m): 7:29pm On Feb 22, 2021
Woman are after money these days,

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Yankee101: 7:30pm On Feb 22, 2021
All the above

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by PAWG(m): 7:30pm On Feb 22, 2021
My money never complete. I want to marry the girl at our front desk but she doesn't even know. I haven't even told her I like her; we just say 'Hi' to each other for now. Better babe hard to find for Abuja

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Kccheechy(m): 7:30pm On Feb 22, 2021
Men are loosing interest due to some factors.

Women have become so cheap!!! in those days, before a man can enjoy the goodies of a woman, they have to get it through marriage and that was why back then, men were eager to get married. But look at what we have today. Young teens are living couples live in the tetiarry institutions so what's there to look forward to? Sex is soo cheap to get.

Another factor is the moral decadence of our women. Even a wayward man desires to marry a morally upright woman. With all that is going on today in the society, in this age where 17yrs old are going for abortions, being used by ritualists (yahoo boys), damaging their woman hood with all types of drugs to prevent pregnancy during premarital sex, it takes the grace of God to get a woman who will be a blessing to your life as most are walking corpses. You marry them and you begin to experience downfall in your life.

Another factor is the greedy nature of most women.
Most women are not ready to build life from the scratch with young promising men. They are looking for those who are ready-made, they want men who are living the good life already. thereby making themselves to expensive to get.

Another factor is hardship on the side of the man. Most graduates who are at the age to settle down are unemployed. Most are just feeding from hand to mouth. So if they can't even feed themselves comfortably, how would it be for them adding extra mouths to feed?

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by BigYash: 7:31pm On Feb 22, 2021
JOACHINpedro:
For where I Dy so, marriage dy flow wella. Almost all my departmental girls are taken. Every Saturday wedding here and there.
Guy no dy lie unnecessarily. angry
You no know wetin dey happen for the background oga. Not how far o,na how well. No be same marriage people wen dey get sex partners reach 10? Abegee!

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by mattmogan88: 7:31pm On Feb 22, 2021
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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by addexx: 7:31pm On Feb 22, 2021
Bros abeg shift small. We must settle the matter today.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Martinola(m): 7:31pm On Feb 22, 2021
If u ask me?
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Stallion93(m): 7:31pm On Feb 22, 2021
Country is hard
Marriage will only make it Harder
It’s not a mystery, It’s common sense
People are bailing on their blood related families cos of Financial responsibilities, Let alone going to start a family.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by wildikeman(m): 7:31pm On Feb 22, 2021
Because the unhappiness marriage causes is getting too much

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Deicide: 7:31pm On Feb 22, 2021
When I no day craze? And besides most women don't have any qualms becoming baby mama

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Feb 22, 2021
Dammnnnn Mehnnnn!!!!!

This is true, Mate.

I can't believe y'all noticed this damnnn stuffs going on all around...

So dammnnnn true Brooh...

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Cowbell521: 7:32pm On Feb 22, 2021
vikinatius:
The truth is that there is who to marry but the fact is that men seek comfort. (money-igho, ego, ikpego, dinero).
Ma obughi ego, nna, na umu nne. Chefuo ya. Nwanyị enweghị isi

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ksstroud: 7:32pm On Feb 22, 2021
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?

Which men are losing interest in settling down
Talk for yourself alone Biko, when some even wants to have more than one wife....

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by goshen26: 7:32pm On Feb 22, 2021
One of the reason I suspect is that men have sex outside marriage, if it those days that "you won't see my pant except u marry me" days, men are eager to marry

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by PAWG(m): 7:32pm On Feb 22, 2021
Kccheechy:
Men are loosing interest
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Prodigee: 7:32pm On Feb 22, 2021
Marriage na scam as it favours only vagina people.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Omo5ato: 7:32pm On Feb 22, 2021
Here to read comments

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 22, 2021
The possibility say d wife wey single men of today go marry na ex olosho runs babe na 98%.na street girl naim Dem dey convert as wife. On d day of wedding, most of the men don lasham before before go dey present It's a fact. One wey I know like dat near my office. When her husband go out, na so she and her friend go dey talk about their exes dey laff. Women eh.... I shake my head in advance for single men on dis forum

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:


because NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS.
Like you have anything to offer in marriage.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Emeka71(m): 7:33pm On Feb 22, 2021
Settling down is responsibility.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Feb 22, 2021
I dont care if they lose interest, what I know is that I will marry by God's grace.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Goldbw122(m): 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
They are seeing what is going on in marriages that couples involve them self in, so they hear unfortunate situation that happen even when the marriage is very sweet it turn out to be the saddest of saddest, so what do u suggest the people who are hoping to get married do...
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by thatigboman: 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?
marriages go on every weekend and other days all over nigeria. I have 3 to attend this weekend. If u are too broke or irresponsible to get married, speak for yourself. I have IV to attend 2 weddings in your warri this weekend.
Is it that you went to the churches and they say no marriage taking place? Or u went to the registry they say no wedding taking place? Or you went to families, and they say no traditional marriages coming up?

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by moneyissweet(m): 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
I disagree,not for Igbo mens.

E get why having a wife is important in ala igbo.

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