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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
[quote author=Bouz post=99326099] Like you have anything to offer in marriage.[/quote but no mind am]
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by addexx: 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:


because NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS.

Speak for your father

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
Because Many nigeria ladies don't have good mindset, that's Why many guys don't want to settle down for marriage

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by valentineuwakwe(m): 7:34pm On Feb 22, 2021
perhap na only for naija becos everything just dey go left left for this country...


@ 25yrs due to jamb wahala you never enter school
@ 30years due to ASUU strike you never graduate
@ 35yrs you still dey unemployed....
@ 40yrs you won come begin learn skill and think of business wey you go do....

make i stop here, God will help all those preparing to settle down this year!

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by addexx: 7:37pm On Feb 22, 2021
1. Due to our economic environment, the average man is trying to find his feet. Women are a big distraction.

2 The ones that have become stable get confused because of the recent upsurge in slaying and hoeing. So they take their time.

3. Most ladies are impatient. You hardly see any one ready to grow and build with a man. They are few.

4. There's increase in lazy women waiting on the receiving end and not adding value to themselves because of the search for a ready made dream suitor.

5. Personal goals: academic, spiritual, financial, health, travel, business ...etc make us push off marriage to the nearest future.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by kalu61(m): 7:37pm On Feb 22, 2021
Top most is finance.
Most guys with money want to ball small and afraid to cage their lifestyle in marriage.
Few irrespective of anything wants live out of the societal cage like myself.
Some dudes carry alot of family burden( parents and siblingssadSchool)).
Our educational system and culture place a burden on guys settling down very early.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by SpicyMimi(f): 7:37pm On Feb 22, 2021
So who are the people getting married every weekend? Sometimes during the week? You guys just make assumptions to console yourselves! Next thing, you will see them kneeling to propose and uploading pre-wedding pics las las cheesy

Marriage is Divine.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Obasanjoslim: 7:37pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:
NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS....
AFTER LUSTING OVER THE SLAY QUEENS,PROSTITUTES,CLASSY BABE'S THEY COME ONLINE TO SPILL TRASHS...
NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS...

i know you are one of the victim, that didn't see good man to marry..you better leave your father's house or before you're useless

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by femi4: 7:39pm On Feb 22, 2021
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?
Lack of steady income, you don't want to transfer poverty to the next generation

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ibkonekt(m): 7:39pm On Feb 22, 2021
Mosdii has the answer.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by semyman: 7:39pm On Feb 22, 2021
Most women are after your properties especially those from broke homes
Secondly, they are never loyal to hubby but to the pastors or oga at the office

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by FrankAkowe: 7:40pm On Feb 22, 2021
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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by oluwasegun007(m): 7:40pm On Feb 22, 2021
Its Buhari's economy.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ThatFairGuy: 7:40pm On Feb 22, 2021
SmellySperm:

nonetheless, Adam was a real niqqa sha until Eve came thru grin
Your name irritates anytime I see it on NL. Can you deactivate your account please

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by faithfull18(f): 7:40pm On Feb 22, 2021
So, who are those getting married every weekend.
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by TOPCRUISE(m): 7:41pm On Feb 22, 2021
Because women are very selective.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Tangiblehandwork: 7:41pm On Feb 22, 2021
Getting married now is like putting oneself in slavery.






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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by storm001(m): 7:41pm On Feb 22, 2021
chatinent:
My grandfather used to say: nwanyị mara mma bu nganga nke nna ya.

The day they left the traditional title of being called maidens to becoming registered as slay-queen, everything deteriorated. Yes, gbogbo nkan ti bajẹ.

This era of girls understand dating to mean a sex sentence.


Many took to willful prostitution; hunger for money...money to do what? Buy lashes, perfumes...money for nothing!


It's very difficult to see that promising ada bekee again. Abubuwa yanzu sun juye.


Oil dey your brain

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:41pm On Feb 22, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


How do men expect to find genuine women when they themselves can't learn to stay with one woman in a relationship?
You sound bitter, It's a guy that dropped you, one! not all guys. There are good guys. i guess your supposed high tastes has been misleading you.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:41pm On Feb 22, 2021
Are they?

They seem to be in a hurry to marry these days.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by WoundedLamb: 7:42pm On Feb 22, 2021
Cause women aren't allowing them get away with anything these days. You cheat, you're in trouble. cheesy
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Camelo: 7:42pm On Feb 22, 2021
Because sex is cheap now....
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by GOVERNMENT2: 7:42pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:


because NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS.
THIS SMALLIE SEF embarassed
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by KingLawlts: 7:43pm On Feb 22, 2021
Ehn go marry north Korea or Pakistan men na .. make u hear wehn" mumu like you �
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by worldclass68(m): 7:43pm On Feb 22, 2021
Who tell u men don't want to settle down, abi its a must every man must live with a woman (wife) ?.....
Living a good life, got kids, doesn't necessarily someone must be with a wife, after all there re pussy(s) everywhere nowadays, all thanks to u at the same time..........



It's not about money, it's mainly bout peace of mind!!!
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by tunmoj(m): 7:44pm On Feb 22, 2021
MOSDII, where art thou? grin

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by FrankAkowe: 7:44pm On Feb 22, 2021
The reasons why men are not keen about settling down include the following:

1. To avoid heavy financial burden

2. It appears convenient not to settle down.

3. Nigerian ladies and in-laws' wahala can send a man to his early grave.

4. Globally, this is the trend.

5. Ladies' feminist tendencies are discouraging factor

6. What is the assurance that after all the expenses, the woman will be faithful and loyal?

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by ipobarethieves: 7:44pm On Feb 22, 2021
sad Okunrin n kigbe obinrin n kigbe.Olukaluku,lo nkigbe owo.No money.Corntree hard small

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by zedegit: 7:44pm On Feb 22, 2021
Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?

Economy and not seeing a woman that's ready to sacrifice to make it work.


Few men can financially carry the burden alone.

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by gentlesmithugo(m): 7:45pm On Feb 22, 2021
Kccheechy:
Men are loosing interest due to some factors.

Women have become so cheap!!! in those days, before a man can enjoy the goodies of a woman, they have to get it through marriage and that was why back then, men were eager to get married. But look at what we have today. Young teens are living couples live in the tetiarry institutions so what's there to look forward to? Sex is soo cheap to get.

Another factor is the moral decadence of our women. Even a wayward man desires to marry a morally upright woman. With all that is going on today in the society, in this age where 17yrs old are going for abortions, being used by ritualists (yahoo boys), damaging their woman hood with all types of drugs to prevent pregnancy during premarital sex, it takes the grace of God to get a woman who will be a blessing to your life

Another factor is the greedy nature of most women.
Most women are not ready to build life from the scratch with young promising men. They are looking for those who are ready-made, they want men who are living the good life already. thereby making themselves to expensive to get.

Another factor is hardship on the side of the man.
u deserved 1000 likes from me.u hit d nail at the head.u have said it all

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Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Keketu(m): 7:45pm On Feb 22, 2021
fati2001:


thank you

even if he find the genuine woman he go still ask for premarital sex and CHEAT (if she refuse another wahala).. stupid accusations will be bumping up e. g is she cheating on me,she is having sex outside,probably I'm the side nigga, she don't love me because she is not giving me sex.


WHAT A MESS.
hi good morning, please pm me thank
Re: Marriage: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Feb 22, 2021
Sixfeetbelle:


How do men expect to find genuine women when they themselves can't learn to stay with one woman in a relationship?
nwanyi ha,,, zukwanike Na undecided

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