E get one babe way I like well well for my area.
I dey reason to marry her, but then. Am battling with the knowledge that she is a runs girl.

I can't settle with a runs girl... never.

And if I discovered you were once a runs girl after getting married to you... ama divorce you

I attended my sisters wedding at the Ikoyi registry and started laughing

Even the wallpapers in the place are ALL white couples oo

Can you imagine such ludicrity!

BadRadio:
marriage is not for Africans... even the op confirmed it using two white lovely birds

Men want peace.

Do women bring peace?

There is your answer.

There are still reasonable men and women out there but there's just something soul sucking about the whole thing..

because majority of the ladies are scammers.
and most of them {girls) are materialistic.

I'm not going to pay millions in bride price for a militarized feminist. It's like paying for suffering.

Why are ladies turning to Olosho?

The quality of wife material is like a ratio of 1:25 women.

Many guys are ready to go into a union with responsible ladies but the thought of having their children brought up by the kind of women and the experiences/stories that accompany Nigerian ladies today causes hesitation on the part of the men.

Myself, being in that group

Country hard

Guy 1 in 6 babes na runs girl

Even those working in 9-5 outfits oo

And NO I’m not kidding!! I repeat not KIDDING

storm001:
E get one babe way I like well well for my area.
I dey reason to marry her, but then. Am battling with the knowledge that she is a runs girl.

I can't settle with a runs girl... never.

And if I discovered you were once a runs girl after getting married to you... ama divorce you

byinks:
There are still reasonable men and women out there but there's just something soul sucking about the whole thing..

what are you saying? did you read the question?

But seriously if you look at girls nowadays fear go catch you as to who you go marry keep for house. Make you no come die of hypertension seriously

patoski39:
nwanyi ha,,, zukwanike Na

Umu nwoke ga ebuzo zuo ike tupu anyi ebido izuike

Sixfeetbelle:


How do men expect to find genuine women when they themselves can't learn to stay with one woman in a relationship?

African men are entitled to as many women as they want.


It is actually the fault of women that we can't stay in one relationship. sex is now as cheap as snacks.

faithfull18:
So, who are those getting married every weekend.

they are people who collect 500k salary per month

fati2001:


because NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS.

Is ur father useless?

It's mostly lack of money. Think of the money you have to spend on wedding as a man, and then you have to start taking care of a woman and probably her family too. It's a whole lot of responsibility

zedegit:


Economy and not seeing a woman that's ready to sacrifice to make it work.
Few men can financially carry the burden alone.

Jobs difficult to get.
Social media and access to it. People see fantastic lifestyles of foreigners in foreign countries and then set high target for themselves which they cannot meet.

Tonytonex:
what are you saying? did you read the question?

I think I did...lol !

What I'm saying is that some of us gals are equally not too keen these days either.

mezico96:


To me the problem is not really money but a good woman...

There's no bad woman or good woman, woman is just woman. You just need to understand the nature of woman to know how it works.

BadRadio:
men have not finished settling-up, you want them to settle-down... this Op wicked O !

fati2001:


because NIGERIAN MEN ARE USELESS.

including the ejaculator of the sperm that created u

Girls of this generation, their Gold digging rate is alarming, i can't settle for an urgent 2k. that doesn't mean i won't help her, but alot of girls are too dependent. the way these yahoo boys drop girls uselessly on the street of lagos is alarming

Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?

Women stress too much

Bouz:
You sound bitter, It's a guy that dropped you, one! not all guys. There are good guys. i guess your supposed high tastes has been misleading you.

I'm not bitter. I hate hypocritical men. That's all.

All those men that come online to castigate women as if they can't see what their fellow men are doing bring out the dark side of me. No offense.

Warripikine:
Is it just lack of money or is it a case of no virtuous women out there?
You people should tell me ooo, cos ayam not understanding today's men anymore..
Is Marriage now a death sentence or what?

To give an educated response. What is happening is the end result of what women and feminism fought for. I will give a brief of how things got to this point.
(Note when I say women or men I am referring to a large percentage and the majority of that sex which plays a determining factor for when a whole makes a decision based on experience)
1. In the old days' women stayed at home and did women things like cleaning raising kids having sex with their men while the men went out to hunt and fight. Marriage was a trade-off for the woman's survival and the men gets to reproduce.
2. In the mid-era women cried for feminism. In the beginning, they just wanted to vote and have free choice
3. What feminism morphed into was a victim group that seeks entitlement and says they don't need a man that has been responsible for their survival since the beginning of time. Women stopped doing women's things and called that oppression and patriarchy and misogyny. But men were expected to keep providing and maintain chivalry.
4. Women started celebrating wh0redom. They say if a man can sleep around then a woman can too. Well, men are the deciders of who gets married men don't marry wh0res so women lie about their body count.
5. The red pill woke men up and guys saw that marriage is a bad deal for men...divorce court...the woman takes half of your property even if she did nothing...false rape in marriage...refuse to have sex...refuse to take care of home...not submissive...not pretty...masculine....degree that cannot support society...women basically lost all the value that makes them eligible for marriage...the only things women have now is vagina and men are already getting that for free and in excess. So tell me why should a man get married if he realizes this truth that women have become wh0res of Babylon. Also, don't make the "not all women" argument the majority is enough for men to make a generalization and still be correct. Women are not worth marrying they are only good For free sex
6. this is the consequence of the new society that you fought for and brought about, don't complain

uuzba:

Jobs difficult to get.
Social media and access to it. People see fantastic lifestyles of foreigners in foreign countries and then set high target for themselves which they cannot meet.

Is it even parents that want to use the man to open a supermarket

VeeVeeMyLuv:
they are people who collect 500k salary per month

Lol, be deceiving yourself, don't know where you got your statistics from. With the rate, people have been getting married like they were issued an ultimatum.

You better go and get married my friend.

mmsen:
Men want peace.

Do women bring peace?

There is your answer.

you're right. I'm not ready for woman wahala. their wahala too much.

justosee:
African men are entitled to as many women as they want.


It is actually the fault of women that we can't stay in one relationship. sex is now as cheap as snacks.

Like I told the last guy, pass me with the hypocritical, misogynistic-infested bullcrap

next time say why nigerian men are loosing interest in septic tank naija olosho women.
we are settling down with foreigners