It's been 3 months now but the feelings refused to wear off. Every attempt for distraction and positive mindedness plus deleting and blocking from all social media avenues all proved abortive.

I have observed that there is a Degree to feelings. Going to another state, sightseeing, swimming, gym, sports, movies, interactions with the opposite sex not necessarily having intimacy still did not change anything. Took a week of therapy and didn't remember him for a second. But after all said and done, here we are back to square one.

Days back,, absent mindedly stumbled upon a picture of his I never knew was there, guess what? My heart jumped into my stomach and kept beating faster, I deleted it immediately.

If there is any other thing I can do to get over this, I will do. Its really a torture and invasion in my peace if mind. Wondering if its possible to sue him for emotional unrest. I am already exhausted.

I always say Dix, U guys shud stop loving wt ur hearts, always use ur head. abeg no kill your self oo. continue trying you ll get over it. I wish U d Bex dear

Lol, if there's such thing then half of the world population would have been in jail.

You first need to let me know what you missed about him most, then I'll guide you on how to get over him.

chocolateme:
It's been 3 months now but the feelings refused to wear off. Every attempt for distraction and positive mindedness plus deleting and blocking from all social media avenues all proved abortive.

I have observed that there is a Degree to feelings. Going to another state, sightseeing, swimming, gym, sports, movies, interactions with the opposite sex not necessarily having intimacy still did not change anything. Took a week of therapy and didn't remember him for a second. But after all said and done, here we are back to square one.

Days back,, absent mindedly stumbled upon a picture of his I never knew was there, guess what? My heart jumped into my stomach and kept beating faster, I deleted it immediately.

If there is any other thing I can do to get over this, I will do. Its really a torture and invasion in my peace if mind. Wondering if its possible to sue him for emotional unrest. I am already exhausted.

Speak with someone about it alot you’d get over it, don’t bottle up your emotions.

However, can u share what caused the heartbreak or what his excuses were?

Offpoint1:
Lol, if there's such thing then half of the world population would have been in jail.

You first need to let me know what you missed about him most, then I'll guide you on how to get over him.

2 things actually...
His parents bred him thoroughly, he is too responsible, he cautions me the same way my dad would do and later call me to talk and reason with me on the need to be firm in his actions.
Secondly.. his smiles. he can actually be staring at me without saying anything for up to a minute, then suddenly, he will beam up that breathtaking reassuring smiles. Thanks

instinct57vm:


Speak with someone about it alot you’d get over it, don’t bottle up your emotions.

However, can u share what caused the heartbreak or what his excuses were?

it was not really a heartbreak, it was a mutual decision to part ways.. said he wants to be sure to know what he really wants while I do the same. Maybe to really ascertain if eventually we are going to end up together, to be sure it's not infatuation and all that exhaberances. It seems we were choking each other. We kinda needed a break. It's not because of any woman or man. But it was a crazy decision. I am already exhausted

chocolateme:
it was not really a heartbreak, it was a mutual decision to part ways.. said he wants to be sure to know what he really wants while I do the same. Maybe to really ascertain if eventually we are going to end up together, to be sure it's not infatuation and all that exhaberances. It seems we were choking each other. We kinda needed a break. It's not because of any woman or man. But it was a crazy decision. I am already exhausted

I don’t mean to hurt u more but when a guy or lady says this, simply means they don’t want the relationship again and that’s their own way of saying it. Just move on, nothing helps to move on except TIME to be candid. Was he ur first bf? how long did u guys date?

instinct57vm:


I don’t mean to hurt u more but when a guy or lady says this, simply means they don’t want the relationship again and that’s their own way of saying it. Just move on, nothing helps to move on except TIME to be candid. Was he ur first bf? how long did u guys date?

I initiated it actually because he was too good to be true.. 7 months

Boyz don break person heart

ShackWes:
Boyz don break person heart

gals dey break person ribs

NO

chocolateme:
I initiated it actually because he was too good to be true.. 7 months

You meant you initiated the relationship or breakup?

instinct57vm:


You meant you initiated the relationship or breakup?

the breakup, it was moving too fast..

chocolateme:
the breakup, it was moving too fast..

Moving too fast at 7months? Hmmm
If that’s the case then you can’t be sad. I meant since u initiated it.

yes

chocolateme:
It's been 3 months now but the feelings refused to wear off. Every attempt for distraction and positive mindedness plus deleting and blocking from all social media avenues all proved abortive.

I have observed that there is a Degree to feelings. Going to another state, sightseeing, swimming, gym, sports, movies, interactions with the opposite sex not necessarily having intimacy still did not change anything. Took a week of therapy and didn't remember him for a second. But after all said and done, here we are back to square one.

Days back,, absent mindedly stumbled upon a picture of his I never knew was there, guess what? My heart jumped into my stomach and kept beating faster, I deleted it immediately.

If there is any other thing I can do to get over this, I will do. Its really a torture and invasion in my peace if mind. Wondering if its possible to sue him for emotional unrest. I am already exhausted.

chocolateme:
the breakup, it was moving too fast..

If you initiated the break up and want to sue for emotional turmoil, then be ready to part ways with your money as well.


My ex also initiated break up and she was surprised I will encourage it. I am sure she is going through the same emotions due to her body language. I am glad we broke up as I now have better peace and progress.

Fear God.

chocolateme:
2 things actually...
His parents bred him thoroughly, he is too responsible, he cautions me the same way my dad would do and later call me to talk and reason with me on the need to be firm in his actions.
Secondly.. his smiles. he can actually be staring at me without saying anything for up to a minute, then suddenly, he will beam up that breathtaking reassuring smiles. Thanks

Good! We are going somewhere.
Question 2: Who initiated the break up? You or him?

Nawa o

I rushed to check your profile and I remembered it’s you

You don tey for nairaland oo

Love come make you avoid us since

Well... call him and talk to him

Na pride de kill you

Don't think of the good times, always think of the bad times you had with him, with that you will be able to 4get him on time

Talk to some1 and cry very well if you need to cry but never bottled up your emotions because you can explode or it consumed you ultimately!

I can be of help dough if you don't mind.

Peace!

chocolateme:
It's been 3 months now but the feelings refused to wear off. Every attempt for distraction and positive mindedness plus deleting and blocking from all social media avenues all proved abortive.

I have observed that there is a Degree to feelings. Going to another state, sightseeing, swimming, gym, sports, movies, interactions with the opposite sex not necessarily having intimacy still did not change anything. Took a week of therapy and didn't remember him for a second. But after all said and done, here we are back to square one.

Days back,, absent mindedly stumbled upon a picture of his I never knew was there, guess what? My heart jumped into my stomach and kept beating faster, I deleted it immediately.

If there is any other thing I can do to get over this, I will do. Its really a torture and invasion in my peace if mind. Wondering if its possible to sue him for emotional unrest. I am already exhausted.

chocolateme:
It's been 3 months now but the feelings refused to wear off. Every attempt for distraction and positive mindedness plus deleting and blocking from all social media avenues all proved abortive.

I have observed that there is a Degree to feelings. Going to another state, sightseeing, swimming, gym, sports, movies, interactions with the opposite sex not necessarily having intimacy still did not change anything. Took a week of therapy and didn't remember him for a second. But after all said and done, here we are back to square one.

Days back,, absent mindedly stumbled upon a picture of his I never knew was there, guess what? My heart jumped into my stomach and kept beating faster, I deleted it immediately.

If there is any other thing I can do to get over this, I will do. Its really a torture and invasion in my peace if mind. Wondering if its possible to sue him for emotional unrest. I am already exhausted.

File your case against him and let's see how it goes...

I also have someone to sue

Meanwhile, The only remedy is time, yes time, forget therapy and others,It won't change a thing,

Pricelessruby:
Don't think of the good times, always think of the bad times you had with him, with that you will be able to 4get him on time

Have you ever been in love?

Not the audio love we see this days oo

chocolateme:
the breakup, it was moving too fast..

what do you girls really want sef,you broke up because it was moving too fast,if it's moving slow na problem now everything is going well you broke up.Naija girls na problem

Yes I was but not anymore, cause is waste of time

mezico96:


Have you ever been in love?

Not the audio love we see this days oo

Pricelessruby:
Yes I was but not anymore, cause is waste of time

its well. abuja people don show u pepper ba?

chocolateme:
I initiated it actually because he was too good to be true.. 7 months

I think you needed to start talking to him on phone if you guys actually decided to keep some distance in order to know the originality of the love. I think your decision to have some break is necessary cus many relationships started like that of fish/cold water but ended like that of fish/hot water as a result of zero check and balance. Every engagements/relationships requires evaluations for validation but blindness/lust and bad emotions clouded people from thinking in that direction.
I think you guys needs to review the way you have being handling d situation; maybe you change it to 3time calls a week and 1 meeting in an open place(restaurant).

Abuja people can not show me pepper, relationship is not a do or die affairs, if you are not happy in it, then way away

JONSYN7154:
its well. abuja people don show u pepper ba?

Pricelessruby:
Abuja people can not show me pepper, relationship is not a do or die affairs, if you are not happy in it, then way away

Lolo, we no dey fight. na question I ask.

How many men have sued you for breaking their hearts or have you not cheated on or dumped a man before? How many men have you chopped mugu and how many of them took you to court? Vagina people will never take half of what they do to men. Ngwanu go to national assembly and tell them to enact law on heartbreak for you to sue your ex boyfriend. Nonsense

I am not, just stating the facts

JONSYN7154:
Lolo, we no dey fight. na question I ask.