Pricelessruby:
Yes I was but not anymore, cause is waste of time

My kind of woman. Love is a waste of time if everyone is sincere like this lady. We are all in relationships for something and when that thing disappears, the relationship takes a nosedive like a crashing aircraft.

Pricelessruby:
I am not, just stating the facts

no vex. if you're hurt from my comment am sincerely sorry.

which part of abuja are you?

Pricelessruby:
Yes I was but not anymore, cause is waste of time

how is it a waste of time ??
In all fairness You should give love another chance
A dude like me will make you feel so special

Nothing to say

tillaman:
how is it a waste of time ??
In all fairness You should give love another chance
A dude like me will make you feel so special

Homeboiy:
I rushed to check your profile and I remembered it’s you

You don tey for nairaland oo

Love come make you avoid us since

Well... call him and talk to him

Na pride de kill you

lol.. I don't know how to do that, it will look like I am desperate for him.
He told me that it's not necessary blocking each other since we did not have any problem. So I see him all the time, I always go to check him online

adexpa:


I think you needed to start talking to him on phone if you guys actually decided to keep some distance in order to know the originality of the love. I think your decision to have some break is necessary cus many relationships started like that of fish/cold water but ended like that of fish/hot water as a result of zero check and balance. Every engagements/relationships requires evaluations for validation but blindness/lust and bad emotions clouded people from thinking in that direction.
I think you guys needs to review the way you have being handling d situation; maybe you change it to 3time calls a week and 1 meeting in an open place(restaurant).

wow!

Nonexistent:
How many men have sued you for breaking their hearts or have you not cheated on or dumped a man before? How many men have you chopped mugu and how many of them took you to court? Vagina people will never take half of what they do to men. Ngwanu go to national assembly and tell them to enact law on heartbreak for you to sue your ex boyfriend. Nonsense

lmao.. my dear calm down, from the comments here, one can deduce that it is not literal court case we are talking about here, it's just a matter of the heart. Were you expecting me to tell court judge what? Then he will be sentenced to what... lol.
I really appreciate the level of matured minds on this particular posts unlike most shenanigans people always bring to most posts. Thanks dear

chocolateme:
lol.. I don't know how to do that, it will look like I am desperate for him.
He told me that it's not necessary blocking each other since we did not have any problem. So I see him all the time, I always go to check him online

Close your eyes and message him


Just a hello


Since you initiated the breakup

You have to initiate the makeup

Pricelessruby:
Nothing to say

seriously why do you think love is a waste of time ??

chocolateme:
lmao.. my dear calm down, from the comments here, one can deduce that it is not literal court case we are talking about here, it's just a matter of the heart. Were you expecting me to tell court judge what? Then he will be sentenced to what... lol.
I really appreciate the level of matured minds on this particular posts unlike most shenanigans people always bring to most posts. Thanks dear

You gambled, Maybe you don't realize it.

Just have this in mind, you are not the only one here sees everyday.
If like you said he is well bred, then it's likely you were the only one that had his attention, maybe he may have committed to you only.
But now you have given him a clean slate to look at other options, and he may find one that's even better.
Chances are he may filled the void you CREATED, and I don't think he will even be the one restart to the relationship.

Next time, when it's not broken don't try to fix it.

Pricelessruby:
Yes I was but not anymore, cause is waste of time

Though I don't really know your story but from the way you speak, U were sitting on fence in case there's any disappointment or you never loved him for who he is.

Nobody move on from such situations, you see someone commit suicide after heartI break and we begin to judge, not knowing how mentally it has affected the victim.

I remember when I was younger, I fell in love with a lady and after some years she told me that she can't continue with me cos we are not of same tribe.

It really affected me, I couldn't eat nor play my football

Its been almost 9-10 Years now but my heart still beat for her.

Crazy things happen. You'll get over him with time but therapy won't help. It only calm the situation for a while and like you said evolves after some time.

My advice is talk to a trusted person, a lady preferable cos many guys may want to use it against you since you're emotionally vulnerable as it stands.

Stay away from where it'll be a threat to your emotions if you remember him or whatever memories you both share. But know this, emotions don't die; they live inside you but can be controlled with TIME

Homeboiy:





Close your eyes and message him


Just a hello


Since you initiated the breakup

You have to initiate the makeup

that's huge... but now I suddenly feel bold.. I will try. phew!! Its not easy for one to really understand this affairs of the heart. Sometimes, when I think of the future, I get so scared like, how can I do it right. I always wonder like in the next 100 years, I may not be here again in this world.. it's well. Let's make the best out of life shaa. I will do as you advised. Thanks again. I am someone that believes in dating one person forever. I am strong. I will do as you say.

chocolateme:
that's huge... but now I suddenly feel bold.. I will try. phew!! Its not easy for one to really understand this affairs of the heart. Sometimes, when I think of the future, I get so scared like, how can I do it right. I always wonder like in the next 100 years, I may not be here again in this world.. it's well. Let's make the best out of life shaa. I will do as you advised. Thanks again. I am someone that believes in dating one person forever. I am strong. I will do as you say.

Cool

Just try and text him

pryme:


You gambled, Maybe you don't realize it.

Just have this in mind, you are not the only one here sees everyday.
If like you said he is well bred, then it's likely you were the only one that had his attention, maybe he may have committed to you only.
But now you have given him a clean slate to look at other options, and he may find one that's even better.
Chances are he may filled the void you CREATED, and I don't think he will even be the one restart to the relationship.

Next time, when it's not broken don't try to fix it.

you just created a mental picture of what I was reasoning before this decision. If by now, he is gone to another, then it's ok. Atleast I am able to understand and learn from it reason it's just a few months stuff. Self control is key. I see other people too. If we are countries apart tomorrow for one reason or the other, it will help. Thanks

Like you said, you don't know my story and I am not willing to talk about it, it's a different ball game if I am the one at fault in a relationship, even if I am the one at fault, once you say it over, I will do anything possible to move on, it is never easy in the first month, but once I can stay without you from 3 months then that is the end,

mezico96:


Though I don't really know your story but from the way you speak, U were sitting on fence in case of this appointment or you never loved him for who he is.

Nobody move on from such situations, you see someone commit suicide after heartI break and we begin to judge, not knowing how mentally it has affected the victim.

I remember when I was younger, I fell in love with a lady and after some years she told me that she can't continue with me cos we are not of same tribe.

It really affected me, I couldn't eat nor play my football

Its been almost 9-10 Years now but my heart still beat for her.

It a waste of time because I will end up investing my time, energy and sometimes money, (which I know that I am not stingy) and at the end of the day, I will end up heartbroken, so tell me, is it not a waste of time?

tillaman:
seriously why do you think love is a waste of time ??

Pricelessruby:
It a waste of time because I will end up investing my time, energy and sometimes money, (which I know that I am not stingy) and at the end of the day, I will end up heartbroken, so tell me, is it not a waste of time?

well for a fact I know you have your reasons and I respect that but permit me to tell you that you are not entirely right, you shouldn’t judge all of us because of 1 person’s misdeed
A dude like me will make you feel like the only lady in the world
I can’t fall in love with 100 women but I can make 99 women jealous of 1 woman

Pricelessruby:
It a waste of time because I will end up investing my time, energy and sometimes money, (which I know that I am not stingy) and at the end of the day, I will end up heartbroken, so tell me, is it not a waste of time?

At some point you will have to take a risk.

I am very scared, hate to experience that feelings of heartbreak

pryme:


At some point you will have to take a risk.

Pricelessruby:
I am very scared, hate to experience that feelings of heartbreak

I can't blame you for this, this world is a terrible place.
When I hear the plans and discussion guys have for ladies, I just feel we should not complain when women also do terrible too things because we are just as bad.

But more often than not, the ones that are good are also cut and stabbed because they are mistaken for the bad ones.

Men are easy to read when you can discern their INTENT.
My only advice is don't over think things like the Op has done here, follow your instincts.

Ok thanks

pryme:


I can't blame you for this, this world is a terrible place.
When I hear the plans and discussion guys have for ladies, I just feel we should not complain when women also do terrible too things because we are just as bad.

But more often than not, the ones that are good are also cut and stabbed because they are mistaken for the bad ones.

Men are easy to read when you can discern their INTENT.
My only advice is don't over think things like the Op has done here, follow your instincts.

mezico96:


Though I don't really know your story but from the way you speak, U were sitting on fence in case there's any disappointment or you never loved him for who he is.

Nobody move on from such situations, you see someone commit suicide after heartI break and we begin to judge, not knowing how mentally it has affected the victim.

I remember when I was younger, I fell in love with a lady and after some years she told me that she can't continue with me cos we are not of same tribe.

It really affected me, I couldn't eat nor play my football

Its been almost 9-10 Years now but my heart still beat for her.

oh my God!! Years later, you still feel for her.. that is exactly how I feel right now only a slight difference.

chocolateme:
oh my God!! Years later, you still feel for her.. that is exactly how I feel right now only a slight difference.

Of course am not going crazy for her anymore but I feel like talking all day with her.

I just control myself and most times I try to form ''BUSY" in other to hide my excitement.

Since I can't change a thing I just have to leave with it

mezico96:


Of course am not going crazy for her anymore but I feel like talking all day with her.

I just control myself and most times I try to form ''BUSY" in other to hide my excitement.

Since I can't change a thing I just have to leave with it

eyaa

chocolateme:
I initiated it actually because he was too good to be true.. 7 months

LOL.. I laughed out loud here . You sound funny. you must be in real life.
If this is true, then the emotional turmoil is from your part nah. He should be the one complaining expect there's something he did you are not telling.

LOL

Homeboiy:
I rushed to check your profile and I remembered it’s you

You don tey for nairaland oo

Love come make you avoid us since

Well... call him and talk to him

Na pride de kill you

Pride is the devil - J Cole.