Danhoys:


If my son comes out as gay, he will have my full support. Possibly, ensure he leave this country to a better clime.

Gay or straight, he's too young to be focused on porn.

He should focus on his studies. So far, everything is great and we talked to him about the dangers.

We move!

Surprised! I think u love pussiy secretly or u have been lesbian before. with regard to your son you're right

Danhoys:


I'm also thinking of temporarily suspending him from using the phone, at least three days.

free the guy he is a teen and a guy he has lots of sexual energy and nowhere to channel it to, if you take his phone trust me he would get that porn elsewhere either by sleeping with someone for real, no matter what you do you can't stop this you are an adult and you know men and sex are like 5and 6 just accept facts that that your cute baby boy is now a grown man and you are a lady and the worse person that should give him advise right now if he was a girl he would be ok but he is a guy

Danhoys:


What of a case where the father is incapable to offer such support, what should the mother do?

Then do you have a bro or any grown up guy in your life or a male friend he can talk to, let me tell you I have been in this same situation with my mom and talking about sex to your mom is a big no, no guy can take the embarrassment, it's better for him to talk it out with a guy

oxiide22:
Surprised! I think u love pussiy secretly or u have been lesbian before. with regard to your son you're right

I'm liberal, educated, and exposed. Perhaps when you do more reading and traveling, you'll know better.

I mustn't be a lesbian to support human rights. If I was by any chance a lesbian, I wouldn't marry a man but rather look for a way to leave the country to a better clime.

Aunty you’re younger than your 28 year old cousin but you have a 17 year old son. Are you mentally ill?

Danhoys:


I'm liberal, educated, and exposed. Perhaps when you do more reading and traveling, you'll know better.

I mustn't be a lesbian to support human rights. If I was by any chance a lesbian, I wouldn't marry a man but rather look for a way to leave the country to a better clime.

Danhoys:


He's not 18 yet, so going through a device I bought for him shouldn't be a taboo.

he is a Male and you might want to give him some privacy, highlights the issue with him and hear what he thinks about sex,the truth is at 17 he is not too young to fantasize about sex ,so its really no big deal.and the the heck is his dad anyways cos that's his job

dollytino4real:
remove that phone from him far b4 he starts practicing anything he sees there with his sisters, buy him a smaller phone to make n receive calls from u and to u,

you're a degenerate,listen to the nonsense you're chiming out.

KingTayo37:
Woman,better advise that boy so he don't end up like me,i was 15 when my parents knew i was addicted to porn and they did nothing about it,no advise no nothing,they only seized my laptop,which did.nt help at all,and till date am still fighting with it,please any one who can help,it would be appreciated

don't project your situations on an innocent boy,you're addicted because you're a weakling, I started watching porn around your age and I'm a full grown man now and I still jerk off to porn but I can stop for days or weeks if I don't feel like it,mind over matter.
take charge of yourself

Discombulator:

you're a degenerate,listen to the nonsense you're chiming out.

who be dis Jupiter n.a.?

LadyGCrueDKilaB:
Aunty you’re younger than your 28 year old cousin but you have a 17 year old son. Are you mentally ill?

I wonder y u've to be so crude, like ur moniker implies. U faggy fvck.

Discombulator:

you're a degenerate,listen to the nonsense you're chiming out.

She really is. The nonsense she wrote almost had me vomiting..

Let him quench his boyish thirst.

I first watched porn at 12 or thereabouts with smuggled dvds in friends' houses. Within a few weeks I was already bored and was only doing it in order to analyse the technical details of insertion, and how painful it could be. I remember one pressing argument about whether a woman will get filled up if a man could urinate during intercourse, and other such debates of teen world-shaking importance. By the time I was 13 it was not even worth the bicycle ride to my friend's house and I had no interest whatsoever anyway. Since then, I haven't even watched porn at all; besides the occasional advert preview that comes up occasionally on my screen, or the more sleazy parts of a movie I'm already watching. It does absolutely nothing for me. Leave him alone, he'll stop eventually. If you try to stop him, he'll only learn to do it secretly. Let him know that you know he's doing it, but you are nonchalant about it. Or better still, let his father handle it. Women can be unnecessarily strident sometimes.

By the way, you can't possibly have a 17 year old son unless you had him when you were 10. Is he your relative? Or is this a copied article?

Danhoys:


I'm liberal, educated, and exposed. Perhaps when you do more reading and traveling, you'll know better.

I mustn't be a lesbian to support human rights. If I was by any chance a lesbian, I wouldn't marry a man but rather look for a way to leave the country to a better clime.

okay good, I now understand your point. you gonna be nice to be with

paul100:

Taking his phone will not do anything.Maybe a year from now,he will be in the university and you will never know what he is doing with his phone.Just tell him that porn can affect the brain,it also kills your spiritual life,masturbation can occur(Once he try this one,Hmmmm,it will take the grace of God and so much discipline measures to stop it)also STD and other diseases.
One more thing,watch porn will increase his sexual urge to try what he is seeing and that is not good(remember some girls are demon possessed.I know some guys here will attack me for this talk)
I was 9 years when I watch porn in my uncle house(I saw pirates of something and I thought it will pirates of the carribean but the teaching from the bible and what i hear in church made me abstain from it and sex,also pray for him.

lol. so you remember that film that year pirates, I didnt watch it though but it was so sexually alluring ur a real nigga to remember it

Danhoys:


I know the husband I married, he wouldn't be able to handle this sensitive subject properly.

Despite my immense knowledge in human psychology and behavior, I still came here looking for inputs.

Dealing with teens is complicated, and I want to make sure I don't say the wrong words, or do the wrong things.

Thanks for your input so far.

I commend your level of maturity, you actually handled most annoying comments with care.
I only want to comment on the issue of his father, I want to ask if your conclusions on his dad are not a mere assumption cus you might be surprise his dad will handle it well if he is involved, male children sees their fathers more superior to their mum n they believe their fathers will know better since they are of the same species,
Do not go to the pitch where he trains, he will not like it n besides his coach might address him wrongly later on. Be civil about it and not take it overboard

dollytino4real:
who be dis Jupiter n.a.?

only a degenerate and inbred could think like you, I'm sure you had sex with your siblings while growing up if not you wouldn't be chunking out horseshit

Op that your son's deek must be tired from over masturbation by now. Infact his semen is finished thanks to mia khalifa and co

Discombulator:

only a degenerate and inbred could think like you, I'm sure you had sex with your siblings while growing up if not you wouldn't be chunking out horseshit

na I know ur type! silent no reply is d cure to ur clean new crase