Insecure nairaland guys will come here and start displaying macho stupidity

RisenPhoenix1:


Waiting for miracles comes from the workings of deluded minds in lazy bodies.

I agree with you that a husband should not argue with his wife in public, but that type of sympathy is not a miracle, it's seduction. And I cannot imagine the low depth of a man's self esteem that will make him watch his wife accepting money from another man and consider it a miracle. That's how women reason, not men.

If you pray for miracles in your Church, then don't complain,if you don't then it's okay to talk this way.
Because praying for miracles is simply believing in something that has high notes of not following logic.
The ego is what is bruised here,seduction could be left out tactically by accepting the money and rejecting the number without being angry about it,but like I said the African man is never complete without his pride and ego,I'm very sure if it was Pastor Adeboye that handed her the money your reaction will be different...
Like yo!
You'll divorce her cause you've just been 500k richer is a bit insensitive to me,it only shows the level of sentiment you have and less of being practical.
If you could ignore 500k help,why did you yell at 350k?
Simple logic,simple reasoning, when we get to put sentiments behind us,we will be better
If I'm the Wife,first my Husband should know financial stuffs shouldn't come with heavy sentiments cause that's the way I am.
And he'll be less insecure about the aftermath cause he should know what I'd be capable of,cause story story,I'm collecting that money,buying you another Phone of #350k,and collecting the one in your hand or selling it like that and pocketing the #150k
Simple,no stress
Even Dangote and Otedola won't reject extra money to their money

Lucrativress:

... praying for miracles is simply believing in something that has high notes of not following logic.

The only part I agree with 100%. Miracles are illogical. As I said, only deluded minds in lazy bodies rely on miracles. Everything else you wrote there is the materialistic outburst of a not very moral woman. Any woman who sees nothing wrong in taking money from a man not her husband or father, will definitely open her legs as long as the price is right; and has likely been doing so in the past.

RisenPhoenix1:


Waiting for miracles comes from the workings of deluded minds in lazy bodies.

I agree with you that a husband should not argue with his wife in public, but that type of sympathy is not a miracle, it's seduction. And I cannot imagine the low depth of a man's self esteem that will make him watch his wife accepting money from another man and consider it a miracle. That's how women reason, not men.

This is where we stop seeing things cause we view things from one angle,one dimension, no benefit of doubt's
"Not a Miracle,it's seduction"
Are you reading the man's mind?
What if it's sheer empathy?
Let me rush and give a scenario
I was at the Market this year,waiting to collect something and an elderly woman Hawking bottled water and drinks was selling to another elderly woman close to me,while she wanted to drop the water,her table water dropped and it got bursted,it was entirely none of my business, I just happened to be there at the time,the other woman she was selling to blamed her for not being careful and something in me kept nudging me to pay for the water's wasted.
Right there I did that, not cause of anything, never to make any point but I felt so sympathetic, like I just had to do something to help the situation, either of those women could have felt insulted cause I'm way younger,Sir it came out from a crude depth of empathy nothing more,nothing less,not to show off or anything.
The Hawker just felt moved,I know her not from Adams,it's not a Miracle but just making a situation amendable

RisenPhoenix1:


The only part I agree with 100%. Miracles are illogical. As I said, only deluded minds in lazy bodies rely on miracles. Everything else you wrote there is the materialistic outburst of a not very moral woman. Any woman who sees nothing wrong in taking money from a man not her husband or father, will definitely open her legs as long as the price is right; and has likely been doing so in the past.

Read what you've just written and tell me it's not void of logical reasoning, you didn't put scenario's but made it exceptional
Be less sentimental Sir

How do you guys even come with these useless scenarios??

Lucrativress:

This is where we stop seeing things cause we view things from one angle,one dimension, no benefit of doubt's
"Not a Miracle,it's seduction"
Are you reading the man's mind?
What if it's sheer empathy?
Let me rush and give a scenario
I was at the Market this year,waiting to collect something and an elderly woman Hawking bottled water and drinks was selling to another elderly woman close to me,while she wanted to drop the water,her table water dropped and it got bursted,it was entirely none of my business, I just happened to be there at the time,the other woman she was selling to blamed her for not being careful and something in me kept nudging me to pay for the water's wasted.
Right there I did that, not cause of anything, never to make any point but I felt so sympathetic, like I just had to do something to help the situation, either of those women could have felt insulted cause I'm way younger,Sir it came out from a crude depth of empathy nothing more,nothing less,not to show off or anything.
The Hawker just felt moved,I know her not from Adams,it's not a Miracle but just making a situation amendable

You won't understand. No woman can. Women see right and wrong not objectively, but from the perspective of what benefits they derive. And it is only after deciding that something is beneficial and in line with their desires that the set out to justify it by providing illogical analogies and unrelated examples. From any man's perspective, you're not making any sense; sorry.

RisenPhoenix1:


The only part I agree with 100%. Miracles are illogical. As I said, only deluded minds in lazy bodies rely on miracles. Everything else you wrote there is the materialistic outburst of a not very moral woman. Any woman who sees nothing wrong in taking money from a man not her husband or father, will definitely open her legs as long as the price is right; and has likely been doing so in the past.

Any woman
I can vouch 100% for myself and Sir,I'll collect money not only from any man but even younger men and I'd not "open my legs bla bla"
Cause scenario's scenario's are different
Stop this way of thinking
If I have business with you or you're moved by empathy to help me in anyway shior I'll collect your money with a "don't dream note" that I'll open leg's
I'm just really surprised about your generalization
What happened to oh thsnk you very much Sir,the #500k will go a long way and we won't be needing more,ah you've done more than a enough and stylishly reject thr number

JustCruise:
How do you guys even come with these useless scenarios??

Cause scenario's are situations and some are not far from happening
Just like most Nigerian films are cooked up by real fictions

Lucrativress:

Read what you've just wrote and tell me it's not void of logical reasoning, you didn't put scenario's but made it exceptional
Be less sentimental Sir

There is no need for scenarios, and there is no sentiment in it. Women should not take money from a man they are not ready to sleep with, no matter how much her natural inclination to material gain pushes her. It's very simple.

There is nothing like a free lunch.

RisenPhoenix1:


You won't understand. No woman can. Women see right and wrong not objectively, but from the perspective of what benefits they derive. And it is only after deciding that something is beneficial and in line with their desires that the set out to justify it by providing illogical analogies and unrelated examples. From any man's perspective, you're not making any sense; sorry.

You know you are synonymous to generalisation and that's where you're going wrong
"No woman can"
"From any man's perspective"
It will shock you that as long as we still have bad reasonings, we'll forever have good reasonings
Giving way to only negative reasonings will only rid the World of any good that can happen
And it'll never happen cause life itself is a culmination of good and bad
So Sir,as much women will take it the negative way,there are some that will take it the positive way,same goes to the men
Never think you can judge people just through your lenses

RisenPhoenix1:


There is no need for scenarios, and there is no sentiment in it. Women should not take money from a man they are not ready to sleep with, no matter how much her natural inclination to material gain pushes her. It's very simple.

There is nothing like a free lunch.

I'm being practical here and using myself as an example
I'm taking money from men and I'm sleeping with none.
Stop generalising,it only shows you being soo sentimental

Lucrativress:

You know you are synonymous to generalisation and that's where you're going wrong
"No woman can"
"From any man's perspective"
It will shock you that as long as we still have bad reasonings, we'll forever have good reasonings
Giving way to only negative reasonings will only rid the World of any good that can happen
And it'll never happen cause life itself is a culmination of good and bad
So Sir,as much women will take it the negative way,there are some that will take it the positive way,same goes to the men
Never think you can judge people just through your lenses

Millions of years of evolution prove you wrong, but I will not waste time going into detail. As sure as men have male organs and women have female organs, each respective sex also comes with specific traits and behavioural characteristics that are distinct and predictable. When those 'some' that you speak of are so few as to be statistically insignificant, it is well within established norms to make generalisations concerning the whole. So while some men may have had their male organs cut off in accidents, and some were born with undeveloped male organs, my first generalisation; that men have male organs; is a generalisation that can still be said to hold true. So my lenses are irrelevant to this issue.

Lucrativress
Cause scenario's are situations and some are not far from happening
Just like most Nigerian films are cooked up by real fictions.


Situations you say? Which man in his right mind would disrespect a fellow man in public? I really find this situation hard to believe but if it happens ,I'll slap that stupidity out of the foolish man's eyes first before calling it quit with the woman. They deserve to wallow in the stupidity together.

Lucrativress:

I'm being practical here and using myself as an example
I'm taking money from men and I'm sleeping with none.
Stop generalising,it only shows you being soo sentimental

This does not in any way disprove the sexual intentions of those men who give you money. If you really think that they give you money out of pure altruism, then you're extremely naive. Of course, propriety would probably not permit you to admit that you are aware of their intentions; and like I said, women often lie to themselves to justify their actions taken in fulfilment of their baser desires.

Yeye girls everywhere...

RisenPhoenix1:


Millions of years of evolution prove you wrong, but I will not waste time going into detail. As sure as men have male organs and women have female organs, each respective sex also comes with specific traits and behavioural characteristics that are distinct and predictable. When those 'some' that you speak of are so few as to be statistically insignificant, it is well within established norms to make generalisations concerning the whole. So while some men may have had their male organs cut off in accidents, and some were born with undeveloped male organs, my first generalisation; that men have male organs; is a generalisation that can still be said to hold true. So my lenses are irrelevant to this issue.

Goshhh I'm laughing right now
Should we prove this your thesis wrong now
Like should we
I'm in and we can place a bet
In an empathetic move,send funds to 3 women I'll send you their numbers and see if they'll feel it okay to "open their leg's" in appreciation
Me included
You'll just dream on...
And I can vouch for about 2 Yoruba married men I know of,let's play this same scenario with them,without their knowledge, with your money of course,if they let pride go before them and reason irrationally, I'll pay you a certain amount of money,if they prove you wrong,they're staying with the money and trust I'd get my money,in fact we can make it happen in the midst of a thousand people.

RisenPhoenix1:


This does not in any way disprove the sexual intentions of those men who give you money. If you really think that they give you money out of pure altruism, then you're extremely naive. Of course, propriety would probably not permit you to admit that you are aware of their intentions; and like I said, women often lie to themselves to justify their actions taken in fulfilment of their baser desires.

Scenarios Sir scenario's
I run a business about 90% of my Client's are Male's
And I'm surrounded with a close circle of logically thinking elderly men not the ones that are moved by sensual gratifications

JustCruise:
Lucrativress
Cause scenario's are situations and some are not far from happening
Just like most Nigerian films are cooked up by real fictions.


Situations you say? Which man in his right mind would disrespect a fellow man in public? I really find this situation hard to believe but if it happens ,I'll slap that stupidity out of the foolish man's eyes first before calling it quit with the woman. They deserve to wallow in the stupidity together.

Iyama
What is disrespect there?
He could be doing it to spite you
He could be doing it to amend the situation
He could be doing it for any other reason
If you've only chosen to flow with option 1 and 3 then you should check yourself cause you have a problem.
One void of logic

RisenPhoenix1:


Millions of years of evolution prove you wrong, but I will not waste time going into detail. As sure as men have male organs and women have female organs, each respective sex also comes with specific traits and behavioural characteristics that are distinct and predictable. When those 'some' that you speak of are so few as to be statistically insignificant, it is well within established norms to make generalisations concerning the whole. So while some men may have had their male organs cut off in accidents, and some were born with undeveloped male organs, my first generalisation; that men have male organs; is a generalisation that can still be said to hold true. So my lenses are irrelevant to this issue.

Your problem is that you don't flow with fact's and data's, instead you flow with aggravated sentiments caused by your region,environment and culture.
A change in you is simply putting you in another culture, you flow with region,culture and environment (sentiments) not fact's and collated data's(logic)

Lucrativress
Iyama
What is disrespect there?
He could be doing it to spite you
He could be doing it to amend the situation
He could be doing it for any other reason
If you've only chosen to flow with option 1 and 3 then you should check yourself cause you have a problem.
One void of logic.

Lol logic Any logical person should know not to involve themselves in married people issue. Two is a couple,three na crowd and nobody called him in that matter na busybody dey worry am. Why is he offering money to a married woman?Is he Santa Claus? Who told him that the husband can't afford to repair the broken screen?

JustCruise:
Lucrativress
Iyama
What is disrespect there?
He could be doing it to spite you
He could be doing it to amend the situation
He could be doing it for any other reason
If you've only chosen to flow with option 1 and 3 then you should check yourself cause you have a problem.
One void of logic.

Lol logic Any logical person should know not to involve themselves in married people issue. Two is a couple,three na crowd and nobody called him in that matter na busybody dey worry am. Why is he offering money to a married woman?Is he Santa Claus? Who told him that the husband can't afford to repair the broken screen?

I'll answer you tomorrow
Na you go tire
Mr Sentiment
Goodnight Sir

Lucrativress I'll answer you tomorrow Na you go tire Mr Sentiment Goodnight Sir

Lol.....Sweet dreams Miss logic. I will be waiting for your answer.

Lucrativress:

Iyama
What is disrespect there?
He could be doing it to spite you
He could be doing it to amend the situation
He could be doing it for any other reason
If you've only chosen to flow with option 1 and 3 then you should check yourself cause you have a problem.
One void of logic

Are you for real?
You will accept the money for real ?

As a man it is wrong to shout at your wife in public for just unintentionally breaking his phone screen irrespective of how costly the phone is. It just shows that he values his phone more than his wife.

Well for the wife, I think it be totally wrong for her to accept the money from the other man. It doesn't speak well of her... She could easily be enticed with money....

setobaba:

Are you for real?
You will accept the money for real ?

My tired is tired this night but lemme answer you
Yoruba's will say "akosapo lobirin kowo"
If you're not Yoruba,tell me to interpret it for you,I'll try my best

JustCruise:



Lol.....Sweet dreams Miss logic. I will be waiting for your answer.

A man that shouts at his Wife in public cause of an expensive Phone,is a man without self control..
In the process of shouting at her,you've unconsciously demeaned her and made her a tool of mockery,a shame she'll have to bare for a while and might let down her esteem.
Yoruba's will say "Owo di e lara nfe"
Each body deserves little respect.
So if it's just the Man's egoistic pride you're checking here,check the shame you've just put the woman through.
To draw the attention of the public which produced that show of empathy,then o lawd small,she did it unintentionally.
So let them both share the shame,a woman also needs her pride intact don't you think?

JustCruise:


Lol logic Any logical person should know not to involve themselves in married people issue. Two is a couple,three na crowd and nobody called him in that matter na busybody dey worry am. Why is he offering money to a married woman?Is he Santa Claus? Who told him that the husband can't afford to repair the broken screen?

So even when married people are killing themselves,nobody should intervene,that is what brought Nigeria to the stage it is today,we witness bad things happen but decide to mind our businesses, till it happens to us.
Can't you see that the Samaritan's actions alone will send notes of "Husband o wrong naw"
"Why is he offering money to a married woman"
Abeg is that not why the Husband is shouting ni,no be money go solve the problem?
Oh! So Santa Claus is an Angel abi,a Supernatural being,that's why no one else can do his deed's?
If the Husband could afford it without blinking, he wouldn't have been that insensitive to shout that high in public over the Phone in the first place, either that or he has no regard for his Wife.

Lucrativress:

My tired is tired this night but lemme answer you
Yoruba's will say "akosapo lobirin kowo"
If you're not Yoruba,tell me to interpret it for you,I'll try my best

You have a very nice way of getting many moniker ethnic group.


Anyway akosapo has nothing to do with my narration. Collecting the said amount to me is belittling her husband. If he the husband can afford 350k worth of phone, then 500k should not be an amount to pull his ego down. Don’t be surprise, someone like me will take the lady on a shopping spree she she had rejected the money. I will spend over 500k on her after few months but won’t make it look like I’m compensating her for her decision making pattern

i can't be in such shoe

RisenPhoenix1:


This does not in any way disprove the sexual intentions of those men who give you money. If you really think that they give you money out of pure altruism, then you're extremely naive. Of course, propriety would probably not permit you to admit that you are aware of their intentions; and like I said, women often lie to themselves to justify their actions taken in fulfilment of their baser desires.

I kind of have your time again Sir
Let's do something quick
Let's turn this scenario around and you were the one that broke a #350k Phone she bought with her money and she shouted at you in public, looking at your verdict towards that scenario,you would dash her slap right there,fiam!
Since you'll throw her out immediately if she collects the money,it also means you'll immediately react to your wounded ego

setobaba:

You have a very nice way of getting many moniker ethnic group.


Anyway akosapo has nothing to do with my narration. Collecting the said amount to me is belittling her husband. If he the husband can afford 350k worth of phone, then 500k should not be an amount to pull his ego down. Don’t be surprise, someone like me will take the lady on a shopping spree she she had rejected the money. I will spend over 500k on her after few months but won’t make it look like I’m compensating her for her decision making pattern

Will you also stop the wagging mouths from saying tomorrow that "that's the woman her Husband shouted at her in public the other day"
Why should a woman be the only one to master self control,in public for Christsake,there's body language to convey your disappointments but nope you rather went on a shouting spree...
He also belittled his Wife
A man that can afford something will know it's money that will solve that problem and he has it in excess,for God sake,she is not a kid,even kids recoil when shouted at amongst their peers
Immediate reprimanding of a grown assed adult doesn't portray wisdom
So I'm asking this simple question, if the Husband was foolish enough to shout in public, why can't the Wife also be foolish to collect the money?