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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Kvngjaymie(m): 9:59am On Mar 03, 2021
For a girl to openly tell her boyfriend about a richer guy asking her out because of money issue, only mean that she has already consider dating the richer guy anytime the boyfriend fvcks up.
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Freddd009: 10:02am On Mar 03, 2021
Fahdiga:
Does she not have a father and brothers. are they too broke that they can't sponsor her ostentatious lifestyle. OP if you don't know what to do with your money you can give her
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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by comrademac: 10:03am On Mar 03, 2021
las las na poverty cause m
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by comrademac: 10:07am On Mar 03, 2021
my bro some galz can commit suicide or go into debt bcs they want to have a befitting bday party. all these for the gram or to show off to their frds that they are living the life
Slimsly100:


Bday celebration sef suppose be problem
I Taya for people sef.
Must she do bday party
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by comrademac: 10:09am On Mar 03, 2021
who told you she has a guy grin one night stand babe if u no wat I mean
Emma1Oj:
U r so disgusting. I can imagine what your guy is going through now, dat is if any sensible guy will even date u.
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Emma1Oj(m): 10:09am On Mar 03, 2021
JOSH54:
YES I AGREE WITH UR POINT BUT WHO WAS TAKING CARE OF HER WHEN SHE WAS ALONE? D GUY SHOULD SUPPORT HER WITH 70% OF WHAT SHE NEEDED BUT ALL I KNOW RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT MONEY WILL SOON CRASH. I ALWAYS ADVICE GUYS TO BE FINANCIAL STABLE B4 THINKING OF DATING.
"the guy shld support her with 70%"?? I swear bros u no get sense. na ur type these hoes dey take clean yash.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by mariahAngel(f): 10:13am On Mar 03, 2021
Munzy14:

Hahahaha a si m ka tupenye ya azu...before the baby oku agbajie ya aka....grin

grin
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Burgerlomo: 10:14am On Mar 03, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by tegrianonigltd(m): 10:15am On Mar 03, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

You need to travel out of Nigeria if you still Dey that country, lol �
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Dawudabiodun52(m): 10:24am On Mar 03, 2021
What you guys have for each other is just a feeling because Love started after Wedlock.
Don't waste your money and your time unnecessary. Get married ...
You can't say if her feeling is enough to turn to Love.
It's might be that, she want more attention from you.
Call her down and reason together, exactly what she want.
Goodluck ...
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by EndRape2(f): 10:35am On Mar 03, 2021
What do men offer in a relationships if not money alone?


You want her to be faithful
You want her to respect you
You want her to come for weekend wash your cloths, clean your house, respect your friends ,cook for you and your friends.


Give you sex
Obey your orders, like telling her where to go, and where not to go, friends to keep and friends not to keep, some of you even , stop the girl from playing with other guys


The only thing she will gain is money, now spend the money, you come here to seek advice,

Do you come here to seek advice when you ask her to do all the above I listed.


Stop taking advice from some men

Some of them do not have good relationship ,and they can never have, because they have been abused, used dumped ,suffer,. Now they are polluting the mind of other young guys, from good homes, your woman deserve all your love and care if she is loyal and faithful



If you find a loyal woman to you, buy the world for her, she deserves it.


God said a man will till the ground, (work) you can not change it,

God says a man that can not provide for his household his worse than an infidel


You can not change it, that is the responsibility ,God gave men.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Ambber(f): 10:36am On Mar 03, 2021
Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?
girlfriend, and you are doing all these? What about her parents? Is it compulsory to have a big birthday celebration that she can’t even sponsor any of the activities herself? Your relationship is denominated in naira and kobo. Good luck

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by joelala(m): 10:53am On Mar 03, 2021
I can see you have a crytal ball at home to have known she was on her own before the dude approached her....bunch of entitled leeches.
Zzor:
What is wrong if he's taking care of her,was she not on her own when he approached her for love and relationship? what is love and relationship without money?
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Deeboiy: 10:59am On Mar 03, 2021
Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game
Lmaooo,you people and this your ‘she has stayed by me talk’ . She did not stand by you,she was doing things with other guys while waiting for you to glow up. A woman is telling you how another guy wants to pay for her bday and you still think she’s in a relationship with you. My advice, do not call text or see her for the rest of the month.don’t pick her call and don’t send her any money. Grow some balls,no woman should be blackmailing you.
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Nobody: 10:59am On Mar 03, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?
you sound like a HO

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Codedlyon: 11:03am On Mar 03, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?
hello stupid
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Munzy14(m): 12:09pm On Mar 03, 2021
mariahAngel:


grin



Ichiga ochi...lol

OP dika onye gara ga bie ego, iji meh wedding.

After that day, the marriage go start...cheesy
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by stubbornman(m): 12:11pm On Mar 03, 2021
Henrymorre:
she has stayed by me when I was broke, I am just surprised at this act, first she keeps telling me of a guy that has money, building hotels and the guy is chiking her etc. She was telling me that the guy is asking her to involve on her bday, but she knows I am capable blah blah. But because I said no to her hair, which is the only time I have ever said no to her when she asked me something, she is trying to emotionally black mail me. But I am not falling for that mind game

Bro to hell with that bullshit talk of staying with you when you were broke, what sacrifice did she make for you those times? Where you so broke you couldn't feed? Did she feed you? Clothe you? ..... She waited for you to climb the ladder while she sat down not developing herself so that tomorrow she can cry to the whole world and say " After everything I've done for him" ....thats nonsense Bro, now she is comparing you with another Man, let her fvck off and go meet that man to foot her bills , I so much hate entitled people in this life. angry angry angry

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by DestroyEvil: 12:11pm On Mar 03, 2021
SocialJustice:
Let her go and I hope your family isn't the opportunity cost of taking care of her.
grin Had to rack my brain for "alternative forgone" Thanks for reminding us Education.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by mariahAngel(f): 12:20pm On Mar 03, 2021
Munzy14:

Ichiga ochi...lol

OP dika onye gara ga bie ego, iji meh wedding.

After that day, the marriage go start...cheesy


He seems not to be in charge... cheesy
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by drezo(m): 1:19pm On Mar 03, 2021
Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Monkey. sad
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Dreadlock69(m): 1:28pm On Mar 03, 2021
JOSH54:
YES I AGREE WITH UR POINT BUT WHO WAS TAKING CARE OF HER WHEN SHE WAS ALONE? D GUY SHOULD SUPPORT HER WITH 70% OF WHAT SHE NEEDED BUT ALL I KNOW RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT MONEY WILL SOON CRASH. I ALWAYS ADVICE GUYS TO BE FINANCIAL STABLE B4 THINKING OF DATING.


Two of unah high on drugs

Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by kellycute(m): 1:33pm On Mar 03, 2021
Nitah1:
Nothing my brother, only little hole in between the legs.

Something one can get for little change from olosho without responsibilities.
gbamasolutely
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by badonkadonk: 1:33pm On Mar 03, 2021
Henrymorre:
I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, takes her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

Move on from her, use the money, wey you wan give am, for yourself..
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Bossman25(m): 1:38pm On Mar 03, 2021
See your mouth like soaking bowl.....
Money must be in the relationship my foot....
This Toto of a thing that drives u guys crazy....I don't know ...if na devil...remove what between their legs...and check first if 90% of this ladies even deserve a relationship...can be very boring...unimaginatic....problematic..
See na our Mama we go meet marry wife come from village for us....These city women are just too fuckery ...bullshit.



Zzor:
Thank you for being truthful and in tune with reality, let them be doing fairytale love here ,tell me which relationship can survive without money,as for me and 99.9percent of ladies I can't be in a moneyless relationship, that's the bitter truth but most want to appear good before the gullible Nairaland men but me can't hide how it is in my mind,I will talk since its a faceless forum.let them keep deceiving themselves
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Ferrous(m): 1:39pm On Mar 03, 2021
No girlfriend, No unnecessary stress grin

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by PrincewithGod(m): 1:41pm On Mar 03, 2021
Give your life to Jesus to escape the horrors of hell.
IMMORALITY WILL TAKE YOU TO HELL.
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Bossman25(m): 1:42pm On Mar 03, 2021
BENEFICIAL12:
Once you say "I love you" they will pause and access you if you really have the cash.
Whatever a man does... WOMEN can do even better...


I'm waiting for the lady that will come and marry me
Naso Jare! Them expensive toto
Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by Deeboiy: 1:45pm On Mar 03, 2021
Preciouschinwe:
Las las you will still spend the money wink
yeah to go to the country,to take them out on fancy dates ,get them beautiful gifts. They don’t ask you to carry their responsibilities like you’re their father.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by grandstar(m): 2:08pm On Mar 03, 2021
Henrymorre

Your lady is immature and presently senseless. It may be her age.

The morning shows the day. My advise is if such behavior persist, dump her asap. Ladies too must learn to be generous in a relationship.

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Re: I Said No To My Girlfriend For The First Time And She Feels Like Dying by princefrank76: 2:12pm On Mar 03, 2021
Zzor:
You with full bucket of IQ how much is in your bank account, can you tell me this outside here?mtcheww
DM me, I will gladly give u a screenshot of my account balance!!

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