Activist001:
What is "shix"? So even after going through school, you still can't type "she's" or "she is" properly?

I lost the urge to read whatever you wrote up there when I saw that twice so I have no advice for you.

IamRandy:
YOu story is as SIMPle as you


No matter how comfortable you are, DONT SPEND to the END of PAYING a Ladies MAJOR expenses(that her parents are supposed to take care of) when u are NOT yet married...

She is EVEN from a poor home

Most ladies from poor homes have this BIG ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY

Trust me, this relationship is a CASHCOW relationship...once, she is done with u,,YOU wILL BE DUMPED !!!

You dont need any advice, you are already going in the WRONG Direection as how a healthy relationship should be...

Guy, u claim u have money,,WHY NOT go for a lady in ur class

TheVictim01:
Right from the onset it was a game which you failed woefully. Shit tests to emotional security unto you made you become more attached to her! You seem to "Go with the flow" as dead fishes do.
Ubunja, luminouz, frankioski and petuk.

Golden147:

Didn't you see where I wrote I'm still a hustling Guy, anyways though I'm ever ready to let go of whatever dime I spent .... On from the onset, I have always say to myself, what ever be the outcome of our relationship, I'm ready to bear it.
Thanks though

luminouz:


The guy's story is weird.


He is 24, hnd 1 and has everything in life yet for some reason can't identify a simple shiit test?

Sounds like all these fabricated FP love stories.
Once I see ' I take care of her school fees bla bla bla, she is amazing bleeehhh, i pay her bills bla blaaaaaa...then one small issue arises and niggar starts asking what he should do...I just lose interest. How do you sponsor a girl whose parents are still alive cuz she be ya gf? That's not your job

Why did he get angry though? Cuz she collected the money or she didn't tell him? The girl didn't cheat as far as I know.

Wyry:
Nigerian girls are useless.

Golden147:

NIGERIA sef, everybody must not be like you nah, kaii..I started being independent@19 bro, lost dad at 21...
Till now I still taje care of my family...
Incase of doubt..I can inbox you my cac certificates anytime...got it the Year 2019.
Nawaoh for you o... anyways thanks though... remember i never said I got all.

IamRandy:



Yes i saw "where you wrote that u are struggling"...

As of 2009 when i was in UNI house rent was about 50-60k per year...Currently, this is some graduates MONTHLY PAY

And i am very sure the price has increased now....

Guy, there also ladies/student struggling like you that dont need a CASHCOW ! Go for them

Pls i humbly appeal to you to abort this mission...IT IS NOT HEALTHY for a STRUGGLING GUY....if you dont know what to use that money for since ur family are well taken care of...USE IT and INVEST iN YOURSELF by acquiring IT skill(which is hot cake now) or other SKILLS....

Peace !!!

luminouz:


I expect you to recognise game and shit tests as a man. I'm not interested in how much you earn but your emotional intelligence. So don't think this is about your hustle or CAC stuff.

Golden147:

I already planned registering her where she can acquire the It skills after her ND next yr , we discussed nd she agreed to it , as mesef no get time to go learn..I already got knownlgde in patient medicine (chemist).
Thanks bro.

Golden147:
Good evening my elders,
Please I need your advice as I'm about to quit my relationship. May be long but please bear with me..I just createdthis Account for this.

Okay,I have been chatting with this girl online though she always chat me up first... Got to know shix from my place through a Friend.
So December 26 last year, she saw me on bike in the village nd Stopped me then asked me to come take her out after introducing herself. I promised to come pick her up by 6:30pm after my daily business activities. Then she gave me her number nd collected mine.by exact 6:30pm babe called me nd we hangout..
Shix the only girl in her family of five boy's, she went home nd the second bro asked who was that she was eating with nd she said it's me, unlike before, according to her, he will beat her but this time the brother only advised her.

I'm just a young hustling guy of 24, in my hnd 1, and shix 22 and in her ND 1..fastly, babe introduced me to all her family members without my knowledge nd the snr bro asked me to come , this I keep declining but one day I decided to go nd it all went well as the all welcomed me.

Long story short, everything has been fine, but after visiting her family I got to fall deeply inlove With babe unlike me....she explained how bad thing's are for her but I never mind spending on her to because I have it..
This semester I paid her Lodge fees, textbook,her feeding buy her clothes and did same for myself.
I'm now sponsoring our education but I don't feel it though because I can provide for Them.

Problems started as babe continuously tell me those asking her out which I don't feel anything about it nd she equally gave out her Facebook password together with phone password but I told her to keep it herself. I don't need it. She always post me on her Facebook and used my picture as her WhatsApp picture.

Today I was on video call with her, her roomie was shouting, I will tell him ,I will tell him nd I said say it, then she decided to tell me saying one guy in ph was asking her out nd she told the guy to sent money for her to come see her nd the guy sent the money..I got annoyed nd ended the call..
She called back several times to no avail..I didn't pick.

Right now, I feel much annoyed nd I want to end the relationship...I don't trust her anymore.

BEFORE You call me a sip, I take good care of my family also, nd my mum is proud nd has also supported me.. she knows about my relationship with her too, infact all My family... I'm not doing bad neither, as I have got my own personal home too.
I need advice right now.

IamRandy:



Did you read my comment meticously at all
You already planned registering her ?

Like are you for REAL ?


Omoh, its your money, USE IT AS YOU LIKE
I can see you DONT need any HELP

Erojepromise:


the only question l have for you is what do you do? seeing you are the sole provider for everyone..

Ketapu:
If you're still interested in the relationship, I think you should tell her once-and-for-all never to inform you about her admirers again (unless after she becomes your wife). I find it very disrespectful.

Imagine you are the one going out everyday. You meet pretty ladies, chats with them and gets their number. You then regularly inform your girlfriend about your exploits with ladies. How would she feel? I would guess she would be very angry that you have the gut to be doing that.

If she's beautiful, there is no doubt that guys would want to woo her. It is now left to her to be faithful to you.

And please, what is with this your spendings? I hope you are getting what you wants from her (e.g sex, attention, care, etc). If you are not getting your wants, I pity the future of this relationship.

luminouz:


The guy's story is weird.



Sounds like all these fabricated FP love stories.
Once I see ' I take care of her school fees bla bla bla, she is amazing bleeehhh, i pay her bills bla blaaaaaa...then one small issue arises and niggar starts asking what he should do...I just lose interest. How do you sponsor a girl whose parents are still alive cuz she be ya gf? That's not.

Golden147:

Lol..as for the sex yes she gives me as much as I want it... attention, yes she does, she hadly visit her house each time she come home as people already thought we're even married...
Care ? Yes very much.

Ketapu:
If you're still interested in the relationship, I think you should tell her once-and-for-all never to inform you about her admirers again (unless after she becomes your wife). I find it very disrespectful.

Imagine you are the one going out everyday. You meet pretty ladies, chats with them and gets their number. You then regularly inform your girlfriend about your exploits with ladies. How would she feel? I would guess she would be very angry that you have the gut to be doing that.

If she's beautiful, there is no doubt that guys would want to woo her. It is now left to her to be faithful to you.

And please, what is with this your spendings? I hope you are getting what you wants from her (e.g sex, attention, care, etc). If you are not getting your wants, I pity the future of this relationship.