Lollittaa:
she may be dyslexic

slickycee:


[s]Can we just stop making excuses for people and focus on finding solutions !!!

So because she's dyslexic , OP she give up and accept her like that or just dump her and look for someone more educated !!!



OP , teach her the one you can
Let her emulate your kind of habits, constant reading and self improvement
If she loves you like you think, she would happily learn and better herself just to make sure your efforts aren't futile.

If I were you, I would sit her down and tell her what I feel about it..

Would offer my advice and tell her how am willing to join her in this self improvement journey.


Give her 3months of constant learning and all.

If after that time, no improvement.

It's to move on and accept her like that or just break up.


But op you should have known this a long time ago !!!
Some girls are quite honest about this part of themselves, like they say it the first day you meet them.

They're not the intelligent type.

Op good luck[/s]

Anyahuruagu:
Nwanne the sad truth is that you cannot have it all in one package.

If she's teachable my guy, manage her situation, teach her and correct her in love.
It's now we know if you also love her

Ninety6:
The last thing i would want is being in your shoes right now because i've been there before, i know the world moves fast but you leave her to break her and even looking back to this day the guilt that you should've done better makes you feel empty, talk to her about it, try everything to make this work because it is better to give your all to a cause and lost than not giving it everything at all... Don't act a fool like me, everyday I wake up to the cries and pains of guilt for... not giving it my all.

Anyahuruagu:
Nwanne the sad truth is that you cannot have it all in one package.

If she's teachable my guy, manage her situation, teach her and correct her in love.
It's now we know if you also love her

I have come to understand that it must not all be there.. Come on I can make good dishes, if my partner cannot do better in kitchen that means i must complement for our companionship and also growth.

That's why we both need each other.
No man is an island and no man on the other hand has it all.

Unclesmart12:
Good morning FAM, I've been dating my girlfriend for four years now since our 100 level in the university. She has been the perfect partner for me and a really strong backbone that has kept me going in tough times, I've lost count of ladies I've dated but this Lady has got me hooked full time hence the seemingly long duration of our relationship, because before now none of my relationships had exceeded 6 months. I think it's important to note that I'm her first date/relationship too.

Sometimes I feel lucky to have her, she loves and cares for me to bits and I do the same too though it's apparent she loves me more. I've good intentions towards her and sees her as part of my future, I will gladly marry her once I'm lsettled and ready for that but I've one nagging issue with her.

Academically I see myself as an average student on a CGPA of 3.47 according to my 300 level results since I'm yet to see my final year result ( fresh graduate ) though I channelled over 80% of my efforts and time in school to hustling.

My girlfriend on the other hand is on a CGPA of 2.76 with I still consider a reasonable result considering the school we graduated from. She's been hunting for a teaching job since she graduated with little success and frustration is gradually setting in.

She visited me recently and while in my place she got a call from a friend to bring an application letter to a school she's been eyeing for a while now. She drafted a letter and gave me to peruse through it. Going through the letter seriously broke my heart, obviously the reason she hasn't been getting interview invites wasn't far fetched. It was riddled with grammatical errors and blunders, she could hardly string correct sentences together and punctuation was totally MIA talk more of paragraphs. It was a total disaster.

There was no way she was going to get a job with that kind of letter unless maybe through man know man. I took time to teach her on how to write a letter and to be honest it was just like teaching a basic two child how to write a simple formal letter. She couldn't even get simple spellings right, I'm not a genius neither do I see myself as an exceptional student but I really expected more from a graduate. I tried so much to mask my frustration and disappointment so she won't feel bad.

I don't want to judge her but that her performance really left much to be desired and left me upset that I'm beginning to consider my future with her.

I don't know if there's anything I can do to help her because I'm currently learning block chain development and UI/UX designing so I barely have time to spare now.

Please I need your advice on how to handle this situation.

Anyahuruagu:
Nwanne the sad truth is that you cannot have it all in one package.

If she's teachable my guy, manage her situation, teach her and correct her in love.
It's now we know if you also love her

I have come to understand that it must not all be there.. Come on I can make good dishes, if my partner cannot do better in kitchen that means i must complement for our companionship and also growth.

That's why we both need each other.
No man is an island and no man on the other hand has it all.

Anyahuruagu:
Nwanne the sad truth is that you cannot have it all in one package.

If she's teachable my guy, manage her situation, teach her and correct her in love.
It's now we know if you also love her

I have come to understand that it must not all be there.. Come on I can make good dishes, if my partner cannot do better in kitchen that means i must complement for our companionship and also growth.

That's why we both need each other.
No man is an island and no man on the other hand has it all.

Kastonkastroll:
Not everyone is book-smart. Some people are exceptionally good outside the normal read & write routine. Just observe that your girl and you will see something she's very good at. Omo if the girl is not an olosho, hold her very well

Unclesmart12:

Thanks bro, asides this academic issue she's got other qualities that I desire. I will carve out time to help her more

MufasaLion:
In all you do, don't settle for a dull girl. Love can fade away but a dull person might be dull forever.

SmellySperm:

Lols...guy be calming down na


E'hmmm op manage her like that. Everybody wasn't meant to be brilliant. Now is the time to prove your love for her

MufasaLion:


Prove what love? The guy can't cope with it. Very soon he's gonna start losing interest. If you read it well, you will understand this guy is more interested in a brilliant woman.

By the way, who would be interested to have a dull partner, huh?

SmellySperm:

You have a point sha. He's more concerned about intelligent than other aspects