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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by overseasnbeyond: 10:59pm On Mar 11, 2021
Dont listen bruh,
she is your mother you have to treat her with respect.
If you love your mother honour her with your money and other substance by yourself [b][/b]without passing through your wife.
To me , what i give my mother is nobody's business considering all her labour over me.
All she is trying to do is know what you give your mother to compare with what you give her family.
If your mother is fetish with money will she solve that problem?

Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by ModestGal(f): 10:59pm On Mar 11, 2021
This is why I hate Christianity. How can a prophet, pastor, woman tell you your mama dey do you, and you go believe/accept?

Yes, serves the woman (your mother) right because I'm sure she go believe in all these useless future seer's as well who can't see their own future.
As for being fetish, well, majority of Africans are fetish because they want to prevent one evil or another or because they think another person is fetish. Fetish doesn't have to be associated with witchcraft alone because both Muslims and Christians are fetish, all in the name of one useless dream, or future seeing they have encountered

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by bekpo(m): 11:00pm On Mar 11, 2021
Ur wife is d real fetish woman that's out to destroy u n ur family
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by franchasng: 11:04pm On Mar 11, 2021
Jondelng:


Mister, some mama dey do person unintentionally.

Like I know of a lady whose mother took her to have anal intercourse with her alfa for protection.

Till today, the girl no born.

The same grandmother took the bloody towel used to clean her new born granddaughter and hid it.... For what?


Its rare for mothers to intentionally afflict her child, but it happens and has happened and will continue to happen...
This doesn't mean one should believe all these wives that don't know the past.
Foolish boy, don't go and hustle harder and smarter, keep blaming your poor mother for your life misfortune.


Even if anybody go spiritual for you that you won't Prosper, there is a level you will hustle with focus and dedication and the devil will have no other option than to let you go.


You wusies in the name of people's sons must stop accusing your poor mothers foolishly, that alone can cause you perpetual suffering and hard luck in life.


OP is a wussy like you angry

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by miraculousGod(m): 11:05pm On Mar 11, 2021
Never allow your wife to insult your mother. saying your mother is fetish is an insult. Even if your mother is fetish, Your wife shouldn't be bold enough to tell you. A wife must have regard for her mother inlaw. Women normally talk bad of their mother in-laws while they praise their own mothers.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Bigseedorf(m): 11:06pm On Mar 11, 2021
But in the first, place why does your wife has to know each time you give your mum money. You need to go back for MSc in marriage counseling bro
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ibusho: 11:07pm On Mar 11, 2021
You are a mumu man
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Kingstanding: 11:08pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
. It's after you got married you can now see your beloved mom mistake? I repeat no woman on Earth can say that rubbish concerning my mom to me. But if it's her own mom that is living with you she won't see her mistake? One thing I know is that 97% of Nigeria's women don't pray to have mother inlaw. Your wife is now dictective who knows who is fetish isn't? I wish you the best.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by shegzydave(m): 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2021
Then you also should be careful of your wife....if not that she is a witch herself how come she knows.... This is why to get marry dey fear me, I so t want anybody between me and my dearest mother although am not mummy boy bit I can't allow one woman comes in between me and my mum,

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by greggng: 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.


The person that is fetish is your wife. She is the manipulative type. Common use your common sense ....what does your wife do with the money you pass through her to your mother? If she ask you not to give your mum money directly , then why would she be the one to give her? Doesn't she understand that when man and woman get married , they became one.

You need to give your life to Christ ....commit everything in prayer and no weapon sent your way will get to you . Infact, I will be the first to sack any woman that says this about my mum...
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by NairalandEnemy: 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2021
99thEnemy:


Why are you not yet registered in my Association of Enemies on Nairaland? angry

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Hahahahah...you vex bro smiley
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:16pm On Mar 11, 2021
Listen to ur heart and use ur head
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by generationz(f): 11:20pm On Mar 11, 2021
Fake story.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2021
Don't be angry with your Wife, she may be a mother or will be a mother, maybe one day she will understand, why a Mother is Special.

But your Wife does not look like a decent or matured person, i think you have to sit her down, and let her know, that parents are very important and need love and support, naturally, i expect that both of you cherish each other's inlaws and will not Judge each other for the support any of you showed your parents.

Like someone pointed out, your Wife wants you to give her the money, so she can control and manipulate the situation, She doesn't look genuine, but i am not sure.


So Just handle the money directly, and maybe don't tell your wife the full extent of your support for your Mother, i don't think she is a reliable person.

Having said all this, love your wife and support her as much as possible, and if possible but not compulsory encourage her to work, it seems she is not making enough money.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2021
For your wife to have the guts to call your mother a witch to your face and you condone it shows how foolish you are. I'm not sorry to say this. Na your wife be husband, na you be wife.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by SATANN: 11:29pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
never put a wife over a mother even if she be satan hersef

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by tjquib: 11:33pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
how come she knew your mother to be fetish if she your (wife)isn't fetish....
Brodaman use your six man

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Analysiscorner: 11:33pm On Mar 11, 2021
Ignore your wife. Love and care for your mum the more. God bless you.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by uthlaw: 11:34pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
your mum over any bastard!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by TundeChris: 11:35pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

If your mum dies due to your weakness, God will judge you.
Even if your mother is a witch (Which i doubt), it is your responsibility to care for her.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ghostmode2two(m): 11:38pm On Mar 11, 2021
Oga this your narrative na wa oooo. Go could your wife be making fool of you. Don't trust women but trust your mother. Your wife is the fetish one here. You have been made a mumu husband
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Cleanworld(f): 11:39pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Its so sad that Nigeria women would find a man that love her and once she realises that...boom , the first thing is to make sure that such men is being put under her armpit and she will use him against his own family and Alas if the story is the other way round the said family will show the wife thast they have upper hand in their son's life.

can't people just live in peace and face their own wahala/

well, if the woman that gives birth to you and your siblings until you grow up and marry is evil because she can't support her self financially then my brother you need to check your brain and your life maybe they're already cooking assorted vegetable soup and snail for you.

Poor woman...its so sad cry cry cry
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by tolguy(m): 11:40pm On Mar 11, 2021
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.
hahahaha God bless you
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by akigbemaru: 11:43pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Elliot2(m): 11:45pm On Mar 11, 2021
A woman I knew very well was just buried this morning. She died in the process of giving birth. The baby died as well. If not for anything, even if your mom is fetish, do that which is required of you for her. It might shock you to know that even if your mom is fetish (that is if your wife is correct), she may be out of ignorance. And besides, this is Africa, if not of the way Nollywood and Christianity has painted our African traditions, being fetish doesn't always mean being evil. Some of our parent generation still rely on devinity and the practise of spiritism, it does not mean they are evil.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by sylve11: 11:46pm On Mar 11, 2021
MejiLoyon:

. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am.


grin cool

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Unfolding: 11:49pm On Mar 11, 2021
[Correct guy. I love my mom to the moon and back. Nothing will change that. Notquote author=MejiLoyon post=99782556]
I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.[/quote]
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Wisdom50(m): 11:49pm On Mar 11, 2021
She must have been told by one prophet that her mother in law is witch and BTW do you both worship in the same place?
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by faceland: 11:54pm On Mar 11, 2021
Your wife is feed up and is looking for an opportunity to call your mom a witch. Next time, be a man. If you are tired, stop feeding the old woman but don't destroy her reputation to justify your action... If you are the one earning the money, look your wife in the eyes and tell her never to mention mother-in-laws finance.

This life goes in circles o. One day your son would also abandon that your wife after calling her fetish woman (as his father set a example for him). If your intention is good, no juju can affect your money since the juju is not the one that gave you the money.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Coolgent(m): 11:55pm On Mar 11, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Am sorry to say you marries a bad Woman and you must be very careful with her.
Based on my experienced such woman is capable of doing anything.
Just be extra careful pls
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by tunize(m): 11:57pm On Mar 11, 2021
Marry better woman una nor go gree see the woman u end up with now trying to cause a rift between you and your mom and funny you is behaving like a mumu. If your mother is fetish according to your wife, she for nor see you marry becos that same fetish mama for don kill you since. Bros wise now oooh if not wiseness now don dey get expiring date
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Originalsly: 11:58pm On Mar 11, 2021
MejiLoyon:



Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying.


grin ... love this comment!..... is mad funny but at the same time dead serious. Is nothing more need to be said.

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