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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nathan85: 4:37pm On Mar 12
olamide0147:

Only a fool will trade her mama's love for some girls, ladies always forget they will one day become a mother in-law
May God bless every brother out there with WISDOM to know the right thing to do per time in their lives.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by kolade560: 4:44pm On Mar 12
your mumu get part 7 bros. your wife want to pitch enmity BTW u and your mother.
receceive sense I say...
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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by kolade560: 4:45pm On Mar 12
your mumu get part 7 bros. your wife want to pitch enmity BTW u and your mother.
receceive sense I say...must ur wife know about the money u send to your mum pussy ass nigga.....wise up and act like a man...
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by vannessa7(f): 4:45pm On Mar 12
Your wife is evil and she is busy planting a seed she will cry when she start reaping it, how can she be treating your mother like this and you allowed her, is she not a Mother, your mother after packing your faeces for several years, took care of you, fed you and love you to your adulthood in her absence, now she want to cut her off, she want to deny her from eating the fruit of her labour, she want to go to hell fire and you want to go with her, if that woman curses you, you will hate your life

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Otunla236: 5:07pm On Mar 12
I think you are a fool bro and what kind of advice you are looking for?

Why do you accept what your wife said and send money to her account first, my brother used your head, and if you follow your wife advice against your mother, it means you will suffer for the rest of your life, I swear
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by yahrant140(m): 6:05pm On Mar 12
God will bless you....
adadike:
Chuxx 84, can you even listen to yourself? Your wife is manipulating you! If she can not call her own mother a witch, then she dare not call yours a witch. Even if her mother is a witch, yours is not and will never be a witch. She is manipulating you big time . Your wife is wicked and your wife is also a witch because any woman suspecting her mother in law to be a witch just to make the son hate his own mother , is a big time witch. Biko, the next, time she dare even imagine such and you didn't handle her fucck up, I go vex for you o. Don't give her money meant for your mom, give your mom money by yourself and pls don't stop giving your mom love and attention. How many years do our parents even have to spend with us here on earth?

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Donsamie(m): 6:12pm On Mar 12
This guy is not a man believe me.how can a woman under my roof eating my food dares call my mum a witch and request i gave her money meant for my mum to deliver to my mum,she might be looking for a way to eliminate your mum through your own money. And to be frank with you she's the real witch here. Or are you so weak that you don't know what to do to your so called wife

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by 09085607453king: 7:09pm On Mar 12
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ezzywaymadu(m): 9:20pm On Mar 12
My brother please give ur wife ur ATM simple
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by adadike(f): 2:58am On Mar 13
yahrant140:
God will bless you....
Amen and you too dear
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nobody: 5:26am On Mar 13
The issue will be resolved if two of you become genuine Disciples of Jesus. Do a lot of studies on what it takes to be a Disciple of Jesus. This is very different from the hypocritical Christianity available in modern day churches.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by JesusDWay(m): 8:26am On Mar 13
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

So, she has her own special powers that she will use to stop your mum's jazz if she's the one sending the money to her? Your wife simply feels your mum is taking too much from you and that the money you ought to be spending on her and the children is being given to another woman*. If you pass the money through her it won't get to your mum. My advice to you is to ignore her totally and continue taking care of your mum however, try and get your other siblings to be responsible for your mum as well. Tell your mum to make demands from them too, they should honour their mother as the bible says. If your wife attempts such thing, ask her if she would like for her own children to abandon her in her old age? She will leave you alone cuz, what she's asking you to do can bring a curse on all of you so, ignore her.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by seangy4konji: 6:49pm On Mar 13
YOU HAVE MARRIED A WRONG WOMAN...

MAY GOD HELP YOU...
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ruggedpen: 8:50am On Mar 15
pozehnani:



Exactly!

I wonder why op would even seek his wife's permission before giving his mother anything. When the money is not jointly owned by both of them.

Op dense.
you get my point clear thank you, when seeking her opinion to give your mother that raise you money, you have started consulting her, she will like to take advantage of the situation, to take charge, indirectly you are loosing ur right as a head of family.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Freelane33(m): 6:59am On Jun 09
Mejiloyan okanloko
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by lordally(m): 12:23am On Jun 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

Baba you dey gimme joy I SWEAR
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by raheemadejoke81(f): 12:45pm On Jun 12
Some women self , I don't think they know that one day they will also become mother inlaw. How will they feel if one daughter inlaw is separating them from their own son they truly loved and catered for. Women should stop think they will remain young for life, please. One day, that wife of yours will also become a mother inlaw to a lady and she shall be treated as such.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by WrksOnMyMachine: 2:49pm On Jun 12
Omihanifa:


I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.

Not logical

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