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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ivimmanuel: 10:17pm On Mar 11
Rubbish!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by medriano: 10:17pm On Mar 11
Your wife too is fetish, how else would she know your mum is fetish?
A woman who gave birth to you and nurtured you is a bad person now?
I see you are not man enough. Coming here to ask our opinion shows you are weak.
Y’all be careful about the jezebels you marry.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by stanliwise(m): 10:18pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
your wife is not your mother and your mother is not your wife.
Both can’t really advice you on how to love the other.
A word is enough for the wise
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by bigcee(m): 10:19pm On Mar 11
Kondomatic:
Tell me that my mother is "Fe" and I will be done throwing your bags out by the time you say "tish"


What nonsense.


I don't understand how this generation managed to raise so many weak people.

Person fail WAEC, boom suicide.

Person fail jamb, suicide

Person gets dumped, suicide

Now see the kind of a question a man is asking. It's jus annoying.


Women are very manipulative, first they act like they mean well and boom, they're riding you. This wife obviously did some very nice and caring thing before to get the OP's trust and now she's hitting on her main motive.

Being able to see through their plans is what keeps a man in charge. Beat them on their own games or you will die serving them.

Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Lukebryan2sure: 10:19pm On Mar 11
Guy @chuxx84 a wise man once told me not to tell my wife when I want to give or do give money to my family members , never to mention it's to her at all...
So my guy never tell your wife anything about your family when it's comes to finance (money)...if she ask tell her that you have ask them to take care of their selves...
Guy man wise up...
Do u expect Ur wife to b happy she is sharing your money with Ur mother or family members ....
So do d needful and keep shut
When it's concerns Ur family members/ mother
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by jrusky(m): 10:19pm On Mar 11
Oga how old are you? Go for prayer you need sense I swear. So your wife stood in your face saying these about your own mother and uou are coming here to complain bah

If you are my brother I swear to God I will come to wherever you live first thing tomorrow morning with camou boys to beat hell out of you to reset your senses to factory mode.

When we advice you here to shine your eyes before marrying you won't listen the next we will see here is premartiage shit selfie on top of tree or on top gorilla etc.

You better wake up and deport that your so call wife to wherever she came from.before she *thame* you and you started washing her paints and bras.

Pls good night ok.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by SILVERLINES: 10:20pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
ur mumu no get part 2. You mean one call girl you call a wife now direct you on how to treat your mother, labelled your mother a witch and you ran to nairaland to seek for advice? You are very stupid my dear and I think your wife is fetish on you. Your mother is the woman who knows you from the day you from the womb nurse you to a man you have become, through good and bad time she was there struggling for you to succeed they your now wife was tangling with another man out there
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by adajoe555: 10:20pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.



Maybe the jazz she wants to use on you isn't working because of your mum's prayers... don't let that woman separate you from your mum.. be ready for the worse.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Chuksbobb: 10:20pm On Mar 11
Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho
I don't want to sound bad to you but I want to ask you, the wife that the money should pass through before getting to the husband's mother, does she have fetish-proof? Juju no dey cash d wife? Abi she be stronger winch. The man seeking advice is a bigger idiot

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by CodeTemplar: 10:21pm On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.
You are a big waste. So you know book.more than Jesus who said a man's worse enemy are his household.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Gloriagee(f): 10:22pm On Mar 11
This bolded part is most mind boggling. How exactly does she intend to neutralise the fetish lipsrsealed

Richy4:


OP, I'm Just curious..... So if the money passed through her to your mother, the charm holding you people's progress will not work on you anymore or what?

Was there incantations or prayers said before handing the money to your mum?... Is she a prophetess, "dibia-ress or Babaaláwo-ress"
It's just amazing the bitter pill some people swallow just for peace to reign in the name of marriage sad
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by obinnawhyte(m): 10:23pm On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body



true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

The same mother you were taking care of happily without any pressure before you married her or she suddenly became a problem or pressure because you married her?. If it's the later and from your attention seeking story then you'll be a fool to be seeking for advice over something that's glaring.

While some mother's maybe a pain in marriage it also take a fool not to know when he married a she devil Jezebel.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by princechina(m): 10:23pm On Mar 11
Kirkman:
Chuxx84; whatever rubbish your wife vomited from her mouth is none of my business that's between you and her, but the fact that you stood by and allowed your wife call your own mother a witch without your wife feeling what the celestial heavens looks like, na there you Bleep up. If this witch brought you into this world, fed you, clothed you and saw you through health and sickness over the years? Pls let her keep being a witch for you. If reverse was the case here and you called your wife''s mother a witch i am sure all her brothers, uncles and extended family members would have summoned you to the village to explain yourself by now and even your whole street would have heard that you called your wife's mother a witch.
Pls take care of this witch for me, her time on this earth is limited, you never know the value of that witch till she is gone from this earth, appreciate her whlist she's still alive.

May God continue to bless u for this comment. I can't like it enough. Your last paragraph really got to me. The OP is a weakling.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Forumobserver12(m): 10:24pm On Mar 11
pozehnani:
Correct?? Is she a mathematics answer?

On a more serious note, it's your wife whos fetish for having such thoughts.

Have you ever experienced any financial setbacks since you've been helping your mother? If no, then continue helping her and don't send it through your wife.

Even if he experienced financial set back, isn't it part life? Why must he attribute it to his mother being fetish?

Op's wife is a manipulative and evil woman, I thank God that I don't have such wife, God knows I cant tolerate such woman as a wife...
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Fernandeswagger: 10:24pm On Mar 11
NairalandEnemy:
Dammnn!
No be wife you marry bro, na witch!

If you goan do mistake and heed to her suggestion lasan, you are doom!
She will do a meghan on you.

Lalasticlala sef!

Why I like nairaland. grin grin grin
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by 99thEnemy(m): 10:24pm On Mar 11
BigDick70inch:


Just imagine!!!

What useless advice r u seeking??
Yo mum was not fetish............while spending her hard earned money on u...........jux to see u prosper..........but now dat u lil bit comfortable..........

One daughter of jazabel,daughter of a thousand dad............is somewhere trying to pit u against her abi??I hate dull brain!!!!

Think dummy!............

Infact........u really need to be dragged on fp..........
Lalaclala!!!!!!!!!!

Leave the mumu to continue obeying the real person doing him the fetish thing.

foolishness and ignorance is meant to be exploited.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by abike12(f): 10:24pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

Oh wow. A couple of things, does your wife work? I think partners should have an amount of money to spend at their discretion so that they can also protect the integrity of their extended family members. Say you make 1m a month, you should have maybe 100-150k that you can spend as you see fit without your wife knowing. You don't have to tell your wife every single time your mom asks you for money. And as a woman, I won't tell my husband every single time I give my extended family small amounts.

On the fetish claim, if your mother did not kill you when you were a baby and you grew up, old enough to even marry, I don't think a wife should come and say such rubbish. She didn't even apply wisdom at all. Stay prayed up but please don't pass money to your mother through your wife.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by andyanders: 10:25pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says s... Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Your wife, no fruit from her womb will look after her in her life time. Just keep taking care of ur mother as ur children will bless u and ur wife will NEVER partake.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by sonnie10: 10:25pm On Mar 11
If you mother wanted to do any to you, she would have done it while you were still in the womb or even while you were still wearing napkin. Have you thought of how easy it would have been for her to do something to the breest milk you sucked.

You and your wife should park one side and allow the old women enjoy her remaining life.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Slynation(m): 10:25pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Your mother you knew right from Adam and someone is telling you she's fetist and you are confused, you don't need advice, what you need is community beatings.....

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by azammi(m): 10:25pm On Mar 11
You be fool , you’re wife don de turn u against your mother
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by nedekid: 10:25pm On Mar 11
olamide0147:
Bro u about to experience rival battle between your wife and your mother, soon she will force u to choose between them but be wise and so prepared because it might leads to divorce.
No matter what your mother will always be your mother even though she's a witch she will never let u down.
But my wonder is why op is being a simp and divulging everything to his wife. Must he inform his wife before giving mum money or even after? Must he tell his wife if he pays her rent or buy her a car?
Ops problem is his mouth and his inability to control it.
Seeing your wife is adverse to you mum, why not be coded and have peace of mind for goodness sake!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Funkeshuga(m): 10:27pm On Mar 11
your mother is fetish because she's demanding her rights from you but her own mother is Angel Gabriel for the same thing



I'm surprise you're asking foolish question Op, any day a lady say this nonsense to me, she won't stay 24hrs in my house that day, I swear to God I will throw her out like a shít of dustbin out of my apartment


you've such a very wicked bítch, now that she's unable to convince you through words, I fear she won't go diabolical for you to hate your mother



you're in a deep shít bro, if you don't take action against the witch you married for house

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by tit(f): 10:27pm On Mar 11
Allah!
Come and safe us!!
Angel Jibril!!!
Ahbeeeg!
Blow the whistle!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by SweetCunt97(f): 10:27pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Your wife is actually d witch
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Slynation(m): 10:28pm On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.
lol....grin
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by 99thEnemy(m): 10:30pm On Mar 11
NairalandEnemy:
Dammnn!
No be wife you marry bro, na witch!

If you goan do mistake and heed to her suggestion lasan, you are doom!
She will do a meghan on you.

Lalasticlala sef!

Why are you not yet registered in my Association of Enemies on Nairaland? angry

Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by meetme01: 10:30pm On Mar 11
Kirkman:
Chuxx84; whatever rubbish your wife vomited from her mouth is none of my business that's between you and her, but the fact that you stood by and allowed your wife call your own mother a witch without your wife feeling what the celestial heavens looks like, na there you Bleep up. If this witch brought you into this world, fed you, clothed you and saw you through health and sickness over the years? Pls let her keep being a witch for you. If reverse was the case here and you called your wife''s mother a witch i am sure all her brothers, uncles and extended family members would have summoned you to the village to explain yourself by now and even your whole street would have heard that you called your wife's mother a witch.
Pls take care of this witch for me, her time on this earth is limited, you never know the value of that witch till she is gone from this earth, appreciate her whlist she's still alive.

Big time..!!
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by sheyiofficial(m): 10:30pm On Mar 11
Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.

That's my own opinion tho

Bro if you follow this advice u e mumu....
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Reex12(m): 10:31pm On Mar 11
I WOULD ALWAYS ADVICE SIMPS OUT THERE,NEVER REVEAL ALL YOU DO FOR YOUR FAMILY TONYOUR WIFE, THEY TEND TO GET JEALOUS, CONVETOUS AND SELFÌSH, THATS THE MIND OF AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN GIRL

I LOVE YOU ILOVE YOU NO FOLLOW FOR FAMILY MATTER OH

THIS YOUR MOTHER WHO BORE YOU,TRAINED YOU TILL ADULTHOOD, EVEN IF SHES FETISH SHE WOULD NEVER HARM YOU.

BUT INSTEAD YOU GIVE YOUR WIFE AUTHORITY TO MONITOR YOUR MOTHERS FUNDING,YOUR OWN BLOODMOTHER NOT HERS(when would this simps have sense).

YOUR WIFE IS TRYING TO BRING ENEMITY BETWEEN YOU AND FAMILY MEMBERS.
BE WISE OH

NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE USELESS NO BE FANTASY OH.AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN GIRL IS SELFISH AND CONVETOUS ESPECIALLY IN MARRIAGE

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Commotfornigeri: 10:32pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.

She wants to start doing account to know how much you are sending to your mother.

She will later use it against you during a quarrel or use it to measure how much you send to her mother/family.

Be smart.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Activist001(m): 10:32pm On Mar 11
Wimps are all over this forum and you Mr op is one of them.

Continue doing like a Mumu and allow your wife to ride on your foolishness. No wise up you hear.

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