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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Fiscus105: 7:12am On Mar 11
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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by idahme(m): 7:36am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.


What did I just read, why are some women like this? OP thers is a sure way to know someone's heart if it's good or not and this is my test.
If a woman is not consistent in her evil bashing she isn't a good woman what I mean is that what you hear from her about your mother is not what you hear from her about her own mother then she is just there to cause strive in your family. Never accept that plans of going through her to get to Jerusalem when you were born in Jerusalem that will be stupid of you.
Also try educate her to take her mind off those toxic thoughts of her else you will be like her in the long run.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by idahme(m): 7:44am On Mar 11
Omihanifa:


I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

That's why am saying he shouldn't just discard what the lady is saying. He should take his time to observe first before arriving at a conclusion.

It's possible that maybe she's been observing a particular trend whenever the man gives his mother money.



He shouldn't listen to her a bit, I can bet that woman has gone to some places were she was fed with such nonsense. If she can't say same thing about her own mother then she is a BIG joker.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Richy4(m): 7:48am On Mar 11
Angelacruz:
Very true bro...i hate this kind of women.Deir own mother is a saint while someone else mum is a witch . She wat to send d money by herself so dat she can give d woman peanut.D wife is not a good person.

My brother I will not blame the wife.... Assuming the man took a stand from unset....Treats his mum as the queen she should be for raising an amazing son like him...raising a marriable young man ...., Do you think fear will allow her to have that temerity to even voice that fetish nonsense out in the first place...

The wife has weighed him on a balance and finds him wanting....I do not want to say much because mums and kids were a sensitive topic for me... I love them too much...If I say something else, it might come out wrong and op might commit suicide sad

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by hakeemhakeem(m): 7:48am On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.


fruit of labour would not sour in your mouth

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by hakeemhakeem(m): 7:54am On Mar 11
I don't abuse person but I want you to know the level of your behavior so you be MUMU did your wife sent money to her mum through you?. to beat you dey hungry me walahi

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by LadySarah(f): 8:11am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.

If i were you,if i used to send 50k through online transfer,this time i'll increase it ,go by myself,go on my knees and place it cash on her palms and watch her pray a heartfelt prayer for you.

That you even debated it is highly disturbing.You need to be flogged thoroughly.How can you even allow another person show you how to love your own mother?Does your wife go through you to send her own ppl money?We women can be unnecessarily evil.Tueh!

Ihere GI emegbuola m!Tufia!

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Oizee(f): 8:13am On Mar 11
oh my gosh! may I not be blessed with a son like u...... infact I can never have ur type in my family...tueh

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Oizee(f): 8:17am On Mar 11
hakeemhakeem:



fruit of labour would not sour in your mouth
I say Amen on his behalf and wish you same too

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Oizee(f): 8:29am On Mar 11
Omihanifa:


I agree with you, but don't also forget that this is Africa and the fact that somebody is your mother doesn't mean she can't harm you. There are so many cases of mothers being behind their children's problem. Either as a result of disagrement over choice of wife or husband or even money or property

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if that were the case, and the wife is an innocent person, I can assure you that, the wife won't even want to have any connections with the mother-in-law at all.. not to talk of being sent to her directly.
it's always good to marry from a good home, civilised home, not home that people can't stay a day without doing consultation/divinations, meeting soothsayers here and there when they just experience little problem in their lives.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Lamasta(m): 8:32am On Mar 11
That wife of yours OP needs deliverance from spirit of wickedness

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by MufasaLion(m): 8:34am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.

Your wife is using psychology for you

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by pocohantas(f): 8:40am On Mar 11
Kondomatic:
Tell me that my mother is "Fe" and I will be done throwing your bags out by the time you say "tish"


What nonsense.

Come and throw it na. Shey na javelin abi shot put? Nonsense and ingredients.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by IAmSkinny: 8:42am On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

Guy your last sentence should be written in gold and hung all over the billboards in Nigeria.
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Nothing made of flesh and blood can come in between my mother and I. It's even worst if the flesh and blood is a woman.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by MufasaLion(m): 8:42am On Mar 11
Oizee:
oh my gosh! may I not be blessed with a son like u...... infact I can never have ur type in my family...tueh


The guy too dense

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by dmg1(m): 8:48am On Mar 11
OKOATA:
Tales of a simp, imagine an ordinary woman controlling the affairs of a grown up man. You should have been born with a puszy you this sissy man. I am sure if your wife tells you to forget your mom for life you would do it, funny enough I am sure that your so called evil wife is one useless and full time lazy ass woman always depending on her husband. A lady that wasn't there with you when you were born till you became a foolish man that you are, a total stranger from no where is now telling you your mom's a witch, any lady who tells that of my mom will regret this for life after I don slap her ear comot. Mr mumu man, go fuvk yourself because the "MAN" doesn't suite fools like you.

this was very funny but the truth.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Vulcanheph(m): 9:00am On Mar 11
No offense sir, but I'm sorry to say that "YOU ARE AN IDIOT"....a woman who gave birth to you and raised you from infancy can never do you any harm.... Always remember that no matter how slim there's a possibility that your wife might leave you for another man but your mother will never leave you, always remember that no sacrifice is too big for your mother

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Vulcanheph(m): 9:02am On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.
Dear Op
This man has said it all.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Angelacruz: 9:16am On Mar 11
D wife vividly knows that d man is a very weak man..dats y she is tarnishing d moda's name.Too bad.I tire for some men
Richy4:


My brother I will not blame the wife.... Assuming the man took a stand from unset....Treats his mum as the queen she should be for raising an amazing son like him...raising a marriable young man ...., Do you think fear will allow her to have that temerity to even voice that fetish nonsense out in the first place...

The wife has weighed him on a balance and finds him wanting....I do not want to say much because mums and kids were a sensitive topic for me... I love them too much...If I say something else, it might come out wrong and op might commit suicide sad

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Foodqueen(f): 9:19am On Mar 11
This op na idiot Sha!!!

Ur wife want to be knowing the amount you are giving to ur mother at any point in time, u fell for it.

Dear God, please don't let my son be like this op. AMEN.

I don't know the masculine name for "Ruth"

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by wisewordd: 9:25am On Mar 11
The story might not be true though but if it's true, then you're very weak.

I'm angry already reading this. Personally, it's either I leave the house or she does. The next thing will be her telling you to cut off with your mum like your other siblings.

Her own mother is not a witch when you send her money abi?

It be like say na baby mama go sure pass oh.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by grafixdon: 9:48am On Mar 11
This's so disheartening to say the least... If I were you, I'll run and never look back from a woman who make such derogatory statement about my mother.

Seeking advice on a serious issue like this says the kind of person you are. You're too weak a man. You don't disclose everything to that kidda woman. Henceforth, send money to your mother without her knowledge, stop disclosing your account balance and be very careful with such a woman. A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Kondomatic(m): 10:50am On Mar 11
pocohantas:


Come and throw it na. Shey na javelin abi shot put? Nonsense and ingredients.
Tigress






grin
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Karleb(m): 11:10am On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.

You be idiot.

So you wife ordered you that any money you wish to send to your own mother should pass through her and you obliged. You are a very foolish man!

If your mother was a witch, she would have killed you before you met your wife.

...and that woman you call wife is a bigger fool!

Nonsense!

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by RAGGA40(m): 11:10am On Mar 11
OP you are a daft personality a woman is detecting how you should live your life, give money to your parents,
bet me she will not give dat money to your mother,you are weakling of a man walahi what a messed up marriage.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by The5DME(m): 11:19am On Mar 11
Karleb:


You be idiot.

So you wife ordered you that any money you wish to send to your own mother should pass through her and you obliged. You are a very foolish man!

If your mother was a witch, she would have killed you before you met your wife.

...and that woman you call wife is a bigger fool!

Nonsense!
it's a fake story; don't stress yourself.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by jelel6: 11:26am On Mar 11
I'm still deciding which I think is worse;

1. Your wife calling your mama fetish

2. Your wife asking that money you give your mama should go through her

3. You being undecided and asking nairalanders what to do

You've already missed the chance to put your wife in her place. There are some things even your spouse or best friends shouldn't have the effontry to say or do in front of you. If they still try such - like your wife just did - then you must let them know they have crossed a line and it should never repeat itself.

All this superstitious shiit are just people trying to give convenient reasons and meanings to every single thing that's happening around them. I only wonder if the wonders of science is not enough mystery to them.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Blackbishop(m): 11:40am On Mar 11
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.


I love your true piece there. That OP na the greatest fool of all time, your mama dey fetish omo any woman wey follow me talk that shit omo she no go land for heaven cuz I go beat heaven comot her body na hell she go wake up

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by mabea: 11:45am On Mar 11
Omihanifa:
How did she arrive at that point that your mother is fetish?

Do you guys always notice any strange occurrence after giving your mother money ?

If your answer to the second question is YES, I will advice you to experiment with what she said. Give her the money and let her send it to her by herself.

Don't just discard her observations yet until you have a strong evidence that she's wrong.



That's my own opinion tho
Why would she be the one to send the money to her. I suspect the wife is the fetish one here.

@Chuxx84, your wife is a suspect here. It's possible that your mother's prayers is disturbing her hence she wants to get at her.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by 1F30M4(f): 12:07pm On Mar 11
What a vile and bitter soul you have as a lifetime companion.. Who is she to tell you to stop offering financial assistance to your mother, her supposed mother-in-law? Why on earth would she want you to send money to your mum through her? So she can exercise power as she would love to, she would then decide whether or not your mother really needs the money and if she's to divide the money into a billion or million parts before sending.. Someone that tells you when and when not to help take care of your mum, I bet she doesn't do that when her mum or family is involved.. I'd be wary of her if I were you, that woman is capable of anything and can go to any length to achieve her aim.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by larryjonze: 12:09pm On Mar 11
Kondomatic:
Tigress






grin

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Efewestern: 12:32pm On Mar 11
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders. Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.
I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills). Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back. Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.
Thanks.

Lol.. So you believe your mom is selfish, because a woman you just married said so? hahahahahaha

Bro, your mom wont be alive forever, the few years she have got here on earth, make it count, provide for her basic needs, you don't need to tell your wife since she doesn't like your mom, judging by her utterances.

Speak to your siblings and see how they can assist mama in any little way, few thousands from them once a while won't be bad.

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