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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by tunize(m): 12:06am On Mar 12, 2021
BigDick70inch:


Just imagine!!!

What useless advice r u seeking??
Yo mum was not fetish............while spending her hard earned money on u...........jux to see u prosper..........but now dat u lil bit comfortable..........

One daughter of jazabel,daughter of a thousand dad............is somewhere trying to pit u against her abi??I hate dull brain!!!!

Think dummy!............

May.........thunder fire that yo leprous fingers u used for typing this sef...........Amen!!

Infact........u really need to be dragged on fp..........
Lalaclala!!!!!!!!!!
Forget this guy na foolish man.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Thinee(m): 12:09am On Mar 12, 2021
nonen:
You married a bad wife, she’s the one who’s fetish and serving you fetishizes.

If you’ve always been sending your mum money yourself, it’s condescending to have your wife start doing that on your behalf.

Talking about fetishizes, your mum may be fetish - yes even is she is - she’s used that fetishizes for your good, that’s why you could earn to support her.

Don’t you think: for your wife to discover her, she’s also a fetish woman?

Nice question at the end boss......she's even offering to give her the money herself, na She gan gan be the fetish person.
Maybe it's the mum that's her downfall self, na why she de fear

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by oglalasioux(m): 12:10am On Mar 12, 2021
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

You are lucky to have a great mother. But don't say mothers can't be cruel and do wicked things to their children. Your point that mothers should be respected because they didn't abort the child at conception is nonsense. Many women try to but get stuck with it. This alone can trigger massive hatred from the mother to the child especially if it's a male.

I'm not, however, supporting OP's wife. OP's wife is a prototype of a future wicked mother who will do serious harm to her children if they fail to do her bidding.

You see, mothers can be cruel afterall and OP's wife is at the early stages of the metamorphosis.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Ashirioluwa: 12:11am On Mar 12, 2021
Is this real? I want you to tell me that you are kidding. I Don’t need any magician to tell me this....your wife is the problem. Boy you need to be careful of this bitch

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by osarodon(m): 12:15am On Mar 12, 2021
Brother your wife the fetish person here and please tell it straight her that she should stay out of you and your mother business.
Bro you actually listening to that your wicked wife when it comes to your mother? You shock me.
I prefer to divorce her than listen to her nonsense.
If my mother didn't kill me before she married me than why now.
Guy stop listening and doing her nonsense.

Please I sorry if my words are harsh but I am saying reality because she will not allow you try same to her parents.


Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by MummyD2020(f): 12:21am On Mar 12, 2021
This is Africa. The said wife could be right and she could be wrong. There is no way the man will not know who the mum is since all these while. The way we all spark on this forum sef. . We are always angry and too forward. Majority of us are not married yet. The guy should just figure out because he is in a better position. We are just observers from one end. He should take the necessary action. Deep down he knows who the real manipulator is. Let him settle his.home.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by PhillyA: 12:27am On Mar 12, 2021
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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nobody: 12:30am On Mar 12, 2021
You are just trying to run away from your responsibility nonsense one day your child will say the same thing to you wicked people
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Mrnairalandd: 12:30am On Mar 12, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.


The day you were born suppose to be cursed. If i see your useless wife right now, i ll slap her real hard and beat you worthless and god forsaking son.

You should be ashamed of yourself.

I pray that your son/daughter ll disrespect and disgrace you just like the way you have chosen to disgrace and embarrasse your mother cos of ordinary pussy of your wife.


Trust me, wife like yours always treat men like you like shit later in life.

That god forsaking wife of yours ll dump you at slightest problem but your mother ll stay with you till death.

Woman or wife can dump you anytime but your mother ll stay with you till death.

If you allow that bastard to come between you and your mother, you r finished.

Imagine the idiot asking you to be sending money through her... Are you this stupid! Are you mad? How can a woman say this to you? Are you this weak? What a weakling you are!

I am real upset with this shit

If i honestly know your mother, i ll be giving her the money and tell her what your worthless wife said.

I ll let her watch you die in the grave that wife of yours is digging for you.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by kizbad: 12:31am On Mar 12, 2021
STOP TELLING YOUR WIFE THAT YOUR MOTHER ASK MONEY, MOST OF THE TIME, THEY ARE NOT ALWAYS HAPPY WHEN YOU GIVE YOUR FAMILY MONEY ALL THE TYM...SO PLAY THIS GAME FOR COMPLETE 3MONTH TELL YOUR WIFE THAT YOUR MOM HASN'T ASK YOU OF ANY HELP FOR A WHILE..while u secretly bless your mum
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by farmboyy: 12:32am On Mar 12, 2021
You are already a fool now,why involvingyour wife when helping someone especially your mother. Wawa kawai, montula


Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by MOTIONTECH(m): 12:34am On Mar 12, 2021
You sound like some one who doesn't have a mind of his own.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by na2016: 12:35am On Mar 12, 2021
OP: From experience, some women will try to block you from giving money to your mom. I suggest, you only tell her that you gave your mom money. Don't, I repeat don't give money to your wife to give your mom cause 2 things will happen. 1) When the value of that money reduces and you want to add more money, your wife will strongly oppose it. 2) Your wife may not be giving your mother the money. Be diplomatic yet firm!! However, ensure you take care of your wife, but NEVER DENY OR DEPRIVE your mom the little you make.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by farmboyy: 12:36am On Mar 12, 2021
There's no difference btw you and this fool. In fact you must be a bastard, it is obvious you are product of rape probably a Fulani headman
MummyD2020:
This is Africa. The said wife could be right and she could be wrong. There is no way the man will not know who the mum is since all these while. The way we all spark on this forum sef. . We are always angry and too forward. Majority of us are not married yet. The guy should just figure out because he is in a better position. We are just observers from one end. He should take the necessary action. Deep down he knows who the real manipulator is. Let him settle his.home.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nextpresident: 12:38am On Mar 12, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Shikena(m): 12:38am On Mar 12, 2021
If you allow one selfish idiot drag you to collect curse from your mama I swear nobody fit forgive you except God himself. What nonsense! Do not hurt your mother dude.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nextpresident: 12:39am On Mar 12, 2021
ODE
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by eneazi(f): 12:40am On Mar 12, 2021
How were things before you got married? good I presume because in your words you've been taking care of your mother before marriage...and how are things now that you're married? there lies your answer on who is really fetish.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Nobody: 12:47am On Mar 12, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.



You are very Stupid
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Thinee(m): 12:49am On Mar 12, 2021
conscienceman4:
Your wife is fetish and high probability of tending to witchcraft.
Read me and read me clearly, the thing your wife wants is your downfall but for your mother.


Na the mama de save am , no lies

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by HBB1(m): 12:50am On Mar 12, 2021
Richy4:


My brother I will not blame the wife.... Assuming the man took a stand from unset....Treats his mum as the queen she should be for raising an amazing son like him...raising a marriable young man ...., Do you think fear will allow her to have that temerity to even voice that fetish nonsense out in the first place...

The wife has weighed him on a balance and finds him wanting....I do not want to say much because mums and kids were a sensitive topic for me... I love them too much...If I say something else, it might come out wrong and op might commit suicide sad

..and from what he wrote up there, you have deciphered he doesn't treat his mother like a Queen?

You must be a Genius!

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Thinee(m): 12:53am On Mar 12, 2021
Gloriagee:
This bolded part is most mind boggling. How exactly does she intend to neutralise the fetish lipsrsealed

na merlin she be grin grin grin grin
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by otipoju(m): 12:54am On Mar 12, 2021
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.

Lol. 90% of male prophets in my parish will never give me message...i no be their customer. Born and bred proper Celeboy. If you are notbled by the Spirit of God...dont come near me ooo.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by gare2510(m): 12:58am On Mar 12, 2021
I have always believed that as long as my hands are clean nobody can plan evil for me and succeed. My responsibility is to take of my parents and that comes with a great blessing irrespective of what or who they are. So I will play my part and allow God to do his part.
I won't want to say anything about your wife or mom but want to make it about you. Whether you give or not if evil people want to harm you if God is not with you, you are a goner

Just to add I give my parents money directly not through anybody , I pay directly into their accounts I give my wife's family money through her, even when they come to me I tell them to talk to her. Might help to try this
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Vivian16: 1:09am On Mar 12, 2021
That your wife is evil and manipulative, she wants to be in total control and you are even giving her the hand, don't worry when she is done dealing with your mother she will face you and finish you completely and bring in her own family to run things with her, the only witch I see here is your wife who came from no where to stop you mother from reaping the fruits of her labour.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by bluefilm: 1:10am On Mar 12, 2021
Chuxx84:
[s]Good evening nairalanders.Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.Thanks[/s].

Nothing unusual here.

Just Another SIMP on display.
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by GrandFinale2021(m): 1:13am On Mar 12, 2021
Chuxx84:
Good evening nairalanders.
Please I need advice/opinions on this issue at hand.

I have been taking care of my mother since before I got married, I have other brothers older and younger but they are not financially buoyant. (So they claimed) I did not mind this but kept on caring for her ( house rent, feeding, other bills).

Although it's a burden to me, but she is my mother. Now my wife suggest that any money I want to give to her should pass through her (I will send to my wife then she sends to my mother) or she does the sending and I later pay her back.

Her claim is my mother is fetish with my money. I'm confused can this be true? Sometimes my mother will make simple money request my wife would say I should ignore her. She says she is taking me for a fool. I am beginning to get tired of this whole thing. Please help with advice or opinions.

Thanks.
you'll be the greatest bastard and cursed fellow on earth if you listen to that useless devil bitch of a bastard you call wife.
nonsense

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Kolisky(m): 1:15am On Mar 12, 2021
MejiLoyon:

I want to address the fetish level

Hold one hand over your head, raise the other hand up, raise one leg and start hopping on your other leg. Now say after me, oh lord, allow me to have sense. Deliver me from the spirit of mumuism.

Your mother CAN NEVER be the cause of your misfortune. Else she would have flushed you from day one. Having taken care of you,through shit and piss. Sickness,school,food everything one woman go come say she dey fetish. If she is let her be fetish. If that fetish level no kill me and I still dey okay,dear mother dey do am dey go. I don't like divorce but as for your wife,it's left to you

2015 felele in Ibadan I was attending one cele church. I was born a celestian so make una no talk say I go find jazz. In any case one wooli do sharamantakaya come my side say spirit dey run am. I just dey look. Mid prophesy na him he mention say na my mama dey do me. Na that time I believe say spirit dey him body true true because the way I looked at him he stopped prophesying. I calmly walked to the Shephard and told him to warn that prophet. If he try am again he go collect. Apology accepted I left and never returned. If my mama dey do me and I dey this okay,please mommy, continue to be doing me.


In fact, God will bless you worldly and heavenly cheesy cheesy

I don’t joke with any matter that concern my mother ohh
My Mother; My everything cheesy cheesy
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by Richy4(m): 1:17am On Mar 12, 2021
HBB1:


..and from what he wrote up there, you have deciphered he doesn't treat his mother like a Queen?

You must be a Genius!

yea!! I know that I'm a genius dear because it runs in our blood undecided

There's something called reading between the line...It doesn't have to be written and it's not hard to dictate... ask any one that studied literature, They will teach you...
Besides, Assuming he treats his mum as a queen,, He would not have asked the silly question if money can go throw her wife to his mother.. He would have screamed the house down for anyone suggesting that her mother( who happens to be her first queen before any other) was fetish....
Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by wolebest: 1:21am On Mar 12, 2021
Please my brother, don't fall for such comments about your beloved mother. It seems your wife is looking for opportunity to ease your mum out of the way. Watch out your wife will begin to see phantom witches and demons very soon.

All this years while you were growing up your mama didn't kill you. Let me warn you if you stop taking care of her, you will reap it when you grow old.

You had better focus and continue to load your heaven and let Mama's silent prayers continue to prosper you.

Do all you can to make your mum enjoy her old age with the comfort you can provide, that's why you are prosperous than all your family members.

Honour thy Father and thy Mother without conditions, that's what the Bible says.

If your mum is fetish and you are doing well, she had better continue to be fetish, lucky you.

There are a million and one guys out there looking and desiring parents who will be there backbone and support so that they can do well in life.

Please let her be, pray for her too. You see her now, better enjoy her the more, by the time she's gone, you will discover that she was your backbone. A time will come when she has lived her full cycle and gone to rest with her Maker, you will miss her immensely. Cherish her now.

Take a cue from me, my parents are still alive despite being of age and I do say a prayer for them everyday. I don't joke with their upkeep even when my wife accused me of focusing attention on my family members. My parents come second after God.

When I remember in the 80's during the SAP riots how my dad and mum toiled hard to put food on the table for six children. I always appreciate them, because I saw it on their faces that it was a rough time then. So now that they are aging I do my best for them and their prayers always come in droves.

Be extremely kind to her. Brother, think deep of the number of years your mum and dad took care of you until you were able to make it in life.

Ask yourself, can I take care of my mum and repay her for the number of years she took care of me?

A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: Is My Wife Correct On This Matter? by lovenavigation: 1:27am On Mar 12, 2021
DON'T YOU THINK YOU ARE A FOOL TO ASK PUBLIC HOW TO FIX YOUR FAMILY
DON'T BE A WOMAN WRAPPER, DO THAT THAT IS NEEDFUL. IT'S NOT EVERYTHING YOU TELL WOMEN. DO THAT YOU KNOW IS RIGHT AND DAMN THE REST.

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