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Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by mrksquare: 7:53pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ogbuefi677: Why is it that ladies of this generation do not like anything that will bring them in close contact with their mother inlaw? 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by emperorshaokahn(m): 7:54pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1:i dont need to be married to know marrage as it is now is unfavourable and parasitic to men.just like i dont need to be in aso rock to know buhari is a monumental failure.you talk about not being forced with a gun bla bla bla,but you forget all the emotional blackmail and manipulations you women pull on men(simps though) 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 7:59pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
dominique:Read the next few posts of the OP on this topic, he mentioned the guy is financially ok, so we're prolly dealing with an only child or an extremely lonely woman living alone in a big house and the guy in question might be d only of her children close by. I know what loneliness can do to parents,my dad has been begging me for years to send my boys to live with them tempting me with talk like "you know they'll be better catered for than you can do,you know they'll never lack anything,your wife will have all d time to read for her masters", me I jus de smile within . cos they live alone in my state capital and none of us (my siblings and I) lives in the state. My biggest grouse is the girl is threatening to call off the wedding which to me sounds combative and makes me doubt if she even loves d guy at all. Well,I guess different folks,different strokes. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Queenserah26(f): 8:03pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
So much sense in a piece! hosemujica: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 8:06pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
emperorshaokahn: Yes. You need to be married to understand a lot. Sorry, it's not like an outsider knowing what is going on in Aso rock. People can show you what they want you to see or tell you what they want to tell you. Have a good night. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 8:07pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
mrksquare:Because of their wickedness cos he who constantly murders with knives doesn't ever allow ppl to walk behind him with a knife. Watch out P square them etc,all very harmonious until wives came into the picture. Same thing my wife and my younger brother's wife wanted to try with us until they found out both of us are baa kwomi ppl wey no send and both wives got tired and stopped their little petty games. Person wey I don spend 30+ years with and remember quarreling with only once,you go from ya mama house wan put us asunder for nonsense complains you should easily overlook or things that border on perception alone. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by dreamangel: 8:32pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
She is doing the right thing for her. I am sure your Sister has met his mother and has evaluated the situation. For some rare unique mother's it will be a blessing for others living like that with them will be hell on earth. There is no need setting up a situation that will be traumatic and toxic in the future. She may even end up quarrelling or insulting the older woman. If that happens her marriage will be over. The husband may also not find it easy. Many of such situations do not end up well. If she can't deal, she make the best decision for her. This may also be a sign that this is not the husband for her. She should pray very well too before taking a final step. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by emperorshaokahn(m): 8:39pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
ImaIma1:and you too maam,its been a very nice conversation with you,although i'm still quite unconvinced about this marrage thing. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 9:34pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
A bit strange to reduce all women to their genital organ. I know a lot of people, women included, do that but a higher thinking man like you should do better na. Timbers: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 9:48pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
You mean half a million a year or month because it takes quite a bit to earn that in civil service. Except it's a university and you're more than a senior lecturer so please explain. ogbuefi677: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 9:52pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
cooooooks:Month. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 10:02pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Lol. Nna i know how you feel. By the time they convert it to dollars, they be looking like they're poor. Na you abi your mum wey dey earn the half mil. if you never reach 35 I dey wonder how you go don already climb to that level. I know how much Directors earn. :/ and no Director I know is under 45. -_- ogbuefi677: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by andsboy29: 10:06pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
You are the sister. Period. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ogbuefi677(m): 10:34pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
cooooooks:doctors join the service from an equivalent of level 13 |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Powerfly(f): 10:49pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
Pickieox:Innuendo and a touch of blunt sarcasm. Thanks. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by cooooooks(m): 11:54pm On Aug 11, 2020 |
I have at least 1 close friend (who is always complaining lol) who is a federal doctor. It's like you'll have to define 'close' because differences of 200,000 and 50,000 are both 'close'. And thank you for your service as a Nigerian doctor still in Nigeria! ogbuefi677: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by dasparrow: 12:35am On Aug 12, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: In that case, let him go and marry his mother! The Holy Word of God said that "therefore shall a man leave his family and cleave to his wife and they shall become one." If the man is not willing to leave his family and cleave to his wife, then he should stay single or go and marry his mother. Shikena! |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Pickieox(m): 1:03am On Aug 12, 2020 |
Powerfly:Eggzactly. Anointing oil dey your and I can see you doing well... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Ferrous(m): 7:47am On Aug 12, 2020 |
Chii59: You see, when woman build a house, they tend to exert much power and influence over you in the house than when it's built by ur father. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: She made the right choice for herself. She alone understands the situation she is in and I am sure she thought well and hard before concluding. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
cooooooks: |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Aug 12, 2020 |
cooooooks:This one made me cackle like an old hen. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by DedeNkem: 1:06am On Aug 13, 2020 |
OluwaLina1: Your sister is smart! She knows what she wants. Livng with your mother-in-law is not advisable. Let her be! 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by veave(f): 6:16am On Aug 13, 2020 |
Omo. The comments I read in front page ehn. Na wah |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 12:04pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
mrksquare: Only speaking to my MIL this morning, I have been crying since because of the things she said. She's causing this much wahala while she thousands of miles away, now imagine living with her. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by mrksquare: 12:11pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Not all mother in-laws are overbearing. I am not a mummy's boy neither I am a Daddy's boy. Always being independent minded. Beside, my mum is too busy with her job to start meddling into my family. Beside, not like I will live in my father's house forever. Money I will use in renting house for three years can be used to buy land and start developing it. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 12:41pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Hmmmmmm. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by ImaIma1(f): 12:49pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
mrksquare: My husband is not a mummy's boy either. She just wanted to take out the disagreement she had with him on me. I am not saying all MILs are overbearing. But it is advisable to live as husband and wife away from them. It makes the relationship better and gives more peace of mind. A mother will always talk not caring whose feelings are hurt. So it's better to stay away to avoid experiencing it constantly. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by mrksquare: 3:29pm On Aug 13, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Renting house outside will put a strain on my resources. My fiancee isn't working. Still saving for marriage. Beside, I am doing some pockets of professional courses and joining it with paying rent will put a hole to my resources. I understand your point. And to be truthful I also do not like the idea of staying in a family house either. |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by MikaelDare(m): 7:26am On Mar 12, 2021 |
OP. what's the current update about the issue? |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by OluwaLina1(f): 8:10am On Mar 12, 2021 |
MikaelDare:Maybe I should create a new thread for the update 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Cancels Her Wedding. Is She Doing The Right Thing? by MikaelDare(m): 1:21pm On Mar 20, 2021 |
OluwaLina1:Alright then. 1 Like |
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