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Chevrolet076:
I've an advice for the youths who wants to have a sexual relationship with a lady.

Never ever tell her your problems, or seek her advice when you're really down about something, or seek her opinion in a tight spot, or let her be the shoulder you cry on during your difficult times. I've found out that the more you do any of the above, the lesser you're attractive to her and unfortunately, the more you'll be attached to her. at the end of the day, the only place you'll end is the friendzone.




this is strictly my opinion.

I once had a relationship stint with a lady. She said in her words "you are very very strange". I don't even know you even after 14 months. She continued " you don't cry, you hardly smile, you don't share your feelings with me. Do you have a problem at all? I can't seem to own you. She said so many things that day. Funny enough, i was not moved. I even thought she would quit the relationship. But she never did.

Adasun:
that high tolerance for stress is something I need to work on.my body systems usually shut down during stress.

Me too. My body is just not made for stress. It has really limited the amount of things I achieved.

TheUndercover:
She won't, even if she eventually did, it won't be because of that. Mystery is what keeps the fire burning. Unpredictability is a superpower. The moment a woman can predict what you can do and not do, then that's it!

You are spot on. The Power of unpredictability and mystery.

StacyO:
I get more attracted to people that are open to me.




This might not apply to everyone.

this coming from a lady isn't substantial, the only gender whose claim about this is valid is the men who has been in such scenarios. I can tell you that most of those people who end up as your male bestie, friend actually toured this path. and you'll never ever think of having anything sexual with them. just "casual friendship"

TheUndercover:
Do not be romantically involved with a married woman. I won't explain

Are you saying this from a religious angle?

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SweetVibe:
Are you saying this from a religious angle?

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No.

Chevrolet076:
this coming from a lady isn't substantial, the only gender whose claim about this is valid is the men who has been in such scenarios. I can tell you that most of those people who end up as your male bestie, friend actually toured this path. and you'll never ever think of having anything sexual with them. just "casual friendship"

You've conflicted your statement "


[color=TEAN]Never ever tell her your problems, or seek her advice when you're really down about something, or seek her opinion in a tight spot, or let her be the shoulder you cry on during your difficult times. I've found out that the more you do any of the above, the lesser you're attractive to her and unfortunately, the more you'll be attached to her. at the end of the day, the only place you'll end is the friendzone.[/color]







[color=TEAN]this coming from a lady isn't substantial, the only gender whose claim about this is valid is the men who has been in such scenarios. I can tell you that most of those people who end up as your male bestie, friend actually toured this path. and you'll never ever think of having anything sexual with them. just "casual friendship"[/color]






Most of my male besties never shared anything worth solving with me,why I kept them as just friends.
Later on,they began to get all emotional and sharing life problems with me. The more I solved,the more they got attracted to me.

Sharing and discussing personal personal issues with people brings them closer to your heart and the more closer a male & female gets,the more likely there'll be a form of chemistry or biology, anyone.

StacyO:
You've conflicted your statement "


[color=TEAN]Never ever tell her your problems, or seek her advice when you're really down about something, or seek her opinion in a tight spot, or let her be the shoulder you cry on during your difficult times. I've found out that the more you do any of the above, the lesser you're attractive to her and unfortunately, the more you'll be attached to her. at the end of the day, the only place you'll end is the friendzone.[/color]







[color=TEAN]this coming from a lady isn't substantial, the only gender whose claim about this is valid is the men who has been in such scenarios. I can tell you that most of those people who end up as your male bestie, friend actually toured this path. and you'll never ever think of having anything sexual with them. just "casual friendship"[/color]






Most of my male besties never shared anything worth solving with me,why I kept them as just friends.
Later on,they began to get all emotional and sharing life problems with me. The more I solved,the more they got attracted to me.

Sharing and discussing personal personal issues with people brings them closer to your heart and the more closer a male & female gets,the more likely there'll be a form of chemistry or biology, anyone.

your male besties are simps.A man would never share his problemsoutside family