TheUndercover:
Power Imbalances:

In most relationships, the power dynamic is governed by dependency; whichever party needs the other less is the party that wields power.

If you need them more than they need you, they wield power over you. If they need you more than you need them, you wield power over them. If you both need each other intensely, or you both have little or no need for each other, your power levels are equal.

The power dynamic being governed by dependency is true of almost all types of relationships; business, romantic, even friendship. Do what you can to minimize the degree to which you are dependent on others, and maximize the degree to which they are dependent on you.

Uyoukowise:
PLS DON'T DELETE THIS WORK

TheUndercover:

Newusername:
It's painful how you are really deleting this posts. So bad for the people using it to perpetrate evil, so sad. To think I was going through this thread yesterday only for me to login and now it's deleted. It's so sad.

I hope you have been good TheUndercover, I went through your profile yesterday and I was wondering if you were dead or have started a new adventure like you clearly stated. I wish you all the best. But this posts wey you dey delete dey pain me gan.

I fit PM you?

TheUndercover:

I've been good. Hope everything is fine with you also? Yeah, I've started a new adventure. My mission here is closed for now. I might be coming online once in a while, make few comments and leave but that's all about that. Just need to get this done with first. It was a hard decision I had to take myself, this is why I tried so hard to recover this account for it to be done.

And yes, you can send me a PM.

TheUndercover:

I've been good. Hope everything is fine with you also? Yeah, I've started a new adventure. My mission here is closed for now. I might be coming online once in a while, make few comments and leave but that's all about that. Just need to get this done with first. It was a hard decision I had to take myself, this is why I tried so hard to recover this account for it to be done.

And yes, you can send me a PM.

Degrezhaa:

Sent you an email please, can you do me favour by replying, got some couple of questions to ask.

TheUndercover:
Men share their experience so that other men don't suffer the same fate as them

Women fake their experience so that other women make the same mistakes as them

TheUndercover:

I've acknowledged your mail.

TheUndercover:
I received many requests, some even extended their gratitude to me offline, I say thank you all, but the purpose of this post today would be mainly about this thread.

It has been called to my attention that some of my posts on this thread, if not most, might be misconstrued by some people to perpetrate their evil, or justify their that revil acts, this thread is only meant for enlightenment in other for you not to fall prey to predators, but at it's always said, it's always better to be safe than sorry, you can eliminate bad people, but you can't eliminate evil. There will always be those who are keen in wreaking havoc and posts like this can be used to justify their actions, even when the disclaimer is boldly stated on the first post. As this knowledge is a thing that every man should know, it can be also used to do good or evil. It can be said to be neutral depending on the soul using it. In fact, it is a mandatory knowledge to be studied, because being good alone doesn't save you from the dangers of this world, you have to be able to know when you're being a target for an impending danger and this knowledge will equip you with the ammunition to keep yourself safe. It's a cold world out there.

In relation to that, I would be deleting the posts on this thread, this is why I had to find a way to recover this account in everyway possible to make that happen. I couldn't use this account for a while due to previous phone damage. Keeping you guys waiting (those who I'm referring to know themselves) wasn't my intention.

I really appreciate you guys once again, for the love shown to me both online and offline and I hope you've found a way to better yourself and improve your lifestyle.

Stay safe everyone. One Love.

TheUndercover:
I received many requests, some even extended their gratitude to me offline, I say thank you all, but the purpose of this post today would be mainly about this thread.

It has been called to my attention that some of my posts on this thread, if not most, might be misconstrued by some people to perpetrate their evil, or justify their evil acts, this thread is only meant for enlightenment in other for you not to fall prey to predators, but at it's always said, it's always better to be safe than sorry, you can eliminate bad people, but you can't eliminate evil. There will always be those who are keen in wreaking havoc and posts like this can be used to justify their actions, even when the disclaimer is boldly stated on the first post. As this knowledge is a thing that every man should know, it can be also used to do good or evil. It can be said to be neutral depending on the soul using it. In fact, it is a mandatory knowledge to be studied, because being good alone doesn't save you from the dangers of this world, you have to be able to know when you're being a target for an impending danger and this knowledge will equip you with the ammunition to keep yourself safe. It's a cold world out there.

In relation to that, I would be deleting the posts on this thread, this is why I had to find a way to recover this account in everyway possible to make that happen. I couldn't use this account for a while due to previous phone damage. Keeping you guys waiting (those who I'm referring to know themselves) wasn't my intention.

I really appreciate you guys once again, for the love shown to me both online and offline and I hope you've found a way to better yourself and improve your lifestyle.

Stay safe everyone. One Love.

TheUndercover:

I've acknowledged your mail.