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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by clergyman2021: 12:58pm On Mar 13, 2021
cheesy
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Sirlins(m): 12:58pm On Mar 13, 2021
Wahala just dey everywhere.....nawaoo

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Auntyada89(f): 12:58pm On Mar 13, 2021
Advise the lady to report to appropriate authority and leave stay away from their problem.
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Kingcalls: 1:03pm On Mar 13, 2021
U will not mind ur business now...tell her go to complain to her papa... she has family members...
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Nobody: 1:04pm On Mar 13, 2021
CheedyJ:

It’s what you are thinking bro.. op na gay.. the guy dey ‘toast am, he didn’t block him to d point of him begging for sex & sending nudes of himself and d idiot still no block am, abegi....he’s gay as bleep


He could be "Upcoming Gay" �

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by chamboy(m): 1:05pm On Mar 13, 2021
He needs a Afro-centric Clinical Psychologist that can deal with this mental disorder
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by evasplendid(m): 1:06pm On Mar 13, 2021
Casham:
If this is true, the only reasonable thing you should do is to help that woman to divorce him. There is nothing to settle there. The man is freaking gay and an abuser and you are asking her to involve his family. What family? For what?



U spoke well.. Wisdom

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by dohyn(m): 1:06pm On Mar 13, 2021
Idiots like you that turns every single post to a tribal affair never cease to amaze me...

What does homosexuality have to do with tribalism? And to think the OP's location says "Enugu".

Ewu Gambia

TotoGame:
strictly Afonja gays affairs


I'm out of here !!!!

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by overseasnbeyond: 1:07pm On Mar 13, 2021
Really!
richmond500:
nairaland has the highest number of stupid people per square kilometer

Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by BlueAir: 1:07pm On Mar 13, 2021
angry Give her whatever evidences she's asking for to free herself from that bully husband. I'm not fond of taking it easy on women and their annoying behaviors but tormenting her and making her look crazy and totally helpless is a no no. U say u don't want to be the instrument to break her young family,do u prefer to be one of the reasons she'll die in that "young marriage"? It's very obvious if that toxic bully husband doesn't kill her while beating her, she'll die of depression.give her whatever evidences she needs from u to free herself from that bondage and slavery marriage she's in. You'll be saving a soul proactively. There's nothing to be guilty of

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Idzitari1(m): 1:10pm On Mar 13, 2021
Oga if true u have all the evidence she need why denying her, u can equally help her before the maggot kill her in his house

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Sterope(f): 1:11pm On Mar 13, 2021
@Adonis86

What family? He may not be sexually attracted to her. He resents her. He abuses her. Would you wish that on your worst enemy? Maybe. On your sister nko?

Is there actually a family with what you have typed?

But I don't want to be that instrument she'll use to break up her young family

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by dominique(f): 1:14pm On Mar 13, 2021
If you have evidence that this man is truly gay, why not provide it except there are parts of the chat chat can implicate you as gay as well.

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Nobody: 1:14pm On Mar 13, 2021
I put it to you op that your are gay,even your profile picture confirms it.


That aside for the sake of the remaining humanity you have left in you help that woman. I can't imagine being married to a gay husband, it's terrible ! shocked

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by armadeo(m): 1:15pm On Mar 13, 2021
Nigga you is gay as F.

You still in contact with a dude who sends you nudes of himself. And after talking to his wife you still talked to him.

Only two things make sense for your continued communications

1.) You actually are fucking the man
2.) You want to scam him of change


Either way you still gay

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by emerged01(m): 1:15pm On Mar 13, 2021
Op is not far from being a gay if he is not. His profile picture can say all about him.

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by AreaFada2: 1:16pm On Mar 13, 2021
maureensylvia:
Ur posts reads gay all-over you... But that's by the way. cool

If u really want to help the lady, you know what to do. This is domestic violence for heaven sake.

I wonder why you didn't mention cautioning the dude on the gayish part but you were only interested on the wife beating undecided

For the Reverend fr, in as much as he's trying to prevent divorce, he should know when to call it a limit.
Lots of people are gay and lesbian. 9ja reportedly has the highest online gay porn watchers. Na cats dey watch an in 9ja? Na hypocrites full everywhere. If OP is not gay, he hasn't had the chance to be yet.
How can you entertain gay chat from a guy married to your online friend? shocked
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by davido91(m): 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2021
Give her the evidence

The marriage is already ruined
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by stevolution5: 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2021
Sorry to say this but the OP's action indicates he is either dumb or sooooo gay, from what I have learnt about these gay guys, due to the marginalisation they get from d society they get very protective of their own similarly to the drug user community, now why will he refuse to send her d evidences she needed to liberate herself from the hell she's going through but felt he could solve the whole thing by going to talk to the guy on Facebook, how does that even make any sense, of course he wouldn't want to send it cause he could indict himself in the process. #fact! I'll bet a bottom dollar he's gay, let's bet our kidneys

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by djon78(m): 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2021
Adonis86:
The matter don tire me. The guy denied knowing me, rather accuses the wife of having an extramarital affair with me. People I've never met in my life. She said at the initial stage he suggested they meet a man of God. When they met the man of God and told him about hee husband's sexuality, the Man of God advised her to play along, that if the husband likes asss more than pusssy, she should give it to him... That one off me.

I humbly advised her to involve her family and the husband's family for advise. But she's insisting on divorce against the Man of god's advice... I hereby wash my hands in innocence, that I may go about the Lord's supper.



But if the guy is gay, the woman has every right to divorce Him, also addim the beating on top
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by PastorandMentor(m): 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2021
Gay thread cheesy

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by akpunda86: 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2021
Adonis86:
The matter don tire me. The guy denied knowing me, rather accuses the wife of having an extramarital affair with me. People I've never met in my life. She said at the initial stage he suggested they meet a man of God. When they met the man of God and told him about hee husband's sexuality, the Man of God advised her to play along, that if the husband likes asss more than pusssy, she should give it to him... That one off me.

I humbly advised her to involve her family and the husband's family for advise. But she's insisting on divorce against the Man of god's advice... I hereby wash my hands in innocence, that I may go about the Lord's supper.


My friend our moniker resemble.I thought was my friends case.Hey the young lady should quit the marriage no way to it.Like many guys gay now.

My young friend a girl of 25 yrs just left the gay husband she met here on naira land.Three years of marriage the guy just wants to have kids.So after a year of marriage for two yrs hubby NVR touch wife not even after I bought enuff sexy wears thru jumia for her hubby dk no dey rise.Gay case is a case study.

On Sunday hubby left for church and forgot fone at home.wife went thru and saw enuff with videos of hubby riding an ass.sge screen shot,sent videos on wassap and hubby came home bf service end went for his fone.dats how God want it cos sometimes lockscreen misbehaves.

Next line of action wife ran ran ran away as hubby went to work and once she was in Her parents house she sent all hubby nude and screenshots.

Know what happened Hubby blocked wife on wassap and calls.

Divorce on course.

So guy advice ur friend to quit The marriage is like once the dk tastes an Ass Otis never same

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by AreaFada2: 1:17pm On Mar 13, 2021
kelvinrhs:



He could be "Upcoming Gay" �
Yet to blow. grin

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by davido91(m): 1:19pm On Mar 13, 2021
armadeo:
Nigga you is gay as F.

You still in contact with a dude who sends you nudes of himself. And after talking to his wife you still talked to him.

Only two things make sense for your continued communications

1.) You actually are fucking the man
2.) You want to scam him of change


Either way you still gay




This is actually a very stupid comment
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by duro4chang(m): 1:19pm On Mar 13, 2021
I don't believe the story.
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by AlphaLover: 1:20pm On Mar 13, 2021
Nairaland and fake stories is now 5&6
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by OnlyDeCapPlease(m): 1:21pm On Mar 13, 2021
Adonis86:
As I was going through my phone this afternoon, a lady chatted me and I responded. She said she wants to ask me a question, that I shouldn't be angry with her. I assured her that I won't be hard on her. She asked me if I'm a gay. I responded No. She sent me a screenshot of a conversation I had months ago who I later learnt to be her husband. I asked her why she asked of my sexuality, she said she's suspecting her husband of three years to be a gay. It sounds so crazy to me but I suspect it's real due to the screenshot of the message, where the guy was demanding for sex from me. Now, I inquired more about their relationship as couple and found out he beats his wife often, even during her first pregnancy.

Now, the man confirmed to me that he beat the wife last night for going through his phone conversation and labelling him a gay, due to the kinda conversations he's been having with guys. But in a bid to deny it, he deleted the conversation and beat her up on false accusation. The lady has reported to their Reverend in church, but the Reverend discouraged her from going to Human rights commission or leaving the marriage.

Now, she's looking for more evidence to nail the husband. She wants me to send her the whole conversation I had with the husband, showing where the husband was begging me for sex and sending me his nude pictures. But I don't want to be that instrument she'll use to break up her young family. Though the annoying part is that the husband is very resentful and not even remorseful about his infidelity and domestic violence. The lady is not educated though wanted to learn a skill or go for further studies, but the husband refuses to send her to learn all those skills. According to her, he once accused her in his shop for stealing 45k, which was not true. He stopped her from coming out to his shop, whenever she comes out to stay with him in the shop, he'll be talking her down in the presence of his friends and customers. I was moved by her lamentations, that's why I had to take the pain to write this. I have contacted the husband on Facebook and inquired about the dispute and learnt the lady was saying the truth. Though I threatened the husband with military arrest if he ever touches the wife. But I'm still scared he might get home and pounce on the wife again for talking to me.

Please i need matured advice from people here on how matured to settle this young family dispute without the poor lady suffering further in the hand of this young man.

I've got to hand it to you.

Your level of gay tolerance is mind blowing shocked shocked shocked

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by frozen70(f): 1:21pm On Mar 13, 2021
Adonis86:
As I was going through my phone this afternoon, a lady chatted me and I responded. She said she wants to ask me a question, that I shouldn't be angry with her. I assured her that I won't be hard on her. She asked me if I'm a gay. I responded No. She sent me a screenshot of a conversation I had months ago who I later learnt to be her husband. I asked her why she asked of my sexuality, she said she's suspecting her husband of three years to be a gay. It sounds so crazy to me but I suspect it's real due to the screenshot of the message, where the guy was demanding for sex from me. Now, I inquired more about their relationship as couple and found out he beats his wife often, even during her first pregnancy.

Now, the man confirmed to me that he beat the wife last night for going through his phone conversation and labelling him a gay, due to the kinda conversations he's been having with guys. But in a bid to deny it, he deleted the conversation and beat her up on false accusation. The lady has reported to their Reverend in church, but the Reverend discouraged her from going to Human rights commission or leaving the marriage.

Now, she's looking for more evidence to nail the husband. She wants me to send her the whole conversation I had with the husband, showing where the husband was begging me for sex and sending me his nude pictures. But I don't want to be that instrument she'll use to break up her young family. Though the annoying part is that the husband is very resentful and not even remorseful about his infidelity and domestic violence. The lady is not educated though wanted to learn a skill or go for further studies, but the husband refuses to send her to learn all those skills. According to her, he once accused her in his shop for stealing 45k, which was not true. He stopped her from coming out to his shop, whenever she comes out to stay with him in the shop, he'll be talking her down in the presence of his friends and customers. I was moved by her lamentations, that's why I had to take the pain to write this. I have contacted the husband on Facebook and inquired about the dispute and learnt the lady was saying the truth. Though I threatened the husband with military arrest if he ever touches the wife. But I'm still scared he might get home and pounce on the wife again for talking to me.

Please i need matured advice from people here on how matured to settle this young family dispute without the poor lady suffering further in the hand of this young man.

There is little or nothing you can do, just confirm that he is a gay, then leave her to handle her husband by herself

Every woman knows how to handle her husband

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by davido91(m): 1:22pm On Mar 13, 2021
AreaFada2:

Lots of people are gay and lesbian. 9ja reportedly has the highest online gay porn watchers. Na cats dey watch an in 9ja? Na hypocrites full everywhere. If OP is not gay, he hasn't had the chance to be yet.
How can you entertain gay chat from a guy married to your online friend? shocked


You clearly didn't read the story. Go back and read it well
Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by Handsomecole(m): 1:23pm On Mar 13, 2021
It doesn't men brother! Gays are mental retards, they can ask any guy for sex once your cute , in fact I've once been subtly assaulted by a Gay before. So it doesn't matter if you're a straight guy.
Kriss216:

The man is demanding sex from you and sending you his nudes and you dare say it sounds so crazy to you that he's gay?

Why should a gay be demanding sex from a straight guy? Hope it's not what I'm thinking

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by SarkinYarki: 1:24pm On Mar 13, 2021
Adonis86:

Ask any cute guy that's active on social media, they can relate well with the experience. It's a commonplace.
If you're very cute, both guys and girls will be on your neck.

Sharap you are gay and you made this story up ...

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Re: She Discovered Her Husband Is A Gay, Now This Is Happening by TotoGame(m): 1:25pm On Mar 13, 2021
dohyn:
Idiots like you that turns every single post to a tribal affair never cease to amaze me...

What does homosexuality have to do with tribalism? And to think the OP's location says "Enugu".

Ewu Gambia



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