I would agree, he should give her time, in friend zone, i will even advise my sisters the same thing, so have understanding and foresight.

Treat her, like you would treat a sister and daughter, you know the kind of society we are in, its not like before, it is even good for you too.

oneolajire:
Hi, change your ideology. You are first guided by God's rules, before church rules.

If you want to marry a lady, to be in marriage for up to 50 years, it is not too much to give 6 to 12 months for a lady to know you in friend zone. It is even to your advantage.

As she is getting to know you, it shows she will give you a green light. But have you tried to know her? Guy, I see overconfidence in you.

Seems you are in a hurry to get into the relationship, hope you will not be in a hurry to get out.

Have you seriously prayed about it? Have you sought counsel? Have you taken time to know her friends and acquaintances?

Never force a lady to marry you. It is better a lady regrets that she didn't marry you, than to regret getting married to you.

Smartguyboy:


Ohio I for use pay house rent and furnish my house the useless fool client no gree to withdraw the money Na so the aza cast .

Omo... Better days ahead bro.

Hmmm........ losing your balance on seeing her for the first time and breaking voice speaking to her friends are symptoms of a natural simp which babes do put on Plan B or friend zone while waiting for signs of red pill to show.

Just pretend you're not interested in her (even if you are), make her jealous, ignore her, friend zone her if possible. Invest in your goals and hobbies instead.
Do not play into her mind games. Many of these church girls are not good o! They are very desperate for husbands.
No simping bro, have a plan B and even a plan C chick around.
I have prescribed some dose of red pills to cure your oneitis
Have you even tried other girls? The world is full beautiful women 100x better than this chick.

This situation is called"substitution confusion".
She has a main boyfriend who she loves, she loves you too but only see you as a replacement for her b.f( that is if they break up).
Stop clinging, don't call her regularly, avoid her for some times and see the mystery solved

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Since you are a church man let me leave you with this passage. "How long will you tarry between 2 options? Choose ye this day whom ye will serve...."

She get boyfriend bro, she just dey use you catch cruise. She's only enjoying the company and the attention you are giving her.

Muhylonaire007:


I'm surprised people didn't bash him
Very funny advice seeker baba gave nairalanders terms and conditions to his problem

Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.

no be small "terms and conditions"

you are mouthed joor


OP, sounds like a strict and no nonsense man. (that's how some of this church people behave)

see as nairalanders coordinate themselves for this thread

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

It’s only depends on if u feel and mutual connection. How she interacts with u. U don’t even need to ask for a relationship b4 she will find herself in a relationship with u if u know how to do it. All this asking or demanding a relationship is weird to me. The relationship starts when I want it to start. Lolz

Who still woo/toast women in 2021, lol. That's where your problem lies. You don't want to be called simp, so what are you. Ogbeni, start by inviting her. Enough said

Let her know you.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

She likes you, but I think she's finding it really hard to acknowledge the reality, she may probably love someone else who doesn't love her in return,
She's probably yet to take a decision abt you
Still stay in touch bro, it might take time, she would definitely come back

No one should say this, no one should say that, and u still want us to advice abi na wetin u talk sef? abeg carry this your matter go inspiration fm cos u need inspiration. you're a mumu man! lol. Na joke oh

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Always play safe

Swinger60:
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha.

no be small "terms and conditions"

you are mouthed joor


OP, sounds like a strict and no nonsense man. (that's how some of this church people behave)

see as nairalanders coordinate themselves for this thread

Lolz na him problem be that. Him beggar still dey give option
The kind of people on nairaland ehn

She wan know if you get money na

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

She wants to know your status to know whether or not she should go ahead with you.
My opinion is don't tell her what she wants to hear.
She must have gone on FB to check you out.

RedSquid:
I have the cure. Do not reply her chat message earlier than one hour after she sends them

Do not call her first for the next few months

Do not act excited around her but just normal.

If you can, don't call her, chat her, go anywhere she can spit you. Withdraw yourself and stay in this mode for one week


After 2 weeks let's see who'd be toasting you. If she doesn't chase you, I owe you


Take back your power from her.

Op This guy had answered you. No need for further search

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..


meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

I never hear anything my ears dee for ground. this op no sabi women character them dee use him brain play ludo lol Mugu
mugu

SmellingAnus:
take her out... give her a good treat... after which don't pick her calls again.... infact block her numbers... Then you move on... when she comes back to start begging, you make the rules.. if she doesn't come back then good riddance..

This is my standard,I blocked asap.i don't have time for drama.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

MY GUY DO YOU WANT AN HONEST REPLY JUST GIVE HER SPACE FOR THREE WEEKS DONT CALL HER OR PICK HER CALLS. LET THE TABLE TURN AROUND FIRST , AFTER THEN ASK ME FOR THE NEXT MOVE BUT I HOPE YOU WANT TO WIFE HER ?IF NOT ........STAY FAR

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

bro ghost her for a while let say 2 weeks act like she doesn't exist don't chat her up
you will see she will come over and rethink her decisions

In my opinion, she is probably as much into you as you're into her. don't know how old she is, but I can tell you that the younger we are, the more cautious we are about sex. She may be hesitating because of the 'responsibilities' that come with being in a relationship. Y'all tell us from the onset, "trust me, we'll abstain" "I won't force you" Then when the relationship actually starts, we begin to hear "why are you doing like a baby na? Only once na..." So she's probably bidding her time 'cos it avoidable if she isn't in a relationship with you but probably inevitable if she agrees. Again, this is me just trying to get inside her head. I don't actually KNOW why she is doing you like that.
The post was so long I didn't read it the end before I rushed to respond. Still sticking with my opinion I want to add; substitute the "the younger we are..." with "the more churchy we are..."

It's funny how a lot of you are saying he should ignore her. Even if he could, that doesn't solve his problem. Besides, he wants to know "why" so try to address that.

Jodha:
She doesn't want to engage in sex before marriage...assure her that yhull wait till marriage and everything will be fine...

I hate this so much. Some will be having it with other guys outside and be starving you. I usually run away from "no sex bla bla" ladies

SmellySperm:
both of you should get out..


meanwhile, abeg any update on the covid19 relief funds abroad?

i swear, very unserious set of people.

This trick worked for me.

Do you know the flower called Rose Periwinkle?
Go out very early on Sunday morning around that kind 6am. Take along a spoonful of salt in your left hand. You have to know her name before this will work. As you leave your house don't greet anyone. Even if your mum greets you just nod your head like agama lizard. Don't say a word.
When you get to the place you want to pluck the flower. Say her name seven times and sprinkle the salt in your hand on the flower. After that lick the remnants on your palm.
Then turn back to go home and as you go home sing Victor Owaifo's song (If You See Mammy Water O) till you reach home. Enter the bathroom immediately when you get home and bath then go to church.

Expect her call before seven in the evening that same day asking you for a date.
Yes, she will ask to take you out for dinner or lunch by herself.

How can you ask for advice and tell people how to advise you. E no dey work like that.

She's kinda confused whether you are coming genuinely for love or sex(just like many guys). Just give her sometime and see if she will come around. Don't be too emotional or clingy towards her. Don't let her know that you are thinking too much about her or you won't move on if she gives you the no response. Be a man and take charge of the situation.

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

I was friend zoned for one year and 1 months, she was always rejecting me, but still want to know things about me, now WE ARE MARRIED.

Everester:


well naturally, I don't get excited or impressed with ladies,but since I met her,things changed,

u are right about that prayer part, but praying about a lady that's still rejecting me is somehow awkward,

though this is what my mother too is saying(prayer first),cos she has never see me like this,she see that I really love this girl,
but if I were to follow this prayer first, assuming the prophecy support it, and she doesn't agree, how long would I do that for,how many girls will I follow this trend for

My brother.. Have been in similar shoes.. Presently in similar shoes..

If your a child of God.. GOD God dwells in you.. If your waiting for God to say everst my son, xyzis your wife you would grow old.. God does at times.. He doesn't at times.. But the constant way is bearing witness with your spirit..

What i mean is God directs us through our spirit (the spirit of man is the candle of the Lord) amd if you feel this way about her.. I believe its your spirit man, which is born of God directing you.

I wish you all the best in your pursuit.. I asked a similar question like yours weeks ago.. For me ill ignore her.. For now and see how it goes

she like you but she's not into you yet perhaps because of the churchy things or weird past experiences


you should get a trick to convince her to love you beyond verbal expression, I don't mean you should entice her with material things though but there are way of convincing a lady


don't be too pushy, give her time but give her close mark. find out what amused her, what amaze her then key into this to the advantage of the relationship


don't force her into any relationship with you after trying all these aforementioned if she didn't fall in line

yinkuscious:


I was friend zoned for one year and 1 months, she was always rejecting me, but still want to know things about me, now WE ARE MARRIED.

Why are ladies like this?
Met this lady.. I liked what i saw, i believe she liked me too, vibe was nice.. After exchange of numbers.. Shes forming expecting me to be chasing her.. I mean wtf.. Wer adults..

Shes the one who will give birth, etc.. So why all the mumuness etc...giving birth late isn't always the best so why this mumuness i ask again.. Please ask your wife why they act that way.. Science has proved women have smaller brains.. Maybe they can't think far

Everester:
Call this thread anything u want, criticize, mark error, I don't care, I just need ur honest opinion, and pls no one should tell me to go make money.

We met some months ago, I got her contact, and u know the rest of this wooing tricks, but the issue is that she is always like I'm not interested and yet, each time we get to meet, she will like to know every details about me

If we talk on phone, she likes to know my current location, she even know some information about me, which I never disclose to her.

Call me a simp, I don't care, but naturally I'm not like this, I don't do this, I'm guided by my church rules, I'm not women freak, but I love her so much, the first time I saw her, I nearly lost my balance, I started having a breaking voice, when talking to her friends, I really love her, and no one should talk about any redpill here,

But today, I got frustrated, I was like, let's define this relationship, I'm not interested in all this ordinary friendship stuff, I didn't get close to u to have u as ordinary friend, I want us to date,
She was like this is all we can have together, friends!
But still, she won't stop interfering with my personal affairs,

Now I'm scared of not getting into friend zone, if u were me, will u try more to persuade her or u just leave her like that?

And pls, nobody should mention anything like "I'm the plan B" cos I know her so much, she is this churchy type, with strict doctrine, me getting her number sef, was a miracle,

So what do u think, am i been stylishly friendzone, or she is trying to forming hard to get and yet we won't stop talking about me.

Pls don't disturb us, we are guided by our Church rules not to discuss anything sex.....this is sexual content, its explicit, stop it tomorrow is sunday