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Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:48am On Mar 16, 2021 |
jaxxy:And so? What if she dumped the children at his doorstep after they were born. Don't you know that mothers abandon children too? Stop typing diarrhoea here!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Prospertochu(m): 8:48am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Nuttella: I had money for one child and I was not expecting them to be triplets. My worst nightmare |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Prospertochu(m): 8:49am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Regex: It's not easy sha, in my next life I want one baby at a time if it's triplet again, I rather remain childless 1 Like |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Toks2008(m): 8:49am On Mar 16, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow:Funmi i expect you to understand my pragmatism in this situation. I ask again..giving this unfortunate circumstance, will you rather prefer the guy do crime to savage the situation? or dies of high BP? even if he gives the entire salary to the lady it will never be enough. So you all castigating me for opining that he sets up at least a food stuff business for her should contact the guy and help him with funds to take care of his family. I rest my case. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by descarado: 8:51am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Regex:If it comes, what will you do? You thank your God. I have never seen a twin that's keen in birthing twin again. Don't know why. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by berrystunn(m): 8:52am On Mar 16, 2021 |
thelish: Yes and very easy to brainwash poor person. The way I will present 1k , might not be the way you will present 1k You might give a girl 5k she will complain, I will give same girl 2k she will be happy. All na level of wash wash . |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by DrFunmisticGlow: 8:52am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008:of course it won't be enough. Either he gets more of give his children away for adoption before they die of poverty in his house. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Regex: 8:54am On Mar 16, 2021 |
descarado: My papa na twin. The possibility deh there... If I do, I will thank God and take care of them. Its the more reason I want to really get to a certain level in life before I start procreation. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Regex: 8:54am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu: Ah swear. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Toks2008(m): 8:54am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu: Guy go get a loan if you must. Get a small shop for her and let her start food stuff buisness like retailing rice,beans and selling other food items and you can also add other stuffs. There will be enough space for her in the shop with the triplets and she can always attend to customers whilst she attends to the kids at the same time. Please dont kill yourself with thinking ..Pray hard and work hard and i belive that the same GOD who gave you the babies will favour you. Please dont regret marrying her, cherish her and the gifts she has given you. I wish you the best. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Rubby007: 8:55am On Mar 16, 2021 |
dear OP, my advice is that your mom should be the one to be considerate here to be candid the 25k is too small talk to your wife with love let her know you will increase it to 35k talk to your mom too i believe she will understand. i wouldn't blame any body its not your fault that you didn't oppt for abortion an its not he fault too that u're a sharp shooter with one shot three goals . you both need to come with better ideals remember that even if u earn 100k it still not enough think of business i will suggest pos for now i believe with that daily expenditure will be carted for the you can move from there. don't mind anyone that is blaming you here o if e easy make dem go try am u be man jare but man up ok. peace be on to you. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Toks2008(m): 8:56am On Mar 16, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Adoption ke! iyen ma le o. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by setobaba: 9:00am On Mar 16, 2021 |
shomutuski:He’s 28yrs for God sake, he’s suppose to be enjoying his life at the moment not struggling with life. With 55k salary you can still enjoy yourself as a single man and grow wider in life. With what I’m seeing 1m can’t not sort his issues on time. I see generational poverty striving 2 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Laboni: 9:02am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Make I no lie, 25k is not enough for me per month as a single guy, talk more of a woman with 3 kids and the husband go chop food inside too ... OP na one chance you enter so. That’s why it’s not good to allow people pressure into marriage because at the end, Na you go suffer am. OP the only option you have is to expand your source of income in whatever way possible or the marriage will end which I’m sure you’re both tired ....life is very hard gan |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by NIGHTMARE0O7: 9:03am On Mar 16, 2021 |
erico2k2: I can't remember saying she will stop work foreva that's the way u sound right now. And yes if u are working and gave birth some place of works will give u break for ur kids to be a little bit strong. When my 2 sisters give birth they were given a little break to nurse there babies. We are talking abt 3kids here. Well it depends |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by jaxxy(m): 9:09am On Mar 16, 2021 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Bt after giving birth what is she doing nagging is her new job? Recklessness and complaining is her new hobby? She shud go and sit down. If the guy left the country which doorstep will she drop the kids at Nobody expected the babies so both parties shud work hard to cater for them instead of over labouring one parent. Is he superman? |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Pearl543(f): 9:22am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Can you please stop blaming your woman In this time, prices of everything has skyrocketed and feeding just one person sef is too much, so i really don't know how you expect her not to complain. You both are to be blamed... You are trying and she's trying too. You don't expect her to leave three infants at home and go out to look for a job. If you have taken care of a baby, you would know 3 is a handful. Rather than look for who to blame, seek solutions and try to work on your finances and if possible, try to let your wife know how much you earn and how you spend the money, so she would know you are trying. You both are to be blamed. None had savings, nothing nothing. So please sort out the consequences of your actions 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Gerrard59(m): 9:24am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Klass99: I missed a lot o. But damn, for number 1 & 2: sheer f0olishness and acute stoopidty. Number 3? My problem with Nigerians in relationships: they don't discuss the most important aspects of esp if they desire to get married. I'm for intending couples to cohabit for a short while with boundaries set but prior to this, people should have a serious tete-a-tete on what they want in marriage - who pays most of the bills et al. This anywhere belly face approach smacks of poorly educated and unexposed people. Regarding the last statement, those theories are always triumphed online but rarely practiced offline. Just like the nonsensical SMAN uproar which I knew the vast majority of Nigerian male wouldn't implement. Most of these red-pillers on Nairaland are hungry and mentally malnourished miscreants. On this topic, I am an advocate of never being held responsible for someone's irresponsibility. This man will have still have sex with his wife (which is right anyway) but he won't adhere to family planning practices and that will compound his problems. The best he can do now is undergo a vasectomy to prevent any childbirth and focus squarely on his triplets. Judging by she boring three children at once, she might procreate twins or even quadruplets later. That's the possibility I rather sponsor its non-existence. A Nigerian woman who has witnessed the stress of childbirth will likely adhere to family planning but knowing how most Nigerian men are incompetent and obstinate towards family planning methods, the most extreme method must be applied before he scores a goal in an away match. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by MummyD2020(f): 9:28am On Mar 16, 2021 |
My people if only we know the right source. We can just contribute any amount we have for this babies. #100, #200 will go a long way. I dont know. The did has been done and We all make mistakes. There are people seriously searching for these beautiful Angels some where now. And cartons of whatever they need will be readily provided before they are even e exhausted. But the reverse is the case here. If we can, let's help out. Honestly I have a baby here and I'm seriously thinking about the welfare of these little gifts from God. And the woman now, we can't bear hunger while breastfeeding honestly. The stress is just too much. Wahala no dey finish. Basics now is Pampers and milk. Then cloths to change because they grow fast. Just basics. God knows a carton of the cheapest formular wont even go for more than a few weeks. Nna nawa o |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by GigiMax: 9:31am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Man up Bro. Based on what you wrote here, she has no fault at all. Taking care of 3 kids at the same time is no easy feat. It cost a fortune to raise 1 kid not to talk of 3 at the same time. Do the simple analysis yourself. These kids eat like ant. More like every 15minutes. Pampers and co. She has to take care of herself also. Go to the market and see what food stuff is saying. I had to apologise to my wife the day i tried to buy food stuff myself. Fucking expensive. My D*** no rise that day o. Another thing is to be very patient with her. Tell her sweet words daily. Care for her genuinely. Furthermore, be very supportive in raising the kids. Help her with chores and whatever she does. Again, ask about her on future too. Remember, she didnt also plan to become a house wife at her age. She has dreams and aspirations. Ask her about them...ask her what you can do to help. If you can, do help! Women go through a lot to have kids for us. Let us manage them. Appreciate them. If you do most of these things, she will calm down and beginning to see you as someone who is genuinely interested in her not just her p***. Think of this always, "You cannot feel your way into acting but you can act you way into feelings" God bless both of you. Prospertochu: |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Hassanmaye(m): 9:35am On Mar 16, 2021 |
blesskewe:Lol that's the only thing you can say |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by MummyD2020(f): 9:36am On Mar 16, 2021 |
[quote author=Gerrard59 post=99927025] I missed a lot o. But damn, for number 1 & 2: sheer f0olishness and acute stoopidty. Number 3? My problem with Nigerians in relationships: they don't discuss the most important aspects of esp if they desire to get married. I'm for intending couples to cohabit for a short while with boundaries set but prior to this, people should have a serious tete-a-tete on what they want in marriage - who pays most of the bills et al. This anywhere belly face approach smacks of poorly educated and unexposed people. Regarding the last statement, those theories are always triumphed online but rarely practiced offline. Just like the nonsensical SMAN uproar which I knew the vast majority of Nigerian male wouldn't implement. Most of these red-pillers on Nairaland are hungry and mentally malnourished miscreants. On this topic, I am an advocate of never being held responsible for someone's irresponsibility. This man will have still have sex with his wife (which is right anyway) but he won't adhere to family planning practices and that will compound his problems. The best he can do now is undergo a vasectomy to prevent any childbirth and focus squarely on his triplets. Judging by she boring three children at once, she might procreate twins or even quadruplets later. That's the possibility I rather sponsor its non-existence. A Nigerian woman who has witnessed the stress of childbirth will likely adhere to family planning but knowing how most Nigerian men are incompetent and obstinate towards family planning methods, the most extreme method must be applied before he scores a goal in an away match. [/quote Hungry and mentally malnurished miscreants. This is a typical description of some people here. Especially the ones that are so fast to type abusive words without profering the most basic solutions. Nonsensical nonsense. Lolzzzzzz |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Hassanmaye(m): 9:37am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Slynation:Tell us na abeg 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Labadi69: 9:39am On Mar 16, 2021 |
aroundtheearth: Someone is earning 55k that can’t last the family for a month, where do you expect him to see money to start a business for his wife? |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Labadi69: 9:41am On Mar 16, 2021 |
cococandy: Gbam. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by MummyD2020(f): 9:42am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Chummynoni: What if they leave ur daughter or sister with triplets to cater for alone? Sure you will not kill the man on sighting him? |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Gerrard59(m): 9:48am On Mar 16, 2021 |
CanadianNaija: Glad to know I'm not alone. People shouldn't be responsible for another's irresponsibility. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Amhappy(f): 9:48am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Toks2008: If the children are still less than 12-18 months,the business money will probably waste. Let him keep it till they are matured. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by MummyD2020(f): 9:49am On Mar 16, 2021 |
merieam16:Without help, that woman might not do anything reasonable. Her hands are not only full but filled up |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Amhappy(f): 9:51am On Mar 16, 2021 |
I see this as a cry for help. My good people of nairaland please find OP a better job. 25k for triplets in a month, these children may suffer malnutrition. School fees is still ahead. Please save a life. |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by zacwale(m): 9:51am On Mar 16, 2021 |
So stop complaining about your wife no let those fools push you to d wall Go back to God Na sure odd i dy give you E go lead you to d right for more income/hustle God will bless you Or send me email let me give you one hustle Prospertochu: |
Re: I Regret Getting Married To The Mother Of My Triplets by Munzy14(m): 9:52am On Mar 16, 2021 |
Prospertochu:Regret ke? Start a business for her, she should go and acquire a skill...baking, cooking, decoration, buying and selling. These things fetch cash for ladies. Then u start up a business for her...Even 200k will not do her for a month...She will still be like oliver asking for more. Teach a woman how to make her own money, and save ur self unwanted expenses. |
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