₦airaland Forum

ruffhandu:
Hello people,
Please I need some advice.
We live in PH, and have 4 kids. The oldest is 10 while the youngest is 6. I give my wife 700k every month, and this includes general upkeep and maintenace and fuelling of our car (Lexus 330). I don't drive the car (I dey leg, while she uses it to run around, which includes school runs and her business).

I no dey chuk eye for her business. Bu I am getting frustrated as she still makes me believe that the money is not enough. I pay electricity bill (band A) and house rent (3m pa) yet every now and then she puts bills on my head. It is driving me crazy.

When I tell her to list out her expenses so I plan with her, she picks offence. I am really tired of the whole thing and don't know how else to approach the issue without causing too much problem. I know some men whose salaries are 250k-300k in PH, yet they are surviving.

Remman:
Now that we have at least one working refinery in Nigeria, i think it's time to bring back fuel subsidy and crash the price to N100 per litre. Smuggling will reduce or stop because buying from Dangote would be different from hiding under IPMAN and be shipping (smuggling) FG paid fuel to other countries.

lekkyy:
Whom will you marry between these two?

Acekidc4:
Exaggeration will not kill all this fake bloggers who likes to blow things out of proportion 🤨

Malu's and piglets will believe anything just to feed their hatred and bigotry...... Senseless mumu people 🤨

ManirBK:
i purchased these in Birnin kebbi, Kara Market today.

1- peppers @700

2-Onion @200

TOTAL- N900

Fearurcreeator:
Oga you be yahoo?

Babatunjo:
Why do women hate this guy so much?

ORACULUM:
Kindly state your option with reasons to help a brother make a decision on what to choose from?
Lessons in the comment please.

SoNature:
EFCC may have their faults, but those faults don't make them useless. The day yahoo boys will defraud you or your loved ones, you will understand how important EFCC is.

thesicilian:
There is no concrete evidence that democracy is better than military rule

phygo89:
I have always prefered Finland, Norway, Australia\Newzealand to UK and Canada. I love FINLAND so much!

Obakoolex:
In other words US is saying 'rest in peace' but rot in hell mofo

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
A Palestine🇵🇸 statehood will bring peace to the Middle East region but the Israeli and her Western allies will always veto such proposal@ the United Nations Security Council.

emkz:
The next of kin say who don kpai don kpai. I cannot come and go and kill myself because I wan bury person.

It is clearly an economic decision.

ShoeGetSize:
Nairaland's standard of what it means to be beautiful keeps changing by the day

CuriousCart:
She was kidnapped and forced to maintain custody of the phone or her parents will be killed. Case closed.

bemeruca:
it depends. buying stolen goods will not always land you in jail if you go to a legit store that sells used goods and buy it, and if the seller falsifies documents to prove you bought something authentic.

CuriousCart:
Oluwole tracker man was shocked to meet resistance. He must have been used to people begging & crying upon his arrival & making him feel like one local god. He even came with an agbero enforcer. Joker.

Go to station & everyone will write their statement including the agbero enforcer.

CheapHomes1:
how is the coastal highway highly necessary and useful?

Ofunaofu:
As Cybersecurity Levy didn't work, Tinubu wants to dip his hands into people's pension fund contributions because he wants to finance his coastal highway of fraud. A fraudulent highway connecting Bourdillon with Lebanon.

Tinubu's pension is paid directly from the coffers of the Lagos State Treasury; he never contributed to any PFA, but now he wants to take other people's pension fund contributions to finance their fraudulent projects. 

Tinubu should be warned; people's pension fund contributions shouldn't be touched before we begin to hear another Abdulrasheed Maina pension fund embezzlement story.

CilicMarin:
This one wan do notice me..

rexbuton:
Please this topic wants to tear the family apart.

We are doing well, each of us earns almost 85k per year, I'm in IT, she's in healthcare, and we both work full-time.
I am a Christian, I have never defaulted in tithing in the last 5 years. Not once.
She says tithing is my personal 'problem'. She uses the word problem specifically. She doesn't pay tithe.

This is the present sharing agreement, I bring 70%, she brings 30%.
This 70-30 covers the cost of living, groceries, nursery fees for our baby, and other bills.
before this sharing, we both bring equal amounts for the house mortgage and the car.
When her family needs money, she insists that we share it 50-50 based on her culture.

For my cybersecurity certifications, I pay from my less than 20%, but I have never complained. God has been faithful. My belief is that my tithe covers for the family.
The good news is that I won a large sum of money from my savings, tens of thousands of dollars. I intend to pay tithe, and channel most of the money to my professional development so I can earn more. I don't think I deserve that money I won, that money was from God.
She thinks otherwise.

What's your opinion?

Offpointng:
Give them their flowers nigga and quit the spit. Was it ur father that brought calmness to Adamawa, Yobe and Maiduguri they're experiencing now??

Yes we know the terrorists are now being displaced to the NW but then let them have their flowers for the Job well done so far


Don't mind these children.








Do you even have an idea what Infantry means??

I really do have problems with subliterates like you. This is Brig Gen Babayo taking his troops thr the hotbed lake Chad BH filled area, you can even see him at the front sef. So what cap are you capping?

vowiski:
How is he still a prince?

A couple that doesn’t represent the UK nor its Palace anymore ?

Nigeria Leaders are a bunch of jokes…

Gten:
Why is IMF all up in our face? Nigeria is capable of handling it's crypto issues, the CBN is on it.
Back off IMF, we are a sovereign nation.
F.T.C

Lanrelagboi:
As the drama on the demolitions in Mende, Maryland, Lagos continues, it is good to see the exact way the developer of the estate cviolated and encroached on the government's setback for the canal which led to the demolition of the part of the estate that encroached.

See attached pictures

Picture 1: The approved plan by Lagos state to the developer

Picture 2: What the developer actually did.

As you can clearly see, the shape was altered with to give the developer more land hence building on the government approved setback for the canal

In the second picture, the whole part inside the white circle should not be there at all as it was illegally taken and is asking the path of the canal

helinues:
In life, as you are counting your blessings, always make sure you count the losses as well. Very important

anonymous1759:
Final brutality to speculators, I feel for those genuine ones , but majority of Nigerians ain’t loyal . They sabotage the country and come online to bash the government when their heinous act destroys the economy . EffC should also go after schools receiving $ for fees .