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Oshin56:
The kingdom of God sufferers violent and the violence taketh it by force. Is either you get rich or die trying nobody will stand for you even your parent will not stand for you it's better you stand for your self. Certificate only can not make you rich hustle like an illiterate and think like an educated person.

You can say this again, Alot of people are waiting for a non-existent miracle. It may come of as bad to some people but sometimes, you have to grab it and run.

sreamsense:
Well done, you really tried! Very inspirational with lots of meaningful messages for individual. You spent all days praising Ronaldo, Messi and Davido, pick your own message from here. Do you know how much I sold Ronaldo last season, how much I sold this and how much my club sold that this season, but unfortunately; no dollar hit your own account as parts of their favourite fans.

Even when you needed money to borrow, you couldn't approach Ronaldo or Messi to get your own share of the money or even for them to borrow you money to survive first. I am not saying youths shouldn't watch football or watch movies, but never do it at expense of equipping yourself on what will certainly put food on your own table in the future. The president you see today and other political candidates also hustled to that position to first put food on their own family table first before remembering people.

Don't blame anybody for what you are passing through in life, create success stories out of your own suffering. The wall of poverty is thicker than the wall of Jericho, it takes God's strategy and hardwork to dismantle such walls. You can be born into poverty like so many others did, but it takes your own determination to decide if you want to move out of poverty or create poverty empire for yourself.

Your father and mother born you into poverty, instead of you to pray, work hard and move out first, you still went ahead to give belle to a girl in poverty or you went to push yourself into marriage as a man too to bring in another innocent children into your own world of poverty to create family multiplication effect of poverty. Wake up! Wake up!!! If you like abuse Tinubu till 2031, he will do his part, get his own cut he came to hustle for and leave the remaining other future lucky presidents to take over.

Wake up, wake up!! Yahoo guys! That's not the right way! Don't ruin your destiny! You have about two laptop or more, 2 iphones/Android phones that you are using wrongly and illegally that may end up ruin your life. Yet some smart right thinking guy just get only one laptop and one android, learn programming skills and making billions through mobile apps creation. Learn positive and legal skills, stop what can frustrate your life in the future and enlarge your poverty kingdom ever than what you inherited.

Sorry, op; I didn't know when I entered into the same realm. Thank you for bringing it up. I wish we all listen and learn to get wrong right

Brother, you do not have to be sorry. The worst person is the one who lies to themself. Your response is very deep and i picked up even more points myself.

Let’s stop pretending.

You were not born with a silver spoon. Most of us weren’t. You didn’t grow up in the perfect environment. You didn’t have mentors lined up to teach you the ropes. Maybe your parents did their best, or maybe they failed you completely. But one thing is certain - whatever the case, life has already started, and nobody is waiting for you to “catch up.”

It’s hard to accept this, but you must. Because this world, this country - Nigeria, this life… owes you absolutely nothing. Not a job. Not a breakthrough. Not an easy path. Not success.

And the moment you accept that truth - not just in your head but in your heart - that’s when you truly wake up.

The problem is, too many of us are sleeping with our eyes open.

We scroll motivational quotes all day. We follow people that make us feel inspired. We watch success stories on YouTube and clap for strangers, but still don’t move our own lives forward. Deep down, we think someone will notice us. Someone will believe in us. Someone will show up and say, “You! You deserve better - let me help you rise.”

But life doesn't work like that.

People are busy fighting their own battles. They barely have time for themselves, let alone for you. Your pain might be real, but it’s invisible to the world unless you do something with it. Your hunger means nothing if it doesn’t drive you to work. Your potential means absolutely zero if you never act on it.

That’s why I’m telling you to wake up.

Because the greatest illusion holding people back is the idea that things will fall in place eventually.

No, they won’t.
Not unless you make them.

Your Background Is Not an Excuse

Maybe you were born in the village. Maybe you didn’t go to the “right” school. Maybe you were abused. Maybe you’ve failed more times than you can count. Yes, it hurts. I won’t pretend it doesn’t. But those experiences are not your identity. They are parts of your story, but they are not the whole book.

We’ve all met people who had every excuse to give up - but didn’t. They had no one to help them. No support system. No privilege. But what they had was hunger. They had fire. They had an unshakable resolve to make something of themselves, even if it took years.

You can build that same fire. It’s not reserved for special people. It’s available to anyone who is tired of being stuck.

The truth is, the world doesn’t care where you’re coming from. It only pays attention when you arrive.
Stop Waiting for Perfect Conditions

You don’t need everything to be perfect before you start. You don’t need a full business plan. You don’t need all the tools. You don’t need the most expensive laptop. You don’t need to have it all figured out.

Start where you are.

With your cracked phone. With your unstable power supply. With your fear. With your doubts. With your imperfections. Because the people who succeed are not the ones who waited for a clear road - they’re the ones who kept moving despite the fog.

Some of you are sitting on billion-naira ideas and life-changing skills, but fear and perfectionism have kept you paralyzed. You say you’re “planning.” You’re “waiting on God.” You’re “trying to figure things out.”

No, you’re scared. And that’s okay. But don’t let fear become your lifestyle. Don’t stay in the same place for another year. Time is moving. Nobody is coming to drag you into your destiny.

Hard Work Alone Is Not Enough

Let’s also clear this up - just because you work hard doesn’t mean you’ll succeed.

You can break your back in a warehouse, and still remain poor. You can hustle every day in the sun, and still be stuck. Hard work without direction is suffering. What you need is smart, intentional, focused action.

Start learning. Study your craft. Learn a skill that pays. Build relationships. Sell your work. Show up online with value. Stop hiding. Stop playing small. Stop blaming others for your stagnation. And most importantly - stop consuming more than you create.

If you spend hours watching others build, but never build for yourself, then you are simply helping others get rich while you rot in “inspiration.”

Kill Entitlement Before It Kills You

You are not entitled to success because you suffered.
You are not entitled to help because you’re struggling.
You are not entitled to attention because you’re talented.

Nobody cares about what you could do. They care about what you’ve done. You’ll be amazed at how quickly people respect you when you start showing results. But you’ll also be amazed at how invisible you become when all you have is potential and no proof.

Life doesn’t reward the most deserving. It rewards the most determined.
It rewards those who refuse to quit.
Those who don’t wait for validation.
Those who show up consistently.
Those who decide to bet on themselves, even when nobody else does.

You want success? Then go and earn it.
Nobody owes it to you.

Not your background.
Not your degree.
Not your boss.
Not your partner.
Not God.

Even God wants you to put your hands to something before He blesses it. Faith without work is still dead. And dreams without action are just hallucinations.

The Fire Must Come From Within

Nobody can want it for you more than you want it for yourself.

Nobody can push you out of your comfort zone if you don’t move.
Nobody can give you the hunger. You must create it.

You must look at your life and say, “I refuse to remain like this.”
You must be tired of wishing, scrolling, comparing, and hoping.
You must say, “I’m done complaining. I’m ready to act.”

It starts with one decision.
And then one action.
Then another.
Then another.

And before long, you begin to gather momentum. You build confidence. You take hits, but you don’t fall apart. You fail, but you learn. You grow. You evolve. You start becoming someone that even your former self wouldn’t recognize.

That’s what happens when you wake up.

And it all begins when you stop waiting, and start working.

Precious Iriaevho - CrudeClarity

Are they both NET payments? What is your final take home? . Let's start from there.

Only stubbornness can get you your money back. But since no evidence, that man is clean everywhere.

Get a solar installer and remove all his panels from the roof and keep them as ransom. 3 to 4 panels will cover your money. You have to be very stubborn to do this.

But meanwhile, get a generator set for your apartment only or do solar too.

I hope you have learnt your lessons.

Tflex01:
Somebody created post about Ositade Femi but was deleted by one of Seun's mod.

Haha, if Seun is biased he will flood this forum with this boy's own, you know why?

His father, yes. The father of the owner of this forum is the owner of the school where the record breaking boy attended.

So you see, he is just alright.

Good one. Neat.

PHP or Python? and what framework?

Senioreddy:
Good afternoon good people of NL

I am seriously battling with chronic gonorrhea infection that has refused to go after treatment (both English and herbal treatment).

I am a father of four and still married. My wife is beginning to suspect something is wrong.

Please how do I go about it. I need advice on the quickest way to remove this infection from my body. I have not gone close to my wife because this.

Please help a brother

What are your symptoms or you just gave the infection one of the heavy names you hear about?

Something around 130k net

Contact and location

I don't get it.

Why are you bothered or concerned? How did you know she blocked you if you closed her out?

If you are so invested to know she blocked you which means you were stalking her, then why exactly did you stop talking to her.

Grow up!

As annoying as this may sound.

What you did not get before packing into a Lagos house will eventually be sorted by you from your pocket.

Next time, if you want them to fix a pipe or put a bulb tell them to do it just before payment or after paying before you move, else you do it yourself.

A out overstaying, consult your lawyer friend again for directions. But whatever the case, make your home conducive and do the necessary.

Damn paint the place and make the fixes for yourself, you don't want to be living like this this. This is home, your main escape from the struggles of life.

Cheers!

Seems you did not take your own advice. I hope you survive your current conundrum.

When I learnt in life that some experience will not come your way if you learn from other people's story, my life quality improved.

You my friend, is currently in a very parasitic relationship. You are the host and she is a leach. But she is almost done with you, damn I can see your grave in front already.

Thank God you have learnt that there is nothing like independent woman, she has not just found her own fool or someone rich enough to chest her bills.

Then to those fools who think men who pay for sex on the spot are idiots, this is what they are avoiding. You think because you use relationship to hold her, the sex is free. You will pay compound interest.

Now here is what you will do...

- You are not in love and she doesn't love you. You are currently an end to a means. You know, like a ladder to get to an height before she monkey branch to another ladder.

- Pull the bandage. Tell her enough is enough. You will lose your access to pussy but I tell you your sanity is better than that momentarily ecstasy you feel.

- Count your loss now. Send her away or leave. Yes, I said it leave and go to your mother's place if you are too weak to discharge her. Leave everything.

- Your life Is stagnant but you will know how deep you are gone when she start acting up or leave you.

- Don't talk to her, never negotiate with a terrorist because she will just put breast in your mouth again and feed you the milk of idiocy again.

- Move your shop or sell everything because you cannot function business wise around her.

- All my advice may seem drastic and that is because your disease is likened to a gangrene. Cut it off or it will spread and kill you.

Don't ever forget the below...

Everybody wants to use you. So use your head or someone will dump their load on you.

Cheers!

First, you have to understand that people will always have opinion. Just that some people are not mild when they want to express themselves.

Second, anti this and uncle that comments really depends on what side of the extremity you are. So if you want to pick a side, what will the anti-men comments hater say?

Third, I am disappointed that you mentioned a twitter person when you could have used someone from nairaland.com for your illustration.

Four, I really don't think they hate women here. Just a sprinkle of them who want things there way and don't get it always scream to high heaven.

Five, it's a forum. If you don't like a thread. Can't you just skip.

Six, accept that what you are trying to achieve is counterintuitive. The biggest thread on this board is a so-called women hating thread but it gets a comment almost everyday.

Seven, now you want to fight for the women, who will speak for men, you inclusive!

German Cockroach.

Small, fast and reproduce very fast.

You need to find where they lay eggs and squash those things. Mostly in corners. Check your bed frame, kitchen cabinets even fridge.

Now get that rat gum, put fish in the center and when they come in it gets then stuck in large numbers.

If you want to have fun, get a slippers and smash the hell outta them too. Fun activity when bored or cannot sleep.

taiwotimitt:
Male named Precious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Comrade I hail o

Don't be stupid.

So you don't know male also answer to that name?

From using two spoons to spooning!

If you cannot see the scam here, then go back to school

First, you can never get all those documents not even in a working and well civilised environment.

Second, they are prepping you up for more payments. You will pay till your dwindling resources will open your eyes to the scam.

Forgo the money lost now before you start chasing a unicorn.

By the way, here is the scam...

You will always fail the background check because you cannot get all the documents or you miss your deadline. So you Forgo the first fee.

They will then gauge your stupidity and tell you to pay to bypass background check, then tell you no more slots.

If you are still stupid, they will invent a customised format just for you.

Sorry

Elxandre:
I'm going to bet you're around 50 years old. Lol

You lost, way lower

Raggae for life

More raggae

Raggae all through

28plus:
If you're planning to attend any bootcamp in Nigeria, get it at the back of your mind that no bootcamp will help you to get a job. And yes, not even Decagon. They will promise you heaven and earth but nothing will come out of it. Of course there are few exceptions, but overall, only one person might end up getting a job out of many.

There's one bootcamp I am seeing their advert now on front page, I attended one of their cohorts, the way they dumped us after the training ehn, it shocked us. And they are in the top 5 in Lagos.

The least I expected from them was a resume revamp, but six months later, not even a single phone call.

Attending a bootcamp is like an investment, and part of the return on investment should be job or internship placements. I can tell you that no Nigerian bootcamp can guarantee that. They will just sweet talk you to cashout from you.

I'm telling you this from experience.

Looking back now, I regret attending the bootcamp. Most of the stack they taught us are no longer in use. React that is in use, they no sabi am. They just used 2 days to teach it.

God no go shame us for this industry

Hahaha. I am 100% sure that this is Moat Academy. Sorry eh!