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Romance / Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Prec1ous(m): 9:44am On Feb 26, 2020 |
ngwababe: Oya respond to my message. Since you know my secret. You are safe. |
Romance / Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Prec1ous(m): 9:31am On Feb 26, 2020 |
ngwababe: Do you want to be my friend? |
Romance / Re: Is It Emotionally Healthy Being Just Friends With A Mature Lady ? by Prec1ous(m): 6:45pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
OP, get over it. I think both of you led yourself on foolishly. She was really expectant, but you goofed. She is dealing with the pseudo-rejection the best way she can, also, she is not happy to see your happy pictures. So move on. --- The Parable of the goat and the yam in the same pen! It has been proven countless time, that there is no sanity and clarity when a man and a women with the right amount of hormonal rush think that they can stay friends. Especially when nothing ties them together, maybe business or they are investment partners. You can speak all the English you want to speak, but do not ever forget these... You cannot tell your body when to and not to produce oetrogen, testosterone, dopamine and oxytocin. Nature must proceed. This is also why you should beware of girls who claim all their friends are the opposite sex. You are been fooled! Guys, the best way to get any girl is to be her friend but once in a while, chip in romantic talks and dirty chats but do not forget to also touch her "mistakenly" sometimes, this qualifies you as a potential romantic partner. Do this systematically and You have already laid the ground for your impending kill. Thank you. 312 Likes 27 Shares |
Romance / Re: Which Other Ways Can Your Girlfriend Satisfy You As A Man Apart From Sex? by Prec1ous(m): 4:56pm On Feb 25, 2020 |
- Surprise me with pineapple once in a while, I am not joking here. - Respect yourself. Because if you do, you will behave proper. - Know what I dislike as I know yours too. - When you want to leave, tell me. Let's close things like a church service. |
Family / Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Prec1ous(m): 12:57pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
TheArchangel: Parental pressure? Like she is some kind of robot. If they were poor I will understand but have you ever seen where a rich parent push their kids to marriage? All the rich parents I know are more interested in having their children making their choices and getting the best education. So, I do not agree with your reason. She should leave the man for good. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Prec1ous(m): 12:38pm On Feb 23, 2020 |
pweetiedee: Brightgem: Can both of you please tell me what was her reason for marrying him in the first place, seeing that she never loved him. Please tell me? If you don't love a man, what other reason will push you to get married to him? Answer me! |
Travel / Re: With N20M, Should I Travel To USA Or Stay In Nigeria? by Prec1ous(m): 8:23am On Feb 22, 2020 |
tegrianonigltd: I did not advise him. I said "if I was in his shoes". If it was me. I did not say "he should" instead I said "I will". He is not me. Read between the lines always and understand all context before quoting. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: When To Know When My Partner Is Satify In Sex by Prec1ous(m): 6:39am On Feb 22, 2020 |
When you are dead I suppose! But on a serious note... If she says continue, then she is not obviously. Do you do pre-intimacy or you just jump into the jungle? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Married But I'm Not Connected With My Husband, Hence I'm Depressed by Prec1ous(m): 5:58am On Feb 22, 2020 |
You married the brother who was ready to take care of your bills right? Because the one you wanted was not serious, ready and wealthy. Hahahahah. I assume things are not too well with that man again so you are ready to bounce. I hope that brother bursting your head now is really interested in you and will take your child too. You never loved that man, it did not just start today. You knew but because of comfort and money. You decided to try your luck and see if the love will grow. You are making no effort so why not just divorce, separate...just leave and seek your happiness. To my fellow guys, don't ever get swindled in the name of love. Nothing is real! 250 Likes 9 Shares |
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Was Caught Flirting With Her Ex On Whatsapp by Prec1ous(m): 5:52am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Like they say. Girls don't marry who they love, they only follow who is ready to shoulder their responsibility and expense, that is you! She is still in love and loyal to the ex. Imagine after you marry her and the only thing he never had, money becomes a thing of the past? Unlike the blind fools, I will advice you check your partners phone every three month, so you can always see their life path. What you do not know will kill you or how do people die from poisoning, sniper shot and letter bombs. You have to downgrade that girls level to a Bleep buddy or let her go completely. Do not ever marry her. ALSO, the past really matter, we deceive ourselves tooo much. Try to know alot about your partner or do you start a business with limited info? PS: I see relationships as a business, damn love! 124 Likes 13 Shares |
Travel / Re: With N20M, Should I Travel To USA Or Stay In Nigeria? by Prec1ous(m): 5:50am On Feb 22, 2020 |
Seems the "hustle" paid off big time. Do not forget, they do thorough check at the American embassy. But to be sincere, if I was in your shoes. I will stay back and start a business. I don't know the business but I must find one. On second thought, that kind of money means you have grown bigger than asking for life changing decisions from strangers. So let's not deceive ourselves, if you travel with your limited education, you will be dumping your money in a soak away. 20 Million at 25 in Nigeria, what is the name of your start up in Nigeria, your stage name, political office, yahoo format or you sold your family land? MODIFIED I did not advise him. I said "if I was in his shoes". If it was me. I did not say "he should" instead I said "I will". He is not me. Read between the lines always and understand all context before quoting. 276 Likes 11 Shares |
Romance / Re: Urgent Advice Needed. by Prec1ous(m): 1:50am On Feb 21, 2020 |
The only way is based on how they perceive you, polite or impolite. Just tell them that you are not interested. Everyman to his own head pan. |
Politics / Re: Ebenezer Babatope: Why I Want Obaseki To Defeat Oshiomhole by Prec1ous(m): 8:10pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Lazy opposition. 3 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Help A Nairalander Make A Decision by Prec1ous(m): 4:19am On Feb 17, 2020 |
Op80: Did you later go for the n-tech or you stuck to the job? What happened? |
Education / Re: Open Letter To The Vice Chancellor University Of Benin by Prec1ous(m): 11:06am On Feb 16, 2020 |
Regards |
Education / Re: Open Letter To The Vice Chancellor University Of Benin by Prec1ous(m): 8:53am On Feb 16, 2020 |
I was a unionist in UNIBEN before 2015. - We did DSS clearance too. - 100 level were not allowed to vote. - The school does not need your printout to know those who have paid school fees. - Remove your name and mat number, you don't want the fire you are stoking. Those professors have nothing to lose. - During my time, total voters were shy of 4,000. UNIBEN students don't like the stress, unless they make it online. - BMS always have the lowest voters output including dentistry. I had my run in the the VC and Dean of students too, but my cause was just so I could not be tied down. Do not fight a losing battle. You can PM me if you want me to advise you based on a person who have seen it all and done it all. |
Education / Re: Stop OAU And Other Schools From Using ETX-NG Services! by Prec1ous(m): 2:14pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Mad people. After two years, they could not deliver from UNIBEN. Yet no refund. Stay away from ETX people. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Did You Handle Trust Issues With Your Spouse? by Prec1ous(m): 12:49pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
Do not ever trust, you don't even need any reason to convince you. Humans change because they have free will, how will you base importance on an entity that adapt differently to external factors? Just try to be you. If she misbehave too much, bounce. |
Romance / Re: Please Help My Wife Is No More Romantic by Prec1ous(m): 3:57pm On Jan 16, 2020 |
Romance is usually tied to happiness and comfort. You may not be able to afford happiness but how about comfort? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Counter Thread; Guys, Dont Settle For These Set Of Women by Prec1ous(m): 8:08am On Jan 16, 2020 |
Don't settle for any type of woman. Just accept the one you wish and have it at the back of your mind that her natural default is to misbehave. Inshort, be expectant of the impending doom. Except you get luck to find one who has discovered herself fully. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Ladies, When You Are Ready To Settle Down, Don't Settle For These Men by Prec1ous(m): 8:17pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Find red sand and create your own! 18 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: It Happening To Me Now Pls Advice Me. (true Life Post) by Prec1ous(m): 8:14pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Guys these days lack the Daniel spirit. With all the writing on the wall, you still cannot read. You are probably blind, ignorant or have a wish for self inflicted pain. 31 Likes |
Romance / Re: Found Out My Gf Is Flirty With Other Guys by Prec1ous(m): 2:45pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
What is wrong with you guys! 1.Stop being invested in relationships with women. 2. Stop expecting too much from them. 3. You cannot control how another person treats you. 4. You also cannot control their life, you own no one. 5. Relationships are transactional, forget love. Stop placing your happiness in another. It turns you to a shadow of yourself. Because humans behave irrationally. Anyways, she is not your woman. You are setting yourself up for a lifetime of tears, heartache and confusion. Pull away now, emotionally for starters. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Please With Your Advice by Prec1ous(m): 2:08pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Home tutor my man. Female she should be or an Eunuch. Just to avert the chance of drama in another kind happening. |
Pets / Re: The Biggest Rabbit In The World (weight: 45pounds) by Prec1ous(m): 2:06pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Me and my fellow Nigerians are seeing meat oh! 2 Likes |
Literature / Re: Should I Take Her Back Or Look Somewhere Else? by Prec1ous(m): 1:59pm On Jan 15, 2020 |
Do not take her back for anybody's sake. She is not and will never be your wife. You have your daughter, grant her access but do not take that woman. That ship has sailed, you don't want to get tangled into her potentially dramatic life,lkke you said "she will always be someone else's wife to you". While you should seek your daughter's happiness. One day she will grow older, what then becomes of you and the mother? While I don't believe in love and trust. Find a new woman for yourself who will at least give you some level of peace and confidence on your home front. March on, Soldier! |
Romance / Re: I Unintentionally Exposed My Girlfriend by Prec1ous(m): 4:05pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
AFONJACOW: My man you are not serious. Sunk cost fallacy Is what is worrying. Are you a goat? You know something will end in pains and yet you are headstrong. I wish you what you want! 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Unintentionally Exposed My Girlfriend by Prec1ous(m): 2:00pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
AFONJACOW: You can. She did not change, she is only pretending and bidding her time. That woman will hurt you big time especially when you become vulnerable. She is going to really hurt you. Run away now. Blank her. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: I Unintentionally Exposed My Girlfriend by Prec1ous(m): 1:35pm On Jan 14, 2020 |
AFONJACOW: You better run when you can. I just pity your life. There is nothing like love. Better count your Loss and move on with your life. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: I Unintentionally Exposed My Girlfriend by Prec1ous(m): 6:39am On Jan 14, 2020 |
I don't understand how a man will trust a woman, even trust anyone. No woman is truly your's, she only made a conscious decision to stick with you. So don't let it get into your head. She can as well decide to stick with anyone. Look out for yourself, be selfish. If for nothing but to safeguard your sanity and well being. 318 Likes 38 Shares |
Romance / Re: Guys Are Bad O by Prec1ous(m): 5:42am On Jan 09, 2020 |
hkidola00: I want to add to his advice. Don't call her and break up, this will give her chance to start begging and shit. She doesn't even deserve that stress. Just switch off totally. If you see her talk, if she calls respond. You need to remove all emotional attachment and you will be surprised how fast you moved on. Don't waste any effort telling her it is over, she will beg oh and you will gin in again. I repeat switch off! |
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