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oobinna:
I have been battling with an std for years now. Have taken injections and tablets yet without a cure. Doctors in the house can you help pls. Mod please move to front page

What are your symptoms.

FvckAllMods:
I had this bacteria infection some times ago, I have firstly stopped having sex with all this girls since, I've treated it now like three times with injections and with meds.

It's always with my left side scrotum and the pipe tubes linking to it everitime getting swollen ( both the left side scrotum and the pipe) ... very painful, lower abdomen towards down to the scrotum hurts and I can't bend or do anything just crying and all...

Right now I'm okay but I'll still need another treatment... I need talk to a real good doctor in the house please

Last time I used gclav625

I hardly comment but this is for you. You have any of the following :

- Orchitis
- Epididymitis
- Orchiepididymitis
- Prostatitis (Small probability)
- Varicocele (I am certain it's not this though).

You are also correct, a bacteria Is having a field day there, but not really from sex everytime though. The issue now is that, it is chronic. So will always be back.

Send me a PM

Congratulations. She is pregnant!

Acidosis:
They're always direct without pretence until problems start. Only a problem makes the difference.

i would always prefer a direct person any day. They give enough feedback to know when problem is starting and what can be the likeliest solution just from their complaints alone.

I do not fancy pretenders!

First, he is not going to church is not the problem. I have found the irreligious people to be more tolerant, accommodating and direct without pretence.

Second, that directness is what he I s using now to send a plethora of message.

Here is the meat...

The man still loves you but like you know, love is never enough.

He feels he got hitched due to the pregnancy, the thought that he did not decide his marriage time himself is haunting him, but he is not fair to you because you both "tangled".

You are not working thus, the bulk of things are on him. The moment a man's head unlock and he sees you as a liability, he will start to detest you. You are like a drain to his watery money.

You guys need to talk, you need to tell him not just how you feel but how does he feel too. Ask him what he needs off you and you can achieve that.

Your man sees you but he feels you are not who he imagined again. In his head, you have lost yourself!

One more secret, a man honestly needs love but will never ask. Show him that. Make him feel like like a king and see the wonders that will unfold!

RubiesBanking:
Please anyone opinion will be appreciated, I'm planning on going for programming lessons because I really can't do nothing much I'm the house because of distractions.
But I came across this MoatAcademy and they're offering what I'm looking, I need an expert advise if it's this bootcamp is worth attending or any alternatives will be appreciated.

Are you still learning?

Eternal Couple. Love even in death.

Would you just sit down and realize that your woman is gone already. You are only dealing with her body, mind has flown out.

Yes, you are correct. Your inability to provide has made your woman open uo to a perceived better man. She will be sleeping in his arms soon, if not already.

Stop begging and stop crying. Let her move. She is not going to her mother's place, she is stepping out to freedom.

Count your daughter as your benefit and move on.

She is not even your wife yet so let this ship sail!

I pay my writers after every 5 articles. Why write that much without payment?

Haha. Every time. These days...

If you ask me to borrow you 10k, i will dash you 1k. Go and sort yourself!

If you ever get to see this, I have just this to say.

Victor

He is the man for you but you will not believe it. The other one is the IVF guy but the stress is too much.

Victor is your man but I will never tell you the reason.

Goodluck!

If that is not her car, then find the owner.

Ask her female friends and roommates.

Someone must know someone who knows where she is.

Two Nigerians

Just stop fighting. Let the hurt flow through you.

Great

anoziechi:
I loved him soo much....then I started thinking all men were the same till I met my fiance....I always think of him every minute of the day thinking he will apologise cos I was ready to forgive him....but he never did....I had to move on with my life

Why did you not reach out to him?

Well, she did sleep with the friend too...


https://www.nairaland.com/5748402/how-did-find-out-partner/12#87678349

None of them belong to you. Your wife is still unknown.

Your 20 years old will bounce off you and your 28 year old will never be patient with you.

Take care!

Kelvin30286063:
I went to Bluescript IT college, Ibadan. Studied programming following on Php at the time but I have since developed my knowledge by training myself on many other programming languages and frameworks.

My Bro, I just messaged you, please respond. I want you to mentor me. I love the ICT path. Thank you.

Kelvin30286063:
Dude, I graduated with a 3rd class too. I didn't even bother looking for a job after school cuz as soon as I got to 400 level and I realized that only miracle can give me a 2nd class, I quickly opted for an alternative by learning programing from an ICT college part time.
Now I have my own ICT company and I'm doing fine with my own house, a small car and a beautiful wife. My life could have gone south if I was looking for a job and waiting to get one before getting married or moving on with life
The sooner you stop looking for a white collar job with that certificate, the better cuz if you are not well connected, you won't get any for another 10 years.
Funny fact is, my company is quite popular around Ondo state yet I still used a little connection to win a contract from a tertiary institution last month.
Knowing the right people can go a long way to determine how far you go in life.

Bro, which ICT college and which programming course did you go for?

Is she on nairaland?

So you still think you have a relationship?

Someone you hardly talk to and you call him your lover. You never baff finish.

You better end things and find the person you love. You don't love him.

How can you even be busy for the person you love?

How can you talk to him just once in three days?

Both of you are not serious.

What was she expecting?

When she is already communicating with nthe pastor, they may even be planning their marriage already.

As a matter of fact, she knows you are not ready but she is informing you ahead of the impending decision she will make. She is meeting other people already.

Don't force yourself, I love your response already. I don't know why a 21 years old is so impatient to marry. What has she achieved by the way?

Know this, she will always live you but as usual, they always marry who is available irrespective of love.

Good luck!

Do you want to marry another man's wife?

I believe in cause and effect and the universe rewards us all.

Did she leave you or you broke up?

If she left, I might agree you are safe but if you left without her cheating, then maybe the universe is paying you back.

Newtonarialand:
exactly I'm not married to her I'm not related to her but I'm already spending for her like I'm her husband

You better give yourself brain while you can still think. Imagine how much you spend now to cater for both of you. It will only get worse.

Newtonarialand:
this are money i gave to her that she save and also some message I sent her maybe market and supermarket and she doesn't bring change that's what she save so its all my money

Do not mind that guy, they keep defending bad behavior.

She is not your woman, don't wait till you are the lowest point to find out. She is a fair weather lover and will leave someday to the highest bidder when you cannot support anymore.

I have been there and I bounced her, you know why. After everything, they are never grateful because they see it as their right.

Leave now, she will never change.

bigt2:
Please let me correct this assertion. She is not a liability. Do you know why? I'll tell you.
She's already in ND2, she will soon go for IT, that is when the test of her uberimae fidei will happen. If she passes, then OP, congrats.

Did you not see that the guy is already spending anyhow when he Is not her father, uncle, brother or husband?

She is a full ass liability who even hides money!

She is a self motivated and conscious liability, the type every man should run from.

Newtonarialand:
I'm an ND graduate she's just in Nd2 and she live with me in my house in school

Well, the relationship is obviously mutualistic. I guess you are getting wife benefits, so continue to provide.

But know that, it will not last. Especially after your programme.

Zero your mind, atleast you know she is a liability.

But I will advise that you do away with liabilities, they drag your backward.

You may love her but do away with her.

You are already staying together.

That girl is not fully keyed in to your future, so that cash is her rainy day buffer. How would you even believe such lie in the first place?

Anyways, I don't think this issue is serious so give her another chance but know that, you will always be the one spending as evident already.

Guys, if you cannot borrow 5k atleast once in 4 months from your girlfriend to payback in 24 hours time because she never truly have it or cannot give to you. Run, she is not an asset. She will drain you.