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Romance / Re: She Cheated On Me Emotionally by Prec1ous(m): 6:06pm On Dec 16, 2019 |
Birds are meant to fly, she is one and will definitely fly away. When a woman begins to show rudeness, this is the final chapter of whatever you guys ever shared. She is growing contempt and disdain for you. Let her go. Feel the hurt now. Because even if you overcome this, she is still leaving. Take heart! |
Career / Re: She Used And Dump Me by Prec1ous(m): 12:31pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Chinanny: Naturally in life, we all exploit and use ourselves. Those who cry are those who get little to nothing compared to there investment. In other words, the girl was smarter than him. You may end up paying her "fee" to him. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Would You Be Kind To Advice Me According To Your Discretion?? by Prec1ous(m): 12:27pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Better stop this pity party. A lot of us saw ourselves through school, came out good with great jobs and skills. We blame no one for out misfortune, instead we turn them around. Better learn today that in this life, you are on your own. No one's cares and anything you can't get legally for yourself is not yours. Wake up and smell the coffee. Channel your pain, that is your biggest strength now. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Those Guys That Have A Gf That Doesn't Disappoint by Prec1ous(m): 12:22pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Bros, it is not your turn yet. She is still with the other landlord. On a serious note... The way people behave is a great pointer to their feeling. Does she miss work? Classes? Or squash her meetings with her friends? As simple as it may sound, you are not important to her. Deal with it. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Are The Spiritual Effects Of Sleeping With A Married Man Knowingly ? by Prec1ous(m): 12:19pm On Dec 15, 2019 |
Why are yoh always confused especially after a definite action? Just like your previous thread... https://www.nairaland.com/2179141/need-experienced-advice-pls-should The deed has been done, the best is to stay away, which I doubt you will heed to. Enjoy. 2 Likes |
Career / Re: Help!!! by Prec1ous(m): 4:37pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
Nowell08: Location, grade class and course. We start from there |
Family / Re: Whats The Way Forward? by Prec1ous(m): 4:27pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
bukatyne: I am just thinking, the man should be able to talk to the wife as an authority, Leader, partner or whatever their marriage is based upon. I feel he is the only one the wife will listen to. He needs to prove her otherwise by calming her down and letting her know it was just false alarm and pleading that she let the girl be. This is my opinion, but I think he should help out. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Whats The Way Forward? by Prec1ous(m): 12:16pm On Dec 08, 2019 |
I don't get it. Can't the husband defend her? This is my problem with weak men tail between their legs all the time. People should also note... Some favors are like traps and risky. If it was me I will not step into that car. I actually make it a point not to accept or go friendly with my boss and his family neither do I receive favors. I feel for her but I think the husband should speak out. His foot dragging is why this girl is suffering. PS: If the woman is defiant, then she should bounce. She must have learnt all she needs to learn already with just 4 months left. The last time I checked, you do not need "freedom" to practice as a caterer, own your restaurant, get a catering jib/gig or get clients. She should move on. 7 Likes |
Technology Market / Re: HP Probook For Sale by Prec1ous(m): 6:46am On Dec 08, 2019 |
Pictures? |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 8:11am On Dec 07, 2019 |
bukatyne: Smart woman, I already stated that this lady is hiding too many facts. How will someone hurt you for apologizing and waking them up. I guess she is becoming an irritant and the husband is totally immature too. Whichever the case, her info is incomplete! |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 8:08am On Dec 07, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: You are one lady who has made sense so far. The man is frustrated already but something she is doing is aggravating him and turning him to a devil. This does not absolve the man but like you said, she can lock or leave, but for her to be posting here, she is not ready to leave so she should take your opinion to the letter. |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 8:04am On Dec 07, 2019 |
Eddygourdo: This is exactly what I am saying. I don't know why men and women see things differently. This woman is also a motivator to her husband actions, she will not say the truth. This is why instead of her to leave the abusive marriage, she is trying to save it. Because, she knows the man is not like that previously. |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 8:01am On Dec 07, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Is it that you people don't read completely or your oestrogen rush makes you forget details and pick the one that suits you? I started my post by condemning violence but my advise is based on one premise: THIS WOMAN SAYS SHE WANTS TO SAVE HER MARRIAGE. IF SHE WANTS TO LEAVE DUE TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE, WE ARE NOT THE ONES TO TELL HER TO. She knows what she want and it is to get her husband to his best behavior and that is what my comment is about. If someone wants to kill you, will you wait for faceless people online to tell you to run? |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 7:08am On Dec 07, 2019 |
bdchange: Is it not funny? The woman says she want to save her marriage and spinsters everywhere are telling her to leave. Is she a kid that does not know what she wants? Or is the marriage a toilet where you go take a dump and leave anytime you want? The man is beating her up which is terrible but for every problem, there is an origin and series of solution. lalasticlala, come and help this woman. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 7:04am On Dec 07, 2019 |
cococandy: Yes, people abuse others because they go through stuffs. Policemen, Sars, bully, serial killers, robbers, envious people... The lists goes on. So stop acting like it is news. Physical violence is bad and I do not support it. But we are trying to find the cause of the issue in this woman's household. This is why I say this woman has not completely and explicitly expressed the true situation in her post. There is a way she Is acting or reacting to him that is making him beastly. She is the only on who can answer this. But I am certain on one thing, she is not being helpful to the man's plight and he is doing the only thing he knows, violence. There is a reason for every actions. People don't just snap! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 3:40am On Dec 07, 2019 |
liberalchick: I would never justify or support violence on one's spouse on any scale. But this woman is just giving her side, the man Is not here to say anything. But the most important thing I want you to note, she came here for advice on how to get his love back. If the violence was her problem, we will not be here. She knows what to do. Just like you stated, she should leave. People vent differently but the husband has chosen to be beating her continuously, which begs the question logically. And yet she is not thinking of leaving. This should tell you that she is not being sincere with the information she gave here. Let me ask you, think this thing through. How will a human being beat you mercilessly just for waking them up. Does that even make any sense to you? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 3:01am On Dec 07, 2019 |
liberalchick: My first paragraph had a sentence where I spoke against the violence. From the tone of her post, she is not ready to leave her marriage, she is here because she wants to fight and salvage the situation. If she wants to leave, she will not be here asking for solutions. She wants her husband's love back and I am telling her something she needs to achieve as part of that step. ALSO, nothing is in black and white. you will still brood over issues one day without telling your partner and still vilify him for not noticing. I am certain you have done it in the past too. I saw your comment telling her to leave, you may as well, go to her house and pack up her bag for her. Read her post again... She wants to fight and save her marriage even if it is not the best. She is not ready to leave. If not, she will on her own! 6 Likes |
Family / Re: Help..i Feel My Husband Doesn't Love Me Anymore by Prec1ous(m): 2:40am On Dec 07, 2019 |
I am so sorry about what you are going through, especially the violence. Which is enough for you to leave but you have decided otherwise. Since, you want to get his love back back, then the problem is about what you have refused see. You are still acting on the surface. Behave live a therapist. But... Your husband is going through something which you are unaware of. Something is bugging him and being egoistic, he doesn't want to talk but wants you to know and empathize. Weird right? The reason why he is venting on you is because it is just you he has. But because he is yet to master his problem, this is the reason for his haphazard behavior. When last did you sit him down and ask about his finance, career, goals, aspirations? Your husband needs you to talk to him and all those talks about respect from him is just to summarize his defensiveness. Your husband is going through something, reach into his heart. He loves you you and that other wife talk is a big bluff. He only wants you to step up. Reach out to him. 5 Likes |
Health / Re: Could It Be HIV by Prec1ous(m): 9:28am On Dec 01, 2019 |
orjah: Your other symptoms are too haphazard, but I will talk on the testicular pain The following may cause testicular pain. Varicocele - enlarged vein - I suspect this. Epididymitis - infection Orchitis - infection Hydrocele - fluid (not sperm) build up in scrotum. You suspect that your intestine is falling into your testes, I suspect inguinal hernia. To rule out HIV, for for test. |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Lady Shoots Her Shot At A Fine Man With Special Offer by Prec1ous(m): 11:49am On Nov 30, 2019 |
makydebbie: Clear! |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Lady Shoots Her Shot At A Fine Man With Special Offer by Prec1ous(m): 11:31am On Nov 30, 2019 |
makydebbie: Dzifa, you are wrong on this, If she wants to go this route, Direct messaging is a great place to start. People who know nothing about her will judge her with just this post! Regards! |
Technology Market / Re: Redmi Note 8 Pro 6/128 For Swap With Samsung Note 9, I'll Add Cash by Prec1ous(m): 10:04am On Nov 26, 2019 |
Mowoe: I think this is a great offer now. Both of them except you are on the losing end. Take them to Ikeja, you may get a vendor who is interested. |
Technology Market / Re: Redmi Note 8 Pro 6/128 For Swap With Samsung Note 9, I'll Add Cash by Prec1ous(m): 9:07am On Nov 26, 2019 |
You should have bought your note 9 straight up. No one will agree to this deal. I use a note 7 pro so I know! |
Romance / Re: What's Stopping You From Dating A Nairalander? by Prec1ous(m): 9:05am On Nov 26, 2019 |
There are really cool people on here. Still in contact with some. While some are total show off. PM me if you want to connect though. It's fun! 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Lady Calls Out Taxify Driver Who Threw Her Out Of Speeding Car For Not Paying by Prec1ous(m): 8:57am On Nov 26, 2019 |
The guy is tired of audio credit alert or did she propose to pay in "kind"? The guy seem really angry. Sorry. Track the driver with the app. |
Celebrities / Re: Falz Slams Body Shamers by Prec1ous(m): 3:32pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Beard looks weird! 11 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Between 'Bleached' Halima Abubakar And A Fan Who Asked How She Turned White by Prec1ous(m): 2:17pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Oh boy, is she bathing with HYPO? 1 Like 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Busola Dakolo: Never Stop Voicing Out Against Rape And Sexual Abuse by Prec1ous(m): 7:20am On Nov 18, 2019 |
raymondele86: Like your father raped your mother right? 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Busola Dakolo: Never Stop Voicing Out Against Rape And Sexual Abuse by Prec1ous(m): 4:45pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Yeah, don't stop but with EVIDENCE too! 23 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My Advice To Ladies by Prec1ous(m): 4:42pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: When you see it, please mention me too. I know about parallel line and it's void between them. People use the idiom to escape facts most times though. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Most Women Abstain From Men With Lots Of Sisters by Prec1ous(m): 12:50pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
The sisters also know all the female shenanigans. Thus, they will let in him on some secrets especially when you misbehave! |
Romance / Re: My Advice To Ladies by Prec1ous(m): 12:41pm On Nov 17, 2019 |
nlPoster: Haha, She is a lady and she is also lampooning her fellow! |
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