These ladies aren't ready for that marriage you talking about psychologically, they are not fully ready to handle responsibilities. So they will stress and frustrate you for a very long time until they are mentally prepared for the hard task that comes with marriages.

Basic123:
What happened to non SW ports when GEJ was the president, Anyim pius Anyim was the SGF,Okonjo iweala was the coordinating minister of the economy Allyson madueke was the minister of petroleum,Emefiele was the CBN Governor, Aruma oteh was the chairman SEC,Peter OBI was the chairman SEC ,Ike Ekweremadu was the deputy senate president, Emeka ihedioha was the deputy speaker..all for 5years 2010 to 2015!
Some will never take responsibility for their life but blame others

I agree with you sometimes south south and east are not serious with their life

lordimmaogidi:
Kindly do the same to Bandits and Marauders, frolicking with Central Government.

don't you see the videos and news of boko Haram and bandits been killed also abi u want to turn a blind eye??

Present rate everywhere is around #812 of they sell for 800 they no too do bad try other exchanges make we compare they tried abeg

nairalandkachy1:

People are dieing Oga is in ECOWAS we need government with serious love at heart

boborosky:
Firstly, I am a guy who is goal driven. I work my ass off to ensure that I earn a living and this has left me with hating anyone who is lazy.
I met my fiance about a year ago. We don't reside in the same town but we talk everyday. When we started dating, she had told me she was done with schooling but she had a few issues which have prevented her from graduating. According to her, she finished in 2019 but has not been cleared because of those issues.

In the first few months that we started dating, I asked her why she was idle since the school was yet to clear her. I further advised that she should start something rather than stay at home. She told me then that she would like to produce and sell a particular commodity. I asked her what it required for her to start. She told me and I provided those things and travelled all the way to see her and hand those items over to her. Few weeks after that, I asked how the business was doing - she went from one story to the other. I was pissed because I thought she could have put all those excuses into consideration before letting me go through the stress of providing those items - It is not about the money for it wasn't much, but her lukewarm interest in pursing goals. Truth is that she never started the trade.

I let that slide and we moved on... Each day I noticed she doesn't have the desire to pursue goals. I mean, how could she have stayed over 3years at home without learning any skill or being purposeful. When it was clear that she wasn't being purposeful, I told her crystal clear that I would not want to be with anyone who lacks purpose or isn't resourceful. In response, she told me that she would work harder and do something. But as each day passed, it was the same old story. Right now, she teaches at a school - this was after a lot of pushing, and forcing and begging and all of that. Even, of the teaching, she complains that it is stressful.

She visited my family house twice. The first time she visited, I had to literally tell her to help in the sweeping of the house the morning following the night she arrived, which she did - I mean, I expected her to know (without being told) that that was expected of her as a first-time visitor in the frame of a prospective wife/in-law. Even as a man, you don't stay inside the room when you visit a family especially when they are doing chores - that was how I was raised. Maybe it isn't a general expectation, but that was how I was raised (Don't crucify me).

As it stands now, she isn't cleared yet and each time I tell her to go to the school, she would either reply reluctantly or get upset. Moreso, she doesn't have a skill. The truth is that, though she is nice, a virgin apparently, she may end up depending on me 100%. Given the way Nigeria is, one needs a partner who can support one. Also, coupled with the fact that though she loves me 100%, she is not very exposed (a bit timid), and lacks the desire to be independent, hardworking or achieve her own goals.

We had discussed marriage, though I have not proposed yet. Conversely, right now, I am having a rethink which has caused me to be a bit withdrawn and retrogressive. I do not want a spouse who would drag me backwards, I have suffered a lot to get to where God placed me - I don't want a setback given that my family partly depends on me. From all indications, I don't know whether she will be able to handle and account for a business if one is established for her.

Even though the decision to either proceed with or withdraw from marriage is solely mine, I'd like a piece of advice.

For matured folks.... What do you think?

Please teach

Please t
Nobody is perfect try to teach her and bear with her because its not so pleasant out there

Eagle360:
Please all these positive news how does it affect common man?
Basic needs are very costly in the market and unaffordable. There should be law or policy that will regulate price of things in the market.

Competition will balance foodstuffs and transportation very soon, tinubu's idea is to create competition. Create a level playing feed for all

Jayzx:
Hello guys I don't want to bore you with long stories. I need advice and solution. I do erect when I am with my partner but release everything in minutes even before entering the place. She has been complaining about this recently I do my best to ensure long erection. I have done some medical test which comes clean.
I will be in the comment session for solution, advice and recommendations
Note: I get erect very fast but with little romance I release before even entering the place

Try to do kegel exercise daily and have frequent sex with her.

And plss after u release go again it will build ur endurance.

LittleBigDick:
Recently got a job as a data analyst WFH job making $79k
My girlfriend is a hair saloon stylist making $40k a year

Is it still a good financial decision to still date someone who makes less than me?

You are a man it's your responsibility to take care of your woman. Old change this mindset

The problem is not to remove the subsidy oooo will Nigerians see the money??

On top the hardship
M just hopeful for dangote refinery thats all

Lies from hell this was yesterday when he spoke to obedient

Men case of sex assault can never be taken seriously see wetin men dey talk?? What if she is just spreading HIV shaiiiiii?? Everything is just sex for some guys

"Temper justice with Mercy" the same line they use to bend justice in Nigeria.

Weak judiciary system might likely cos anarchy in Nigeria

Biglol008:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, pls I need your advice. I’m married 28 years, no children yet. Newly wedded, I have a problem. I don’t last long on bed. I cum very quickly and it takes a long time like 4 hours for me to get another erection and most times it’s not very hard like my first erection.

I was told the nitric oxide in my body is low. Pls I need help. How do I boost my nitric oxide in my body or if there are any supplements let me buy.

I’m afraid if I don’t do anything now my wife might eventually cheat in the future. I no longer have my morning erection like some guys do. I have exercise, did ginger, garlic, bitter Kola nothing seems to be working.

What can I do to remedy my situation. Pls no talk of hospital health wise I’m very okay. No diabetics or anything no infection pls help me so I can save my marriage and my myself.

Do kegel exercise daily 50 reps morning, afternoon and evening hold the prostate gland for a long time and keep eating fruits and vegetables

Watch sportytv free live matches on startimes thank me later

The same people calling mc-oluomo Cyber bullying a joke.
Femi fani kayode is there abusing everyone and they didn't even see him, na so Dem plan to do the cyberbulling law
Selective justice
Country wan to catch fire 🔥🔥 pt 2

IyaebeTheGreat:
She hasn't said what's truly wrong with her. Is it these same men that are very cheap and everywhere? Even mad women don't lack men.

One thing is having a boyfriend another thing is keeping the boyfriend, a man to knack might be easy but a boyfriend,lover and husband might not be as easy as u think.

Responsibilities is difficult to master, not all men are ready for that.

fyzaila:
As you read in the subject above, from my waist upwards is smaller which includes my b@obs ofcourse. My b@obs is just a little bigger than agbalumo not even a handfull o. On the other hand from my waist downward including hips and butt is wider and bigger.
Please any idea or exercise i can do to balance everything? Like increase b@@bs or reduce hips and butt.

I should be with they way I'm created but there is nothing wrong in looking for natural solutions.

You are a spec for a lot of guys especially my type. Just have a flat tummy, do sit ups and squats to strengthen your body, go for jogging for optimal stamina. You be spec no stress urself

FairlyUSEDpussy:
Always having something to complain bout.......

Go to your state........if thugs in Lagos r maltreating and humiliating u📍📍

That's not a Nigerian state anymore na!! You go just call am Yoruba nation, make everybody find e way.

apache4:
Only Bola Ahmed Tinubu can salvage Nigeria from all the troubles we have been through in this APC administration... Too bad

With Tinubu as our next president, Nigeria will get back on his feet again in a very short while

Let's wait n see 🙈

wwwkaycom:
Nigerians are funny people, the same people who were praising Buhari two weeks ago because they thought the naira swap policy will help their candidate to win are now cursing daylight out of the same Buhari for conductingthe worst election because their candidate lost. Take note of this niggas, presidential electionis already won and lost, another presidential election comes up in February 2027 by the grace of God.
I no care whether INEC postpones gubernatorial till next year, e no concern me, the one wey concern me has been done and concluded.

God bless Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, the slayer of Obingo and Atiku combined.

The winning is your concern, will he work for the people??

Do you think he cares about the unity of Nigeria?? Time will tell.

I hope you keep this same energy supporting him then 😜

ALCOHOLKILLS:
Fake

Na only Lagos that nonsense de happen

It's not all fake some of the labor party supporters will definitely be violent. We apologize for this terrible behavior and I wonder while they would allow people to see what other people are voting, terrible arrangements

You for post the soap so we can learn and avoid it ooo

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