₦airaland Forum

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.


Ihe nka owu Rice

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

virginprincess:
Most men use all this words to decieve women, men that always use this words are difficult to trust, they are playboys, besides women no longer fancy such words.

NONNYG:
Hongkong is currently not giving Nigerians and Ghanaians visa, except you're using other countries passport. I wish you all the best

J111333:
I will forgive you for asking such a stupid question with an obvious answer simply because you're clueless about the whole thing.

Your blood brother is already in Japan. He is the one funding your visa, will house you and help you get a job even if it's an underpaid one. Here you are, considering moving to Spain where you will have no one to look out for you except the fake promises of an agent who will be drinking beer in Lagos while you walk the streets of Spain aimlessly like who lost his way in Onitsha main market.

If you were to choose between moving from your village to Aba where you have no one to help you settle and moving to Onitsha where someone is already waiting to put you through things, where would you choose to move to?

Think deeply over the example above because that's exactly how it is with this abroad thing.

Decline:
Op don't listen to this liar, he's one the agents that deceives people with tourist Visa or even swindle their money as they have done to you now. Trust me you will not get your money back from those criminals called agents. I suspected this poster is the person you paid the part of the money to, so he's trying to confused you the more.

Please follow your brother advice and go to Japan, then hustle in Japan and move to Europe afterwards and or if Japan favors you then you make it your home.

My advice is that you should stay away from Spain with those scam agents, I'm talking from experience

Ashirioluwa:
Wait to see the outcome since you have paid your so called agent. I don’t know why you will give someone money to get visa for you when you can actually do it yourself. Remember that visiting visa doesn’t give you right to work so don’t let any agent deceive you.

You said your brother promised to accommodate you for time being. He also promised to get you good job. I am not going to throw away this opportunity if I were you. Getting someone to accommodate first timers are very difficult so see your brother words as golden opportunity. You can as well change destination if you don’t like Japan at the end of the day.

I am not here to discourage you or to tell you what to do or not to do. You know better me so sit down think about your choices then pick the one that’s best for you.

Kekereekun123:
this is how people turn to drug sellers abroad. What kind of visa are they doing for you if not visiting visa.

Cousin9999:
Spain can offer you an education, a job, a future, and a nice all-around lifestyle. It's a vacation. Japan is a waste of your time.

And because you're in Europe, you have easy/cheap access to other Euro countries and any opportunities there. Spain is also a cheap place to live with a high standard of living. The women without a doubt like to have fun too. You'll always have "company."

Do not use an agent.

Evidenx:
Those who go to spain with promises from an agent go to Spain to see PAIN.

YOU BETTER FOLLOW YOUR BROTHER WHO IS ALREADY ESTABLISHED IN JAPAN.


A BLOOD BROTHER IS BETTER TRUSTED THAN A TOTAL STRANGER. (BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER)

Ashirioluwa:
1. Tell me how an outsider from nairaland will be able to convince you if your brother cannot convince you.
2. Be careful of your so called Agent because most of them are liars.
3. You said your brother promised to accommodate you and also get you a good job..... I will look into this if
I were you.

Godswillu:
From your statement
It sound like you are not sure your brother will keep his promises.
Please is he your brother or broda

My advice just follow your plans and leave your brother

moonraker:
Short answer, NO!
Any residents are allowed and there special requirements that even residents have to fulfill to enter Japan.
Theres even talk from Mofa to close down the boarder for a while as the number of covid 19 cases arent reducing.

phazotron:
E no pay for guy to actively toast girls for actual relationship in this country tbh. Best thing is to be yourself and to know when babe dey into you so you go fit key in

If you dey pursue babe actively them go use u shine or cash out on top your head

Toasting up and down is not the future, reading the signs and knowing when to key in is

As I dey I be same age range with op but I no too send like that. I no get strength make one worthless girl Wey no sabi jack shit dey do anyhow for me

PureGoldh:
Oil dey your head bro.....just work on urself... enlarge your coast...Na dem go dey rush you.

Na person wey get spare time dey reason women matters....No homo sha

Women tends to love guys that care-less about them.... quote me anywhere,even the most curvy girl on dx planet knows that.

phazotron:
Baba no be by this one. If you go around looking for love intentionally, na scam you go see. As a guy, if you go around looking for a relationship you will be met with disappointment trust me. The best thing for op is just to go about his normal activities, be sociable with the opposite sex and he will eventually meet the right one. Don't go around toasting girls. Na disappointment you go see. As a guy, what is most important is having a woman who really loves you at your side. Not going around toasting girls wey no go send you. Na there marriage go set.

SmellySperm:
lol soldier go, soldier come..

Bros u no serious abeg

PureGoldh:
Like the person above me already mentioned that you are the one holding yourself.

In dx life....nobody go work ur lane for you...you go for whatsoever you want.....try as much as possible to give your heart some space to accept genuine love from ladies but remember,Trade with caution....No be every lady you go catch cruise with.

You are matured enough...so work on ur marital lane...Time no dey in Taiwan.

Best wishes bro

post=90888779:
It's only dumb that will think Abia is stagnant


Below is new constructed roads in Aba

Cousin9999:
People keep asking, so let's compile a list.

University of Santiago de Compostela
Universitat Rovira i Virgili
Pompeu Fabra University
University of Barcelona
Universitat Autònoma de Barcelona
Universitat Autònoma de Madrid

The public unis, if it isn't obvious, are the cheapest. Note that your tuition is not a flat rate. It's calculated based on a number of details. However, you can generally expect to pay <=20 euros per credit, and 2,000 to 4,000 euros total each year (undergrad, but grad school isn't much more). Some schools are cheaper than that, but again it depends on the program, fees, and etc. You really have to do your own research.

I don't have the info ATM, but I suspect the public schools in the smaller cities and boonies are the cheapest. Those places also have a very affordable cost of living. However, the further you go away from the major cities, the more ignorance you'll find. Definitely research the area, demographics, and foreign student experiences.

Also, if you were wondering:
-the Spanish language is easy
-the food doesn't suck
-they really like to @#$! and generally have fun
-they can actually dance
-the unis have plenty of English programs
-black people ruled them for like centuries, some get mad when you mention it
-https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.livescience.com/amp/37092-southern-europeans-have-african-genes.html

Yinbanjonic:
You can get it within 4 days in Lagos just that you spend money. 64 pages to be precise no 32 pages for now

franchasng:
many guys were once like Ozo until foolish girls like Nengi open their eyes and they turn to Lions that devour every available prey without mercy.


Dear ladies, playboys and bad guys are the monsters that ladies like Nengi made




So as a girl, while you are busy playing one guy, bear in mind that you are indirectly making a monster that will devour your sisters

muchroom:
Ozo attempted kissing Nengi as he was evicted but she dodged his lips turning her face sideways. Vee who saw the whole drama could not help letting out a goofy smile at the "heartbroken" Ozo.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yF2T-7ZqJIM

Cousin9999:
There's other options, but one lazy route is to go as a student and teach English on the side. Tuition is cheap, and you can make real money even from part-time teaching. It's a good idea to do CELTA if you're going that route. But again, it's just one option among many.

You could also marry a Spanish girl and open a bar on the beach. lol
Which school are you suggesting for me,I mean the one with the cheaper fee.
Pls what are the needed documents?

Cousin9999:
There's other options, but one lazy route is to go as a student and teach English on the side. Tuition is cheap, and you can make real money even from part-time teaching. It's a good idea to do CELTA if you're going that route. But again, it's just one option among many.

You could also marry a Spanish girl and open a bar on the beach. lol thanks for ur reply....BT I still want to know how much it will cost me for the visa process including the flight ticket.... Thanks