Belafonte
What if the table turns tomorrow? What will be your resolution?


post=124710983:
The past few months have been quite dramatic in the Nigerian political space with the elections, swearing in and the election outcome being contested by aggrieved parties (Atiku, Obi).

The election tribunal has concluded hearings and we all await its judgement. Quite interestingly, the Labour Party camp has not been able to prove that elections were stolen/rigged and that they won. Their appeal is majorly based on the fact that Jagaban is not fit to contest and as such should be retroactively disqualified and then stripped of his presidency which, in any case, is very unlikely. However, if this were to occur the runner up Alhaji Atiku Abubakar should naturally be declared rightful winner and made president. Quite jokingly, Peter Obi is asking for rerun which will never happen . Jagaban stays or Atiku ascends.

My sincere question to Obidients now is how will you carry on in the aftermath of the PEPT judgement that will surely not favour Peter Obi? Will you turn your caustic missives to the Atikulates and Abokis or is your hatred reserved for Jagaban and Yoruba? Will you file another appeal till Obi is made president? What will life after this impending disappointment be like for you guys?

Warl0ck:
My best friend is really confused.

There happens to be a girl he loves.
He tend to find out that the girl is his second cousin (the same great grandfather).

So now, he is planning to marry the lady but is confused if it could be an incest.
Although he havent made the lady know of his intension yet.
Pls is it legal for them to marry ? Or an incest?

---

He reached to me for advise but dont know what to tell him.
So i decided to bring it here.
I will show him the opinions from here, at dawn when i reach his domot.

---

Pls ur opinions, advice, suggestions needed.

blabulu2000:
*If you're a Yoruba supporter of Obi, ask your self if Igbos voted for Awolowo or MKO*.

*Why is it always your own elders that are bad, but theirs are saints??*

*Was MKO's (SDP) Party in government previously in 1993 just as is APC now for Tinubu?*! *The reality of your decision today is that your tribesmen may never be president again.*

*All your elders and leaders are subject of mockery but Igbos can bring an unknown entity, rebrand it, and sell to you as a saint*. *They tell you it's not about tribe but, historically they had never voted Yoruba candidates for presidency*.

*In 1979 elections, Chief Obafemi Awolowo recorded an abysmal 0.8% and 0.7% of total votes 🗳 cast in the then Imo and Enugu state*. *Was Awolowo not competent too or was he also too old for the job? Is Awolowo ticket a Muslim Muslim ticket?*🤔

*Google 1993 election results and see that they did not also vote for MKO Abiola*. *Abiola lost in Enugu, Abia, Imo, and River states*.

*For me, if you don't patronize me, I will not patronize you*. *I'm not a fool!!* *This is a federal election and not state election like Osun state where the candidates are Yoruba vs Yoruba*.

*For the fact that a candidate failed in a party does not AUTOMATICALLY mean that everyone in the party will underperform if given the opportunity*.

*The same Igbos misleading our people are part of the problem too with their Biafra agitation which they have cleverly suspended for.*

*They championed EndSars protest as directed by Nnamdi Kanu to destroy Lagos*. *They are always insulting and troubling this Buhari man and even things he did well, they will never give credit*.

*We should never forget in a hurry how they called Nigeria a Zoo and all of us living in it, baboons.*

*Must it be their own president for us to progress?*

*Is that how developed the South East is, or we Yorubas are already emotionally blackmailed to the point that we see nothing good about ourselves again?* 🤔

*Yoruba e je ki a Ro'nu jinle oooo.* 🤔🤔🤔🤔
Forward it let it go viral.

#ThinkYorubaFirst

preshman22:
According to my wife, she had seen many therapists about this. I asked her if she was a nympho…she said yes…that as a troubled young girl, s3x was her way of escaping the pain of abandonment she felt for her mother. She f*cked any man who showed her a little care but she says, she is no longer a nympho. That is why she does not want to go back to the country that reminds her of her pain.

When I asked her why she went out all night, leaving our young kids with a baby sitter…she could not answer. She just said she was sorry. I asked her if she was sleeping with someone…she said no but I am not sure I believe her. I am not sure I really know the woman I am married to anymore. She hid so many dark parts of her past from me. Just finding out is giving me too much shock than I can bear.

I told her she has to return to Nigeria with me, so I can be close to her and help her, she said never. I think she is still dealing with her past. I think she is not ready to face her past. I think she is in denial. I took her phone and saw that she had been chatting with some guys. Some of them are her colleagues. They were having dirty, erotic chats. Even chats about having threesomes in the office bathroom after close of work. It was obvious She was out with a guy that night. I did not need a seer to tell me that.

My wife said nothing happened. That it was all just flirting but nothing more….Who can believe that? I broke down, I have never ever seen my wife as someone capable of cheating on me with a man talk less of several men…My wife thinks I am judging her because of what her mother told me…that she has not slept with any man since we got married.

So, I left for Nigeria and since then, we have not spoken. I am so worried about my wife and my children. I asked my sister who lives in Canada to be checking on them but that still worries me. Everyday I am thinking what is my wife up to. Clearly, she must be up to something. I am not there to know. I try to call her very often but she is now upset that I am watching her. She said if I do not trust her, we should get a divorce.

The truth is….I do not trust her….not if she is nit beside me. Does this mean our marriage is doomed? Should I move back to Canada, to try and save what is left of my marriage? Will that even change anything? Is my absence the reason she is cheating or was she covering up her real self?

Her mother has said nothing can change her daughter. That I had better leave her alone if I do not want to be destroyed. Her own mother…My family business needs me, they are saying I should demand my wife to return but my wife has refused. what should I do? My home is on fire…I need advise.

SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

Freedom2022:
I HAVE SEEN QUITE A NUMBER OF GOOD RECOMMENDATIONS. I TOOK TIME TO READ ALL COMMENTS AND I WILL BE REACHING OUT TO SOME PEOPLE FROM TODAY. I WILL ALSO BE PUTTING INTO USE SOME OF THE RECOMMENDATIONS HERE. FOR ME, I THINK IT IS A GOOD START FOR ME. I WILL BE UPDATING ALL FROM TIME TO TIME ON PEOPLE THAT I REACH OUT TO AND THE PROGRESS I AM MAKING IN TERMS OF WHAT I AM ASKED TO DO AND WHAT NOT TO DO.

I WANT TO BELIEVE THIS IS THE BEGINNING OF A NEW CHAPTER IN MY LIFE AND I PRAY THAT I RECOVER MY LOST GLORY AND BE THAT SWEET PERSON GOD DESIGNED ME TO BE.

THANK YOU ALL I LOVE YOU

CoolAmbience:


Economic degradation indeed....not now that our infrastructures are looking up. Obi is the very wrong choice anyday. What does he know about the economy?

Of the three governors of Anambra, Ngige, Obi and Obiano...Ngige was able to grow the state's IGR by 9x in three years and Obiano by 3.5x. By how much did Obi grow Anambra's economy?

Oga, maybe, you only hear of Peter Obi from TV and media. Are you aware that most roads constructed under Obi are now ridden with potholes?

Anyways, he can't even come any close in the PDP primaries...why we dey waste data sef?

Mineralzz:
Hello everyone.
Am an active member on this forum, I've have my main account but I wish to remain anonymous, i just want to hide my identity and i will deactivate this account as soon as I get a solution. I'm so heartbroken right now

I thought my fiancée was different from every other guys, despite his gentle and innocent face I never knew he was a liar and a cheat

He's fond of connecting his laptop to his smart TV (65 inches). What displays on the laptop automatically displays on the smart TV screen. See what happened, he went downstairs to pickup something, So I wanted to see a movie on Netflix, while I was looking for a suitable movie to watch, a message popped up from Facebook and it stated "Whr are U? Check ur phone...6 missed calls "

At first, I wasn't triggered to open the msg but what drew my attention was the "cry emoji". When I opened the msg my heart melted, I was crying . Their secret affair has been going on since April last year. A married woman with 2 kids, I checked her profile I saw her kids and husband photos everywhere, she has visited my fiance at home several times, I saw lot of romantic messages.

I videoed their chat conversations as evidence, thank goodness his TV screen is wide enough for the blind to see. The moment he came inside he noticed my mood has changed, he was smart enough to know I opened his msg. He's started begging me, he said he can explain. Explain what?

Am on my way home now feeling devastated, heartbroken and sad . I plan to upload the video on Facebook and tag all the woman's friends until her husband sees it. I will also send the video to instablog, Linda ikeji.. Honestly I feel dejected and heartbroken. Help I don't know what to do .

Mynd44, seun, lalasticlala.

Investigative:

Peter obi is a pain in the ass
Someone who never declare oooo