Well deserved victory for Fulham...

You can't help Nigerians (most). These people have made their choice.

see teeth...

Now look at what America has been reduced to under the Biden administration.

Nothing surprises me anymore in this country...

I so wish those vehicles were parked and had no occupants...

Do you think the child will be a problem in the relationship? Is the child male or female?

Hi Nairalanders,

This issue has been bothering for a while now. I am not the promiscuous type. I was a virgin all through my university until I started working in one of the states. She was my first and has been the only one. I have been having relationship problems in the sense that I it's just so difficult for me to get emotionally attached to a lady. I am straight so don't think the other way round. I tried to see if I could work this out with her, but along the line, I lost interest again. So just before my relocation, she said she wants to see me one last time before I travel, I tried to lie to her that I am unavailable,but then she made it seemed like I didn't want to see her, I felt sorry and said no problem that she can come around. I have only had sex with her once but with protection, on this her second visit, she said she wouldn't want protection anymore as she doesn't enjoy sex with condom, and that she wants to enjoy sex before I leave. I told her I am not comfortable with the idea as I don't want her to get pregnant as she is still a student in one of the universities. She said she can only get pregnant if she wants to, and that as a student, she doesn't want that yet. When she came over, the did happened but even then I still used a condom, condom broke on 3 occasions, then I decided to raw, and when I felt I was about to release, I pulled out. Even though I pulled out, I was uncomfortable because I have heard that precum can also get a lady pregnant. I was scared about any possibility of infection too. Took her to the hospital the next day, did HIV and other STD tests which came out negative. We went together to see the doctor for post pills, but she declined taking any that since I didn't release in her, she will be fine. And that she has pills she can take too. I was furious at her, but had to respect her decision as it is her body.

Three weeks after, she called that she thinks she's pregnant, that she missed her period which is very unusual. I was so mad at her and told her, I didn't want to hear any of that as I made it clear to her from the beginning. She started crying and got emotional, that got to me and I told her not to worry, that I will pay her bride price and marry her. I earn about half a million monthly, so I believe I can take care of her and the kid. She paused and said she needs to think about it. Regarding abortion, I already told her, my tradition forbids me from giving any form of material and financial assistance to her to do that, if at all she wants to do it, it has to be her sole decision. I made it clear to her that I won't be involved in the decision to abort the pregnancy. She called back after a couple of minutes that she is not comfortable with my decision to marry her, that I want to do that because of the pregnancy. She asked if there was no pregnancy,would I have chosen to marry her, I told her, I don't know. She said then that she is going to abort it, I pleaded with her not to abort seeing the possibility of me becoming a dad soon, she said she will go ahead to abort, that her friend have gotten her some meds already. She called few days later that she just got the drugs, and have taken them, and that she is experiencing blood flow and stomach ache, that I shouldn't abandon her in this difficult time. I said no problem, so I kept calling to check on her very often. After a week, I stopped calling as usual, and that became a problem. I wanted her to move on with her life.

I kept in touch with her and supported her financially when the need arose. When I told her, I am back to the same city with her, she said she wanted to see me that it's very important, I said what's so important that we can't discuss over the phone, she said when I see her I will know. Well, when the day came for her to see me, I told her I was unavailable, then she coded I was avoiding her. We chatted, and she told me the pregnancy is still there. I told her to stop messing with me as I am currently trying to move on and build a new relationship. She insisted, then I said well, if you are, deliver the child, I will take responsibility. She said is that all I have to say, that I want to make her my Baby Mama? I then asked her, what more does she want? I offered marriage before, but now, that's no longer on the table. When the baby is borne I will take responsibility. Well, long story short, at the end of our chat, she said, she was never pregnant, and that she will only get pregnant if she wants to. I then told her, I am not going to forgive her in a hurry.

Since then, we stopped communicating. Recently,I saw her WhatsApp status with her visibly pregnant in the picture. I have been seeing most of her status update on Facebook and WhatsApp, I feel so sorry for her most of the time. She has done nothing wrong but love me. The problem is me, I can't seem to be able to really love back the way I ought to. Feelings die after few weeks and months. This happened to all the 6 ladies I have dated.

My worry right now is, could she be carrying my child? I didn't release in her, but there could be a possibility of precum. One of her friends once called me that she noticed she is pregnant, and I am the only one she has known to be dating her. She claimed to have called me without her knowledge and consent and ask if she told me she was pregnant.

I was a good boy and should have remained a virgin till marriage if I had known. Now look how complicated my life just got. I never wanted to have kids with different women. I haven't really been myself since. If you are a young single guy, please learn from my experience.

For the mature minds in the house, what do you advise I do about my present predicament?

Manuella4ace:

No, 1000miles won't do any damage, but you can easily locate kingreign.

Alright Boss. Is he within Abuja and do u have his contact?

OfficialDJ:
kingreign

Thanks Boss...

Manuella4ace:


Forget that mechanic, open your bonnet and start the car try and see if you can figure out where the sound is coming from, examine your exhaust manifold and try Check your muffler or catalyst maybe dem don commot am.
Best bet scan your car.

For the oil, you use a wrong oil weight, you car specification is 5W-30.
Stick to that,

You can change that 20w-50 after 1000 miles and replace with 5w-30.

Thank you Boss.

If you start the car and fire the vehicle, you won't hear that sound until you start driving after like 2 minutes. Regarding the oil, does it mean I don't have to change the oil right away. After the service, I only drove the car once to the office.

Hi Star Family,

Pls I need ur guidance here. I just acquired this 2007 C280 4matic foreign used. Car was running fine and smooth until I decided to do oil change and servicing. Wanted to use Mobil1 but Mech advised Total oil. Did oil change and a day after, I started hearing a dangling sound in the bonnet area. Called Mech when I arrived home from work to check, Mech said is the exhaust. After working

.on the exhaust, metallic dangling sound still there. Now he is saying it's from the shaft. I insisted it must have been the oil as the sound wasn't there before. The asked that I bring the car tomorrow. I just got this car few days ago, and these guys have turned it to their lab rat. how do I fix this.
Oil used is Total 20w 50. I am in Abuja...

Hi Fam,

Please welcome me to the star family. I just recently acquired the 07 C280 4matic (foreign used). I am so much in love with this vehicle.

My first car was the 08 accord, 09 Corolla, and now the 07 C280 4matic. This car is the definition of sophisticati
on and will take some time getting used to. I am just guarding it like a baby.

How best can I care for this car being my first time using a German machine like this....

Your location?

Can we deal 1.5?

Interested but offering 1.5

Rubber stamp Senate President

Carchoice:
If you are so sure about keeping one partner, are you sure your partner is doing same? Why not abstain totally make your mind for rest.


Your bae will come this evening or tomorrow, you nor know where she branch before coming to you.

I can deal with a lot of things, but see that thing called cheating, it's where I draw the line. Sometimes, you would just want to go celibate, but man's not wired that way.

Most often, I read stories of guys and ladies having sexual relations with multiple partners, and I keep wondering, how do they do this?

Worst is that, some even go nasty to the extent that they s*ck on each other's genitals. Just imagine a d*ck that has been soaked with fluids from different P*ssies.; imagine the combination of bacteria been transferred during blowj*b. Same with guys who go down on ladies and insert their tool in puss**s that different d*cks and fluids have been deposited. The thought of this makes me want to puke sometimes. Imagine you kissing a lady who has given several guys blowj*b. These are nasty things and reason why it's best to stick to one Partner for life.

Perhaps I view things this way because of my kind of person. I don't share my cup, spoons, clothes, or eat from the same plate with others. My hygiene practice is top notch. So I can't imagine myself being in such a terrible mix sexually.

So people, have these thoughts or imaginations ever crossed your mind?

So this is the club DJ Cuppy left Arsenal for....

osato45:
What code did the scan display?

Just one code. Didn't jot the code as I was told it's nothing serious. It's an exhaust sensor.

Billiebaba:

What about the oil, is it still reducing mysteriously, what were the codes

No more leakages. There was a screw beneath that wasn't properly tied after replacing the oil seal. Mech has tightened it, and that stopped the leakage. Oil level after morning check always show full gauge.

chukel:
please go and scan the car. It will help you.

Yeah...had the car scanned. Just one of the sensors. Was told that since it's not affecting the car performance, I can continue using the car and change sensor at my convenient time.

chukel:
start the car and show us a picture of your instrument cluster. Let the engine be running while u snap it.

Attached is the picture sir.

Patented:
Get someone skilled to scan your vehicle. This would help eliminate trial and error. Not just someone who will list out error codes for you ooooo. Someone who knows how to properly interprete codes and understands the possible relationships between codes.

Many thanks Sir. I don't know if I will be able to find someone with the tools and skills here. I will ask around.

Dear Nairalanders,

I recently posted that I got a Honda Accord 09. The car drives well, travelled from Lagos to Abuja, and from Abuja to North west.

Car was serviced before departure from Abuja to Kaduna, and was delivered on Saturday. Checked engine oil on Sunday morning, there was oil but very little. Drove out on Sunday, returned and parked car. Next day, there was no engine oil in the engine after morning check. There were some droplets of oil on the floor but too little. Called a mechanic who went under the engine and said it's the oil seals, and need to be replaced. He said he will have to bring down the engine before replacing the oil seals. Paid him for replacement of oil seals and changing of engine oil. He returned the car the next day. Car still drives well but I noticed some changes. Car vibrates when you engage gear when the AC is on but doesn't when AC is off. He said the engine seats are very ok and that I should see an AC technician. Though the car doesn't vibrate with AC on when driving. The check engine light came up on the dashboard after the replacement of oil seals. I still notice some tiny droplets of oil on the floor when car is parked overnight. Car drives fine and well but I don't want to ignore the dashboard signs.

Any help will be highly appreciated.

ksmart027:
op, congrats on your new car, when you want to service your transmission use the recommended oil honda dw1 and ask the previous owner the oil they use in servicing the car, if the oil weight is 5w30 stick with it, but if is 20w50 you can switch to a light weight oil maybe 10w40 and observe wether there is oil shortage. If the oil shorts, use 20w50 if not you can switch to 5w30. Remember to buy oem when replacing parts. And i hope the fan is not bypass and thermostat removed.

Many thanks sir. This is very informative. How often should the transmission be serviced or how do I know when the transmission is due for service?

Yuceeluv:
congrats! use giveaway wash am.

Much thanks.

CyberEBOLA:
This your car is invisible? Camera no capture am?

Lol...I didn't open the thread to show off the car. I only need suggestions on how to properly maintain it.

Hi Nairalanders,

I just got my first car, 2009 Honda Accord Naija used. Engine, transmission, and AC all in perfect condition. Though the shock for the trunk and bonnet need attention as they are weak already. Also, the LCD screen needs to be replaced as the screen is just showing white.

I really love the car and I am so overjoyed. Though still using it to learn driving which I have been doing great at.

I need suggestions on how best to look after my baby. She is just so sweet.

Your location.

V6.