ladykolly:
his write up needs a second touch,,,who says every matured girl is after a guys money...to d guys in d house stop addressing all gals as one,there re still thousand of gals dat don't fix their eyes on your wallet. is a choice every one should make,even if u marry a primary or secondary school girl dat doesn't assure u to have d best of home,your naive girl is still growing up.

Sorry bout the generalization.
But I think it started with the females. We are so tired of hearing "all guys are the same" mantra, to the extent it's almost spreading the us too. Jokes apart, there are still very reasonable girls. By privilege, I have met a few of them and some made really meaningful contributions to me, that's makes up part of who I am today

ladykolly:
his write up needs a second touch,,,who says every matured girl is after a guys money...to d guys in d house stop addressing all gals as one,there re still thousand of gals dat don't fix their eyes on your wallet. is a choice every one should make,even if u marry a primary or secondary school girl dat doesn't assure u to have d best of home,your naive girl is still growing up.

Sorry bout the generalization.
But I think it started with the females. We are so tired of hearing "all guys are the same" mantra, to the extent it's almost spreading the us too. Jokes apart, there are still very reasonable girls. By privilege, I have met a few of them and some made really meaningful contributions to me, that's makes up part of who I am today

lepasharon:
Useless men stay away from little girls

Hope you are not threatened by the post sha?

pocohantas:

Threats! Threats! Threats!
The usual marital threat and olosho insult. You all are very predictable, no wow factor...

Always using the word "You all" is weak dear.
Heed the advices, drop those unreal ideas the media, Nollywood and the fakes have filled ur head with. It's all not real, in real life there are rules, laws, precepts. These and many more hold this world in Ballance. If the people before us shared your view, we probably won't be here today. Yeah, it's a ladies world, but never make a mistake of underating a man, not even an underaged.
Believe it or not, extremist feminist believes is the biggest threat to sacred marital institution in our days. That is y ppls marriage crash by the day, but 30,40 years running our parents are still together. Doesnt that leave a message?

olajizz01:
Who is developing HBP between me and your CAN,they relieved some corrupt govt officials of their duty,they started barking like dog,if your so called CAN didnt have skeleton in their cupboard,why the noise,atleast VP is the chairman of the committee and he is from which religion?i can't blame u too becos you are one of the corrupt fellow i am talking about. Besides, u said i supported Aregbe becos he is from my religion,but why do i voted Oyinlola in his first regime against Akande who is a muslim.i don't need any brain surgery to know that u are a useless bigot,guess that was why your Criminal Association of Nigeria gang against Aregbe becos he defeated your so called Omisore who is a confirmed criminal.

All I see is a wailing poo.
Obviously u can't even have a sensible conversation.
How does u voting oyinlola affect the price of tomatoes in the market, or how does it change the fact that jamb contracted jamb forms to a religious bank that is not everywhere? Whatever ur name is, there r points beyond the suspension of those government officials that CAN raised. Address that and stop barking uncontrollably. I am not sure I have your medication, I would have helped. But if u know u can't address them, shortest way, is the lagoon or the closest working transformer to u.

pocohantas:

There have been kitchen wives...except you're implying kitchen is a demeaning place. There was lots of patriarchy before feminism, so?
There are also women who believe in patriarchy, what do you also have to say about them?


Anyone can be jealous. Men are also jealous and all that. Same reason some men don't want their wives to be empowered, control!


Same with men. Our male celebs that are all over social media flaunting wealth, are they trannies? Some humans, especially the black man loves to exert control and make others feel inadequate. It's not gender defined. Davido brother said his dog feeds better than us, I can only imagine what would have been the reaction if a woman said same.


Why do some men think everything is about them? Feminism isn't about doing anything to you guys, it's about making women stand up for themselves by themselves.


The campaign for the girl child education arose because of the belief that a girl child belongs to the kitchen and other room. Main reason it is targeted at areas, where such beliefs thrive, for cultural and religious reasons. Maybe you men should stop whining and stand up for yourselves.


Once again, calm down. Men treat women and themselves bad too...men have been in power since the evolution of man. How have you guys treated women and yourselves? Abi is it not men that will prefer to give a job to a woman because of bottom power while his fellow man remains in unemployment? Most arm robbers, rapist, kidnappers, drug traffickers are men. Stop acting like men are all nice to women please.


There are also female terrorist despite all the campaign for the girl child.

For once women are coming together for a cause and y'all can't deal with it. Must be scary

Babe enjoy your victory. You killed em all right?
Continue basking in the adulation of your victory.
I am sure you are not married.
Best guess, u don't know life yet. Don't worry, it's soon going to be played cléarly in ur face.
You can't use hoelosho formula for a husband. Kolewerk!!
You might have some point, yet some just don't hold.
I know as usual, u will attack but hey, who cares...

madridguy:
Sai Baba should consider me too for one position

I Stand with you brother.
you don over try, sticking out your sometin for this pmb Everytime.
just chill. I am currently compiling the list of the BMC Nairaland wing for Baba.
I promise you, the next stage will be made known by my oga at the top

ademasta:

It hasn't gone to that level sir/ma... Lower your energy, i am too small a man to use all your energy on

hahahahaha that's what I call a 'sharp disclaimer'

avadella:

Are you a lawyer... Oya let's go to the court

oya na, after you ma

HateU2:
Transgender

hahahahahha

SINZ:


I wouldn't mind having only female kids though..

bros that's how it feels at first. until the day some tiny guys comes from nowhere to pick them one by one from first to last.
I promise u, going by the way fathers and their daughters a always very close, after the last one commot ur house, ur eye go clear. then u will wish u had only one girl or even none at all.

avadella:
All these questions for we "innocent" ladies?

Maybe the next person will answer them

yeah, all females are presumed innocent, until proven guilty by a male court of competent jurisdiction

winkmart:
The only form of harassment I could think of was my aunt's friend who always seemed to get naked when I was in their room. If I barged in, she wouldn't bulge and would keep on doing whatever she was doing.

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She would even sometimes ask me to bring stuffs for her in the bathroom.
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I Ws 15 then in SS3

Chai!!! Omo that one gidi gan o

manny4u:

well i really trust her, just that it easier for me to manipulate when she nags; i prefer the nagging ladies cos dy are easier to deal with than the quiet ones.

my candidature advice, don't prefer a nagging lady run for her. you might not understand now, but marrying her as u may later find out may be your worst mistake ever. what you are patronising is high BP to be factual. she has not started nagging, u need to seal the relationship more. that a lady does not cheat is not enough reason to take her to the alter, there are equality very important little things both sexes leave out.
my brother the fact that she could start acting this all nice means she is a pretender. it means she knows who u would have wanted her to be then she is trying to take that form cos u want to marry her. it means she knew all along nagging was wrong, yet she didn't make any deliberate attempt to change it, therefore she is assuming who she should be to get married. it means if marriage was not involved, she will still be the nagging chick till now.
understand she has been suppressing a whole lot of temper, and it's only a matter of time she is able to unleash them all. I am not advising u leave her, but ask your self as a responsible man 'what have I done to make her who she should/I want her to be? u probably are just tolerating her and not letting her know where she is getting it wrong. if she truely loves u and know it hurts u, wedding or no wedding, she will not have problems dropping any irritating habit.
For me as a man, I cant survive a nagging lady, there is a way it affects my brain, I literarily feel my brain wanting to explode at times. I am sure a nagging lady/wife is my easiest invitation to high BP community. So for me, if I know it's already enshrined in your blood, I RUN!!!

oodua1stson:
I had sex with my wife on the 1st date. It never made her cheap to me.

Because u r matured both at heart and in mind.
not all guys are lucky to have that kinda maturity, that's why lots of guys would have rushed to gist their friends how they lashed her on the first day. unknowingly to him, she is still going to become his wife.
imagine u had been childish to run ur mouth to friend, how r they to respect ur wife today. big lessons to learn from u

well ladies, understand it is bad to allow a guy get down with you on a first date. We men naturally attach importance to whatever we had to work to get (I do not mean a woman should over flog it in the name of playing hard). have u not noticed how your dad is so particularly careful about certain car? it's because apart from being his dream car, he had to let out some sweat to get it. therefore, he protects it with his blood. so it is from men's creation. understand that there are lots of so called men who really are children by virtue of how they handle their relationship. not all guys are matured enough to know not all girls that sleep with a guy on first date are cheap. some already feel secured and comfortable by u. then what else?
As a matter of fact, if I get down with u on a first date, it tells me alot about u. then I am particularly interested in y u let me in so easily, could it be that u loved me that much already (which is good anyway) or its cause u can't resist cheap advances? do u do this with every guy? (if u belong to this class, I won't need a prophet to know I got to run).
maturity has a lot of roles to play here. My current girlfriend whom we clocked a year in relationship few weeks ago had sex with me on the first date, although she tried effortlessly to refuse me, but she gave it up. though we had been doing lots of catching up online and we had seen few times in public functions before we decided to start dating. surprisingly after that 1st day she came visiting and it happened, she did not reduce a bit in my eyes, as a matter of fact I have been having more and more reason to love her.
But as a girl, u know u r already loose, don't bother wasting that guys time forming holy. Just open the thing already. I so fear ladies when it gets to some issues like this. One girl wen don use 11 fingers chop life, wild, wide girl, go just see one gentle novice dude, begin confuse am with packaging of those inferior goods called chest, begin close lap for the novice Bobo do, for that one mind e don see Angel. hustling girls, I dope cape, u always catch one mumu rich boy at the end of the day.

olajizz01:
kudos for saying the blatant truth,u know that if the investigation continue,they will unravel the millions of dollars given to this criminals called CAN,hence they have to play religious politics to wipe sentiment. i have known longtime ago that CAN was a spiritual arms of PDP,there was a time in Osun state when CAN totally turned to PDP media aides inorder to frustrated Aregbesola.That was why till today,most outsider epsecially non Yorubas believed that their is nothing positive about Aregbe's govt,but we indigens know that the performance of Aregbe is unprecedented in the history of Osun state.

If u are sure about what u r saying. please blow the whistle on CAN, so u don't eventually develop high BP on this matter. CAN is an unmovable force, ur cheap blackmail notwithstanding. A house built on the rock that cannot be moved. Y wount u support aregbe, is he not ur religion? all una view nor dey pass religion.
only if this so called sense.less Christians will take a clue from u. the way u support ur religion blindly. atleast I am sure they won't take it to the extreme like u ppl

thesicilian:
My point is, if CAN is actually fighting for Christians, would this have been possible? What have they done to rectify the CRK issue, or the killings?

How else do u want them to fight than make statements like this? oh, I get it, they should take up arms like the other religion or lockup the government?
you people's problem is, you are confused, wen CAN keeps silent, u rain curses and brim stone. when they don't, you either call and attack them with all sort of names or you say y are they just talking.
and then some B.a.stards who call themselves Christians are quick to join hands with other religion to kill and trample under their umbrella body, after using ur hands and mouth to kill CAN in this kind of forum, you start lamenting. Even if CAN did wrong, is it by slandering the name that you get things right?
Try not to forget that CAN is u and ur unborn children that you still hope will continue in the ways of God. the people who run it now r not permanent. if I because of the way the current administration runs it, join hands with people who don't even wish it exists to kill it. your are only stripping ur self unclad gradually, it's only a matter of time. No wonder they slit your throats anyhow. If it has not gotten to u yet, someday it might get to ur coming generations, then u will realize what lots of Christians like his currently facing in the hands of this good for nothing extremist because u refuse to join hands together. just know IT IS YOUR FAULT TOO Everytime a blood is splilled.

thesicilian:

There's nothing spiritual about CAN. Only carnal and narrow minds make the mistake of thinking CAN stands for God or Christians. They are only there for their own selfish interests.

Those are your views, but they don't necessarily represent facts or the truth in this case. Shame on you if I claim to be a Christian

greatgod2012:
I'm greatly disappointed in CAN for saying this!

Are they trying to play opposition or what?

And then, when they refuse to talk on salient issues, you call for their head.
they just made a point on politics from a religious view. Can u address religion this days without politics? or politics without religion in Nigeria? someone they always meet. so address the issues raise, do not attack the organisation. mind you, CAN is bigger than any political party.

Aimosagie:


Lol..because it is absolutely impossible to rape a man except his body truly wants it. He needs to be hard for a woman to even attempt the rape in the first place, and he needs to be sexually turned on by whatever he sees or feel. This isn't the same for the woman and we all know this. So even if there is something like sexually assaulting a man, it's hard to believe a man can be raped if we're honest with ourselves.

I dis-concur. The man's body does not necessarily have to need it. You mean a woman will rape a man because he is hard or what?
A man can get hard at any given moment.
All he needs to activate his missile, is the info that a pot of free vegetable soup is ready to be devoured. and bang, the missile lunches, so both the rapee and the raped gets a nice time. win-win situation most time. looooll!!!!!

My second experience.
Actually, I don't remember if this happened before the first one I wrote, as I was pretty small during both. but I'll just assume this was second as it seems so to me.
We were living in a one storey building at the time. Those were the days "Bata Shop" (for some of you who still remember it) still existed. we stayed upstairs, while a Bata Shop was directly below my flat. Behind the Bata shop was this family we were somehow very close. I like going down to their flat most time, cos their parent had bought them this clock that was amazingly talking, wow, I hardly could sleep each night as the taught of playing with that clock always filled my mind.
meanwhile they had this girl, a bit older and bigger than me, her name starts with a T, this girl's obviously liked me so much, although I didn't know what that meant. She always had this funny play she brings up. Sometimes when we doing those kiddies play like running around the house, she will always stop me at intervals, pull her p.ant and ask me to pull mine. Then she will ask me to wee-wee onto her p***y. sometime she will grab my tiny tony suddenly. At some other times she will insist I stay with her while she was bathing. This continue on and on and even though my immediate elder sister knew about it, she was as clueless as my self.

ErnieSmallzz:
op, where ur own

I don dey drop am

my first experience was with my female older cousin. I must be between 3&5 back then. Myself and my immediate elder sister had gone to spend our long holiday with my grand PA and ma, who was working as an Anglican missionary. We met 3 of my cousin's too there (all from same mother), whose mother happens to be my dad's younger sister. We always play along with other kids from the street. Meanwhile there was another younger cousin by name Esther living few blocks away from us. My older cousin seem not to have any other play than mummy and daddy play Everytime, and I was always her target. she would ask me to bring out my tiny tony and sleep on other female kids, including my younger cousin Esther. Whenever I refused, she would either threaten to beat me or threaten to not give me sweet. Although I knew in a way that what she was making me do was not right (as I would first contest it most time), but then, what can a kid do?

Whenever the topic sexual abuse comes up, people are always quick to believe or imagine that it would be a female that was abused. The society and indeed statistics available generally believes that female are not just more vulnerable, but are indeed more abused. As much as I agree with the more vulnerable part, I totally disagree that they are more eventually abused.
I personally believe men are equally sexually abused, only we hardly say it, because of too many reasons. one, the society sees you as being weak, when as a man, you come to public domain to claim sexual abuse or two, we men folk has a way of eventually converting the supposed abuse to our benefit (if the said abuser is attractive enough). so it just goes down and could continue till whenever. This kind of abuses are mostly found in work places.
But one very important things no one seem to be talking about much is childhood sexual abuse. No matter the statistics or figure you have on this one, you can never succeed in proving to me the female kids are more abused. We guys gets abused too many times, by female co-tenant, house help, sometimes older cousin, even female kids you play together. these are just a few of the many thing we face. please share your experiences and let's give voice to those innocent young boys who can not speak for them selves.
Before I share my experience, I need to point out that, majority of guys grow up to become whatever you see in them today as a result of some of these harassments. Some will forever be attracted to older women, some cannot afford to see anything in skirt or "rapper" pass without having a feel. The negative effects are just too numerous, yet the society who don't know what these set of guys have had to go through in silence, are always quick to slice them up with a knife.
please share your experience and the negative effects it may have had on you.

mandax:
ITT: who can fully explain it?

ITT:
International Thief Thief

Chai!! see wetin Buhari cause.

HateU2:
. I am not understanding

your post sounds feminine. and at some point u addressed ur self as a female in ur post.
your dp brought the second question

Johnhug66:
. Kids everywhere

hahahha dude u make me laugh in Spanish.
your foolishness is epic.
just few minutes into talk with u, and I can tell for sure that u r a serial failure.
if u see bullet, u go fear. be guided

Johnhug66:
there goes ur stupidity, anyone can give his/her view on any thread here. Abeg no quote me Again,u don't worth arguing with

Why are u begging not to be engaged?
I see you r starting the insult game, obviously u can't even have a civil argument backed up with fact and sound view without sliding so low to abuses.
Dude or whatever u are, I beg u for the sake of your BP, don't start that abuse game, I promise u, u won't stand me. be guided.
and yes bout the quote tin, count it a privilege, call ur friends and loved ones and maybe pop a champagne to that or alternatively, u know the route to the lagoon (opps!! sorry, I forgot there is non in your village).
wawah!!

gocac:
shut up.......it seems he was right, everyday innocent benue farmers are murdered by the fulanis, when will i hear that the fulanis were murdered by the benue ppl? who said you are not nigerians? cant you defend yourselves, you kinsmen were murdered are you protesting and blocking road for who? buhari i guess, imagine! are you guys cowards? that your inability to retaliate or defend yourselves is making me boil in anger. you have decide to be slaughter like cows, very angry right now.... every time benue. y?

no!! there has to be a mix-up, this comment can't possibly be coming from a female, idonbilivit.
And if u really are a female, then this one na no nonsense type.
As mad as I could be, not sure I wanna cross your path. mehnn!!