₦airaland Forum

UnfairLife7:
jobless for 2 years? He is obviously reluctant to get something doing or too selective/picky

The problem i have with some of you guys is that you know what is wrong and right. If you're in Nigeria, some of you do abnormal but the moment you get to Murtala international airport, you behave decently

Anyway only neive women tolorate you guys rubbish

A man earning 500k and dropping 200k for feeding before losing his job suddenly start dropping 50k at home. What do you think most woman would say about him?

Will they ever say he's working or dropping anything at home?

Experience never teach you things o.

ORIAYO70:
My dear Chief Justice I never judge, what I said in summary is, losing job is not an excuse to be tipsy or become drunk...

We can feed woman 200yrs if woman feed u 2days u r in soup. But the beating side is No.

I didn't even lay any verdict in the comment you quoted, so the role of chief justice goes to you that already condemned the man.

How are you sure he was truly drunk?
How did you know he actually beat her?

Seems you have not been framed before by a woman.

Hopefully you don't end up in such a situation.

Dennisochampa:
..... How do u know she's not telling the truth? Do you live with them?
What will friends and family do to a violent man that will make him change his ways?
Did he not see his so called friends and family to talk sense into him before he went about drinking and destroying her properties?
Like I stated, if what she said is the truth, which I think it is, then she even Bleep up as she no allow am sleep there for one month.
If he's truly depressed, he should hustle and pray hard, not frustrate the efforts of his wife to provide for the home.....

Read my comment again.

You believed her without asking a question but asking me series of questions instead, what does that make you?

UnfairLife7:
if we don't believe everything she said at least you and i know some men are violence in marriage by hitting their wives.

Did you bother to ask questions before believing her?

Do you know how many men are in jail for made up lies against them by women?

Why do fellow men jump to believe women on the spot?

Una no dey learn?

UnfairLife7:
jobless for 2 years? He is obviously reluctant to get something doing or too selective/picky

The problem i have with some of you guys is that you know what is wrong and right. If you're in Nigeria, some of you do abnormal but the moment you get to Murtala international airport, you behave decently

Anyway only neive women tolorate you guys rubbish

You obviously believed her 100%

What if what he's bringing home is like 20% of what he was handling before losing his job?

Been married before?
Ever been told by a woman that 'what are you even bringing home self"?

Ever been told -" is this what your mates are dropping for food"?

Did she tell you how long the man has been working and fending for the home before losing his job 2 years ago?

Did you bother to ask if he does side hustles or drops whatever that comes his way?

Did you bother to ask if he smoked and drank prior to losing his job and why the sudden change?

Imagine judging someone else with a one sided story without asking relevant questions.

Dennisochampa:
.... Madam, u did nothing wrong!!!!
If u did nothing, next time, it may be worse than this.
If he's depressed really, he will look for a job and not go about smashing phones and beating up a woman... Real men who are depressed find solutions to their problems... They don't go about beating their wives and smashing phones....
In advanced countries, he will go to jail and served a restraining order but welcome to Africa where women are expected to eat the shit off men and do nothing about it

Why is she feeling guilty if what she narrated is the absolute truth?

How come it was police station straight she went to?
They dont have friends?
Relatives?
Parents?
Neighbors?
Even church/mosque members (clergymen)?


She feels guilty because she's the actual oppressor in the home and used this to her advantage.

This I am 80% sure of.

It's every tendency that 80% of what she wrote here are lies.

BRATISLAVA:
In order to get such, she must endure beatings?

The way some of you have integrated into society is worrisome.

You automatically believed her?

Nigerians

ORIAYO70:
Madam leave am
Na irresponsible person... When I get no job I look for other subtle ways to feed my fam.

When I was doing my MSC, My wife pack all her belongings and the children stuff and join me in the state in which I was studying, I nearly died that night...

We leave in other state for 3yrs plus, I have to turn to project, disertstation writer over night..... That was my saving grace those days... No man should folds up his hand shouting no job yet drink to stupor what sort of men does that..

Imagine using one side of a story to judge and to condemn the other party.

Tomorrow now, you self go say you sabi give advise.

Have you ever seen anyone come online to say the truth about their role in a dispute that went south?

BeigJawnson:
Are you trying to defend a man who is reluctant to find another job? Show some level of comprehension here while you re-read the post...

Did the OP say the above?

Unfortunately, the marriage is gone.

Wish you luck in your future relationship.

Segun2222:
the Wikipedia you posted no be same western mwdia house why not show original news instead of insults?

Wiki is open source. You dull like this?

BoldBrainz:
Please, don't take my word for it. Just hit the google search bar and input "1200 naira feeding allowance for Nigerian soldiers". The news was posted right here on nairaland even.

Pure madness, yet senators went home with ₦2m each to do their holidays.

Yet soldiers are going to another country to fight for demomadness.

[quote author=Segun2222 post=125279131][/quote]I thought you were intelligent, I thought wrongly.

So I should take negative information from western media houses as fact?

Did you see the sources of your so called news?

People who banned pro-Russian news?

Lastly, how come you're posting Russian soldiers and not Wagner which is the bone of contention?

Once again, you're not intelligent.

Watcharena:
It should be per day not per month but even per day is too poor for some one who's putting his life in line for his country

Very terrible.

It's civil defence, Lastma, FRSC, VIO and neighborhood watch that should be getting ₦1200 per day as allowance.

BoldBrainz:
You seriously didn't get that memo? A Nigerian official had the audacity to go on air and boast that the feeding allowance of the soldiers has been recently increased from 1000 naira to 1200 naira, in order to cushion the effects of the biting hardship on the military personnel.

I had never been so repulsed in my entire life!

Wait.

₦1200 per day or ₦1200 per month?

₦1200 per month is less than ₦50 per day.

I am struggling to believe.

Segun2222:
were you a Wagner soldier b4 you posted the comment i replied?

What I posted can be verified online. Type them into Google.

Can same be said of your own rumor?

Segun2222:
life insurance and money they wont pay if there's no body 🤣🤣... There are lots of russian soldiers family complaining about not getting paid the money in Russia but you think you'll get the money here in Africa where you can get away with a lot of things, Go and read history Russia always sees its soldiers as meat to dispose hasn't bakmhut thought you anything yet

You know this because you're a wagner soldier?

waynetee:
Issa is used by Muslims, while Jesus is used by Christians. Thats the difference.
Nigeria Muslims will never name their mosque Jesus , they will rather name it Issa

What is Jesus called in Spanish?

Does it make it different?

BoldBrainz:
Everything in Nigeria is a giant clusterfuck!

Imagine not being able to prioritise the welfare of your security and military personnel, yet being bold enough to be drafting same individuals to a needless war. A country that pays 1200 naira to her soldiers as monthly feeding allowance.

Godforbid!!

₦1200 monthly allowance?

Seriously?

BoldBrainz:
You should rather worry than be sarcastic.

Considering the mindless impoverishment leaders of this country have subjected the masses to, should Wagner make an entrance into our shores, you'll be stunned at the humongous number of Nigerian soldiers that may resign to join them even.

Imagine earning equivalent of $2500 (₦2.2m)per month + life insurance for you and your family.

Better equipments and better training too.

You even get up to $1100 (₦968k)monthly during training o

Alot of Nigerian soldiers won't hesitate to join just as many have done so far by resigning and joining foreign armies.

BoldBrainz:
Igbos never mirror themselves finish, na we them wan come mirror? I'm happy the memories from the civil war are still in the heads of their elders.

Igbos are about to take over some part of South west. Like Lagos, Osun and Ogun.

They have started with Lagos, they will take over south west very soon.

They have seen that it's easier to take over south west than South South, hence their influx.

stanluiz:
Wagner should not turn Africa into a battle ground.

We don't want Us vs Russia proxy war on Africa.

Unless Ecowas fronting for NATO agree not to invade Niger, the call for Wagner by Niger can't be ignored.

Tell NATO not to turn Niger to another Ukraine.

WrriterNig:
⚡️The leader of the 🇷🇺 ☠ Wagner Private Military Company, Yevgeny Prigozhin, announced that he is currently in Africa and is preparing to bring happiness and justice to African nations.

Niger is smiling.

zedegit:
Not until you are given stolen goods as collateral and police gets involved.

Ever heard of DD?

okeysoninv:
didn't I said here before that western Russia will be given to Ukraine after the war. I didn't know even Ukraine is eyeing western Russia. God is good

Mental illness is real.

Yoighaman:
Buhari's love for Niger, his country of origin is public knowledge, he would not watch his brother go down, especially when his friend is the ECOWAS Chairman, just connect the dots, sit back and enjoy your popcorn and coke.

Dadadada

This is unintelligent.

Yoighaman:
Na Buhari dey behind all this invasion drama on a low... Remember say Niger na him country of origin and the dullard nor hide am, so tey, he dey borrow money for Nigeria name, go dey develop Niger Republic....

So it's no longer Jonathan you want to blame, it's now Buhari?

Buhari is the chairman of Ecowas or he's the one leading other West African leaders shey?

IconicR:
Nigerians begged Asiwaju to take over and come save Nigeria which he's currently doing but comes with it's consequences. So chill please

God punish you.

Begged who?

The criminals that used money to rig out better heads like Osinbajo, Amaechi etc?

You're a scavenger.

Ecowas should make him the president of one of Ecowas countries na if they so much love him.

Gang of slaves.

Globad:
Oh

Didn't you refer me to the post that you quoted when I asked for your suggestions?

Have you forgotten so soon?

Indeed, talk is cheap

See how you said "post it here" as if I posted it somewhere else

See comparison.

My comment you quoted first quoted someone's comment your so called question answered but you ignored the answer only to come back to play a clever by half game.

The joke is on you.

Globad:
Go over my previous posts

Seriously?

Post it here.