₦airaland Forum

happymama:
Gudday mamas,abeg oo,my 3mnth Lo poos lyk 4-5 tyms daily,nd we r on EBF ooo,is dis stil ok

Jahblessme:
Just a quick word before the endurance crew arrive.
Your lack of se xual satisfaction must be adding to your unhappiness,however i have good news for you..peentrative s ex will most likely not give you an or gasm and since he doesn't give oral you are doomed either ways so stalemate.
Go out there and buy yourself a very powerful vibr ator..this is 2016,take charge of your se xual life.A vibr ator will give you an or gasm so strong that you may even lose consciousness . Nicer if you can use with a partner but in the mean time use alone before your brain melts.

You can also stop giving him the oral since he doesn't reciprocate,it's a no brainer.Your choice though.

Discuss your concerns seriously with him and if he still won't budge,you'd best find 2 househelps before you grow old and start looking like his granny.

Car and vacation are useless if you are too wound up to enjoy them.A close relationship where both partners pitch in and feel loved and supported is far sweeter than jetting to the maldives with konji ontop.

Good luck ma & NO you are not asking for too much.

slamex85:
@firttymum thanks alot i will like to see a break down from the hospital, but the flight I will like to do that myself thanks.

luna13183:
Hello mums...pls how early can one apply for USA visa..baby is due in September. thank you

twingirls:
I had a still birth on 7th Jan. Its such a very sad experiece.
I used Dr Amanjoh of Methodist sugarland, I have no regret whatsoever! The baby has already passed by the time I got to the hospital for delivery. She stopped being just my doctor and is now my sister. D staff of methodist sugarland and dr Amanjoh are smply great, even as I grief for my baby, I reckon with them, I will simply choose dem again.

And Soulcare woman? God bless her for me, even thogh I'm alone in America with no friend and family, they filled d vacum well. She stayed with me all tru my CS, my 1st thought was to run out of the hospital and board d next plane back to Nigeria wt my pregnancy, but she stayed and held my hand tru the c section, her whole family stayed truout d day helping wt my grief, hers is more than a concierge, it's a calling.

To my roommate, you know yourself, I say Thank you.

To God, I bless ur name, cos you have already given me the fortitude to bear the loss, even though I waited 3 years for this journey. I thank you for defending my own life, and for all.

To my husband, God be praised, I appreciate you more.

ayanuke:
Hmmmm, he must not win o, some of us are still waiting on God for a miracle so that we can embark on the Journey to birth our American pinkins
Y'all have a great holiday.

feddy27:
Merry Christmas to us all and our Americana babies!

Prolify! My nairaland bestie...special hugs dear...I can remember from dropbox visa renewal to birthing and now look at our babies! God is faithful.... *2nd missionary journey should be in view*

firsttymum:
no one is angry with u.

But u lied and that's a huge thing.
Change of intent is if u got ur visa for vacation and u weren't asked about being pregnant and den u now wanna go give birth... In that case it's change of intent.

I did notification of intent cos I hade travelled with my visa and when I was going to give birth I had to notify the embassy.

So if u lied when asked, at the poe may b turned back... So u out rightly lied.
That's not all, all u told the VO has been imputed into d system.

So
1. It's either u travel to the US and come back
2. You take d risk and travel and pray fervently that u pass tru the poe smoothly.
But note renewing ur visa will b a big deal because of this lie.
3. You save your self the risk of deportation and give birth to d baby here.
4. Write to the embassy explain yourself and apologize for the lie.

shelly23:
I couldn't help but laugh out loud! I can only imagine what was going through your mom's mind.
I'm the one who shared the story about my baby. She's 9mths now and doing great with her hearing aids. It's been a long, emotional, expensive and trying experience, but I can only continue thanking God for the American opportunity. My husband took my son to our hospital in Lagos and bumped into my doctor. After telling him about our situation, this man told him that the white people just wanted to collect our money that there's no way they can detect hearing loss at that age. More reason to keep thanking God!
Anyways, please to all the preggie moms, include the $350 for hearing test to your budget, it is not a waste.
A parent whose son is completely deaf and will need cochlear implants as reached out to me recently, so it's not as uncommon as we might think. I hope he'll share his own experience soon enough.
@ shelly23,The Lord is your Strength baby girl would do just fine,thanks for sharing your experience with the house,i remember declining the hearing test aswell and making unnecessary loud noises to see if my LO would react,he just couldn't be bothered @ d time and would continue whatever he was doing,i got so worried and started to question myself if $350 was worth my LO sense of hearing,I would definitely do the hearing test for future babies.

proudmom38:
Gud evening mamas n happy new month 2 u all...


Pls I need help on dis two things o... 1. I want 2 introduce formula 2 my 4months+ baby. I don't knw which 2 go for between NAN1 n COW & GATE Nutristart.... 2. I want 2 change from huggies diaper 2 any other good n cheaper diaper,as huggies dey tear pocket lol. A friend told me about VIRONY diaper but ve not heard of it b4. Is anybody using it or ve used it? I need ur help n testimony on dis things pls.... Ese lopolopo!

sexymum1:
am afried because i dnt wnt anytin to happen to my dd n how poeple will look at me. My mum is late n am d only girl wit two elder brodas n no one to talk to now

mydreams25:
Good evening adorable mothers. I took my 9mths old son for immunization and he weighed 8.8kg. Pls I want you to clear me on this weight if its ok or underweight and what i need to give him to increase his weight. Pls if you are familiar with normal baby's weight help me out.thanks.

Keji3:
Hello house, pls my baby will be 4 months next week,i want to introduce cereal what brand of cereals are available for 4 months? Thanks in advance

smokeydrinky:
morning mamas nd papas. second tym mum but i don forget many tins. plz how do u know if my two weeks baby is stoolin?

she eats nd sleeps fine but poos watery poo sometimes. oda times its still very soft nd seedy or not. she may poo wat i consider normal poo lyk 3 times nd d 4th ll be plenty nd kinda runny, sometimes i don't see d poo just d yellow color on d diaper.

i don't know if this is normal? i tried to call my dr nd he waved it ff nd said to continue ebf dat babies dat age have runny stools. d only reason I'm not running to d hospital is dat d runny stool occurs once or twice out of many. plz is this normal?

cutiereborn:
Happy new month to all Mamas.
Please my lil princess has cartthar & mild cough. She can't breath very well with her nose & it has prevented her from sleeping.
Please sabi mamas, what can I do to ease it, seing she has been crying all night.
Thanks.
Cc: Nurse kaffy4bill & other experienced mamas.

nggie:
@Beryl15, pls how much is the tummy belt. My DS is 4 months+ and my tummy is still bulging (had him thru CS) just tired of people asking me if I didn't tie my tummy. Hope its not too late to start o. Secondly, has any mama used Moju powder for her lo to clear heat rash cos my DS has some on his fore head or if there anyone wit any suggestion on what to use. Thanks n God bless our LOs.

sexiebecky:
Goodevening great mums,hope we are doing all fine? My twins are now 6months+ and they are taking pap wit nan 2,my boy,pureed swt potato wit formula,pureed titus fish,egg,marshed rice and marshed indomie...pls mamaS I need more solids to introduce 2 dem,they refused to take cerelac,dnt know y!and again,one of my baby's hair is vry strong,she cries weneva I comb it,pls wat can I rub to soften d stuburn hair Thanks mamas

Niyyah:
Morning mamas, pls help an helpless ftm I don't know what else to do, my 2wksplus baby cries so much at night and it's driving me crazy, dh n I v tried everything (changed diaper, bf, dncd n sng) but nothing helpdd, she cries so much n it's affecting me badly, how do I know am making enough breastmiilk? Any food I should be eating that will boost my supply(am on ebf) or I shud kukuma change to formula? Is deree some sorta drug i shud be giving her? Anything I shud check n do when she starts the fits? She slips n feed mostli during d day but night na wahala... Pls help

missmalachi:
Thank u ma,am just der battling wit constipation daily oooo.using d loo is wit prayers.i tak orange everyday n drink a lot of water n i make sure i eat vegetable soup almost on a daily basis still na cry b4 i poo.
Osu mi jor.

Timbuktou:
Otta, 2003: Sunday afternoon, went to drop off dad's car at the mechanic, had no change(bike fare was #30 and I had a #1000 note on me) and decided to enjoy a walk home. I decide to explore a new route and, viola, I come upon a business centre and decide to put a call through to a friend make we for hang out; see we had phones but no airtime in those days.

Someone was on the phone when I got there so, I had to wait my turn. In the meantime, there was a lovely looking gyal sitting by the side eating ofada rice and as I was hungry I asked to join, and with the most dazzling smile made to give me the dish, I said thanks and said I was kidding and asked her name which she told me. So, I put my phone on silent mode, took their phone and dialled my number twice and told them the guy didn't pick, I totally forgot to call my homey.

I get home and dial the number and asked to speak to her, it turns out she was the daughter of the phone centre woman and I only had the chance to chat her up because mom was attending to another customer. Anyway, her mom tells me to call her own phone and I say it's not going through. She hands over the phone to daugjter and I proceed to introduce myself "erm, I'm the guy that asked for rice now now. Please, don't hang up". Somehow, she found it funny and the rest is history. We're currently trying for baby number 2. Hehehehe.

baauh:
My wife in New York somehow manage to have delivery using some insurance company in New York USA. My wife was on B2 visa.

After delivery I applied for USA visa and told the reason of seeing my baby. I claimed that I sponsored the delivery of baby by giving 10000 $.
The visa officer gave me only 6 months single entry visa.

He told next time if you are applying for visa you have to prove that you really sponsored.

by having baby through insurance will jeopardize my future visa or is it legal to have baby through insurance.