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Jobs/VacanciesRe: How To Start A Photography Business, How Much Does It Cost? by proxillin(m): 9:10pm On Jan 03, 2022
License fee? Is there a licensing body for photographer?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Wolves (0 - 1) - Live by proxillin(m): 8:33pm On Jan 03, 2022
prinsam30:
very useless coach, u get midfielders buh u chose to play without midfield, 4222 is just outdated
Ragnik out
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester United Vs Wolves (0 - 1) - Live by proxillin(m): 8:30pm On Jan 03, 2022
lolzzzz

Ragnik out grin grin grin cheesy cheesy
EducationRe: Sylvester Oromoni: Autopsy Report Exonerates House Master, Others From Murder by proxillin(m): 5:29pm On Jan 03, 2022
The police boss echoed kemi olunloyo voice..."he killed himsellf"

somebody of influence is spending big cash...
BusinessRe: How I Broke The Lagos Shine-shine-bobo Syndrome by proxillin(op): 10:16am On Jan 03, 2022
phorget:
Nuff said my brother, congratulations on your achievements Sir. Instead if some people to create their own path they would rather thread the paths created by others. Thank goodness you created your own path and walked in it accordingly.
Thank you
BusinessRe: How I Broke The Lagos Shine-shine-bobo Syndrome by proxillin(op): 9:52am On Jan 03, 2022
Opeyemic01:
Congrats brother, this will not be your last. Your story is so inspiring
Thank you. I intentionally posted this to inspire some lagosians
BusinessHow I Broke The Lagos Shine-shine-bobo Syndrome by proxillin(op): 9:41am On Jan 03, 2022
I am someone who loves living in big cities. Lagos is somewhere i felt i could never do without.

When you are not in Lagos, it feels as if you are missing something, as if you are no more in Nigeria.

However, last year, my mind started questioning this feeling or call it mentality.

And why?

I see many average income lagosians living fine, shining, cars with good rented apartment. It feels fulfilling to them, and even myself.

I see some colleagues of mine in banking industry, paying 1.5m, 2.5m house rent in 1004 area, lawschool, VI, Lekki, magodo. Good looking beautiful families. I call them "shine shine" people. I pay 800k as house rent at Ogba apartment every January when I collect upfront at work. I always feel sad when I deduct house rent from this upfront. It does not feel as if i collect upfront.

One day I was having a chat with an elderly man about how people just waste their lives in lagos and their other working class, colleagues in other states are achieving more. Although he said somethings I did not agree with e.g he said lagos case is spiritual, you come to lagos, earn in lagos and spend it in lagos. I didnt buy that spiritual stuff.

But he said other things. He said Lagos mentality has enslaved many... you will hear them say "Surulere ni mingbe" meaning "boastfully saying I live in surulere" as if they are getting paid for living in Surulere...Ikeja ni mingbe, ajah ni mingbe...as if you own a land in Ikeja or ajah. Who says you can't live somewhere else?

This struck me really deep. I had a land in mowe i bought for cheap in 2019. I bought the land for buying sake incase it get appreciated so I can resell it. I always tell myself, I can't live outside lagos. By the way, my office is on the island. So mowe is a no no for me. I made sure i laid foundation and mounted 2 coach of blocks just to show that i am active on the land because omo onile were trying to play funny games.

January 2021, after paying my blood for house rent, i could not sleep one midnite, i was just thinking is this how i will spend the rest of my life like a lagos shine shine big boy. If i get married now and children school fees kick in, what will be my achievement in life?

The following morning, I dont know the spirit that entered me, I called my bricklayer and my site supervisor, I gave them instruction and money. They were surprised. My SS told me "oga wetin you wan go do for mowe?". I just told him, I want to build it so i can make money from house rent. It is a decent story building. I took loans from here and there...loan company, loan in HR Payroll...and many more. It was not easy,..I even sold a car, cut down cost...even I was managing 3 trousers to work. Those trousers were my trademark at the office.

When i finally did finishing touches, lagos spirit kicked in. I told my colleagues at the office that I have completed my house. They asked where the location is, I said "Mowe". I started hearing many discouraging submissions. One said "mowe of all places", "what r you going there to do?"
"Thats far na". "land must be really cheap in mowe".."if they dash me land in mowe, i may not even collect it.."..blahblah..I started developing cold feet. I built a house, I could not move to it.

Then, I met a staff who stop at Ojodu Beger when he joins our staff bus going to Ogba. One day he told me he goes to mowe everyday. Out of curiosity I asked "How do you manage? Thats stressful, he said mowe is one of the best place to live outside lagos. When we are in lagos traffic, sitting for hours, he is at home, because mowe is on lagos ibadan express road. It 15 or 20 minutes from berger.

I summoned courage, I didnt let mockery hold me back. I moved to my house. Today, I look back, happiness and joy filled my heart. I never regretted it. At the crossover prayer, i was dancing like a mad man, people didnt know why. Na me sabi wetin i see.

Although at first it was challenging because of the road construction on lagos ibadan express way. But now, I drive to lagos under 15 minutes.

I live in a serene environment void of pollution (noise and chemical).

My company even deployed a staff bus for mowe axis. I joined the staff bus when i dont feel like driving.

I finished paying my loan. I feel so free now. No burden in my heart again.

My friends at my former rented apartment called me last week that my ex-landlord just increased house rent from 800k to 1m. New tenants will pay 1.2million. This news is the greatest joy of my life.

My upfront is coming this new January. I dont even have a plan for it yet, may be i will just invest it sha...never know.

Lesson, don't get drown in the rivers of lagos...shine shine bobo syndrome. Go to clubs and shopping mart, you will see cars parked people shopping as if nigeria is richer than UAE. All na shine shine...

Learn
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brighton (1 - 1) On December 29th 2021 by proxillin(m): 10:33pm On Dec 29, 2021
ManAdii:
Tuchel out grin
Ragnik out
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brighton (1 - 1) On December 29th 2021 by proxillin(m): 10:25pm On Dec 29, 2021
proxillin:
Odson odoi is playing as if the role is so assured. No one can bench him...

He has nothing to play for. He is already made. No one can bench him.

These english hypes...

Mount was hardworking spoiling all chelsea chances...and pulisic will never be a world class player...he should be sold.

Kovasic is menstruating tonite...

Lukaku, Rudiger, azpillicutar, mendy and jorghinio are the only one holding on for chelsea. For how long in this match before brighton equalize..
can we sell hodson odoi for 1million? he is a disgrace to football
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brighton (1 - 1) On December 29th 2021 by proxillin(m): 9:32pm On Dec 29, 2021
xalex77c:
Chelsea will go trophyless in Europe this season

EPL - Manchester City

EFL - Liverpool

UCL - Real Madrid/Bayern/Manchester United
ok mr god..we have heard you
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Chelsea Vs Brighton (1 - 1) On December 29th 2021 by proxillin(m): 9:30pm On Dec 29, 2021
Odson odoi is playing as if the role is so assured. No one can bench him...

He has nothing to play for. He is already made. No one can bench him.

These english hypes...

Mount was hardworking spoiling all chelsea chances...and pulisic will never be a world class player...he should be sold.

Kovasic is menstruating tonite...

Lukaku, Rudiger, azpillicutar, mendy and jorghinio are the only one holding on for chelsea. For how long in this match before brighton equalize..
BusinessRe: Gold Bars Roll Out In Osun State By West Africa's Largest Gold Company by proxillin(m): 2:57pm On Dec 27, 2021
fregeneh:
How many gold bars is this? Is this what my brother's are jubilant about how much money can this five peics of gold generates to the state coffers?
google the word

samples

prototypes

display
CelebritiesRe: Tems Rejects Dollar Given To Her By A Fan During Concert (Video) by proxillin(m): 2:48pm On Dec 27, 2021
this girl is ugly, but she carry for back...

let her give birth once like this, she will be like those mama wey dey sell ogbono and creyfish for oyingbo market..

her songs are hyped anyways
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 11:06am On Dec 27, 2021
dingbang:
Thats what many of these so called church girls use to deceive themselves

They can kiss, suck deek, allow you to finger them, and press bobby but feign sanctified sister chinwe when it comes to raw penetration.


Magnoliaa i hope you are not one of them or else i will call popular Instagram Mummy GO to read riot act for you grin
getting to know these girls,..
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 11:03am On Dec 27, 2021
Money2000:
Give ur life to Christ… and leave the poor girl alone

Learn from r Kelly.. Perv**
a girl that is old enough to be ur mama...

immature kids everywhere

26 years old lady begging me for marriage is girl to you..na ur mama we dey talk about
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 6:18pm On Dec 26, 2021
[quote author=NowisGod109 post=108835347]Hmmm...I had the same experience when I disvirgined too. Its not Holy spirit anything o, it's demon. During my own time, i can only date n kiss you, I can't have sex, if I try it, I will be brought home from school then and I will be home for weeks, I won't be able to talk. Its ogbanje spirit o. I tell you it exists o because I've been there. She needs a thorough Deliverance o forgeries. If you sleep with her and not marry her, if uve been rich b4, u will go broke, if u marry her broke or rich, u will be rich(er) but u both need a very strong church to be going for a thorough Deliverance so the spiritual husband don't give u knock of death at ur early stage in life and she too won't die early[/quote]
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 6:17pm On Dec 26, 2021
NowisGod109:
Hmmm...I had the same experience when I disvirgined too. Its not Holy spirit anything o, it's demon. During my own time, i can only date n kiss you, I can't have sex, if I try it, I will be brought home from school then and I will be home for weeks, I won't be able to talk. Its ogbanje spirit o. I tell you it exists o because I've been there. She needs a thorough Deliverance o forgeries. If you sleep with her and not marry her, if uve been rich b4, u will go broke, if u marry her broke or rich, u will be rich(er) but u both need a very strong church to be going for a thorough Deliverance so the spiritual husband don't give u knock of death at ur early stage in life and she too won't die early
thank you my sister. a female friend just told me exactly the same...

your answer is a life saver. I was not sure it was holy spirit

now i found my answer. Mods can close this thread now
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:56pm On Dec 26, 2021
arthurwillia:
If you want to get married to her then abstain and wait
are u sure she is possessed by the holy spirit?

hope i will not waste my time waiting for evil spirit that will plague our marriage?
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:53pm On Dec 26, 2021
Curious345:
I know you are from the romance section ,where all forms of fantasy takes shape .

But if at this time in your life ,you're acting as the DEVIL'S ADVOCATE, then it's finished .

A LADY IS TRYING TO FEAR GOD AND KEEP HIS PRECEPTS , but here you are sucking boobs and hoping to finger her..


You fool, better marry her or get lost or die
if u can use your sense and read my post, you would have understood that she offered me all that...and i questioning her why she is offering that if she its actually holyspirit..

read my post and stop jumping to comment section..
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:49pm On Dec 26, 2021
Angelfrost:
This has to be one of the most idiotic posts to grace FP since Lord knows when...

Nairaland is gone!!! undecided
cele people no vex
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:42pm On Dec 26, 2021
bluefilm:
Total Bullshit_

Nonsense. angry
the post started with experienced people. not for ur sense. thank you.

its a serious issue not for no-sense
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:40pm On Dec 26, 2021
prekumohtim:
First why do you want to have sex with her...is she your wife? How can a fornicator be asking for an advice on her best to fornicate more? grin grin

On the main issue, seeing vision does not mean you are spiritually connected to God.
Native doctors do have encounters , ritualists and all manner of people do have spiritual encounter. In fact life is spiritual. But anything that's is not from God is from the devil. The fact that she allows romance means she's not from God because her behaviour contradicts the bible. Jesus said, if any man looks at a woman lustfully has committed adultery", Let alone if romance is allowed.
To experience something or achieve something spiritual requires sacrifice. Her sacrifice is to abstain from sex. Such a person if you eventually have sex with her , something connected to you could be in danger . It could be wealth , or your own life . So be careful . Not everyone that shouts the name of Jesus is from God.
My dad used to be one of them. I know all the spiritual and sacrifice they are into
noted..thank you
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:40pm On Dec 26, 2021
Silentmoni:
i never laugh since morning but the "holy spirit allowing u 2suck boobs & finger her" nah marine spirit dey disturb her & she's entangled in d marine world...on d vision part,even babalawo dey see vision so no be holy spirit anytin....she needs geniune repentance & serious deliverance if she wants 2be on GODS side.u go need grace of God 2survive if u marry her.
thank you..exactly my thought
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:39pm On Dec 26, 2021
GoodHardDick:
Pussy ass niggars everywhere. Become a redpiller and enjoy peace of mind but una say no.

That girl is only playing on your intelligence man,, so the spirit allowed guys to suck, lick and play with her boobs and nipples but not to penetrate? grin

you better drop this Simpson behaviour before the new year begins
This is my point..some people accusing me of messing with the holy spirit. What is holy about sucking boobs?
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 5:36pm On Dec 26, 2021
Curious345:
you're a pervert
kid..go and play with your toy..this is not meant for u
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 2:26pm On Dec 26, 2021
slickycee:
Trying to understand the whole nonsense is where your problem would begin.

But as of now, you're safe, just jejely free the babe and move on.

Your feelings won't change her predicament , If you love yourself the way you love her, then you should let her go.
I'm not a cele member or do I know the implications of what would happen

But this here is a massive red flag and since you're already scared
It means your mind no carry the thing , but you're still trying to find consolation or direction to still follow her.
Let me rephrase, your feelings don't mean shit in the big picture !!
Doesn't matter what you feel, if your mind no carry am, just free the babe and move.
You can love her without dating her
wisdom...You really touched me where i need it. thank you. God bless you
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 2:12pm On Dec 26, 2021
Orgasmgiver123:
My rain boot is like a two edged sword, if i kick a fellow with it they'll kick bucket


Damn.. nasty.. I'm out of here
carry ur lame wasted sword outa here..bye
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 2:04pm On Dec 26, 2021
Orgasmgiver123:
One of the reason why I kick people with my rain boot



Damn.. nasty.. I'm out of here
take am easy...its not raining here..bros
RomanceRe: A Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op): 2:03pm On Dec 26, 2021
slickycee:
If you love your life, just run from her and never look back.

Thank God for the break up and focus on yourself
I guess you know about her condition? How grave is it?

I like this babe no be small
RomanceA Spiritual Condition Preventing Her From Having Sex With Me by proxillin(op):
Please please...this is very serious to me...I need serious minded and experienced people here.

I have been dating this babe for few months now.

She never indicated any sign of abstinent from sex. We do erotic chat now and then. She even told me how she had sex with her ex. Although she said she never wanted to, but her ex started giving her attitudes, infact he wanted to breakup, thats why she gave in and had se.x with him (disvirgined).

So fast forward last week, she agreed to come visit me at my town (yeah long distance relationship). So she told me she wouldnt want to have se.x with me when she comes. Ofcourse she is the definition of a decent woman i would love to marry, therefore, se.x is not an issue for me.

But out of curiousity, I asked why she does not want se.x with me. Its not because she is a virgin because she had se.x with her ex. She then told me its a spiritual issue.

She belongs in a white garment church (cele stuff). She enter spirit realm and see vision. Therefore, they told her not to have sex until she get married. When she mistakenly had sex with her sex, she fell sick for months, that it was cele people who came to do deliverance for her before she could walk again. They warned her she is holy spirit vesel, no man must have se.x with her until she get married.

In all our discussions, she said we can only romance, infact i can suck her bouubs, but i must not penetrate her. Then I told her my mind, thats the confusing part. If she was truely afflicted by holy spirit, how come holy spirit allows fingering and sucking of boooobs. She got angry and threathened to call it quit.

Because she has relationship with my mom, i confided in mom. Mama told me she is not seeing vision throught holy spirit, its cele-white garment work. That has nothing to do with holy spirit..thats cele witch craft work or marine girls things (omo omi).

I got confused the more.

Questions in my mind are:
1. I can confirm she see vision, but is it from holy spirit?
2. Am I sure the whole shiiiit will not happen to her when we get married and we have se.x
3. Whoever is using her in spiritual relm will not harm me for taking their vessel away from them.
4. Is she playing upon my intelligence?
RomanceRe: Biker Proposes To His Girlfriend On Third Mainland Bridge With Friends (Photos) by proxillin(m): 9:38am On Dec 16, 2021
wink So na u dey cause traffic for thirdmainland bridge

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