₦airaland Forum

Omuuvwie:
Nice points sha

Thank you

tayo60:
Can you say this to a woman who is marrying someone younger?

Body biology is against women. Nature has a way of balancing equations.

When a girl is between 16 and 25, she is fresh flower the whole world flock after. A guy of the same age is fraustrated with no attention.

But reverse is the case when she clocks 30. The noise and attention will fade, and thats when the boy will make money and look handsome, and girls will want him at that time.

Biology at work. The 2 genders have their time. Thats why some married men still feel like exploring more, because their wives received free dcks while they hustle.

Lets not judge anyone

lordnkem000:
true talk.. i salute your wisdom

thanks

I was on a Facebook Group recently and someone posted the news of a 54yrs old man having traditional wedding with a 20yrs old girl.
Everyone started pouring their disdain on the post. I also critisized the girl for agreeing to marry someone as old as her father.

But from nowhere, one young guy came in and cleared our mental impediments. Ever since then, my thinking started changing. He raised some critical points which no one could counter except the usual societal moral rants “So she should marry someone as old as her father?”. These points are:

1. There is no law prohibiting such marriage especially if the girl is above 18. Below 18 amount to child sex/rape which attract jail.

2. Girls who are into such marriage are still called “married women” just like their counterparts who married their age bracket. They are also happy because they are mostly well taken care of.

3. Most men of above 50yr marry these girls as second or third wife. However, polygamy is not illegal if the second wife is not married legally. She can be married in a traditional way making the first wife the only one with marriage certificate. If polygamy is a crime, then most muslims in Nigeria should be in jail right now.

4. The only reason engaging in sexual act with girls below age 18 is a crime is because she is still growing in her body parts. A full grown man sexual organ can inflict life threatning injury on such girls’ private part.

5. Another reason engaging in sexual act with girls below age 18 is a crime is because she is still not mentally mature to make decision on her own. Therefore, she is at disadvantage negotiating for her future.

6. Not all ladies who are married to their age mates will go running on the beach with their man, singing Yemi my lover song. Just like those ones marrying old papas, they still don’t have time for those love playing moments.

You wonder why American Billionaires dating/marrying young models are not prosecuted? Its because they have not committed any crime again God or human law.

Feel free and make your life decision. Its affect you at the end not those tongues saying thrash about you. When it remains only you with your tears in the corner of your room, they won’t see you. Your happiness should be key to you.

Guys of nowadays are engaging in fuckfest competition. Having sex with multiple girls is like Trophy to them. They are out their just to fck. That’s why they take pills to go 11 rounds. And they are wasting your time with this fuckfest, don’t wait for anyone. Do what is right for yourself. Stop counting age of those men. It does not count at the end.

Remember Ned Nwoko who married that young girl is still alive and the lady has given birth and living fine. She die? She no happy?

Carry you dey go, Jehovah Carry you dey go…

CommonSense1967:
The criminal Association of Nigeria CAN will be quiet now. You aslo won't hear from the religious fanatic Kukah.
Bunch of hypocritical religious fanatics masquerading as men of god.

its good that CAN is keeping mute.. Muslims organization came out to support the killing of deborah...]

Can is even too nice for me

assholemods:
We might experience another civil war in this country.

trust me we need it...


we need a reset..

no RIP to give...
northerners were on twitter justifying the killing in sokoto...

fckofff mnkeys

at the back of my office and i no know...

how ??

These skyscrappers can block out noise sha...

Persephone1:
I've seen thousands of anti women posts on social media. You see words like "Hoes, bitches, bleeding gender, who're, don't trust women, Nigerian women are leeches" golddigger etc . Just to name few! Oh Nairaland breeds such derogatory words and phrases too often to be unnoticed. Only one with selective blindness would argue that!

I am not refering to gender attacks...

im refering to a gender claiming all her bad attitudes is as a result of what all men did to her...

Persephone1:
Your story goes both ways, Men tell lies about the ex's. The ladies are either not loyal, like money or devil's. Only few will accept their wrongs. It's humane!

You dont see men on twitter and instagram saying "women are scum" "i give up on relationship", "women turned me to lesbian" "women are all the same "

this is the victimhood bulshiitt i just raised..its not both ways

kenn4rill:
Some of them will think that they are too smart, but at the long run they end up fooling them selves.

that victim they claim is what annoys me..

czarr:
The ex who married the ugly babe could be the cockroach on the wall.

No. I dont think so..its definitely another guy from the thousands whatsapp chat list.

Medianna:
This days in relationship
To get better person its a combination of prayer and fasting with a touch of waiting(Patience).

Nobody wants to play the fool. But two people that have sense at the same time cannot be in a relationship

Girls are the one turning relationship to scam jare.

We have all met girls expressing their frustration about how guys used and dump them. How they got served "breakfast". The way they spoke about their ex. Their ex-demon boyfriend. The Yoruba demon.

You go on social media, you see girls posting "I have given up on relationship", "Men are scum", "Relationship is bitter", "I have seen hell in my relationships", "Men only want sex"

Some of them are even publicly lesbian using the same excuse why they hate guys.

But my recent experience made me understand that guys are not at fault.

My experience

I exchanged contact with this babe at a party and we got talking. We got really close. She told me she has given up on relationships. She was abused in the last relationship, cheated on and the guy is stingy. The guy prefer to go and spend money on other girls. Finally, the guy impregnated another ugly girl down the street and they got married thereafter. She even show me her pix which made me agreed she is really ugly. She is not a sex person. She likes to keep her body. blahblah

She told me she does not want to go into a relationship again. Men have shown her hell. She has experienced so many heartbreak. If anyone breaks her heart now, she will just kill herself. Its too much for her.

I didnt totally buy her stories, but (let me not lie) I criticize her ex for mistreating a kind lady. She is an epitome of beauty. I wonder why a guy will dump this babe for that ugly thing. I later learned my lesson. She agreed to date me. Then the following happened

1. When we got going, she always tell me everyday that there are thousands of guys on whatsapp chat disturbing her. She will be online not chatting/ignoring me until I say Hi to her.

2. She will screenshot jokes/chat she had with other guys and post on whatsapp status. Even their voice gist's. Somehow, I feel left out. I used to wonder if we are dating at all. There was one she posted that really pissed me off. She posted "Kunle you dey burst my brain right now...don't worry I am coming to Ibadan next week to show you pepper". She always post other guys photos on their birthday. She never posted mine.

3. She is always billing me, in the space of 1 week, I nearly spent 100k due to different demands. The following week I asked her to used her money. I told her I was broke. That week, our chats were just "hi, how are you".


We do video calls at night. This particular evening, she claimed there is no light. She lives alone in her rented apartment. I insisted she should use touch light. She refused, went offline. She later came back online, I still chatted her and insisted I see her on video chat. After like one hour, she came back online, accepted my video call, but i noticed her response, whenever I say "I love you, she won't respond back" and she was always looking away as if someone was in the room with her. I challenged her, she said she is observing its like a cockroach is on the wall.

When she is laughing with me she will look away towards the cockroach briefly. I told her to shift the camera towards that wall. She refused, but when I gave her a fight, she look straight towards the cockroach and I heard the door of her room opened and closed. the she turned her camera to the wall. She said it seems the cockroach escaped.

I told her at that point that it was human and a guy. I was tired of her dramas already. I just called it off right their. She has been begging me telling I am hurting her.

Guys, be wise...girls claim victim. And they have used victimhood to perpetrate so many evils. When it comes to infidelity, you can't compete with these girls. Don't be deceived. See attached screenshot for the rest of the story

but seriously, sabinus is not funny...and his comedies are copied..

Okobola146:
This silent night in Nigeria by Chelsea fans is proudly sponsored by Liverpool FC and brought to you by Tzimikas

any chelsea fan should be proud... at least they show madrid how to do the job

Lukaku is tired of football

Jeweltz:
Sister please move on. Those abroad guys already have someone arranged for him by his family before he comes. That's why he is ignoring you. Don't allow your heart to get disturb over a man that will not love you o. Can see you're already forming feelings

women are women enemy, at 33, you are encouraging her to be a snub...you think men will just come and kidnap her and marry

I got a Job opportunity in Turkey with option of relocation.

Is Turkey a good relocation destination?

Its because of Sunday Igboho.

Sunday Igboho came out to claim Benin President visited him and promised him nothing will happened to him.

He ensured he was well protected and taken care of.

He let his wives and kids visited him.

He did not hand him over to Nigeria government.

Buhari government is angry with benin republic.

They fired the first shot by shutting the border against Benin republic. And it was targeted at Yorubas.

Benin republic used Sunday Igboho to pay Nigerian Government back. Although what they did is what a normal country should do, unlike Kenya which is ruled by thugs like Nigerians.

Now they are attacking benin banking system. Their banks are better than Nigerian banks..everyone knows that

YourFavEvangeli:
People have a very short memory, we tend to forget easily.
Years ago, I was listening to older men discuss business, the discussion quickly veered to a man who among us who had landed a mega contract, all the men including my own father were seriously warning him not to let his wife or her family know. I was shocked and innocently asked why. With one voice they answered "So that she won't kill him once he gets paid". They further explained that women knows that once the man has money, other women will come around and since she doesn't want competition, she will rather kill him and take everything. I still didn't understand, I said "doesn't aunty Eunice trust uncle not to do such a thing?" They looked at me and laughed and one man said, "na condition make man chop one soup for over 15yrs".

God's word has chased away such vices from our society, let's not bring them back by scorning our women. Hell hath no fury like a scorned woman.

For every action, there's a reaction. Endorsing actions like this that make the good women look stupid encourages the rise of she-devils.

what she-devil again? so the she devil thats outside now nko?

women want to fck around and then commit their overused body to a man in the name of marriage...

once they get married, they want to be descent, when while they were 23 24, they fck thoudsands of men..

women should also fck around...and men should not accept any pregnancy again...infact do not accept responsibility on any baby you are not sure off..

lets start the competition

OlawaleBammie:
we are always lucky, why weren't u lucky

We are lucky with Ogun state and Oyo state 2 fast growing economy in Nigeria.

I guess Oyo and Ogun were former state capitals too

Arelyn:
It is very unusual for me to quote people on public forums but when it comes to statements like yours that is borne out of share hatred and poor understanding of the relevance of individual tribes of our dear nation, I will love to school you..

1. Referring to a major tribe in this country as an insignificant tribe shows your lack of appreciation of the politics of numbers..By and large, this tribe has the second largest population in the country on the basis of our geopolitical division
https://www.worldatlas.com/articles/largest-ethnic-groups-in-nigeria.html

2. This tribe was the first to receive western education, in short the people from this tribe were the first notable Nigerians outside the shores of this country
https://education.stateuniversity.com/pages/1100/Nigeria-HISTORY-BACKGROUND.html

3. Calling this tribe an insignificant tribe based on the presence of a previous seat of government under the colonial rule shows you are not in tune with reality....Lagos, Enugu, Kaduna were major cities prior to independence, in short Lagos had nothing going for it in terms of revenue aside from the those generated from seaport, it took the ingenuity of Bola Ahmed Tinubu to build the structure for internal generated revenue that is being copied both at the federal and state levels as of today..
This begs the question why can't other states of federation develop same?
https://www.thenigerianvoice.com/amp/news/103568/tinubu-meet-the-pathfinder-for-the-development-of-lagos.html

4. Politically, you can bear me witness that this insignificant group of people, have produced a whole lot of antagonist and protagonist leaders, they are a force to reckon with in terms of political alliance and structure...I bet you know you can't give what you don't have
https://www.ajol.info/index.php/ijhss/article/view/105744/95753


Let me stop here for now because time is of the essence for you and I, but I am open to write you other times to explore this at length, hopefully you will be able to apply more logic than emotions on your future submissions...

Best Regards

why are you answering him? He knows what he is doing. He is trying to start a fight on the forum...

His next argument will be Yorubas are the smallest tribe in nIGERIA..

Dont duel with a pig...

muric ..one man group

UncommonLogic:
Judas or no Judas, Osibanjo will lose at the primary and lose big.

ok...we have you mr god...i know u will do it

kingmill:
The police report indicated that this was a personal case, and not negligence on the part of the Warere.
Questions arising for determination:
1) The complainant alledged that her room was locked when she went to bed that night and to her surprise she was woked up by the touch of a man groping her body... Did you bother to find who did that ?
2) If her case is as a result of any personal agreement or what ever .... Did the hotel management or the police conduct further investigation to know what will warrant a person to enter into a hotel room of lady knowing fully well that she was alone ?
3) Your excuse that her complain is a personal case.... What is a personal case?
4) Because it's a personal case in your own opinion.... You categorically justified the act of the intruder ?
If you see merit in your defense perhaps excuse then, you're an accomplice for concealment of offense.

she is a nigerian girl.

we know what these girls are into

i dont trust nigerian girls.

They do this at home...

when they arrange for sex and you dont pay them well, they call it rape and go to twitter to defame you

twitter clout chasing

chelsea no show up...and Jorginho is just like a statue on the pitch

dappydozzy:
That's not true, that Putin fears Republicans, Past Soviet leaders stood eye to eye with Republican presidents, Russian leaders have balls,and play military brinkmanship to negotiate from a position of power. As for NATO, in this scenario, the US can't confont Russia even if it was a Republican administration, the losses will be severe, so they are working within NATO because this is not a American national security issue, they can only work within NATO, they can't confront Russia, Russia is not a Banana republic. Confronting Russia directly WWW 111 loading.

Trump wanted to dismantle NATO. Maybe you were young when he was the president.

The USA can confront Russia by stationing their military instalations in Ukraine, with that Russia will not be able to attack. An attack on US servicemen is a start of a war. Russia will not want that. Thats what Russia is doing for Syrians against Israel. they know Israel will not want war with them, so they put their soldiers in high valued asset areas. And Israelis are not attacking those places.

Their are many ways USA can get invloved. Ukrainian president knews this thats why he was pissed off by american jellyfinger

Heathrow44:
Trump was a pro Russian and was doing everything the Russians would have loved, so y attack a person that's helping u, Putin didn't attack during Trump era because it seemed to the Kremlin that Trump was a pro Russian

Is trump the owner of ukraine?