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She has been mounting pressure on me to follow her to meet her parents. We have been in this relationship for a year now. Although she is not the only one I am dating. I am not sure of the other lady, but atleast this one is ready to marry me.

I am not sure if I genuinely love her or not, but a part of me love her..A part of me want to treat her bad, whenever I remember what she did to me in the past.

3 years ago, I started noticing and showing interest in her being my junior sister’s friend. I discussed with my sister who encouraged me to approach her that she had no boyfriend. We were on talking terms before which was an opportunity. So I leveraged on that to get closer to her. When she noticed I was getting closer, she started giving me attitudes, stopped talking to me. Finally she stopped coming to our house. She would give my sister thousands of excuses why she was not chanced to come to our house.

We met at a friends birthday party, to my surprized, she warmed up to me, greeted me. I though she must have repented. While the party was on, I asked her to come to my table and spend sometimes with me, she said “ok”. I waited for hours, she didn’t come. I later saw her in the room with the celibrant. I jokingly said to her “You dey whine me abi”. She just went off, started ranting, she said I should say whatever I want to say now infront of everyone..infront of her friends. “Why do you want me to come and sit with you?” say it now “let the whole world hear”. It was so embarrasing for me. I just said to myself “whats there..are they not aldult?..dem never toast all of them before”.

My sister was there, got angry and left us. She had already warned me to leave her alone. That I am interfering with their friendship. On my birthday, she replied to my whatsapp pictures with love and kiss icons. She went to facebook to like all my birthday pix. Facebook was alerting me as she was clicking. She finally sent me happy birthday..where is my cake..we started gisting again. She apologized for what she did that day, that she was not in a good mood that day (someone who met, joked and laugh with me, even agreed to come sit with me on my table).

We continued chattin for weeks, I made sure I didn’t get intimate with her. One day, my sister was playing with my phone, then saw our chats, read through our chats. She was mad at me. She confronted me and nearly slapped her for disrespect. She later calm down and explain to me that if I knew what this girl said about me on group chat, that I would shoot her if I have a gun. She said she didn’t tell me so that I wont feel bad.
She then show me their caucaus group chat discussing me. Tears was just coming out of my eyes. I felt cold. They were just laughing at me. My sister was just fighting for me shutting them off.

This lady said “how come some men behave like he goat. Why can’t he leave me alone?” “am I the only girl on the planet? Oh God I hate that idiot.” “Gosh, I can never be close to such person talkless of dating him” ANOTHER girl said “That’s how those guys are…you need to disgrace him more next time he try something stupid with you. Blahblah.

That’s when I closed her chapter. Blocked her on facebook, whatsapp, instagram. I moved on. My sister did photoshoot for her birthday and some of her friends came. I saw her and just greeted her, minding my business. Then I was dating another girl then, so it’s a win win for all. She stayed behind, when everyone left, she asked my sister to help her beg me. She knelt infront of me started telling me “she was sorry..she was being childish” This was someone that was in her 24 when I was chasing her. I said I forgave due to pressure from my sister. Since then, she will come to my apartment, do my laundary, cook soup inside my freezer. When she is coming from work, she will branch at my place prepare food on my table. At times she offered to sleep overnite, that she cooked till late in the night, which I will refuse.

But one thing led to another, one day, we had sex. And that changed everything. I couldn’t resist her again. But a part of me still hate her whenever I remember those disgraceful moments. Now she is 26, she want us get married. If I marry her, I may treat her bad.

In a dilema seriously and its giving me headache.

Its clear for all to see. And good Lampard is talking about because in the next FA game, VAR is what they will use to sink Chelsea.

Lampard is clever to talk about it. Thank God he is English boy, FA wont do him anything.

Its clear for all to see. And good Lampard is talking about because in the next FA game, VAR is what they will use to sink Chelsea.

Lampard is clever to talk about it. Thank God he is English boy, FA wont do him anything.

I think lampard is intentionally running away from champions league

Lampard refused to remove abraham.

He thinks he owns chelsea. Sack is knocking on him

Lampard bench a top performer Giroud. This is the major topic for today.

Self-inflicted wound

Legendarytonyy:
I'm a Chelsea fan, a die-hard one at that, but this Chelsea team is terrible. So terrible, they don't deserve UCL next season.

Who on Earth will bench a striker that has been prolific since the restart to experiment with Abraham..
For crying out loud azpi can't do much as a left back, he crossed the ball into the stands earlier on, his wing provided by the 2 goals.

A 3man midfield should consist of a DMF, CMF and AMF, but lampard must play Barkley and Mount (2 AMFs), because they are English. I'm just tired of this rubbish team, I kept consoling myself that there was a transfer ban, but, Spurs didn't sign anybody last season and they got to UCL final and still qualified for UCL, can you imagine.
Chelsea needs overhauling. Starting from that hopeless kepa, I hate him so much.

U gat it.

Lampard won't last. He no sabi football. Olegunar is far better.

You can see how Manu/Olegunar beat chelsea 4 times this season. After been beaten twice, a good coach will study what Manu did and try to stop the 3rd embarrasement.

But we are stuck with lampard right now, and no good coach out their. We just have to stay behind lampard and pray he get a clue one day. It will take luck.

Fuckingmallam45:
You think say na era ofMan U Lingardiho we Dey so?
See Men den

You are making noise now, same on my street. But if chelsea is winning and they are making noise, you start cursing them calling them agbero, noise makers. But the way manu fans have been conducting themselves recently, chelsea fans are learners when it comes to agbero and noise making

But seriously If i am a player, I wouldnt sign under lampard. So because Abraham english boy scored 1 goal, you benched Giroud top performer for him.

Mason mount and Abraham are the reasons chelsea wont go to CL this season.

I pity Ziyech and Timo Werner. Lampard will ruin their career

Digriz:
Agbero FC fans should keep their mouth shut, United is coming back to destroy and bury them 6 foot below in the FA cup.
If you are afraid of VAR then avoid fouling us in the 18yard box. We hv the best frontline in England now and we don't show mercy to anyone., so agbero club should better deal with it.

ok VARchester. Keep playing munions until you meet a real competion. All you noise na 6th position

Shetos:
As if Manchester United have not been victim of VAR bad decision, so all the goals they've been scoring is by the help of ref because of a single penalty decision.
Rashford goal was ruled offside vs Bournemouth n many wrong decisions which cost man utd points. But Nigerians with our bias will attribute their recent successes to VAR.

13 dubios penalty in one season. Na only Man u dey league?

Referee has decided many ManUnited game this season and its bringing darkness to the game.

Soon people will realize their is no need to watch Manunited game again. They know that referee will alter the score.

Referees dont know that loosing is part of the game.

lets assume army cant reveal them, but can go after them as counterterrorism action.

The truth is, these army, dss, sss are all cashing out of the bokoharam investment...Boko haram is an investment of the military power

waziri4biz:
So you think Tinubu is stronger than Wike.... Let's not even talk of Tinubu let's talk about the name people are singing about on the streets..... Everyone is angry with Oshiomhole and trust me right now Oshiomhole cannot enter Benin without being stoned just wait till September 19-20th and you'll understand why Edo is not Lagos

APC rigging machine has the following spare parts:

Nigeria military
Police
Judiciary
INEC boss.

Forget about oshiomole/Tinubu, its impossible to defeat APC right now, except there is revolution where people are ready to face the military.

If not, na Osun riging template dem go deploy.

The only man in Nigeria who understand the game is Wike, he march them gun to gun, money to money.

DigitB:
You just typed rubbish.

United States has computer gurus that are 1 million times better than your darling Hushpuppi.

He will be tried and jailed.

If he was so smart he wouldn't have been cought by Saudi intelligence team that can't even compare to US intelligence.

Abi, ordinary hijab men catching him. Very dumb guy

Ambode is an excuse for a man. I have never seen a gud for nothing coward like him.

Even if Obaseki no win, he earn my respect.

Ambode coward in to appease his baba, upon all he still lost, and they are still chasing him withh EFCC.

Why not face your demon and tame it?

He will be regreting wherever he is right now. MUMU WEREY

Let's see the outcome. The United States just need Hush and Wberry to tightening there system. You think US are stupid like Nigerians government that will prosecute fraudsters, don't be surprised if Hushpuppi and Mr Woodberry worked with the US Artificial Intelligence(AI). Hush and Wberry will help them with a lot of things and they need someone like them in there country to make sure there database is secure. The whites are more intelligent than African countries and shameless Nigerian will be criticizing Hush and Wberry. Your government are looting you every fucking days and you keep quite criticizing the rich Hush and Wberry. Wise up

How come many fraudsters are in US prison..

yahoo boy wanna be. Those racist prison officials no get joy for non-US black african.

You are trying to portray huspuppi as a celebrity in US. You people just degrade AI as if na iru wey use to cook soup at home. Atificial Intelligence ko Neural network ni

Captainrambo2:
I love this write up.


Buhari and elrufai went to bring bandits to oust Jonathan. Shey now the bandits re now killing them

Yusuf's Bokoharam was used for political dirty jobs then, now see what it has become.

junketer:
my friend shatttaaaap there. I am in johannesburg as i type this and i say your so called lekki, VI or ikoyi cannot even compare to soweto or some rundown areas in joburg. I am nigerian and south africa is 1million times better than nigeria.

Is the kind of people we cry for when those southy burn them. When next those south africans burn you, we will laugh at you.

Xenophobia on your a&&&&sss there. Be claiming glory for another man's land.

I have heard people saying Nigerians in south africa are arrogant, they dont deserve our pity.

Now I confirm

Nwadiuto247:
The blood-sucking agents of Satan in the North killed people at the slightest provocation in those days.

It happened freely in the 80s and 90s during the military era and they were scarcely resisted in those days because their brothers in the military were in power.

They killed a large number of Christians from the south residing in the north. Such a shameless northerners.

Today they are reaping what they sowed.

He who sows wind shall reap whirlwind, that's what the Bible says.

They have been cursed by many men of God. The blood of pastors killed will be repaid. Not all pastors killed in the north are fake pastors. Few of them were called by God. God can be patient and allow you do whatever you like, but when is his turn, you can't stop the carnage he will wreck on you.

orisa37:
Miyetti Allah FULANI Herdsmen are the Architect of that Destruction.

Exactly. And they are laying low now. Bandit and Bokoharam are caging them.

oluwatosink:
Chelsea fans should never forget Man -United thrashed them in all encounter this season.

That's something I am proud of as a man u fan this season.

#GGGMU

that is your trophy and champions league position.

Your enemy liverpool is winning the league right now. Let that pain you.

come and carry your willian ooooo

Seunfretty:
William keep getting into spaces where he can cause havoc but hell NO....cos his nt an inward winger....Chelsea has been trying to play a particular pattern a season ...the problem with this pattern is ...it requires very technically sound players in the middle and upfront....another problem is "Chelsea is a ball resenting and possession " based team...but that will yield nting if u can't learn to move the ball fast...Chelsea are dem too slow and it will never win them this match cos villa will keep putting 10pple at the back of the ball ...another situation is Chelsea bringing there most technically gifted attacker at the moment and thats "pulisic"..... But truth be told I see villa still scoring

chelsea can never come from behind in this match. They have not done it this season except Ajax fluke

StepTwo:
Squawka

Kepa Arrizabalaga has now saved just 56.6% of shots he has faced in the Premier League this season, the lowest rate among all PL keepers with 12+ appearances.

The world's most expensive goalkeeper. �

One academy keeper would have saved chelsea embarasement this season

maynation:
Useless William isn't playing but what are you playing?
Villa still balling you despite your possession.

When did Williams become useless by the way?

thanks to your useless william who is clueless upfront

maynation:
Those guys are all ordinary actually.
Even with your men and 75% dominance, una still dey collect.

Please change team.

How do you expect them to score with giroud? no striker na.

Chelsea has not come from behind and win any match this season.

Bet gang, stake your money...this is a done deal game

maynation:
If Williams and Pedro finally leave Chelsea by summer, who will they be left with?

Chelsea shall finally be dead.

Is it that useless william playing right now?

if he leaves, its a blessing for chelsea

oloriburuku ni lampard.

what is loftus cheek doing on the peach?

He keep wasting all chances behaving like handicap on the pitch....

Chelsea wasted all their chances...very unserious set of people.

Alonso...where did he get that museum player that cant even cross the ball?

what is wrong with lampard?

Liverton - Everton = Full time draw