[size=14pt]It is allowed for any group of tribes in a foreign land to have their rulers. E.g Fulanis/Huasas have Seriki in their Neighborhood in Lagos and other Yoruba lands. Eze-ndigbo is allowed. But its also in Yoruba tradition and custom, only Oba can have crown. Our tradition/customs supersede any constitution. Eze can be whatever he wants, he must not wear crown...else, he can forget about the post.[/size]
tete7000: The appropriateness of these sanctions? I really don't know. Apology in three daily newspapers? Really? To what end? It's like carrying a truck to crush an ant. We are all Nigerians. As much as I am a Yoruba and will want the Ibos to show more respect to Yoruba culture, I don't believe anyone has a right to ostracise another Nigerian living anywhere in the land. The constitution guarantees freedom of living for all Nigerians everywhere and nowhere in the constitution says the monarch can take such right away from any tribe on ground as this. Governor ought to have done more than he did. Let us all give peace a chance. Orun n ya bo, ki s'oro enikan. Adie ba l'okun, ara o r'okun, ara o r'adie. Inconvenience to one is inconvenience to all. Let Nigerians grow above tribalism and nepotism.
[size=15pt]Obas have constitutional power to rule over monarchical entities e.g. Eze-ndigbo, Serikin-Sabo, Bale e.t.c
Maybe you need to do a little reading. I read comments here where people saying rubbish about constitution.
Obas/Emirs have constitutional powers...infact they head customary courts. Customary court is part of Nigerian Judiciary system.
I come from a Royal family...thats why I know these little things [/size]
McCarlito: I Just Have To Stop Listening to Random People's Conversations on the Bus... Sometime ago; I Followed Someone Home Just To Hear The Rest Of The Story..
We have seen many posts from the two sexes regarding who should be responsible for what in a relationship.
Wooing: Wooing in this part of Africa (Especially Nigeria ) is considered a responsibility of guys. Even when a lady is interested in a guy, she will still expect the guy (Who may not be interested) to make the move. Personally, I see this as timidity (apologies). Imagine, you like me, and you want me to toast you . And based on this, when the guy finally makes that move, he will be the one to start spending cash for outing, shopping and whats.... Also, guys, when you make a move on the girl you like (the lady may not be interested). So if its required that you take up some expenses, please do it and stop complaining. She is not forcing herself on you. You made the move and you have to sacrifice certain things to achieve your aim. You have to make her happy!
Dating Expenses: Its true that the guy made the move, you finally agreed. That doesnt stop you from paying for dinner once in a while. Remember you said YES to him. Why did you say yes when you dont like him? You are making it look as if he is the one in need of the relationship, not you. Many Nigerian girls behave as if they are doing you favor dating you. If I approach you, and dont like me, say no. I can't be anybody's slave.
Guys, stop using money to convince ladies. You saw in her body language that she had nothing for you. Yet you started spraying your cash anyhow, just to change her mind. This is totally wrong. Relationship should not be based on money or items. I can't blame our ladies, most guys are player. They can do anything to get in between her legs. There is this married man in my office that approached an IT girl who is young enough to be her daughter. He said "If you can let me do it only once...I will give you 50k immediately. Its an opportunity. Grab it". I was angry internally. So guys, lets comport ourselves.
Sex: Nigerian girls make it look as if they are doing you a favor by having sex with you. A lady who visit a guy daily for marathon sex she so much enjoy will start using the sex as a reference when the guy refuses to marry her. "You know you are not gonna marry me and you have been having sex with me". "So you are using and dumping me now?". He is not using you. You are equally enjoying the sex. Ladies even enjoy more than guys (Research has shown this). So giving him sex daily will not guarantee marriage. Its better to reserve sex till after the wedding ring.
But if you wanna have fun, feel free to have it and don't take as favor.
Guys, you told a lady all sort of lies and sweet talking just to have sex. diaris godu ooooo. Guys nowadays, just because they wanna have sex, they will approach a lady and promise her marriage on the first day. Meeeen. This is now the trend in town. Whats annoying is ladies falling for this. You have not befriended someone for minimum of 6 months, yet he is promising marriage on day one. He is not deceiving you, you are the one fooling yourself.
On a final note, guys are saddled with the largest share of the responsibilities. You go through stress of wooing her, spend cash, satisfy her on bed. In fact, if you can't pleasure her well on bed, you are at the risk of losing her to another guy. Ladies just think, they should be at the receiving end of everything. When you are at the receiving end of everything, you are also at the risk of receiving emotional and physical abuse. This is why they treat female as properties (my house, my car, my wife). Start taking responsibilities, you need to be respected. You are not lesser humans.
Rebuke: You are not saved yet. A Christian preaching pre-marital sex in the name of knowing your partner's sexual capability?
Look here man, God has a standard and He will not for any reason bring it down for anyone.
Pre-marital sex is a sin, call it what ever you may want to call it, give millions xcuses for engaging in it. It still doesn't change anything, Gods' words and rules stand.
Don't let your self be an instrument in the hand of devil, mind what you post on social media.......I rebuke you for this post.
And did I advised anyone to go do pre-marital sex?
upuphim: Medical indeed will help to know potency of a man. However, if you do not like hospital processes, you can contact me for computer aided body analyser.comoli2009@gmail.com
Kachisbarbie: Erectile dysfunction (ED) otherwise known as impotence is the inability to HAVE OR SUSTAIN an ere.ction. Impotency is never ever when you can't erect at all. Your deek mustn't stand for a fertility test, sperm could be extracted(TESA, TESE...etc).
Are you a medical practitioner? because I would be very surprised hearing this from one _ That's me opposing your statement @ "your deek must stand...", no it mustn't stand.
I done talk my own. I only came here to correct people mistaking impotency for infertility. I feel she was dull for staying that long in marriage founded on DECEIT. There was never a marriage...
CHesosi...You know Nigerian medical lab will tell to sleep with your woman or masturbate to extract your sperm. It happened to me.
eyinjuege: Pls read the story again, and slowly this time. The woman in question married as a virgin, and that it seems, is the bone of contention. She is being blamed for not knowing her husband is impotent, in short for not insisting on premarital sex.
You dont have to engage in sex to know if your man is firewood
montezz: D man z wicked! Virgin at 40! I dnt care if any1 bash me on dis,d truth z i cnt marry a man i vnt explored in bed. I v naughty fantasies so a novice z a no 4me! I v 2c d goodies m abt 2 buy.
banio: Mr Fact U mentioned Deeper life Church. But I can't remember seeing the name of ur church
Read through my posts. Let me copy it for you.
proxillin: My Church is CAC...When we are talking about pre-marital sex, CAC is close to deeper Life
Why exactly do you want to have her address?
Really? So you be FBI or CIA ?
Wait a minute...evidence to prove what? Remind me again? Who will pay me salary for convincing you?
Where in my text/post did I blame the woman for not engaging pre-marital sex? I said if you can't engage in sex, then look for a way to know your partner. You and people like you should please read my post again.
lilmax: another confused one, are you for or against?
The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.
Moonland100: Abi, a great one ....u have fire on the roof u r saying u can cope with d fire r u not stupid...........d woman too need deliverence for her foolishness
Some people are too spirikoko. They mistake stewpidity for humility
I think people mistake impotency for low sperm count and all that. Impotency/erectile dysfunction is different from sperm count issues. The man could be fertile but impotent.
Can a fertility test show if a man can get it up and last for long? I don't think so
Medical peeps, over to you.
Impotency is when you stick cant stand. If you are going for fertility test, your dik must stand to release spem. If you dck cant stand you are impotent.
Its different from erectile disfunction. Erectile dysfunction is when you can erect, but cant last for a normal period or ejeculate too soon.
bronzegoddess: This guy is foolish shaa. Why is this post directed to the ladies
I addressed it to ladies especially sane ones (I guess you dont fall in this category) who will be getting married . Impotency is a male disease not for female. So the Onus is on females/ladies to look well before they leap.