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I dont know the validity of this story. First u mentioned deeper life and didnt mention ur church. so does it mean ur church encourages pre marital sex?

Since u know so much about this woman and her hubby, u should have given us the church address and ur church address so we can verify for ourselves.

A picture should have also gone a long way in validating this story.

Verdict: I dont believe ur story because of lack of convincing evidence

My opinion: While I dnt support the action of the husband, saying that the whole incidence happened because of their belief(decision not to have sex outside marriage) is unacceptable.

The whole issue is as a result of lack of good moral conduct simply put Lies and Deceit. Instead of encouraging promiscuity and fornication how about encouraging people to become more sincere about issues during courtship.

Sincerity and openness is what we need during courtship cos it will contribute more to our building a strong and happy marriage. Sex during courtship wont. You can have all the sex in the world and find out after marriage that hubby or wifey is a murderer or into one evil or the other. What then will u attribute that to?

We need sincerity during courtship and not sex.

Peace.

TrishaP:
8 times a day! Now that's just being heartless.

spacyzuma:


This is hilarious.

Sorry for the woman, but me...I have little sympathy for her. She put herself in that position. And she choose to remain.

I'm not a religious person. It irritates, infuriates and entertains me when I see such cases of how irrational and illogical people can be/do because of their religious beliefs.

dharay99:

omo see o0,
Spiritual screeninq, medical screeninq
[i]& las†ly physical one...
{Every†in ain† abt banqinq jare}[/i]

dharay99:

lemme †ry read.
#0k modified#


Uhm der ain† non lesson here,
dem no dey romance b⁴ marriage ni.?
Tho I'm in support of no sex b⁴ marriage
buh i & my wife-†o-be mus† underqo thorough
screening in & ou† b⁴ we even†ually qe† locked up.!

Omotayor123:
The last line got me cracked up.. Lol

Wow.. That's Educative. These days people go to hospital for tests before marriage. They should have done that. Well, the deed has been done And I pity the woman.

She should have at least open up to her family. God knows how she was able to endure up to that point. The husband wicked no be small

I pray she finds Happiness.
Thanks OP for sharing this.
Lesson learnt!

micholalo:
Op don't mind all those condemning you o, it happen to someone I knw very well, d guy pray pass apostles, but he has remarried now after d first wife left, after much counselling.

Richardonald:
rubbish dat may happen once in 100 years..how can a man marry and didnt tell her woman he is impotent....U are trying to say dat our WOMEN shud start fucking around..na mumu girl go follow what u plant here

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

Cutehector:
But people get married every saturday. So op I duno wat ur tryna imply. Na me tell d deeper life woman mk she no hv sex till marriage?

Benbelor:
We yorubas are fools even,we brawl over things that are no issues,how can a fellow nigerian be happy that a market populated bya fellow ws distroyed? Just because they are ibos? This is the opium of hatred and insanity....high time Amode finds his bearings and stop destroying markets over tribal dominance nonsense! I stand for one Nigerian and any nigerian cn develope anywhere in Nigeria for nigeria,yorubas let's learn from the igbos because our brothers are also in the easts #Lobatan

secretsofpeace:
Shartap ur trap! The fulanis will never ever try to annihilate igbo land the way they have invaded and wrecking untold havoc in yoruba land. Admit it for once that your beloved odua is under siege by your masters! I repeat the fulanis can never wreck havoc in onitsha, owerri, awka or even abakaliki the way they are doing in ogun, osun, ekiti etc.. Gerrarahia u fool!

Obiagu1:
Delusional.

So the money that buys up Lagos comes from where?

Obiagu1:
Pain me? How?
When I've already bought a property from a poor Yoruba man in Lagos and he will soon waste the whole money performing one owambe to another. Useless spentthrifts!

It is our mission, just letting you know what's going on and let you die slowly of frustration from your failure to change the course of events in Lagos.

chuna1985:
Lagos will be a colony of biafra, or haven't u noticed whats happening Igbos are the most populated tribe in Lagos. We will take Lagos.

secretsofpeace:
The igbos will not do anything ofcourse! Just the same way you loud mouthed fools will do absolutely nothing to stall the rampaging fulani herdsmen raping and killing ur compatriots all over oduduwa kingdom! Kontinue ur e-rat ranting!

bukatyne:
Infact, your post shows that a woman can be married and still know herself/fulfill her dreams.

You are actually aligning with the OP.

And those women had those dreams because they were not trained for only marriage.

Besides, Hilary stayed because of her political ambitions

ronald4lif:
That's my major problem with them. They are insincere and their feminism charade is one of convenience. Let's be equal in areas that suits me and you can take the lead in circumstances that favours me - Nigerian feminist.

An average European is likely to feel embarrassed when you attempt to pay for her refreshment and might caution you not to next time. How many of Nigerian women feminist or women generally can pay for their date? Their flimsy excuse is that you initiated the date so the man should pay. Which is baloney.

ronald4lif:
Not so much is wrong with feminism in the real sense of that word. Having an equal footing with a woman is not a problem and myself and some other guys don't have a problem with gender equality. However, Nigerian feminists are fake and insincere with their feminism crusade.

They don't take equal financial responsibility in relationship/marriage and subliminally still harbour the breadwinner ethos of men. A man is still expected to seamlessly impress them with gifts and treats while they don't or sluggishly return the gesture. You can champion equality and same time depends on a man for livelihood.

zainabicy:
Is it just me ? I didn't c d danger.

Wat r d 'bad' scenarios dt dt story could hav ended in ?

NemzySeries:
mehn d 1st day a woman wooed me I changed ma bathing soap frm EVA to PREMIER COOL & den told ma to increase d number meat bin served wit maa dinner to me

Tapout:
have u ever taken time to think about your life??

ilo04:
I come here to read lies

IamLEGEND1:
a lot of times...

I just friendzone them.

and bang the hot ones....

Oyind17:
What is there? he said yes and we continued our friendship from there.

Oyind17:
Lol, over excitement won't let him say no