₦airaland Forum

coolzeal:
To be a Nigerian is tough(you've no idea) Thus, our resilient and top priority to succeed becomes a threat to our host. Your people should travel out more to gain knowledge and exposure before concluding. The world is a melting point.

Well see, that's what you think, your beliefs. But to my understanding as a South African, no one is threatened by you in any way, shape or form. Nigerians aren't the only foreigners in our country & most of these people come from similar circumstances too, they have the same resilience but they know that there are other ways to achieve success other than going the illegal route. I don't think it's about exposure either because when people come to a place, they bring their culture too. I don't need to go to India to find out how Indians live, when I have Indians down the street doing what Indians do. You get my point? Personally I believe we're more "exposed" to the world more than anyone else because in South Africa, you find people from every corner of the globe & with that comes the exposure you all talk about. We don't need to go anywhere, when all there is to know is staring us in the face daily.

The only time I'll ever step out of my country would be for sightseeing purposes & not to learn human behaviour.

coolzeal:
I think you should be worried about yourself than to worry about what someone else is doing? I believe there's a law enforcement bodies that persecute criminals and if these Nigerians are caught, they should face the book. We are over 170 million people and most of us are hardworking, genuine and humble individuals. The few hundreds who commit these crimes should not be use to judge the vast populace. Have you been to Nigeria before?

The same could be said to each & every one of us, focus on yourself & don't judge everyone by the deeds of others. No, I've never been to Nigeria.

coolzeal:
You don't have to mentioned the social ills of your country to send your point. I suggest Nigerian men should stop dating South African women so peace will reign. You don't think Nigerians are drug dealers. Do you?

Well, I don't think that'll happen because we're all still human at the end of the day. No one is immune to lust, love or whatever.

But anyway, I don't know any that's a drug dealer for sure. I've had my suspicions though because majority of the ones I've met don't work, so it makes you wonder where they get money to pay the rent from, etc.

coolzeal:
what is the distrust all about and what happened to where he's from? Please make me understand better.

Most of it is about drugs. People associate Nigeria with drugs. The same way people associate South Africa with HIV & Xenophobia. Shrugs.

coolzeal:
Are you telling me there's a stigma dating educated and sophisticated Nigeria men as Well? "Pot calling kettle black". However, I don't recommend this act but this is just a case of another black man attacking a fellow black man simply because he can't put up to his success. So, they decided to use the media and possibly tarnished their image so to pass a message. It beats me to my knowledge because, this is a country with highest rate of HIV/AIDS and possibly where about 25% of men admitted to have raped their victim. Your people are messed up upstairs and they need to evolve back to the stage of modern man. You know, once you go Naija you ain't going back and am pretty sure you've tasted those big Naija bananas. You like it, don't you?

The lady in that story is with an "educated" Nigerian, isn't she? The crux of the matter is not about education, but where he's from. There's a distrust there. Now you're talking about our social ills, which are public knowledge as I previously mentioned, so you're not saying anything that I or anybody else doesn't know already. Therefore, yawn. And we'll evolve right after you stop your own madness of cannibalism, cults, etc. Resident of a glass house throwing stones. Oh, the irony!

The last part of your post is not even worth responding to because I find it insulting. End of conversation.

coolzeal:
I think you just spilled the rotten milk in your room and it stink so bad. Xenophobia; foreigners taking our jobs and basically our women too. A top political figure in your country made that statement. Too bad, SA women clinched to Nigerian men at sight.

Don't care! South African issues are no secret, therefore, everything I said & what's on that article, is already public knowledge.

Hoes date you & that's a fact. The "good girls", when they date you, they go to lengths to hide your nationality.

I do have a friend that dates a Nigerian guy. In the beginning she just told me that he was a foreigner & didn't go into much detail about it. As most of them often do. After a while she started saying things like, "his country" & this got me curious because she never called his country by name, only referred to it as, "his country". So out of curiosity I asked, what country is that? She became uncomfortable, told me not to judge her etc & then she told me he's Nigerian.

There's shame & stigma attached to it, here.

RoyalPearl:
lol @ the article. Wow I never knew it was like that there. I guess I should have known better because they also make it seem like women every where are crazy and in love with them. This seems not to be just a South African thing. Same can be said too here

Bingo! I guess we must all be "jealous" lol.

GodMode:
I am not Nigeria

Been Nigerian does not make me Nigeria...

Most SAfricans are dull... Promoting African on African hatred...

Look before you leap, kid...

Couldn't careless what you are, you quoted me (on an issue that's obviously none of your concern since you say you aren't Nigerian) & I replied. Full stop.

GodMode:
Haters are hating

Nigerian men giving SA headache since the 90's...

No, you're just not liked, not only by South Africa but the entire globe it seems. The problem is not with other countries but you imo.

RoyalPearl:
Dude i think you are quoting the wrong chic. Am not South African so I can't speak for them.

LOL. Never mind him because women dating Nigerians are looked down upon here. They're considered cheap. Very few take the risk of having their reputation tarnished by running around with them.

ddami:
and yet again u proved me RIGHT u are not only UGLY and RETARDED but soooo not smart as in DUMBSOR...........p.s I don't live in blocks I know u do... ...but u can cry oooo since yesterday ah ah all u do here z WAIL,,WAIL,,WAIL wot a teary funky girl.....
all u post here z insult-first symptom of a DEPRESSED and FRUSTRATED girl suffering 4rm BIPOLAR DISORDER...
@funkyHO taking panadol on nig. headache

NIG.z D BEST COUNTRY IN AFRICA....oya continue crying

if u continue @ dis rate d best I can promise u z a PSYCHRATIC home....

now if u know ur unborn children will not marry nigerains ignore dis post....
meanwhile u ve been noticed .....
ur presence has bin recognized as irrelevant and insignificant.... oya FLY FLY su su dry chicken

Two words for you, fùck you!

lezz:
Of course you don't want them; once you catch the naija fever,it becomes a one way traffic. everyone else seem dead.

there's no way Nigeria will cease mentioning S.A , neither will S.A quit mentioning Nigeria.

we have come to part no more. 1994 WAS WHEN THE DIE WAS CAST.

Ha ha ha. I don't date Nigerians though. I'm not here looking for a guy because I have one so I don't need to impress anyone, is what I meant.

lezz:
Really? no wonder you have been so aggressive!!
you have a subtle Nigerian flare though, in word usage.

i can make you forget all about politics and Nigerian-south african fever.

why waste all your energy there when i can put it to better use. let me see if you have a profile picture.

Well, whatever. What Nigerian "flare" are you talking about because I'm only using words I've learned here.

ddami:
so u dont spread lies about nig abi.owner of d site will definitely make his money.......as a normal nig.would.....u don't get it we don't care about u FLY and stop showing stupid significance here-d topic reads-gh &nig....and s.a pops up...do u know nig. z happier Dan s.a..check Google..... its takes more Dan so many things 2 b happy


how pathetic u start a conversation wit BITCH
sowi I don't talk 2 UGLY and DERANGED gals..
..

prove 2 me d@ u are smart by not replying dis post

Can't read the rest of your gibberish but I couldn't help laughing at the part where you call me ugly. You don't talk to ugly girls but why do you still talk to your momma & the rest of the girls In your village? You girls aren't known for good looks, munchkins. I'm probably prettier than your entire family tree. Girl I know I'm prettier than you, prettier than your bearded momma, prettier than your grandmother, prettier than everyone on your block, etc. Don't hate but appreciate, pretty me

And lezz, I wanted to post the picture below last night but I couldn't because I was sleepy. You say white South Africans move to Sandton in fear of blacks. Well many are coming to live in the townships with us.

lezz:
lol, she likes quoting me everytime. but she is just acting up to impress her male compatriots . i think she is really soft underneath.

Impress my male compatriots for what? I don't want them so it makes no sense that I'd be impressing them. Just don't mention my country & I'll purr like a kitten because I actually am a putthycat

ddami:
@lezz leave dis girl the title of d thread has only 2 countries nig. and GH.....I don't know wot someone hu knows s.a z miles away 4rm naija and had 2 just discover a nig.website z doing here she could b miles away 4rm home....... taking panadol on someone else headache...

Ok now listen here bytch, I'm still miles away, aren't I? But your website is only a click away, isn't it? On top of it all, I'm using my own resources to log on onto this site. Tell the owner of this site not to allow us register or stop mentioning other people's countries if you don't want the citizens of those countries to come in here & correct the lies you people spread about other countries- problem solved. Until then, you can go eat shìt.

lezz:
lol, i thought you are one sweet big butty s.a sugar. lolz.

ok we are relying on religion yet S.A are dragging the line with us on who will see T.B joshua first.

your brothers are xenophobic savages too lazy to work and too soft to take responsibilities.

45% unemployment for Zulu and co.


your Nigerian boy friend did a poor job on you. you shouldn't believe everything your press say.

i was thinking about arranging candle lights and dinner as a bait to spreading your fat round ass and you are spoiling it all with politics talk.

Goat! Lol @ Nigerian boyfriend though. Another thumb sucked fairytale. He's as real as your "Giant of Africa" title.

lezz:
show some love Lady. i was giving your countenance a tougher exterior than it deserves.

S.A is decaying by the day- each day of black rule my love, it is a well ESTABLISHED fact.

as we type this your unemployment rate is on an all time high.

your infrastructure is failing BIG TIME

government institutions are neglected and malfunctioning from health to education to the military.

security is bad worse worst

economy is struggling- Desmond Tutu cried out : we never had it this bad in apartheid.

the economic divide between the over 75 percent blacks and 5% white is ever widening. with Patrice Motsepe the only black S.A billionaire against 6 of European extraction.


as Blacks move into Jo burg main town whites scurry in fear of savagery into Sandton.

we are part of the apartheid struggle and besides S.A officially asked for professionals after 1994. fact fact fact

You really are an ìdiot. All fantastical àss whistling as usual with no real facts to back it up. Let's say it's true for one minute, how does that improve your own pitiable existence of powering everything with a generator in 2015? How does that give hope to the many hopeless in your hellhole who have now turned to religion, hoping stone turn into bread? Whatever we may be facing, it's still much much better than the living nightmare that you lot call life in that ditch. And South Africa is a country miles & miles away from you, so her problems are really none of your fùcking business. Focus on your cult wars & other backwards behaviour that your country is currently facing. I sometimes wonder why you eat each other instead of eating your president when he's the reason why you're eating each other in the 1st place. And then you come here talking about savagery. Lemme lol. Funny guy.

iamord:
while you try to insult. U sound so cheap and dumb. Are they giving them for free. ? Are they not paying for it?!

Just ask him again. Even if it was for free, it's still better than living in the dark with only a cigarette lighter or a birthday cake candle as a source of light. It's also better than laying your hands on the light switch, hoping God answers your prayers & give you light. A mother that goes out to the neighbours to ask for food to give to her children is hundred times better than the one that just sits on her fat àss & watches as her children wail in hunger. Some even fled home because "mama" doesn't care. How sad.

lezz:
Nope, my drowning co-debater. the anglo-dutch of holland, german and french and few english settlers are european who call themselves Afrikaans and settled in S.A as home away from home. so when a Zulu southie comes here to talk, we ask what has your people and ancestors done and achieved.

you do not count the achievement of Europeans to us.

Your stùpidity is of the special variety. It should be bottled in case it infects others. Your posts are not even worth responding to at this point. South Africa didn't spring out of thin air for one, someone had to set the 1st brick/stone & in this case, black South Africans did that. Post Apartheid, we're still doing it under black rule. How many buildings South Africa had during Apartheid compared to now? Who upgraded & maintains the old infrastructure left by the Boers? Your fellow goats live in Suburbs & cities in South Africa, places they wouldn't be living in have black South Africans not fought against the group areas act of the time. Your people are able to actually be in South Africa, which would have never happened under white rule but here you are undermining everything black South Africans did, forgetting that your people are here because black South Africans allow them to be here. That my dear is what we achieved, to have you here with us, sharing the fruits of our labour so you can turn around & ask idiotic questions like this. You're an ignorant & ungreatful piece of turd.

SemuhleB:
They are damn hilarious bunch of people. Another favourite line is we are jealous of them that's why we hate them.

LMFAO. I love that line too. As if!

lezz:
it'll take a while to advance to generator usage. jo burg is being lit up by candles now as eskom proves inadequate.

Not even close. We need those candles for only 2 hours anyway. Furthermore, the current power cuts don't even come close to the ones we experienced 7 years ago. This too shall pass.

lezz:
anything for you baby, you sound very nigerian.the last time i checked Mozambique is providing electricity and gas to south africa.

Even if it's from Mars, we don't care just as long as we don't have to turn to generators, firewood & faith just to get something as basic as light. Chisos Btw, I saw a photo of a Nigerian lady saying prayers over a bucket of water, hoping it turns into fuel. Kikiki. The struggle is real. Still very sad though.

Now get cracking on that list. I can feel laughter building up already.

Lol @ lezz thinking he's slaying anybody. Toy soldiers forming Rambo since 1 second BC. Legend only in your own head.

Hey Lezz, can you please make another list about Nigeria & her achievements. They always crack me up. Sometimes they even include yams. Kwaaa. You guys are hilarious.

Arrogance & lying.

shumuel:
Yeah i am, men...! Those were the good old days when Tv was meaningful, not the rubbish naked stuff they air now.

Seconded!

shumuel:
Yeah you just have to know and understand them. Hope you are good ?

I'm ok, hun. Hope you're good too. Was reading some of your posts about old skool tv programmes. Dude, you must be old lol. A different world? That's a show from waaaaay back.. it's good to know it's not only teens on this site though lol.

shumuel:
Lol, you should had told her to google it and read for herself, it would had calmed her.

Gemimis a real pack of fun and crazy

Yeah, they aren't too bad.

daimsy:
reminds me of beauty and the beast.I no talk anything o.

Hahaha.

Or the princess & the frog.

justwise:
This post here is probably the only honest and credible post I have ever read from you. At least I know where I stand with you.

And who are you

seppuku:
I am still scared. Anyone can run refuse to be a drug mule if offered to be one by a Nigerian but the way ya'll switch from "normal" to that Xenophobic mode is quite jarring

I aint taking no chances!

Ah well then. She overcame her own fears & opened herself up & because of that, her perception changed. The guy also had to prove himself. It takes two to tango. The fears you have are the same fears they have & until a step is taken, both will remain in their distrust of the other.