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Jarizod:
can I tag along

Just kidding

Check out my sig dear

Where do people vote for this thing?

vizkiz:
so she was only making mouth

Maybe in another life, dear

I wasn't giving away freebies now It's too early in the year to play Santa The point I was trying to make is, in my private life, I'm not into all this fronting & stunting BS. I go for mine Cut throat! And I have "the precious" aka ring to prove it Didn't have to play bait & switch with my fanny to get it either. So what if he doesn't bone it to own it? Call in the stand-ins. NEXT! Life goes on. Jeez.

Boxer007:
My dear, i will take them all including your man

LMAO. Ok.

vizkiz:
great!
So can we have some "IT" together?

Come get it

Just joking lol

[quote author=cally3D post=34377088]Pple keep wastin tym on all these 'relationship' blah blah blah dat they barely get a chance to live!
Meanwhile

True dat!

Imagine saying don't have sex until he puts a ring on it What if he's lousy in bed & you get stuck with that for the rest of your life?

Anyway, I dislike it when some women use sex as a pawning tool to get their way, in this case, a ring. Like they have a diamond studded vàgina or something. If he wants to "put a ring on it" , shouldn't it be because he actually wants to & not because you're using your pùssy as a dangling carrot in front of a donkey? Pfft. To each their own. I ain't feeling that. Sorry.

#6 though What if you want "IT" too & aren't necessarily looking for a ring?

I don't like rules.

Boxer007:
Leave our men alone

Lol, you're cracking me up. Your wish is my command. Take all of them, dahling.

Boxer007:
Another female? Y'all females are bad influence and are going to hell. So much hatred in y'all,where is the love?

Ok, hun.

Boxer007:
The fact remains that y'all females are jealous. If men are happy then why do they cheat on you? Clearly y'all doing something wrong and nobody wants you. I am a beautiful guy and I could take any guy I want including your man. I shake my bottom and my dear, within 10 seconds,he is mine. You wanna bet? Where is the love?

Hahaha. SMH.

Freemanan:
You like what you won't do.... Issokay....

Yes. Why not? Same way I like boxing but wouldn't get into a ring & box myself.

What's scary about this? I like it. It's different. Not something I'd do but I'm sure the guests got a kick out of it. Conventional weddings can be so boring.

Now this is a true definition of opposites attract.
He makes her look dwarfish & I don't like it lol. 5ft height ain't bad on its own

Lol! Now why would I want to be THAT big? No thanks. I like being compact.

@Boxer007

Please tell me, why do gay guys think they can turn any man gay? I don't get it because you guys are quick to remind everyone that being gay is not by choice etc, & yet you think you can "turn" other people gay. Which is which?

I'm not homophobic btw. It's just my observation from the gay people I know & you're also showing the same delusions. No offence. How can people take y'all serious if you're speaking with both sides of your mouth?

Ain't nothing sexy about those legs lol

My pride won't let me.

Ionkidiz:
i smell lies

Ok.

I'm guilty of some of those but it's only when I find something interesting (in the news) or trying to learn something (about sport they're into). But I usually go back to being disinterested again once the curiosity fades.

As for his friends, well, if I don't like them then I just don't like them. Period. I don't care what he thinks about it. There's no rule that says you should like everything & everyone that your man likes. Bologney!

krusdamax:
Speachless!

I see it as being responsible though. Like, what kind of a life or future are you going to build with a groundnuts seller, etc? Things cost cash money. Rearing a family needs some serious ka-ching. I sure ain't going to live in a straw house, eating mud pies because of love lol. No bueno. Anybody planning a future with somebody better make sure that the finances are in order before making such a long term commitment. Ain't nobody got time for a life of poverty. Sorry.

Mofo, we hit 'em up!

Brugo:
Stockholm syndrome develops when abuse or incarceration is prolonged. As for Tiger woods' case, that is a rare case of the rich getting dumped. Besides, that is America. We are talking about Naija babes here. We could expand the scope to cover young African spinsters. I understand you're not Nigerian.

Who among you ladies would date a broke dude? Certainly not you. Let's be real here. Ladies who'd love a guy regardless of his social status are rare if existent. There is a big chance that nairaland guys would meet the average girl who prefers the rich bloke. It wouldn't be fair to raise their hopes of meeting a very rare collection of women.

Wealth is attractive to women- hoes and saints inclusive. Women love possessions. They love to look good. They love to shine. They want to be able to afford beautiful things at little or no personal cost. When a guy is able and willing to give them all these he would look like the best thing since slice bread.
Money is a leverage in relationships.

Well, I can't argue with you on the last part of your post. Cha-ching! We do love beautiful things

tare22:
Babe I get u... I have told her nicely and in a harsh way but she no hear.... Girls have different ways of taking rejection my cousin had a bitter experience recently... Bk den I sch I once told a girl next door I can't date her cos I had a girlfrnd u won't believe wat she did next.....

Lol, they must be psycho.

Brugo:
A rich man is a million times more attractive to women than a broke man. Even if he beats or disrespect her in public she will tolerate him because he provides.

She'd begin to give excuses for his behaviour: "he had a bad day at work"; "I must have said something wrong"; "he didn't mean to". That's the power of money.

If a rich man cheats, he is entitled to immediate, unreserved forgiveness. A broke dude will be dumped promptly.

Let this guide you guys. Money is not everything but it is a very potent leverage in relationships.

I've seen women make excuses for abuse even when he works as a car guard. It has more to do with Stockholm Syndrome than anything else.

Wasn't Tiger Woods recently dumped for the 2nd time for being a cheater? Yeah, to some women, their self respect is worth more than his cheque book. You try it & they make you agitate the gravel.

tare22:
Presently happening to me.. The sad part is am a soft guy and I hate been harsh on ladies.. Just trying to manage the situation so as not to hurt her

I don't know why but I dislike this about guys. Why can't you just cut her loose? This "I don't wanna hurt her feelings" BS doesn't suffice. It's her feelings & she can deal with them by herself. I'm telling you, most of us prefer to be TKO'd with the bitter truth than being strung along. Be harsh & let her deal with the aftermath.

krusdamax:
You said it all but the simple won't understand.

Like they say, experience is a good teacher. They'll learn somehow.

Justfollowit:
Nah, I disagree. If he has money and she can tolerate him, no problem. No one is blaming men who got married to a beautiful bimbo with a good mouth. And times have proven that a woman can ‘love' her husband because of his money, so what exactly is the problem? She plays her role while he plays his. It is a win-win for the parties involved.

Personally, I won't advise it or get but we have to be sincere with one another.



Ermm...To all the gold-diggers in the house, I say ‘CHEERS'

Keep doing your thank but remember all what er do have consequences

Well, like I said, to each their own. Personally, I wouldn't wanna spend the rest of my life with someone I just "TOLERATE". My happiness is more important than the number of zeros in someone's bank account.

krusdamax:
I totally agree with you.

Sure. I remember reading a book on the life of Wallis Simpson & King Edward viii. He left the British throne to be with her & was happy for the rest of HIS life. She on the other hand left her modest living to be with a man she didn't even love, but because he was royalty she married him anyway & lived in misery for the rest of HER life because she grew to detest him. Meaning that money really can't buy love or happiness.

Justfollowit:
What makes wanting ‘money' a bad thing? What makes it morally wrong?

I never said it was. Money is an important part of our lives & I love it as much as the next person. However, IMO, I don't think it should be used as a deciding factor in matters of the heart. You'll live to regret it if you let it rule everything around you. But that's just my personal opinion & everyone is entitled to theirs.

Doesn't mean I'd be with a totally broke person though because I won't. That's unattractive. Just somewhere in between & that's alright with me.

Justfollowit:
Gold diggers could also be good women

You reckon? How?

krusdamax:
Remember, money can buy you house, not home. Money can buy you s*x but not real love. We are discussing love here not $£×

Some people are so jaded, it's not worth it.

It's very simple, really. Laws of attraction. Sugar attracts ants, shìt attracts flies & money attracts gold diggers. You're what you attract. If you attract a certain type, then maybe there's something about you that attracts the sort of people you attract.

Sidebar: good women exist.

lol @ 2. No! Some of us are like good wine, we get better with age.

ademoladeji:
-----> I don't fart!!!

































I FART<---------------

I'm not quite getting what you're on about. For one, I never said I don't fart, I just don't fart in front of my partner.