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Men in my experience. Can't trust other females with my secrets, because most tend to run around, running their mouths. Myself included

Men tend to be less flaky & mean business, when you're not dating them

marshalcarter:
Jet li babe no vex oo



Na lyk dis train dey take sound for ya villa??
Choo choo

Hahaha. No, I just like people to keep it moving when infront of me. The faster the better. Or I start losing it Got no time to waste time. One time I had this old lady shuffling her feet infront of me & I felt like exploding inside because I can't get myself to slow down. In my head I'm like, "GO, GO , GO or get out of my way!". Some of us are built with an internal rocket up the àss lol. Can't help it.

Lol, #5 is the most irritating for me because I'm very impatient. Plus I walk fast. When it happens, it makes me wish I could pull a kung fu move & do air flips on top of their heads or maybe suck in my gut real hard until I'm thin enough to pass through Yeesh! So annoying!

Hahaha. It's annoying as hell. You can actually feel & hear them breathing down your neck like an effing, mouth breathing tard. Fastest way to get me unattracted to you in my book.

dechandel:
If you both can exchange spits all in the name of kissing

Not comparable. You're not going over their teeth with your tongue, scrubbing off plaque & mucosa. Yuck.

Eww. What of gum diseases like gingivitis?

Aww, shweet

Lol, the things a person reads on Nairaland! I can imagine her doing a psychotic cry/laugh on your shoulder over the phony ràpe story.

Maybe it's common with Nigerian girls because I have never heard of such a thing where I'm from. If you're no longer a virgin then you're no longer a virgin. Don't see what the big deal is, really.

Largas:
after all they are mere servants. public servants. Our presidents and elected officials are supposed to be servants and not Lords.

Yessir. Plus not when Africa is still a virtual hole next to hell.

cowleg:
Cant believe you wanaa be a Naija again, will i like to have u as a neighbour in sweden.

Lol, no I'm South African. Make it Switzerland & I might just pop in for sugar, neighbour

Yes & yes.

PureWays:
Stop looking for love mahn! You seem too emotional for your own good. These days, you put your brains first before attaching any emotion in a relationship...

You might have a phucked up personality, you might be phucked up yourself or maybe you have been dating the phucked ones... One thing I know for sure is that, you need to stop being optimistic and need to calm and erase that shiitty mentality, no matter how phucked up you are, there is a lady that will fit just perfect...

Work on yourself also and stop looking for love, love comes when we least expected and I mean true love not one sided...

Real talk.

chigoizie7:
In other words, u don old nah, just that ur head gives u a youthful appearance, ok,

It is noted,

Yes. Good.

They deserve to be flying hot air baloons imo.

Good leader my azz! Gay marriage should be the least of their ("leaders") worries.

Hahaha.

Mine is round. It's the best because it gives me a youthful appearance.

falconey:
holding up and you ma'am?

@DP one step at a time I can see your gorgeous lap for now........hoping it goes further.

It's all good. Thanks

Lala247:
I gave u like lol

U know i must b one of the few ppl dat like pic without discriminating ..
If i view profile i feel i have to like d pic especially if i see no1 else is liking .. So for me its not about beauty, good looks or material things

It's about pity then, yes?

falconey:
hey doc long time no see, remember me?

Harsh!

Hey, stranger Of course I remember you lol.
How have you been?

It just shows that people here have poor taste. Take the "beauty" pageant currently going on at the moment & the people that are being called "beautiful". Hahaha.

uzimi:
Most men actually prefer to date girls.
They don't appreciate women. They take women that are obedient for a fool.
They can't appreciate. So I can say that's why girls fit them

True.

all4naija:
It is nothing new to the country. In fact, you are just envious! Crawl back into that xenophobic Township mess!

Kikikiki.

Back to ignoring your repetitive àss.

chineloSA:
Very sad, but as Nigerians we can only blame ourselves because we vote for the same government that screws us.


Yes, I am Nigerian though my family have been in South Africa for quiet a long time. I did my High school and University in South Africa, that really tells you how long we have been here.

Honestly speaking when our family got SA, South Africans were not as Xenophobic as they are now. If they were, they were good at hiding it. They would only make fun about how we speak and food but it never amounted to Xenophobia. In fact Nigerian man were a hot things then. South Africans then didnt even know where Nigeria is. Then came bad Nigerians in numbers, things fell apart.

But the nice part about SA is there are ghetto's which were built by the old apartheid government and some new government and there are surburbs which are nice places for middle and high income earners. So if as a foreigner you go live in the ghetto, they you are likely to have been a victim of Xenophobia. But if you live in the suburbs and mind your own business, highly unlikely that you will be a victim of Xenophobia.

In business and also jobs you are likely to experience xenophobia, reason being, Nigerians are know for scams so very few business wanna deal with us and also South African government have policies ( BEE ) to boast previously disadvantaged ( apartheid ) locals businesses, so as a foreigner you are the last on the list of their business partners unless you partner with a South African.

But if you are a doctor or any other careers educated particularly in South Africa, South Africa is a good place to benefit from your hard labour than Nigeria. It is also still a good African country to get their passport since they still have some respect for their education etc. and their black locals don't travel or migrate alot, so its always easier with a South African passport.

With regards to business, small foreign business really contribute but don't grow big because of BEE and the fact that South African are not too receptive to foreign businesses unless you partner with them. Yes Nigerians and other Africans have salons, scrapyards, etc. but its not really big businesses which are ready to compete even within SA with SA businesses of the same kind, let alone spread within SA. So its just family or individual businesses with no clear vision to spread but just a vision to support their families.
In South Africa ( black and white )business operate with a vision to operate in all their towns and cities through franschises which has really helped develop their small towns as well, so Nigerian businesses are not at that level. They are just businesses with very little vision. e.g. Shoprite, Mr Price, Steer, Spur, is likely to be in all cities, minor metropoles and even small towns, they are used to making a brand uniform all over by franchising and there are Nigerians who have bought franchises. But I have never seen a foreign owned business started in SA franschising within SA.

As a foreign woman with no SA passport or ID or Education, its not easy.But generally with recession, jobs have been scarce and poverty getting worse for locals and hence the locals blame it on foreigners.

But right now I am out of South Africa and I work in Saudi Arabia ( using their passport to my advantage ), but I will go back since my family is based in South Africa. My husband and I have also started building our financial portfolio in South Africa, so we may be in SA for a long time.

But don't believe everything by bloggers and journalists, it can be exaggerated. There are so many Educated Nigerians living in South Africa and making it. and there are so many Nigerians on blogs and social networks who have been to SA by internet but have never left the shores of Nigeria.

Quoted for fact.

I'm loving this idea!

LeSudAfricaine:
OK that's just plain childish, you are bragging about someone's assets whilst you are hungry! Ha ha ha

This got me laughing. They'll start flying brooms soon if the fuel scarcity continues lol.

FLAWLES:
OK>THIS IS love.

You stole the words right out of my mouth. It is love indeed. So tragic & yet so romantic. Touching.

Eww. Invest in some good skincare products. They're a bit costly but you only have one skin for life.