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seppuku:Again, that's YOUR own issue. I once stayed in a flat where we had people from across the continent. Every Christmas, all of us who didn't go home, paid money so we could all have a braai & a few drinks. I'm talking South Africans, people from Cameroon, Zimbabweans, Ghanaians & Nigerians. None of them feared being attacked because we all knew each other. Hence I mentioned INTERACTING with as many people as possible before coming to an "educated" conclusion. |
seppuku:True but sometimes people from the same place can have similarities because of culture etc & that's an undisputed fact. |
seppuku:"Severing" ? Kikiki. I don't drink, btw ![]() Noone is hiding the fact that SOME South Africans are Xenophobic or how would we explain the attacks on foreign nationals. I actually had a conversation with a Ghanaian friend of mine about the article I just posted & he asked what I thought about it. I'll tell you what I told him. I told him that, at one point or another, most South Africans were Xenophobic. Myself included. Hell, I have family members who are still xenophobic to this day. But it's each & every single individual's dragon to slay. Meaning, you learn to overcome it as you allow yourself to interact with people. I even likened it to someone saying they don't like cheese even though they've never tasted it before. Until you taste all different kinds of cheese, your dislike for it will still remain baseless. By tasting it, you're opening yourself up to find one that agrees with your palate. As I write this today, I'm not going to sit here & lie & say I like all foreigners because I don't. Personally I get along well with Ghanaians. It's a hit or miss with others. However, I don't like Somalians, Pakistanis & the lot of them from the Asian countries. I don't dislike them because they're foreigners but because of how they are as individuals. My dislike stems from interactions with the said people & not out of some unfounded phobia I sucked out of my thumb. Even with that said, it still doesn't mean I dislike ALL Somalians etc because I don't. I only couldn't careless about the ones who show characteristics that I associate with Somalians, through my interactions with them. I hope you get what I'm trying to say here. |
LeSudAfricaine:True.
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ikombe:I tell you! |
My phone. He can save himself. |
justmag: ![]() |
Romance without finance is like trying to clap with one hand Ain't nobody have time for that! Everything needs money, money, money. Simple things like going to the movies will need money. I can't imagine taking a walk for a date lol. |
GentleNaaz:Ok. I hope it smells good ![]() |
Kingsley1000:Look, I'm not blind, ok? That girl looks seductive to me but it doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to her. Capisce? I'm just calling it as I see it. I personally don't see anything wrong with appreciating someone's looks, even if it's another woman because I'm pretty secure on where I stand with my sexuality. No confusion here, buddy. |
None. The middle one is a bit seductive though & that's the only thing she has over the other two. |
Awoofawo:I don't know, whatever works for "them". For me, 10 years is too much but that's just me. |
JUNIT1:I think it could go either way regardless. No relationship is guaranteed to last, unless both people are willing to put their differences aside & make it work. |
drizzy009:Well, I don't know Hausa men, so I made example of the ones I know. Hausa are Muslim too, right? |
Awoofawo:What do you mean? I'm not following. . |
I'm beginning to think that age doesn't really matter just as long as the two people are compatible mentally, spiritually, sexually, etc. Yesterday I was watching an interview with Lisa Bonet & her husband, forgot his name, but they seem to have so much chemistry & understanding despite their 11-year age difference. She's older than him but because of her small stature, you can never tell.
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Say what now? Hahaha. No way. On the other hand, men from Islamic countries, well, they pee sitting down, so I guess this makes us even ![]() |
danbrowndmf:Lol, you're such a flirt. Can you handle this ? Kikiki. If I wasn't already taken, I'd gladly show you a few racy ones that'll give you heart palpitations ![]() |
[quote author=dinachi post=33684713]Most men abroad would eventually go for it. It is like being with a prostitute! No strings attached.Just sex and you pay a few dollars but here is the catch, in Diddys case, the girlfriend will perform all the wifely duties and still be dumped when he is tired of her without any benefits and unceremoniously. That guy is very smart. That is what you call advanced prostitution. I doubt she'll "perform" anything she's not already doing eg. sèx. Diddy is a rich man, I'm certain he has a lot of people working around the house, so it's not like she'll be pounding yam the whole day lol. Her "duties" will be to fùck him, look pretty & get paid. They've been together for quite some time now, there must be emotion there so it's not exactly like prostitution imo. He just simply doesn't wanna get married, which is fine just as long as he makes sure she's well taken care of, like a good husband would ![]() If she is smart, she'd save up all the money he'll be giving her...just in case. |
bqlekan:My personal opinion, sir. As you were.. |
Teempakguy:*nods* ![]() |
That baby looks very heavy doe, so I don't blame the mother for being a little crafty. Strapping a baby on your back is not as easy as it seems, especially when you have 101 other things to do. Plus it causes lower back pain in my experience. So.. |
She still benefits financially either way ![]() Anyway, I love the idea too because marriage is overrated. |
Only if he doesn't have a fake American accent to go with the moves. That "yo, yo, yo" thing is a turn off for me. |
There's something called being a legend only in your own head ![]() Ladies are the same way too, btw. Most think they have magic between their legs, even when their track record says otherwise. Kikiki. |
LMFAO. Is B actually sniffing her cooch? Whatever they're doing is kinda hot ![]() |
Just chilling at home, literally. |
lol @ #5. Didn't know they were "hot" property. They can go either way though imo. Some tooth gaps can be cute & attractive, just as long as they don't look like a coin slot or like there's a tooth missing, it's all good. |
lezz:Our (South Africa) load shedding happens once or twice a week & for 2-3 hours MAX. On top of that, they give us a notice about when & which areas will be affected. They don't just take away power like we don't exist. Or we'll go crazy I'm just saying. And this bout won't last either because we like to whine to our govt ![]() |




Ain't nobody have time for that! Everything needs money, money, money. Simple things like going to the movies will need money. I can't imagine taking a walk for a date lol.
