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Depend on your location.

All the beautiful girls in my location are Yoruba , there's a church in my street that have some Igbo babes too.

Eunoiaa:
Lmaoooo. Mumu people.


You know these ediots actually take what they read here offline. Talmabout "take her to swimming pool so you can see her real face."

It work abi it didn't work ?

The woman agreed to the request, stay mad lol

Women only have rules for men they are not interested in, so if WizKid, Davido ask you to go swimming first date you won't accept ? yeye girl

Negroid001:
I get balls of steel. I don't a f***.
I no dey force myself on top woman.
I'm not running a charity organisation for some hungry ass b**** to benefit from.

Common sense no common.

You will only attract genuine woman with your conduct

Women can have several rules and standards for men but when a man declare just a small standards they throw tantrums.

EreluRoz:
It's obvious you can't stand truth 😆

Even if I can foot my bills, I won't be so daft to foot my bills on a date. Date wey I dy jeje you kom request, I manage oblige and you will have that guts to ask me to foot bills or share the bills? Like seriously? Blocking everywhere

You are so full of yourself, you must be one single old woman.

You think you are doing guys a favor by accepting to go out on a date with them what make you think they are not the one doing you a favor ? what do you have to offer on the date or even in a relationship that make you feel so smug lol ?

I can smell the toxicity and emptiness, any guys rejected by you really dodge a bullet.

Negroid001:
Let them wail. No be them put money for my hand. The fact she has agreed to go on the date, now a better and responsible woman reveals a lot. And I'm happy someone has the train of thought to get relevant and not feel entitled to a man's money.

Most Nigerian men are scare of rejection so they play it safe and do everything not to anger the woman at the end they ended up with women that are not really interested in them, gold diggers and wh0res that don't really have respect for them.

With your rules you already have the system to filter out women that are not interested in you but what they can get out of you and you also prove to women that you are a challenge, a strong man with backbone not a wimp that will take anything or do anything to get the pvssy like most guys in Nigeria.

For a woman to agreed to pay part of the bills on the first date in this Nigeria that it rarely happen show she is really interested in you but most Nigerian men don't have the balls to conduct that test and prefer to waste their time and resources on uninterested women.

Tallesty1:
No, it is the guy that should gettat.

Imagine you're in the talking stage with a lady, looking to take things further. Now, his idea for a first date location is a swimming pool.

Yet, he hasn't even considered if she can swim.

Unless they have already started sharing intimate photos, many women wouldn't feel comfortable wearing a swimsuit on a first date. She might be shy or not confident about her body. It takes time to reach a level of comfort with someone before being nearly naked in their presence.

While I understand the guy's desire to take charge, fact is, he's being inconsiderate and domineering.

It's pretty much what wannabe 'red pill' guys tend to do.

It's the woman that will decide what's considerate or not, women hate nice guys like you that are so bother with what they think instead of making your move boldly, whether she is shy or uncomfortable with it she will let you know what she can do and can't do after you initiate and make moves.

Guys like you are just scare of rejection so you play it safe and nice, which man doesn't want to see the body of a beautiful woman he's interested in on the first date and hold her body close and tight ? but you are afraid the woman may reject the idea and hate you so you play it safe and disguise it with being considerate lol.

If the guy was inconsiderate why did you think the woman agreed with his request ?

What a very Nice guy you are lol

So considerate and Nice but most guys like you would always end up in the friendzone, used and taken advantage of.

You have to be domineering to generate any real attraction in women anyone that tell you otherwise is deceiving you. Women don't take guys like you seriously, considerate guys like you will be in the friendzone while the inconsiderate one will get all the benefits without any effort, knack her on the first date or first week of dating while you wait for years and months lol

Why did you think the woman agreed to it if it was inconsiderate ? the funniest thing is that the woman could have rejected the guy if he suggested something more considerate first lol.

TheWinterBird:
She didn't deflect your swimming suggestion (which is not even a classy first-date or "meet-and greet" idea). After you suggested swimming, you then proceeded to tell her, "everywhere is expensive lately" and it was after this statement that she suggested an eatery, perhaps because she thought it wouldn't be as expensive as going swimming and you would be able to afford that, only for you to then ask her who is paying. You're obviously the broke person trying to deflect to make it look like she is when she's trying to be as understandable as possible. If you know you've no money to meet her wherever for the date/meet-and-greet or whatever you call it, why did you ask her out? You're the one who initiated the outing via the swimming suggestion, so technically you should be able to afford it. She suggested what she thought was an affordable alternative and you're asking who will pay. You should've just straightup said you're broke instead of stressing and confusing the girl.

You are just shouting broke, it show the type of woman that you are.

And what if he's broke ? are most women not broke ? A Date shouldn't cost much if the woman have real interest in the man and not what they can suck out of him like a vampire.

You are not the one that will decide what a classy first date idea is, you just have that gold diggin and entitled vibe all over you with the way you regurgitate the word "broke" and very defensive of the idea of requesting the woman to pay anything to show effort and respect towards what she is interested in.

Many women want men to respect them without putting in the work, respect is earned not serve. You have to give respect to earn respect, there's no man that wouldn't respect you if you pay part of the bill on the first date but most of y'all don't really care about respect or bullshits like that as long as you can get money and free things. You are ready to pay with the pvssy only lol

Negroid001:
Update. She has gotten a job now.
And we're going on the planned date.
Heaven helps those who help themselves.

I don't indulge women who have nothing to offer me.

Don’t listen to all the people wailing on your post.

If you can get a woman to contribute and pay part of the bills on a first date in this Nigeria that it rarely happen it mean that woman is seriously interested in you and better than taking many hungry girls out that only see you as a source of free foods in this Nigeria economy thereby wasting your time and resources.


Like you said it is your rules but you have to have the resolve to stick with it because most Nigerian men don't have balls, there's just no point in pandering to women because the women will just take the pandering as desperation and take them for granted at the end.

Evercurious:
And who stops you from speaking your language? As I said earlier, you problem is LACK OF COMMON SENSE.. When dealing with the public, just try and use a language others LL understand..

Moreover why share such here on nairaland when you know you ve got audience from other tribe... Now I know common sense isn't common afterall

The public in Yoruba land are mostly Yoruba and the person that made the video might not have considered that it could get to other people not Yoruba.

If you don't understand the content just assume the content is not meant for you and scroll away, instead of wailing like a bitch.

Evercurious:
Oga sophisticated... Is yoruba language your country's Lingua Franca? Do you ve only yorubas in this country? I know what I mean when I said some of you guys act as illiterates but still claim learned.. So go deal with your mentality .. YOU GUYS LACK COMMON SENSE... and of what use is your education without COMMON SENSE? SHAME !!!SHAME !!!!SHAME!!!

Apparently you are the one without common sense.

Who are you to tell people not to speak their native language in their land ?

It's like going to Onitsha and wailing because people are speaking Igbo you have no sense and shame.

igwebuike01:
Buhari spread his own in the north with three zones but Tinubu restricted himself to one zone. Buhari can be compared to Obasanjo who was pro south

Buhari got votes and support from all over the north, did Tinubu get votes and support from all over the south ? South East gave Tinubu less than 3% but you think Tinubu owe your generation.


Keep wailing when an Igbo man get there tell him not to appoint Yoruba, he won't spend more than 4 years, maximum 8 years.

oluztx:
I'll save this post. The problem with you people is you think you have sense, you don't know what is coming and cooking. There is a reason Tinubu went to see IBB.

If Igbo get there, you can also appoint Igbo everywhere. You won't be there forever

You can keep wailing

LadyRosa:
Says another illiterate.

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if you can't even get that then your idiocy have no cure

mclloyd22:
Sorry sir but this your idea is lame. What is communication if the people you are talking you doesn’t understand you? You all should be sensible on a public Platform

Who told you the people he was talking to doesn't understand ?

In Yoruba land Yoruba language is supreme same way Yoruba wouldn't whine if Igbo speaks their language in Igbo land.

ZombiePUNISHER:
Any tribe that voted Buhari twice and capped it up with Tinubu needs some serious soul searching..

I date you to speak good of Buhari government today.. you certainly can't..

The best Nigerian president so far was Yaradua... guess the region that voted for him,

You know idiots when they vote in clueless idiots like themselves.. only to end up protesting hunger like fools at the end

Any tribe that voted a failure like Peter Obi have no brain at all.

You think your tribe can single handedly make any one a president with your votes lol? You are just delusional and myopic.

AmuDimpka:
what that Awolowo introduced wasn't a quality education trust me...dude focused on quantity

In which sector can you compete with Yoruba in Nigeria ?

Even Airpeace is dominated by Yoruba pilots, your education is a big failure if you think speaking English prove you are educated. Go to Italy, China, Japan, Russia, Spain and call them uneducated because most of them can't speak English. You just prove the low IQ among your people.

AmuDimpka:
I live in Lagos most of them can't speak English or pidgin....next is Mo gbo Oyibo

So you can't even live in your region despite your hatred for Yoruba people.

You should be ashamed of your lineage

mclloyd22:
so what’s the essence of sharing it here where you know that Nairaland is not ekpe land. Na still that thing we dey talk

You can not tell people what to share or not to share online, if you are not interested you can always scroll away instead of wailing like a bitch.

LordBillionz:
Have no words to forced down a dumbs brain who thinks there aren't successful Igbos outside Nigeria.

It will always be a futile effort and I have got no time and energy to waste on you.

yeah i'm sure there are many successful Igbo but i'm talking about business men here that own company and enterprise worth at least some million dollars in US or UK

LadyRosa:

The guy is just an illiterate.

You are not different from the guy if you don't even know the meaning of illiterate.

The guy can read and write so he is not an illiterate, he is just ignorant like you.

Artscollection:
Ewu Go and eat first!! If not for the respect i have 4 some yoruba folks i for they generalise but it seems empty heads like you are in high number in your region.

when talking about empty heads i think that's South East.

If you are intelligent in your region you would know that not everyone can be well learned same way it is in all part of the world Americans are even well known for their ignorance but still dominated the world in all aspect but at least Yoruba are not stupid enough to be posting or gloating over the Ignorance of one Igbo man online it exhibit low IQ.



Which sector can you match the creativity of Yoruba in this country ? even Air peace is dominated by Yoruba pilots.

LordBillionz:


Seems this tribalistic Nairaland is full of dumb Yorubas

seem like you are the dumb one here , trying to hide your pain.

Why don't you answer the question ?.

LordBillionz:
Grammys and noble prize are your yardstick of measuring progress?

You must really be masturbating on this...

Again, you just further proved how foolish and backward you're...
Your so called noble prize of a tribalistic professor has been in MIA since the failure he endorsed has continued failing from day one...

And on the so called grammy you mentioned, how many does say new Zealand, China or Australia has and how can your supposedly progressive region measure with day a state in any of this country that has not even one of your yardstick that's spurned by illiteracy...

Also, try and compare your useless Grammy award winners to MJ and measure their greatness...


Dumbo

And hey Dumbo, why try to inflate the numbers, for the record, two is what can be said to have been won by your so called progressive region....

Others are 'attachee' and it ain't even up to half of the number mentioned.


You really think you're dealing with someone as dumb as you?

name a successful Igbo business man outside Nigeria ?

Yoruba is the richest immigrants in UK and US, you are inferior to Yoruba in Nigeria and outside Nigeria, know this and know peace.

Evercurious:
😂 Sophisticated and educated tribe indeed. Time and time again has proven that most of you re just as backward as the word backward . I still wonder what you guys did with the education you said Awolowo introduced

You are the backward one here if you think speaking English make you educated even the British people that own the language would spit on your disgusting lineage for having that warped mentality.

Go to Italy, Germany , Russia , Norway , Sweden ,China , Japan etc and call them uneducated because they can't speak English the language of your slavemasters that colonized and enslaved you.

Odin13:
Normal southwest zomz trash


Atiku was heading for aso rock and had no one to stop him

Aketi started singing southern unity .. igbos and other southern minority fell for it..


Kano and northwest gave Tinubu vote .. because to balance power .. and avoid the noise of Kanu ipob and Biafra brings

Tinubu was the only southerner .. gunning.. before Obi join and cut the northern ticket

If Aketi has not mention southern unity and the noise it generated in the southern Nigeria

Atiku would have been the president today ....


I be full Arewa

Tinubu bought inec.. even against the wish of powerful northerners

It’s done

It’s the will of Allah.

Next time don’t jump on my mention to type rubbish

And not everyone be igbo.. Na 450 tribes Dey Nigeria

I see you are a bitter Atiku supporter.

You must be a cave dweller or not living in Nigeria at all. South East claimed marginalization and desperately need the presidency and you are really an aboki if you think they voted for Pit Obi because of southern unity nonsense in fact they always oppose the idea of any stupid southern unity if they are not voting for an Igbo man. Their efforts just worked in Tinubu advantage lol

Odin13:
Where is my region?

Must everything and being be igbo to Yoruba people

Tueh

You said Tinubu scammed south south and south east through Aketi. What a fallacious statement

Did South South and South East ever supported Tinubu ambition ? if not for Northerners support and Tinubu doggedness he would never became president.

Tinubu did not owe you anything apart from good governance and quota that belong to your region if the choosing is going to be through quota system but if the choosing must be done by the president then it is normal that he would favour the region that supported his ambition and dream when choosing, he is a human too and not stupid.

Buhari got votes and support from all over the north so he favored every part of the north but Tinubu didn't really get any support from all over the south apart from southwest and some places in south south and he already made sure Akpabio is senate President and even made a south south man FCT minister, something that has never happened before.

You think Obasanjo government would be so friendly to Igbo and appointed a lot of them to his government if they were against him like you guys were against Tinubu to the extent of wishing him death ? Obasanjo despite being a Yoruba man even neglected south west and favored the north, south east and south south more because Yoruba didn't really support him.


You guys just want to eat your cake and still have it you declare your hatred for a man and claimed you don't want to have anything to do with him but you still want him to favour you when it come to decisions he have the final say over. You are just narcissistic and delusional even Donald Trump and Biden would never fill their cabinet with oppositions that hate their gut, in Russia Putin would make sure opposition like Peter Obi goes missing without any trace.

Odin13:
If I talk .. Yoruba ..Yoruba Yoruba

Mods go quick for delete my post...

Truth is pain..


By the time Yoruba finish with Nigeria eh.. Nigerians go understand tribalism ..

.. if south east and south south .. ever hear southern unity ba?

Na dia body go tell them..

Trust those beings Na you know.

Tinubu scammed the south using Aketi.

Look at you wailing as if you voted for Tinubu in your region, wait for Pit Obi to become president

The wailing continue

chidiokay:
IF my stand that anyone can be rich or make money is what you interprete as "EASY" then i might start preping you A for apple, B for boy

Even wasiu my mechanic is a leader, since he has boiz working under him, he controls and sends to buy amala

You are a waste of time that should never have happened. ciao

Not anyone can be rich or make money, if so there wouldn't be so many poor people in the world.


Yes wasiu is a leader no matter how small or limited the scope is but i understand not everyone have the capability to comprehend some things. As long as you can make decisions on behalf of 1 or 2 people and they respect, listen and follow whatever you say, you are recognize as a leader in that place no matter how small in scope it is, leading a family or a church is smaller in scope to leading a country, an army etc but i understand not everyone that went to school that's bright.

Shegs105:
Bro, I am deeply loved at home, and also I am a fitness enthusiast.
She works in a fashion house on the island as a stylist, and she keep telling me that the pressure entails on the work usually exert her so much to weakness.

Although, what keeps bothering me is that, since she isn’t getting anything inform of material reward from me, then why is she giving the attention sparingly?

What did she want?

We had both reached an agreement a few months ago that I would go see her mum, which she oblige, although she said I give her days to process this when I asked I want us to at least take the relationship to the family introduction aspect.

In summary, should I just formally inform her we should terminate this not too healthy affair or what?

Also note that I gave her some conditions a few weeks ago and asked what used to happen when ever she doesn’t answer phone that makes her explicitly explained the afforemention

So many men like you without balls that pander to women.

You asked what she want ? are you a genie that can fulfill whatever a woman request from you ?

At that stage it should be more about what you want, you want a woman that's available and right now she is too busy and unavailable so you have no other choice but to end it or keep wasting your time away. You will learn the hard way.

Her rejection of your gift mean she's still a girl that have conscience and don't want to feel bad or guilty when you finally separated.

Some women won't just break up with you abruptly when they are no longer interested in you if they notice you may not be strong enough to take the heart break but they will pull back slowly and withdraw very slow to the extent that you will be frustrated and find your way yourself, it will be from less calls, to always busy, to flaking dates etc. Those occasional calls is just her using you for free attention, a woman can cross ocean and climb mountain to be with a man she's interested in.